Episode 240: Single isn't a Slur

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around and came back shorter person. I said, ken upstairs to go get her. I was trying to find him a charger while he was doing that. Say it yay, I say, how do you do all that running around to come back short? Shortly? Human? Well? I want to thank everybody for tuning into this week's episode of Hopetually Awkward. If this is your first time joining us, I'm your host and favorite motivational speaker, Memi,

MEMI so one hundred or come a walker. It's your nasty and most Now usually you know I introduced everybody else, but I got to introduce my babe first. Like MS did the poetry pushes in the building. Well, well, well, overdue, Tay they get my beet, push your beef from beat. Yes, I saw her out last night. Shout out to britt Nicole. We went to her show for knocks on her Butterfly and it was fucking amazing. She is so dope as a spoken word artist, human,

just everything. I love her. If she is not, you know, under the influence, she will be joining us in the comments at some point tonight, or she might just wake up from a little weed nap and then poppy and like she usually do and say, hey, we're we talking about tonight, but I am joined by my co host. We got Pie God one aka the Narcissists and the new mister Bitches. Really you really, you just peel it down real slow and ship God pulled this down seductive as

a bitch. You know. He started getting more and more toxic as we You're closer and closer the summer, right uh. And then of course we got the classic man, mister tone deaf in the building, always making sure we got the magic on the screen for y'all. Because I don't be feeling like going through a life crisis. What's up? Dev Dev says good evening

to my favorite host, absolutely absolutely. We discussed this crisis. Yeah, me and mom are talking before the show about how because I've said this to my cousin with fathers, like, have you noticed like as niggas are getting older now, they're trying to grow they hair out. And I'm like, it's either mid life crisis or it's a big fuck you because a lot of their peers is actually losing their hair and they like, how hot a niggas. I'm able to grow line and your ship thing and out on the top.

Yeah. But I had a very very very fun weekend, Like I actually got outside, y'all, and I don't do that often. But like, having kids does not stop them being needy, you know, once they turn eighteen. I really need y'all to understand this. I was out, you know, after Brittainy Cole, like you know, we decided we went down to h we went to the Trade and Hi tiya uh. We ended up going down to the Trade and we were setting up there. Now. At first we went upstairs ninth floor and Bro, none of us knew what

the fuck that menu was talking about. Like it was some shit. It was you know, Shane Marie type shit. I'm like, Bro, I don't know what None of this ship. I don't know what none of these ingredients is, like even likes like even the nine dollars potatoes and ship that they had. Now those I was gonna fuck with, but it was like a little ingredient. I'm like, bro, I don't know what that is. And we know that I have I have no little Fingerland potatoes. I

love those. I fuck with them down at the neck. But y'all know I can't take risks like that, having like a full dish of shit that I don't know what the fuck it is. So Kayla actually she was like, well, when we came in, it was a little bar restaurant like downstairs. That one is called the Craft. So she looked up the menu on her phone. She's like, oh, yeah, this is Mars b

They got wings and burgers and nigga. We got our shit and went downstairs so fast, so party of twelve except that we we definitely got we have to go there because you know how much we love wings and shit. They

there, they're wings, No there. Their wings were so good. I think it was like fifteen dollars, but you get so many, so many wings, like I wasn't expecting that at all, but I beg one wing and then I had my child calling me and crying, and she's forensic and panicing and shit, because no, when she got off of work, the bus that she normally catches, you know, the weekday schedule and weekend schedule are different. So when she got off of work, she like, she

just started catching the bus by herself last week. She's always had us driving her, so she's been catching a bus for the last week, and the bus wasn't running when she got off of work. So she's like, all right, well, you know, I know it's alternative bus that I can take, but she couldn't find where to catch it at. So at this point, her phone is dead and her iPad is on two percent, so she's she's calling me on my iPhone from her iPad with two percent left and

don't know where the fuck she's at. So I'm like, calm down, walk to the corner. What did the street sign say? So you know I get that information from my mom. Look, just send me ocation walk the Planet Fitness uh down there, like where the grant is, I'll send you a lift. Go in there, plug up your phone, charge it up or whatever. Get some juice. I didn't know the fucking gyms ain't twenty four hours no more. So I have her walk the Planet Fitness and

she can't even get in because the fucking gym is closed. So Uber was on bullshit. They was busy as fuck. I was like, well, we'll find a driver between two and fifteen minutes, and then it's like the riots was fucking forty five dollars. I'm like, at this point, just packed my shit up to go, and we went and we picked her up. So my you know, girls' night out turned into mommy saved the day

again. So that motherfucker definitely giving me back massages or some shit for a week because I finally had some time out the house away from your motherfuckers. And he was like, you need to saving and shit. So but yeah, outside of that, but that's what I'm saying. They don't stop being a paint in the ash just because they turned eighteen. Shit, she'll be twenty this year. God damn. Yeah yeah, jelly bean, she'ld be

fifteen. But after that, I went home and uh, we're going to give a happy birthday to bait that's not bae, So yeah, happy birthday to bed it's not Bay and we ended up I ended up going out with him, like you know. We went had some drinks and shit, ended up going to strip club or whatever, and then it was fun. But we went to uh to Texas Jays down on the South Side. As soon as we walk in, badass black girl right instantly, I'm like, well,

I already know who we tipping all night. She's the black one in here. And she act like she's pretty. She got her makeup and shit done, her hair was nice, body was. She talked herself right on out them tips. Man. She was so aggressive. She's so aggressive. Why you come to the mic like that? He don't know. See, look, you don't even know, said, why do you come to the mic like that? What I thought I had a thought. I thought I had a thought thought yeah, But uh yeah, she she definitely talked herself

right on like I feel like she was trying. I don't know if she was trying to like recruit what what I thought stripper? I thought, no, we're now at the strip club, okay, but no, but she actually she was. She was like you dance. I was like, sweet sweetheart. That was over twenty years ago. She was like yeah she was. She was like, she was like, you look like like you smart and you like got your ship together, and you like you got some wisdom,

like some gems you can drop. And I was like that man like no, and he thought he thought she knew me, like the way she kept like stroking and caressing me, and like she was like like she was just she he SHA's what she was telling. I'm like, bro, she finished this niggas already y'all know that he get emotional and shit. So I was like, this motherfucker is gonna get me in trouble because she's saying the

wrong ship. She was like, man, you better hold on her, like I can tell she a boss, like she like you do some ship. Like she was like, fuck that, I go find me another nigga, Like, bro, please don't put that ship broad. I don't feel like arguing tonight. It has been a good night. And then all of a sudden it's gonna it's gonna come to that options conversation. Man, way you want me anywhere? I know you've got options, Bro, I'm not

having this conversation with you tonight. But no, it got to a point like and she was yelling and shit, and he was like, sweetheart, why are you so loud? She was like, I'm not. He was like, yes, you were very like cause she was fucking yelling and it ain't like she was yelling over the music. Yeah, and that was like she was real, just obnoxious and just and I'm like, I was, I'm hearing him there, and I don't be yelling at motherfuckers unless they make

me. Could y'all make me? I had to use it, not today today. I'm trying to behave today. That's the point. But no, you know, it's so funny because tone has been out for man, it's been a minute because like vacation and then he just wasn't here, Like yeah, so Tona hasn't been hearing it because we actually had to keep postponing my trial that at this point I've been acquitted of all charges. No, no, no, no, no, tie their trials pushed back. We're still

picking the jury. Oh they have been there, he said, I love that place. The chairs are so comfortable. Wait, you're talking about the crafter. You're talking about Texas Jays. No, that's the club. Yeah, it's it's right off for First and National. The restaurant was called the Craft. It's inside the Trade hotel right across the street from five Shirt. Yeah. But yeah, we have been having a conversationshere. No, I wasn't at the hotel with him. Where haven't you had sex in this city?

Oh? Yeah? He said he liked the chairs at Texas Jairs. That the same as the chairs at Heartbreakers. Hey, Kayla, you've been to enough strip club to know when Script club's got the same chairs. It's wild. I always take him the strip clubs on his birthday every year. That's our think, Heartbreakers. You know what's funny when out when I when I was digging in my purse to get kid my keys, I was like, bro, I got like so many fresh from the bank at a time.

All right, he probably did, I think when he's a bar, I give sluts paper cuts. Why not thinking that when I was wrapping, I don't know, you still doing gun bars? Got so many singles and my goddamn purse. But no, we've been having conversation for the past couple of weeks, like and they've they've been they've been sounding real like relationship. I won't see I told her we got to go back there. Call us at that salad was fire. He ready to crawl like Casey he hey,

hey, welcome to the show. Yeah, but I think we're at a point where we're realizing that as as much as I think what it is, indeed, maybe you can understand. It's like you can have somebody that you really really with, but it's like that relationship element seemed like it's gonna kind of change all by absolutely. Yeah, see this thing on, I don't hear no echoes now got good quality here. We don't echo around here. You know, you know me long enough to know that I don't. It's

not good quality. So I've been told that's what if you if you knew who said it, you would lie more than making that face because it was not It was not the appropriate thing to be said at that moment. What's up? Glow word? What we do? She looked like a glow word. I always call her that because she's just so pale and ship But no, did was talking about you knowing what, just like you've been lying.

But listen, listen, you know what. And I and As we're both cancers, right, and so we don't like the feeling of not being wanted. And that's that's something that uh, I think is as far as I go. Why I decide that sometimes putting a title on something and just mess it up because the minute sometimes it's that chase that make it feel good, and some people just stop, maybe unintentionally, maybe intentionally, but the chase

don't be the same once they feel like they got you. And I don't feel like feeling like creating because I gotta make sense and cancers don't know, go ahead and disagree with your fellow cancer because I know because we are we are, we are secret weapon unleashed, we are emotional, we are emotionally beans right as because I had to, I had to relate to you first, to open your your your ears up, you know, sometimes going but a lot of a lot of men I'm not saying, hey, they are

taken back by women that place these standards on relationship. Man, be like hold on, wait, wait, yeah, you don't want you don't want me to no stupid see. And that's been my problem for a long time and why it's been such a long running joke that they're like, dude, you just you a nigga with titties. You are a nigga with like that.

That has been a joke for so long because it's like I don't have those types of expectations, like if we vibing, we vibing, and when we vibing, it's like I'm not vibing with some bum ass nigga, Like I'm vibing with somebody who actually like, if I'm sick, you need something, you need me to drop you off. Like I have niggas who I haven't fucked with in years. They find out you good, you want me to drop something off, like you need some medicine and sup and whatever.

Yeah, I do need that, and they'll do it and they don't be they don't be tripping about ship. So it's like with him that we've been doing this dance for six years, Well yeah so, but since you know, reunited. But but in doing that, it's like we do every fucking thing like we like we damn or act like we married sometimes, but that's just that's our vibe, that's our connection, like we've always had that.

So even though we had like that little eight year gap in between, like of us not even like communicating at all, the very first night that we met up to sit down and chop it up and shit, like it felt like no time had passed, like none eight years Jesus silent years when dog was out doing bullshit? You know what it felt like. It was like in Infinity War, like niggas blipped out, but when they came back,

they still recognized that. It basically basically like niggas blipped out, and then when they come back after that eight years and shit, just like it ain't like you forgot nothing. You still got all your same feelings and shit, is just the world around you was changed. And that's really what it was

like. So we were having that conversation today and he was like, on one hand, like, you know how I feel about like, you know, like getting into relationships, like just relationships period, like it's not just you. And I was like, yeah, we we both agreed on that. But he was like, but then on the other hand, it's like I'm feeling like we need to just go ahead, just do it, get it over it, like whatever, because clearly we were not stopping fucking with

each other. And I'm like, if I were to do the relationship thing again, he would be the only person that I feel like I would be able to do that with. But I'm scared because like we are so so like we're equally yoked in so any ways, it's just I don't want shit to get weird. If we agree like we're gonna do the relationship thing, the dynamics change, like the expectations. It ain't even just the expectation because

if you what's understood, don't even explain it. And if you are already kind of in a sink, anything that steps outside of that sink gonna feel like something's going on. But what I meant by dynamics change, like if y'all get into a relationship and really do the thing, then it's like, now you got to share your space. You know. It's the little things that people don't think about until they in the middle of it. You know what I'm saying, Like I want to, I want to, I want

a relationship. Right, let's say that you don't you don't want niggas to go home exactly, But I'm so used to my space that yeah, it's like okay, like I don't even like, like, don't break nothing that indicates that you might be staying here all night, because if I invite you over, I want so you don't you don't you gotta get up early. In the morning. So you have a partner, Yes, I do,

but not like that. I want to meet a party. There are people who are married living in separate houses, but at some point they started living together. No, that was the that was the arrangement going in. They want to be married living separately. That's the part that will make me want to share that space, is what I'm saying. I just and you like you got to get somebody chance. Well, no, that's that's well,

me and him we have that. We love our space. But we are also people who like we are probably the only like he's the only one for me and I'm the only one for him, who like we can be around each other and not get irritated, or we are perfectly fine being in the same spaces separately. So it's like if we both in the crib, but like I'm in the bedroom and he in the in the living room or whatever, like we're cool with that. We don't have to be up under each

other to share space. So for us, that's not even an issue. It's really just I think both of us are paranoid. Like for him, he explained his issue because like we did have, you know, a bad breakup I'm like, that's true. But at the same time, like the person who I was then and the person you were, like those issues that created everything back then, we've both of allD from those people now, so

I don't feel like we would have those same problems. Like you was a hot boy then you was out in these screeps, like you don't do shit work, take care of your son, go home, kick it with me, like and try to get sleep when you can, Like you don't. You're not into the party scene and shit no more. Like things are just different and it's like me, I'm not a high head like I used to be, So I ain't out here hitting niggas with cars and you know what

I'm saying and flying off and flying off the handling shit. So it's like, yeah, you be like, damn did we fu around? Listen man, listen Like Kicky Palmer, I'm sorry to that man. Sorry to that man at Kaitlyn the comments she said hashtag dick and dash. So I've had I've had a situation that I had to let go off and I had to realize that part of the ambiyonce of that situation was the familiarity, you know

what I mean? I got used to it, and it's like I adapted the idea I prescribed to the idea that if I'm a deal with anybody bullshit, I rap to deal with some bullshit that I'm already right yep. And so then you know, we had a little bit of separation and he came back being the perfect dude for the person I used to be. So now what do we do with that? Because the person I am now don't click with that person now, So you know, I had to figure it out,

like, yeah, let me go. That timing is off. I'm the most single that I've ever been, and it's a weird little space because most people they killed for this type of just freedom. But it's just like I don't know what to do with it. And I get what you're saying, like somebody down there have to just break into my house for me to meet somebody at this point, because I don't pop out and be going I

don't know where. Yeah, And I'm like I'm in this horrible space where it's like, even when I do have the opportunities, because you know, people shoot, they shot, it's like I instantly rejected because I'm in a place where this per person checks all of my boxes and we've always had like this insane connection. It's it's literally like like they'll tell you, it's like

we are the male and female versions of each other, damn near. Like we have our differences, but at the same time, it's like it's like I'm dealing with myself so I don't have to worry about certain things because it's like, nig I know you're not gonna judge me for this, Like we

you know, we're on the same type of time, damn near. I gotta be tip though I feel like I'm still kind of the wild when a little bit, but yeah, I just I'm I feel like I'm open to the idea, like I wouldn't one hundred percent reject it, but I feel like we do also have to do a little bit more, you know, in depth work before we would fully agree to move forward in an actual relationship, because even though we're not the same people that we used to be,

he's still carrying some of that hurt from the person that he was back then because of how things ended. And it's like I've done my work to get through that, like I've been in therapy, I've done all of that kind of shit. And it's like, there are some things that I feel like he needs to work through individually, and then there's some things that we need to work through together because I don't want to. I don't want us to

build shit on a cracked foundation. It's like it ain't completely broken, but it's still some cracks in it. Let me ask you this one of my favorite quotes. How do you feel about the quote you can't heal where you hurt? Damn? Cause I mean, like you no, no, she asked me that. Now, I've never heard it before. It's real. It's a real thing that you really don't think about in hindsight. Is twenty twenty. I can't say that I just was this profound in the middle of

what I perceive as my own mess. It's just some things that I thought about afterwards that I was trying to heal in the same spaces you know that I had hurt at and I didn't even know I was hurting there. Like because of this disattachment and this not really too big on names and labels and stuff like that, it allowed the men that I've dealt with a whole lot

of freedom. And because none of my friends mirror my relationships. I don't have a lot of people that I bounced it off of, so I do, you know, without having back and ground noise in my decision making, I do what's best for my situations, you know, and I don't just you know, I don't be. It comes off like I don't get, I don't care, I don't get no fuck know what I mean, And I really don't, or maybe I feel like I can't. I don't know.

I ain't figured that part out yet, but it's something about it's something about it that just anyway. Dealing with dude though, because I was gonna go somewhere else with it, but dealing with dude, I had to. I had to, you know. I was trying to to not only force the issue on how I wanted him to be, but then I had this idea of Okay, well one version of me didn't work, let me throw

out another version of me and see if this worked. Because I know it's something you know, I know it's there, but man, you listen, I just you know, Hey, you want to day five different people. I could be five different people, but I don't know about Hey, listen, that's some cancer ship because you because because you instantly turned into a whole different dude when you slid that hood down, you might you might have to that It just is we we love hard and we love people past their bullshit,

and that's that's my problem. Let let me listen. Because cancers are cancers by nature are in are in shells where there's never two crabs in the same shells. So we're used to being by ourselves. So when we get a little, a little taste of that togetherness, it's like we try to it's fasty work, listen because don't let us really get our pictures into you. Guess what it's hard. I think it's it's fucked up for me because like we ended on like horrible terms. It was more it was more pros

than cons, but the con was a big one. But in my relationships after that, I found myself making comparisons a lot because there was so much any pros and trying to like match those and I never got them or like never got as many or as close to that. So having a person who does check off all your boxes is it's hard because you don't, like, what the fuck am I gonna try to go date somebody else for it, and like, nigg this has been how many years in the making and I

still ain't found nobody close to us? What the make me think I'm gonna go out and find that ship tomorrow? In a crazy way, It's like, y'all are your own rebounds. Man. No, that's an interesting concept though, because what if you can, hey, hey, date somebody to you know, to feel that that void? All is say? Is he you think he's your placeholder? No? No, not at all, not at all places you know what. I don't know if we got any wrestling

fans in the comments, but it's so funny. I have I have no. I have been calling him the Final Boss before The Rock did so. When The Rock came out and started that ship, I was like, that was the song. I was like, cause, y'all know how BRO feel about that. I was like, because I didn't know. I thought he was joking when he said that. I didn't see when Rock did it. And then I was like, wait, this nigga really called himself the Final Boss. I was like, Yo, yeah, that was that was wild.

But no, I don't feel like we are each other's placeholders. I actually feel like everybody who we've dealt with in between where the place? Yeah, so I don't mm hmm oh from Mad TV, the white one and the black one. He not really white all. But no, I don't know. We well, we'll see how how things work and maybe we just maybe we just got to do a trial run. Was because I because I

proposed that today. I'm like, you know, we'll we'll go into details, you know, I want you to go off and enjoy, enjoy your birthday and ship, but well we'll revisit the conversation and maybe maybe we just need to see, you know, not a character. He actually is a character witness for me. He signed a notarized affidavit for me to get my partner lifted for what so. Yeah, but dude, I love Patrice man. That's I think. The last time I saw her, I was dying

in her bar. Yes, yes it was, yeah, but it ended up in emergency surgery and ship. Yeah, I was fucked up. I did not like that ship at all. But I know a lot of you that are here, y'all, y'all have been wondering, you know, y'all here for the bus going up and down. Yeah, y'all here, y'all, here for the bulls ship. But listen, howd on you want to meet it? M Oh that damp or nothing? Because he got the bag with him. You wanted to sit there on the soft guy not no,

that's what does this relate to him? Is he a soft guy? All right? All right? All right, she said she live us too. But yeah, so we we definitely got to get into the soft guy air ship. Now a lot of people, to my surprise, do not not They don't know what the soft guy area is. They were thinking that it was something that I created. Now it was something that I've been seeing across social media in different videos and posts. Or no, I did not create

the soft guy era. Okay, that is not me. I just flipped it. So we're going to go ahead. You don't come in here being loud, sit drys down. So we're you said you was gonna sit down and shut up. You ain't say nothing about talking. You want to speak for the soft guys posts. You the one that said you want to speak for him, So we asked, what was you a soft guy? And that's what you want to speak on community in DC. So anyway, we so, so we are going to play this video to kick the topic off

and then we'll be back. Go ahead and uh play a time. Actual, it's kind of I am on a whole other level. Really only fuck you over because you let him. Fucking girl, I guess you didn't know any better. Girl, that man didn't show any others. Do all I can, just to show you your special certain and show love that holds me together. Hey, you say he's been killing the bight. Gotta be sitting up this guy, pull up skirts, get in the right left hand is

stepping the other and skipping your dyke. Light up with spiffing and hide and shouty that you will ride for aga trying to get fluid out from Briefly, I didn't see the whole poem. You know how when you see something and then Facebook just flick your ship and ship disappears. Yeah no, But so, in a very brief and concise explanation, the soft guy era is nothing but a bunch of men who are posting trying to flip things on women, and they're talking like bad babies out here. That's really all it is.

Niggas in a bad bitch era. Let me see. Uh he just said we just wanted to save space to be feminine. All hair broke loose from the fellas. Yes, yes, go ahead, just your stop. I'm yeah. So as a result of that, I had like a series of posts while I was hacked for forty eight hours. What is wrong with it? Like I get it, but like, what's wrong with it? Is? It? Is? It? Is it the manner in which they asked

for it. It's like, why are you asking for it? Like because some niggas come from a life of bees, don't treat them well, well, that's that's called therapy. If it feels weird to me because it seems like the men are competing with the women in the situation and it's hard perfect. It puts me in the mind of Joel. Remember when Joe he was like, you will never be as pretty as me? Remember that ship and flip his ponytail and ship, that's what it's given. That's what it's given.

That's nasty when you're trying to be with women. But like if you dude, that's just like you ain't gonna take no ship like a woman ain't gonna take no Just that on what you will and won't do, that's not what it is about. That business is disgusting, right, But that's the whole point, riz, because that was nat that that's the whole thing. Yeah, and so I made a post that like I made a Okay, it's just so me is the reason why me is one of my favorite artists.

I want to buy the sam Son ultraphones. I feel like, if you put your drawings on T shirts, I will wear them. Really, I will wear your drawings on T shirts. You would wear Yeah, I wish whatever the brightest color is, I probably got a shirt. What are you saying because it keeps sounding like you're saying my draws, right, No, that's not what you're saying. I know, I knew you wasn't saying my drawers. I said what it sounds like. That's why I needed you

to say clear what you were saying for anybody to put them on. Everybody called it doodles. It's not you're doodling. That's what it is. You're thinking of diddling. And you know what, what's interested I reading some of the comments just from like men reposting and asking questions like what the hell is soft guy air? Right, And it's amazing how many men interpreted that as

something that we were imposing on them. Yeah, yeah, yeah, they thought it was us, Like, man, that's these new niggas wearing skinny jeans and purses. And I'm like, bro, we didn't start this. They did. I did not. I have never went into the store and be like, oh purse. Never, that's not the soft Guy era we talking about. What I'm talking about? No, man, No, I explained it. It's niggas don't have to talk like that having soft Guy era

expectations. You said they don't got two bitches together and they have soft Guy era expectations. I think that it's okay for a woman, you know, to spoil her. Man, This is not that like there's there's some soft Guy era stuff that expectations on roll switching per se for Oh, so they're trying to usher it again. They want to trade place because that's that's nasty. Listen, that's no. That's why you ain't got no mic sit there and shut up trade places. So the didn't I sure have a song called

traded Place. Yeah, that was in one of my drawings. That was that it had come up. I do believe I saw that. Yeah. So my very first the first post and said listen, I keep saying all the soft Guy air posts then I quote it where they said, we just want y'all to know how y'all sound, how stupid yall sound. I said, no, I'm not mad at y'all. You can be in your soft air baby, just know over here you're getting pecked. I want to pause on that because I want you to hear me. You can be on your

soft guy air ship, but you are getting pecked, all right. So no one comes with that over here. So then I said, so since they want to s So since they felt like, okay, well we're finna talk like bad bitches and ship. We're finna say ship. They say, so, I said what they said, I said, I look like spending money on the nigga that's not giving up, No ass, we don't got to literally, we don't like they don't have a rep because who is these

niggas speaking for all of us? Every since the Internet I came a thing that anybody can get a hold on. Everybody the wrong niggas get on there and say ship. Because as the Union repped myself, I would have paused it, like, first of all, we're not even gonna call this soft guy because that's nasty. Nast's nasty right there in itself. Why do you want to be referred to as a soft guy? Pause? You just out here like, see what happened is the aldermen of the black I just want

you to know we definitely celebrated you at the beginning of the show. He was gonna be late though. It's how I'm sharp to show up when anything tragic happened in the black community. Who is the alpha male? That just is a brock lancer because if it's him, he peed on the brinch. So he's out. But now I want to bring you back to let you know that I wasn't doing reading the stad. Remember how you said that you're gonna be cutting me off the ship? I told you, I just I

just wanted to know. No. But yeah, So like I said the same way, how they they've been trying to flip things. I decided, Okay, you know, y'all, y'all want to know reverse, I'm gonna watch us slide reverse reverse. So that's what. So that's what we're doing. So so everything that y'all feel like y'all doing it and y'all making this big movement, in this big statement, I've been just dismantling that ship for the past couple of days. It's times you got to show people how they

sign and how they act. Now we know how we signed, we know how we act, which is why we try to take their phones from them. Ex app So, I said, funk, I look like spending money on the nigga. That's not giving up any ass literally. So if you want my role so bad, I'll gladly give it to you. But you're taking everything that comes with it, including a strap. I'm pushing your back in and clapping them cheeks like a black family at a graduation. Oh and

when I take you out to dinner, I wouldn't order anything spicy. You might have a rough couple of days when I'm done Gorilla hashtag soft got era. That is sounding not soft at all, man, nothing about that a pro like key family. I need to report you all screams wild. We're talking to women like that. It's not agreement. You want me to take care of you. I got you, but I'm finna dig that ass out. See look, patri said, I'm gonna treat you like a whole bitch.

Trust down to the detail of me fucking you in all the capacity. You did that though, like I know what happened you Like I am grabbing you by the ankles, nigga, I'm grabbing you by the and you were here to Jesus with your ankles, like give me a fee? This is why are you here? And while I'm digging your ship out, I'm hitting you with the pretty ricky hipro. Yeah, you put some thought into this. You put some thought? Why are you? Why is he letting you

do this? He ain't got no choice, You got choices. No, he wanted to be taken care of. He can say no, you'll tell er. I don't need I mean, I mean, niggas tell us if we want to be taking care of, then we're gonna have to shut up and let them cheat in peace. So everybody got their stipulations to be taken care of, right, I don't want to cheat. I just want to knock that ass back. So you better not go outside smoking black. You better not go back. Okay, I'm packing some men. I'm packing some

men. Don't don't be whispering in his ear? Sweet nothing doing it either. So I also think rather MEI intentionally did it or not. Look, I don't know if Mimi intentionally did it. Did this or not with that whole status. But it also kind of set a little bit of a standard for I'm not a standard, but it just it made a way, like going back to the mirror concept, it made a way for men to also

see how y'all group us together a lot. So when so even though me me speaking to a certain demographic of men, all men felt attacked, y'all also felt attacked, like, no, that ain't me, that ain't me. We didn't speak for all men. So that was like another lesson that could have been learned too, because every time a female a woman is in the news for some bullshit, then all of a sudden, all of us are bitches and holes and whatever other colorboys. But most of y'all are just

on you. I'm talking about what should just say about lump And that's the problem. So so when we you don't have bitchy moments. You a man and you have bitchy moments. I was just what I'm saying, As humans, we have bitchy moments, So that that's that's not the gender thing. I'm just I'm here right now, I'm in the moment. We're having a conversation. It's all fun and games. Until the rabbit got the that's a that's a great double on time right there. Who got me right? And

I was trying to have it done before me. Mimi made you right. Oh yeah, I got a whole poem cross of Air that's dedicated to her. So super inspired I had, so I will be you know you can, you can put up the net Flix one. So then after that I've begun to do. Uh, if you are not familiar with socially, aqua comics is what they recalled, I tend to. I tend to. That's

what this is. So I said, so and so now if you are, you know, listening to the audio drop on a Tuesday or later, this is why you need to tune into the lives because you are not able to see what is on the screen right now. But yeah, so then after that, I decided, like I said, you know, oh, so so we're playing that you know that that that flippy game? Okay, got it. Challenge accepted. So so then you know I looked that way.

So so my post said, picture us watching Netflix and you're pushing your head towards my lap, waving the strap like just kisses a little bit. Hashtag soft guy era and then yeah, thatsty that nobody agrees at least you hear his face. Yeah, you got the the wall because you're not there. No, that's the mirror on the wall behind us. So that's why after you Yeah, so after you said that, I was like, you know what, now I got Now I'll know I'll make detail in my mirror.

So then by the time I got to the last dude you was, you will see the upgrade on the mirror and the reflection I evolved during my drawings, which one which one was next to me? Hold on? So there is no Now that's just a random it's actually a couple. It's usually what it's easiest for me to draw, honestly, like depending on like what it is or what I'm what I'm trying to see, so ask question it just those are the primary colors that I use for drawing people. And obviously

I'm not the dark skinning. It goes with primary colors. That's terrible. No, I'm saying those are the no, because then I know what I have to draw, pink meat, not you want to do it, but no. So the next post said picture you fast to sleep in your do rag when I come in late and drunk its buck from Potter, kissing on your neck and rubbing my strap on them, strap on them boy buns, sliding your ethicals down while you're lifting your hips talking about move No, that's

not, that's not. There's no drawing for this one. There's no drawing for this one. This is just a post. I'll let you know. I want to put the next one up. Yeah, I guess we're going back to that is fucking insane, all right, So now my next one. Uh, now, this one is the one with with ghosts Omar Harvey. Yep, so he bored here too. I'm doing the bending. If you know anything about this movie, you know exactly what the scene is. Oh oh oh, so you're the one doing the bending, but he ain't

doing the bending. I'm doing the bending. If we're doing the soft Guy Era, I'm doing the bending. You know what. No disrespect to him, but he's done a lot of questionable roles. Yeah, before Ghost he did a lot of questionable roles. I don't even know that because he was like loving a man and a Tony Braxton video or some ship like that one ken in the comments, he said, uh, soft guy Era for the

win for the wind. Why do women hate the soft guys? And and why is y'all soft guy era definition automatically gain Well, I already said that, because it's like their responses and how they're going about even how the soft guy era even became a thing for them. It's all them trying to do ship that women are doing. So since you want to do all the ship that women are doing, that's what I'm going to treat you like the woman

in this relationship. You ain't gotta take that brea. He don't. But over here, That's why I said over here, I was very specific. Somebody else might like that shit. You might. You might catch you a share out here and she cool with the soft guy ara, But over here you can pipe down. Stop talking to me, nigga. We we we are in a permanent three way relationship, me, you and Doc Johnson, God Johnson, Jesus Christ. Damn. How you gonna marry a woman and

then let some men ben you over to be young? But the colored girls I see, I've never seen the movie. I just I know this part. A lot of people refuse because of one particular part that folks can't get past. I can't say, But what if I'm the bread winner, and I'm like, when you rub my nigga, you being a bread winner, You're not gonna be the bread winner in this situation. That's the hope. Do you know what niggas are posting for the soft guy air or just that

that's the problem. I think a lot of people I should I think somebody tagging with your girlfriend or your versus, no, because I don't. I don't have a problem catering to and us doing it for. I'm not the type who doesn't like to do ship for her nigga. I just posted something a couple of weeks ago when I said I ain't got ship to say about y'all paying for a nigga dinner because I just sent Baita's not bait five hundred dollars and he was joking about it because I had That was when I was

on my hot little my hot little pillow Street. This man has done so much and put so much money in my pocket. I don't have to ask him twice whether it's for me, jelly bean. Like last night when I just told y'all that re restranded yeah and that that that's that's not what we're talking we did not start the soft guy airship. If you just scroll, if you search soft guy air on Facebook and just look at some of the men's interpretation of what soft guy air is, they're feminizing them more than we

are. Yeah, because because they're literally taking things that women say yeah and saying it like so, so that's the thing, that's their thing. So no, that's yeah. I'm I'm I'm gonna see if what I can find on TikTok Wait, what who said catering to my man and my man wanting to be subbing our relationship is not the same. Absolutely, being subbed is a wild thing to say. And I guess how much is maintenance of life

costs? And it's it was weird because you can be a soft you can be a softie, like you be soft on me, you know what I'm saying. You can be like like trying to get something that type of soft. Okay, so I've made this jos out this This would be the type of this would be the type of example of like a soft guy air post of a nigga trying to say ship just because he's seen a woman say it.

I don't need I don't need a woman for ship except for them to reach the top shelf and kill bugs, like like that's the kind of ship. And then they'll put hashtags off got air but those are the type of posts that they making ship. And it's like, but now you're wondering why I'm telling you that I'm gonna bend you over and fuck you so harsh.

Maybe I'm just asking I'm trying to interpret. I was asking question. Okay, that's that, But that's what that's what we're saying, like it's not an attack, saying that, Well, a man in a relationship should never get anything. No. Reciprocity is a big deal. Somebody actually just asked a question on face I think it was earlier last week, and it was like, well, if you could name one thing and you know, your your man or you know a future partner or whatever, what would that be?

And you had people naming all of these things like oh, well, you know, I would want them to be honest, or I would want this, and I will want that, And I'm like, I want reciprocity because I feel like everything falls under that umbrella. All I need is somebody who is giving back what I'm putting into them. That reciprocity. That is one thing to name that covers everything my girlfriend. So yeah, men and

women that have a problem doing for each other, that's a tip. That's like a trauma response that ain't you know definitely, that's just a trauma response that didn't love them back, so they don't want to love nobody, right. So, and it's it's like I said, it's the niggas that don't have two visits to rub together that bark the loudest on these type of topics like relaxed, Bro, you ain't even got worried about it? Yes, and and and that's why they always that's why they're always so angry. So

it's you. It's you impose these things when you have nobody to impose them, right or you just ain't never and and and and Another thing is the reason why they be so angry and sory about that ship is because they don't have it. So they are trying to shame bitches down to their level so that they can get it because it is always the most undesirable, facially challenged,

habitually single niggas who chirp the fucking loudest. It's like, bro, we ain't never seen you with no bitch, I'm currently looking for two bitches to rub together. To be honest with your looking, rubbing two bitches together sound like it's fire. So when you said rubbing two bitches together and fire, I instantly thought about you. While that was just brush fire ship. That was the era's not against it, you know, embrace the nappy dug

out bro against it, That's all I said. So it's there the trading places. The trading places, yeah, oh god, going to that's the one where we stepping into the strap. Jesus no, out of order. That's why you stepped into a like some jam. Yeah that was and so say me strapping up to beat some cheeks, Alexa play usher, trading places, hashtags soft got air maybe you got them tuned it up, tune it in booted and we're gonna do things a little different to nine. But honestly,

it's really like they soft got air ship. It's basically it sounds like the lyrics trading places away. That's really what it sounds possible. While you got mult on the table though, Buh, that's not necessary because whatever diversity dick downs, that's what I'm giving diversity dick downs, hold on, because we're finna diversity. I'm just gonna start calling you for my my topics and titles to write about, like me, just give me a line, Hey, give me something to get it to get an ear for it, and

then I'll put the title on it. So the lyrics. Now, we're gonna do this thing a little different. You go come over and pick me up in your ride. You're gonna knock, then you go, wait, oh, you're gonna take me on a day. You go open my door and I'm gonna reach over and open yours. Gonna pay for dinner, take me to see a movie. Whisper in my ear? How bad you really want to do me? Girl? Now take me home. You wanted to get up in my pants? Yeah, pour me up a shot and forced

me to the bed like it really just soft? Yeah, but terrible again. I feel like he's speaking in like reciproses and niggas just niggas is taking one thing and they take it too far and this is what they get. You don't think niggas is taking it too far. Let's be fair, though, Let's just say somebody one of these men's was smart enough to make it a mirror thing like, you know, maybe it sounds ridiculous to a man for some of the things that women ask for and wont in their relationship,

right, but we know that's not the case. We know that's not why some of that wow, like what name one you're talking about, like a regular president or some of the ship people should say regular? Just say some of the ship people say that, I just don't know you from a campaign, but feel like you deserve a three hundred dollars a day. You just told me you don't like small talk. I don't even know what the fuck

you like, but you want me to take you out. Some weren't spend three hundred dollars just so I can get no conversation and you can take a picture of what the fuck is on this plate. But it depends on all you mean. Mostly most women, Most women sit back and observe and observe before they approach. Right. And if I'm sitting at the bar and I'm not this type of woman, but I can, I can step into the shoes. Right if I'm sitting at the bar and I'm watching them on.

Fuckers spend like three hundred on a bunch of strangers. They don't even know, they're just feeling good, like, Hey, I'm fin the by rounds for everybody sitting at the bar right now. So now they got a three hundred dollars tab right What where's the lie? Where are we not prone to believe that, nigga, you have no problem with spending dropping three hundred dollars on the motherfucker you don't even know. Wasn't that a good day? You?

I already disclaimed me by saying that that ain't had nothing. But what I'm saying, what that's just like the videos I see on Facebook when you see the people and they be out and she be mad that he didn't spend three hundred dollars. But then the first thing she says, but you got on a pair of Jordan's and I know how much Jordans cost. What do my Jordan's got to do with me not paying for this three? You just

said the different stuff. You said your Jordans, those are your shoes, money you spent on you, compared to her saying you just dropped three hundred dollars on some strangers and then making it seem like I'm a reasonable for a feeling that way, feeling good, and I want to buy everybody around. I don't got a niggas want to do impressive ship until the bitch is impressive. I'm impressed there. You know, It's like, what are y'all doing

for when you come out shining and looking like money? Like you spending a bad don't I ask me for my bag? I get it. Some women are very classless and tasteless, right, but so what you what you're saying is we should be a little bit more finessing, but the job is still gonna get done. It's a way. It's a way to handle your business, okay, and it's a way that not handle I also feel like my business is gonna get done regardless, but you don't got to be egregious on

how you do it. I also feel like a lot of niggas don't understand that we are abrasive on purpose because we want you to fuck out our face. So if I know that you, you don't seem like the type of niggas who go drop some bread. Guess what I'm gonna bring up some bread because you're not gonna waste my time. I don't even I don't even plan on you giving it to me. I plan on you getting offended and getting the fuck away from me, and now I don't have to deal with you.

No, I want to snation because we are like women trying to be abrasive on purpose. What you're gonna do when you pull out the bankrupt, I don't do any I've never been in a situation where I haven't been able to read a guy like that because they have a certain type of energy. They have a certain type of energy, and I don't know if it's because you know so many years of being a woman. You just they have a completely different type of energy, like what they approach and everything else. It's

oh, Johns, can you take this big draw the screen? It's don't get words. Had a song like that too, like a boy mm hmm, and she she flipped the rolls of ship. Beyonce had a what was her lyrics? Though? I don't know. I just don't say. If I were a boy, but yeah, it's just I'm really you want him to be on the show every week, you could easily leave him at home.

I don't the top. Yeah, I mean if they were boys, he was like if I was a girl reverse and and then like just on some petty ship, I was like, you know me, no, move that motherfucking hand. You know he take that ship. That's aggressive. Take that ship. You wanted this stick and you take this stick. That's not what you asked. He asked to not go to work for you to pay his bills, to ask you to fucking murder his boy. Butdons so his spincter. Uh give a spin, he says. Rita said, somebody in

the background sleep. I can't my news. Drunk ass, get him shut up? Shut up? Said he was observing because he can't want to he does. That's money. I don't know if he wants his boy tempered with. I hope now now you can go to the one where him like laying like this with the you know he is seeing punk pole sleep. He just talking to him. Are you talking this sleep? Wait? What's the what's the pink thing? Is that? So me looking on proudly after I put

him to sleep with the strap in the rolls hashtag soft got air. That's the rose. Now we have to open this full picture. See he knocked and I'm just man got him slid and though Grid it's just hilarious. That's that what's wrong. I can't put that ship that's that a king size or a queen size bed look like a clean because only he can yo, so it's probably bed. Ain't no face in his bed. I can't strap down that full side strap on his full sized bed. Nothing to go home,

he said, not to Dick, mentioning his feet. Sweet dreams, nigga, where are we going next? And it's crazy mixed up from now we're going to the nigga dropping like somebody said, that's a couch. That's so. Then I asked where my soft got air fellas at because I'm trying to throw this money while y'all throw that ass. And then we have a gentlemen helicopter in his peen right here on the stage. He is on thee. Yeah, that's the pole in the background. Yep. No he uh he

out here doing a don't want to be challenged. Oh my god, I want to not be here. What I mean, hey, y y'all talking about the size that it was bad. I mean I could really only hit the nigga and doggy styles, so it ain't like we got much we need to do in a big motherfucker. I ain't doing shit for breaking his back. Yeah, so now we can go to the gentleman actually on the pole here, why do you get my man's dreads? And now coming to the

stage representing the bussy bus. Nobody we quit? Am I cricket letter? Cricket letter? I look, when is p Valley coming back? I don't know, I don't know. I feel I feel like I'm just saying the white, the hair and the peen is hanging gravity. You gotta show the gravity. Why he gotta b b L though. Yeah, he's strong, and what do you think you need? You need upper body strength to hold onto that motherfucker. Pope got a BBL though, just legs. Either.

They want to be us, don't they? They want to be us? Right? So now he looked like the if you ain't tipping, he ain't stripping, he give it up for boucie man. And it's like thirty dollars on the stage to pay that before you know what you're about. But I gotta pretend like I don't know what what what? What you see? Yeah? You to get that one? People like read this telephone. I feel you keppers all right, you can go ahead and post the one with the

rip jeans. This one, no, now, this is me paper, This is patiently waiting on my shorty to come about those ripped jeans and ethicas. After another day of providing him with a soft life hashtag soft air, they have to open the full see now see the difference. Now, now you can see the mirror on the dresser and the reflection of the of the silicon. You caused me to elevate my art. Bro your I want you

to stop your fault. And that's definitely a queen because you can't fit two pillows on Why because he made her She made him come to her house, That's why. Oh yeah, because that's the house to handle selling fan and I think it had a six drawer. No, they had a six house. I mean, if you want to be a soft guy, you definitely a brokeast bro. I have look, she bought the bed. The way that I draw the beds is not an indication of like the actual bed size.

It is an indication of I only have a phone screen to draw on and I have to make sure that I have room to drop what I need. This it's that you got you got a brokeast bed. We get why you do because because because my bed is way my bed wouldn't even fit on here. I don't got no room. But you gotta look at it up close, look at spots on you know, they be having a little designs and ship had little spots. That's hilarious. What generic ass loove you using?

Say lo that if we know that's the ship, you put on your brakes, don't nigga would break oil fan. That's I can tell. But like, because because y'all know, you'll know I got ship, like and we lay on our back. They go to the side. I tried. I tried to like put them like sideway should give herself a belly, but you don't know why the fact that yourew a belly. But meanwhile he's looking like a giraffe. Bb he really has a b b A. This is

what niggas wanted. They wanted. Are we done? Please say we're done here. Hey, I'll give I'm proud of my selling fan reflection. Niggas, we're not saying your your cow utters on the roof to this to this show and these freaky ass sketches like a freaky in the version of the Chappelle show, Wow, bring your kids. You know, Facebook sends her a message saying thank you for making Facebook a better place. This is the fuckery

she does, and Facebook congratulates her. Facebook said horrible friend. Now. The next day was followed up like a lot of niggas are like really really really in their vikis VIIs pink Ship whatever brand about you know my post because I was talking about how a lot of guys tend to like how the whole soft guy era shit even came up, but then feeling a way because you

know, women don't want to deal with some broke ass niggas. So I'm going to scroll and I'm going to read a couple of about now, the main one that like really got the people going as wild because I didn't. I didn't realize that because this motherfucker has been shared like five hundred and ninety four times, I'm just not seeing it. One hundred and forty eight comments,

four hundred and twenty seven reactions. But I said, as a woman who was dated niggas that didn't have shit, as a woman who was dated man for their potential, as a woman who was self sacrificed by trying to motivate and encourage a grown ass man to get his shit together, because I believed in them, as a woman who was dated someone who didn't want for himself as much as I wanted for him. I can tell you I am

not the only one. I think. Y'all see us now in our thirties and forties, after we've done these things that got us absolutely nowhere, and have the audacity to be upset because at our big ast age, we don't want to deal with that shit now. So after years of paying dues and probably paying for everything else too, we gotta be entitled gold diggers, money hungry, et cetera. Motherfucker, I ain't shit but tired. So keep in mind that a lot of the women y'all judging for not wanting struggle love

don't want that shit because they already dealt with it. Y'all will not shame me into the poor house with a nigga, y'all will not shame me into a struggle love. You want to know what I bring to the table at this stage, I gotta watch you build that motherfucker first, because Nope and men are up set. And then it's like I already knew what they like, what they what they rebuttal would be So I actually made a post about

that without before even seeing they fucking reactions because I know them. So the next post said, folks will say when you know better, you do better. Yet somehow, whenever we decide to do better because we now know better and we actually apply what we've learned, y'all throw a fit. Then you want to downplay our growth as trauma when that growth doesn't benefit you. You want to downplay growth of hypocrisy because how dare they improve and evolved their mindset?

Meanwhile, if we kept making the same choices and mistakes, y'all will talk shit about that too. I'm convinced some of you just want people to remain stagnant because you don't want them to elevate to a level you can't reach them all, And it shows you want us to do better and choose better until you realize that means your ass is no longer a choice. Then your leap press on claws come out. You know what, man, that some ball headed eyes on the internet. I told you them bullshit. It definite

headpop. That's why Ken gonna have a nice line when you start podcasting, because that ball head rhetoric be crazy. And it's crazy because it's like I was very clear and what I said, and because me and would at the moment they see anything from us, they be so ready to be so combative and so angry and ready to try to humble us and try to shot on

us, that they don't pay attention to what was said. So it's like me saying, y'all be calling women in title goldniggers and money hungry for not wanting struggle love, not knowing that they've already paid their dues and been through the trenches with niggas, so no, they no longer want that from themselves

at this stage in life. The comprehension impair, Well, that's why y'all single and no provider go deal with their trauma because uh that's why you single, and uh, younger women better anyway, because they look better with less trauma. Like niggas a stupid again, we don't have them, We don't got an all them accounsel that we don't got no do. But these niggas, these niggas jump out the window while they ain't meet and it's trying to

get us a better wage off. While we out here talking about what we need to have to be better men, these dumb fucks out here running to the internet saying whatever. Some other bald headed nigga on the podcast said they get to drinking and just say whatever, Hey, why just see Tommy Common and said new Bob coming soon. Ball head rhetoric with your whole fana bod

gott and can't beat already would be saying Doug podcast. Every time I seen niggas speaking bad on females on the internet, he's usually but but it's crazy because it's like they love to and and that brings us to like the name you have white women too, don't they usually have white girlfriends? Yeah, but talking about they love to like on on these type of posts, they love to comment and tell us like, well, that's why you're single.

That's why you're single. That's why you're single. It's like, one, I'm the only person calling myself single. You niggas have been telling me that I've been in a relationship for the past god knows how many years it so they have this thing and they feel like we don't have anybody, and it's like, I have a nigga that does more for me than a lot of like chicks that are in actual relationships. There's something wrong with him for that

too. Yeah, because they don't want to do it. So yeah, so my so my next post is said, niggas really be calling women single, using it like it's a slur, and we don't be giving a single fuck. That's really what's toasting a lot of you niggas bums. Y'all want us to be scared of being single. Don't you take your ass in the hardway snoring ship Are you doing the snoring and talking in your goddamn sleeping? You know we live, so if you say the wrong shit, that's on

you, not us. Next I'm sorry, y'all, I apologize. Um No, if he's loud enough for motherfuckers in the comments to be like brof somebody in the background sleeping, they can hear him. I said, y'all want us to be scared of being single, because when women are scared of being single, they're desperate. When women are desperate, they set up for the bullshit just to have a man around. So when you see we ain't going, you tell us that's why we're single, like it's supposed to evoke

shame and make us feel undesirable. Get luck with that, mister, niggas. Shame desperate girl, the party nobody wants a desperate girl, because if you're desperate, then you clean it looks sad. And if you cling you you probably fucking crazy. And if you fucking crazy, she's probably gonna fucking kill you. And if you're trying to kill me, I'm gonna splitch your ship. And now you're doing a lot I don't even want to have to

go there with. So just keep that ship to yourself. Yeah, a lot of flower bringing, I mean, And it's crazy because the motherfuckers who don't have people and that nobody won't like you said, those are the ones that's making it tricky. They're the ones throwing all the bullshit out. And I feel like that's why they creating the ruckers. They want everybody pissed off at each other because they're like, well, if I ain't got no bitch, ain't nobody getting more right? Market? Yeah, I'm trying to find

two bitches I can rub together. That's the same time, what I think about a campfire niggas with two sticks, Like nah, when I think about rubbing together, I think about that one photo. But that one that one X video that was in the comments, you know, the ones where you gotta go absolutely That's that's what I think if you pull that off, my guy. Man, you know what I'm saying. I want I need percent just for the title, for the title and two bitches, because that's gonna

be the title of it, rubbing two bitches together. That's gonna be the freak you write a poem on that. No, it's just that makes me the executive producer. Yeah, when we need a poem about Rebb and two bitches together, Yeah, you gotta be the you know, like when everybody starts to play Maxwell before they're getting ready to get it on the movie, when the two bitches are getting ready to reb together. Your post, I'm a rte it, but it ain't gonna be. It ain't gonna be what

you think. I gotta I got a fun way to twist that I don't. I wanted to do what I wanted to. You know what, Mae, whan we're asking the wrong pole. We gotta go to Britain call Brittain. Cole would make it that way, the one you went right down the rabbit hole come back about. She said, Single is no longer a threat for us and the fellas are offended in the shambles exactly They used to be able to threaten women with, you know, the idea of never being married

and all that shit. Now a lot of people just like, Bro, I don't want to get married because where's the benefit to me? What is the benefit of me marrying a nigga that is already telling me like, oh, I'm not finna take care of shit, Bro, We're finna go halp, why are we here, nigga? I can go. Look if you were a person in college with a college roommate and you basically like just repeating that with a motherfucker who you are now fucking, That's what it sounded like

to me, at least the college ones. When you were fucking somebody, you got benefits out of it. You get to use the food card and ship like that. We just gotta learn to let go of people that's not meeting our standards. Oftentimes we get with somebody and want we like I think you pointed out earlier, without wanting to be single or you know, for too long. We try to make things force and work for the sake of

just not want to be by yourself. People just need to start, and a lot of us are not doing that anymore, and that's what got niggas so fucking pressed about it because they're so used to motherfucker just like, just like, And that's what a lot of ship, a lot of ship that we get accused of we didn't. We like, y'all need to start talking to each other because we didn't start doing that to us. For us, some niggas somewhere started spoiling a female if you got it concept this episode that

says, man, we clearly don't have good representation. We don't talk to each other. Yeah, because I don't know who's in charge around I don't know. Oh yeah the union where bro? It's like, where is upper management? Where is the organization with charging this motherfucker? When we stop asking Jah what to do, ship went down here And that is why we are the way we are, because if we gave a funk about what Yoah has

to say, we might be able to get somewhere. Tommy said, being single is where it's that a little meat delivery here and there is acceptable, and there are women who received it delivery with no obligation. I think the problem is came from him a lot of times. The problem is women express what they want, what their desires are, and instead of men saying,

damn, you know what, I'm not the guy for her. Let me you know, mama business going over here, it becomes well, let me go tell her why I don't think she deserves that when he wasn't even in the fucking running to begin with. So now I got some ugly ass nigga with his eyes faced too, fucking fire apart in mouth, crooking and shit, trying to tell me why another nigga ain't gonna do something, not knowing that I have a nigga that are doing those things that you were telling me

that I won't be able to fucking get you want. Those are niggas who cuff their genes. Absolutely definitely niggas who cuff and like a fish, not a fish should be on the side of their head like this, damn near let me see, uh Kayla says, And a lot of women have rediscovered things that feel better than relationships to them. Who wants to keep healing from a motherfucker over and over? Traveling, good food, sleep, shopping, et cetera. Once you reach that level of piece, you are not willing

to jeopardize that. And meanwhile, niggas is telling y'all said till you fall illiny the banners. You know what, And that is a big thing. Niggas are always trying to threaten us with being single. I know a lot of people, a lot of people who are in the health care industry, and guess who be dying fucking alone with not even family wanting to visit? They ass me and I I hear that so much from people who work in the health care industry. They like, let me see hospice wife. What

I just want to chick to be single? He just said, didn't be where my hug at. Niggas, where the chicks with no pre existing connections play, ain't nothing. I mean, I gotta I gotta remember how old are you again? Okay, so at our big old age. You gotta assume that people have experience at this point. And I think, honestly, you know, like it's a fine line between these pedos, but a lot of no, for real, I think a lot of men that's some of

the charm of dating a younger woman. I'm not gonna say like, I'm not saying that I don't want to check that don't have life experience. It's just like I want to catch you in between that phase where there is no nigga. But see, that's the thing, there is no very hard there is. There is no such phase as long as as long as there is an X that will accept your once a month phone call, there is no such thing. Even now. If a woman chooses not to deal with her

options, that's that's another thing. But there's always as a nigga in the

inbox that's ready to be up next. I also don't feel like it's really reasonable, especially when we encourage people like, if you are dating, to date multiple people, don't waste all of your time on one person, not really knowing where y'all at, And people always well, I can't date multiple people, because, Bro, if you got more than one friend and you can remember multiple things about each one of your friends, you can date multiple

people. They're that fucking hard. Anybody saying that you gotta fuck them all and nobody saying that you got to do all this extravagant shit with them all. But you can definitely date and get to know multiple people to weigh your options and see which option is better for you. Bro, I don't know, but I'm finna dout. I've told you living together I want to smother them a couple of times. I feel like I'm justified at this point.

But so the next post said, certain men shame women for their past choices and men and tell them to choose better partners. And when you have women who are actually taking accountability for their past choices and are now enforced, get your ass out of here, go sleep in that goddamn chair outside in the hallway. Got man says, so certain me and shame women for their past choices and men and tell them to choose better partners. Okay, cool.

So then when you get women who are actually taking accountability for their past poor choices and are now enforcing requirements to make better choices than men, those same men, in a pathetic attempt to humble them, are now telling those women how they don't have the right to choose better after telling them to choose better. I'm telling you then, when your old post, because I feel like

you wrote that before, Yeah, we don't have none. That's the problem everybody, If every man wants to be an entrepreneur, because it's because nobody, because because like I said before I even saw Nigga's comments. See look, I told you he was talking about someone. You didn't even that loud? Tommy said, who is that bear roaring in the background? He wasn't at first, he got louder, okay loud. So I knew that this was coming because I know men, and I know what their rebuttal is every

single time. So next post said, certain men complained about how these women these days are only out to date for money. Okay, but then you have women who are previously dated men with nothing explained that they've been there and done that and are just no longer in that chapter of life. Then those

same men come tell him or you should have chosen better. So you complain when a woman doesn't want a broke man, calling us gold niggers and shit talking about we money hungry and we out of pocket for saying I don't want no broke ass niggas. But then when you find out that we use dated broke ass nigga, now you are, well, that was your fault for choosing a broke ass nigga. You just told me that I wasn't ship because I didn't want to broke ass niggas. I don't. That's the thing they

don't get to me. But it's just I be wanting to put out there how stupid sh it is. I I always give examples on why I don't listen to me, and this is why, because they are walking fucking contradictions. They are double lad swords whose whole agendas out to cut a bitch anyway again, and you got one that you stuck with, and I shut the funk up. I don't have to he different. He's still a niggas at

the end of the day, you think about every nigga got bullshit. Just because your brand of bullshit is different does not mean it it's not bullsh bullshit, Kyle shit, horseshit. So then it says last but not least. If you date someone and their red flags, you were expected to learn from those red flags and apply that knowledge to future relationships. If you make mistakes in that relationship, you're expected to learn from those mistakes and apply that knowledge

to future relationships. So why wouldn't past partners be relevant to new relationships? Y'all assume growth from one relationship is punishment for someone new just because they aren't allowed to do the same things in them. Because I hate when you have somebody whether it's okay, perfect example for you right, you know, no, just perfect example for you. You know who you've dated, right, so you can say, you know what, in hindsight, I recognize where

I went wrong. I don't want to date this type of person anymore. So you saying you know what I've I'm not in that stage of life no more. So on instead of going for this like this, this is what I'm on now, this is what I would prefer to date moving forward. They will try to use your growth against you, like, well, what that what they got to do with the next girl? The fuck you mean

nigga doing her exactly? So accept that ship. You are a horrible person by not giving everybody a fair chance, So why would I give everybody? You hear? This is what they say on the internet though, to the women folks, right, They tell us to choose better, But then they expect us to give everybody a chance. And the thing about that is niggas we don't know because they are not good enough to be in our mid crust circle. You got these are lower crust, bottom of the pie ass niggas,

No they don't. They don't because they got time to be on the internet. Meanwhile, I don't got too bitches to rub again. That's all I was right, I'm trying to. I'm trying to get too. I should just I should get one her bring another. So we got We got a comment from YouTube. It says, oh wait, Tommy's no. Tommy's came in right as I was clicking. So it says, for real, people just want to control other people lives. Get that money, but except

motherfuckers will be salty. Uh, Tommy, you know I'm right, needs be wanting to be met. Many black women don't date or understand dating. Many go out on dates with men and determine that they're exclusive before it was even discussed. See. And when y'all be trying to make me say that we exclusive and I know we not, That's what I'll be trying to tell y'all. Y'all too, it's complete. Y'all be doing this dance, y'all

that'll make us fifteen years dan y'all was doing before the blip. So you know what I don't see, patriceaid, which is dumb as fuck giving everybody a chance as asking Yeah. See so, And the thing is men love to tell us well, you were the one who picked them, right, and they use this to try to make us accountable for shitty people. Now are there times when weird, like damn, you know what every like from the very first date like this nigga was always talking about he left his wallert

at home and like all this kind of shit in all situations. Yeah, you can be like that was a bread flag out the gate, but that is not always the case. Sometimes you have people who how how many times do we say a motherfucker will show you what they want you to see, bro every single time. No, I'm a person. I'm like, I'm

just about to say it's too many tapping options. I get hot. See you say that, But look how angry you was after we had our off air conversation after the pot because you know what just happened to me yet? See yeah, now it ain't well what if he just no? See see how it's different. Yeah you forgetting my shut up, forgetting like that,

crazy na. But it's funny because when it comes to us, because I'm about to actually read exchange between me and a guy on one of my posts, It's funny how when it comes to us, they expect us to have X ray fucking goggles and be able to read a motherfucker one hundred percent before we even actually deal with them. So we're supposed to know that somebody is a shitty person right out of the gate. Though, So where's that where's

all that woman's intuition? Ship, y'all be strangling ones like if I got an opinion about my baby daddy, well, third I at it. Beat No, it be them ones that are common to say some goofy shit like you picked them, Like, yeah, like I really knew motherfucker wasn't gonna do this thing, like you said, like at the time you met him,

and everything was in the beginning, stand up, dude. And then yeah, especially because both both of my daughter's fathers they didn't have kids before mom, so it ain't like I had a fucking blueprint to go off of and say, well, how does he treat his other kids? And even that's not a fucking indicator because we've seen them treat kids based off of how

they feel about the mothers, So that's not even the thing. All I know is sometimes red flags be looking like six flags and shit, yeah, and then sometimes motherfuckers are just really good at burying the flags in the backyard. So this guy commenting he said, men still have to pick up the

pieces from a traumatic experience that you've previously had. So my response was, then y'all need to pick better, Like y'all tell us pick a woman who has done to work to grow from those experiences, versus choosing one with pieces to pick up, just like we're choosing not to pick someone we need to build up. You can't tell people to learn from their past and mistake then turn around and make it seem like the lessons they're applying are holding them back,

because we hear that all the time. Like I just said, the motherfucker be like, well, what they got to do with the next person? You punishing the next man? How am I punishing the next man? Because I'm applying knowledge from a past relationship. That's not a punishment, that's growth on my part. Because if I choose the exact same nigga all over again, you gonna tell me, well, you picked them. So his response was, but there's no way to know those type of things without a

person being triggered. So you don't know if a person got pieces and shit to pick up until you get to know them and see them in a triggered state. I said, oh, well, the fellow short act like we're supposed to know everything about y'all from just looking at you to know you the wrong one. So I seen y'all could do it too. I didn't get a response after that one. But it's just funny how niggas have all of

this logic when it comes to trying to tell us some shit. But I never see other men telling them when this man is bitching about his baby, mama won't let him see the kids, or she just greedy for more child support. I don't never hear niggas saying, well, bro, you picked

her. It be man, These whole scanless, So we're to blame when y'all fuck up, and also to blame when we fuck up absolutely phone, but are always preaching fucking accountability and and and and and it kills me because I've said there's several an you know that's my sound man, But it kills me because we are always told women never want to be accountable, women never want to be accountable, And it's like bruh. Society literally tries to hold

us accountable for our actions. And y'all as soon as as soon as somebody's in, like a child is in the news. For some reckless the first thing they say is where that boy mam mat? For real, it's where that boy mama at? And see, this is what happens when it's a single, single mother house. They immediately know there's no man in the house supposedly, and sometimes certain decisions come from mirroring the men in their lives.

Yeah, or you get the men that say, oh, a woman can't raise a man, right, but he'll raise his own kids based off of all this shit is mama thardi. I'm just gonna these nigga on the internet with this free range of motion. This is see town. And this is why when I share certain videos in the group capturing it with this is why men shouldn't have podcasts because you let out your unfiltered thoughts and when and nobody need to hear what you're thinking unless it's shits and giggles. That's true,

but some ship niggas just don't share with the world. But men are not taught to really process their thoughts, so it comes out without thinking about it as far as podcasting go. No, no, no, I know, but that's because we are. It's an emphasis on women uh being able to process how they feel. We are taught to feel. Men are generally not taught to feel. So when y'all feel something, it's a scramble to put words to that feeling. Women, we can cry it out and you know

something wrong with us. Men have to verbalize, and y'all not. You are scaring that there's a whole episode of the death fresh shutter. I could pull up well, I just let you on the mic and you you would fun all these those was been in the know your VIE episode. Sometimes, don't act like you. It ain't out there for you either. You said like emotional intelligence completely, I'm a cancer. I'm allowed no. Now what you're gonna do is stop hiding behind your side accountability, nigga. We literally

just said that five minutes ago. Oh and and and as far as like the accountability conversation, what I said, like for those who may have listened to that and not really understood what I meant, look at it this way. If well, I I am a single mother, right, so it's just me and my fucking brats. Now, no one is going to question why he wasn't mad enough to take care of his kid, But they're going to question my choice of their father, Like I knew that this nigga was

gonna be a fucking deadbeat. This is the exact same man who was having a full fucking mental breakdown and shit because I was having a threatened miscarriage with his first child. Did I think that this nigga was gonna end up being a fucking deadbeat? No? You see these niggas, both of them have my daughter, like, they both have their daughter's names tattooed on them. Re Daddy, he got a full I mean from shoulder to fucking shoulder,

this fucking high across his chest, her full fucking name. I don't got her name tattooed at all, but guess who've been fucking taking care of him for almost twenty years. Jellybean Dad got her name tattooed on the fucking neck. He don't do shit. So it's like, you can't. You don't know how a motherfucker's gonna parent, because I always say I don't think a

person knows how they're going to parent until they become a parent. You know how many motherfuckers I saw that say they couldn't stand kids and didn't want no motherfucking kids, And when they actually had kids, all of that ship. They will turn all of this ship upside down about their fucking kids. Yeah, And when I had my boys, I made the decision that I can't date men that don't have a relationship with some male some o g mail in

their life. Like, I don't date men that grew up around their grandmama's and they auntie slut like solely anymore, because I feel like I just saw that somewhere. I know, I feel like I just saw somebody. I don't men that say, oh yeah, I was raised by my granny and my mama and my anties and my sisters have a good day, ma'am. I mean, sir, I don't date, don't you uncle Charles, y'all or not? Because I am I was raised by a lot of I was raised by my brother. I mean, my dad. Don't get grown.

My mom was around and now I'm over. It's so many women in our family and I can't relate to because she was no. Well, yeah, but I have all boys. I have one girl cousin that grew up with and the rest are boys. And then of course their friends became my brothers. And then I got a brother, and then my dad Wasn't you know what I'm saying. So my mannerisms are very I have very male mannerisms. But I mean I don't want to be a stud. I think somebody a

few comments up said me, me wanted to be a stud. I just think that No, no, no, he's an Honestly, I feel like a lot of people I've said this on the I think she's direct. I think she got a Tommy said, I have one trash friend. He been in high school. He was Zach Morris bro. We call that nigga out on it trash behavior constantly. My ex wife called him out on his traship. He stopped coming around, but guess what, he went somewhere else and

remained trash. And of course that's why she is the poetry push it said, the special guest has a super voice. Thank you, thank you, thank you. What you said? I just got it from me. She stopped my home style. Yeah, but and that was the thing, like this nuts, that's true. I thought we pieced it up. Guy. He's a big guy. It's a big guy. I don't want the little one got a mean right hook. I'm good on that too, any bite still, Yeah, because little so you know that's he get about that.

Jam Listen, listen, you said ship is stior to get us out. It's in us. I'm mad that you can't come. Kela said, hmm. I don't agree with this, but of course I respect people's preferences. For sure. I get what's being said, but I don't think it should be in an automatic mark against a person. And see, and that's like for me. So I think it's when she says she doesn't want to date a guy who has only been around women with like no male like you know,

and it's nothing against the like. I don't prejudge. I just from my experience. That's just like if you've been in if you've ever been in an abusive relationship, right, And let's say you give a guy a chance and he just he played too much. He play a little bit too rough. So the man that I've dealt with have have ideals that stem from being raised by too many women. So I'm at my big old age, I just got to cut him out where I just gotta cut certain things out my

diet of men and that and that's how I feel. How I've said that I will not date a man who has issues with his mom and no more because I've noticed a pattern of relationship. When they don't have healthy relationships with their mom, it tends to trickle down into how they feel about other women. It's like, because they don't have a level of respect for their mom, nigga, you're not gonna give a fuck Like like bro, I heard I dad, bruh thought you was finna put your mom through the door.

You're finna go home and try to fucking tie me in a basement. It's only a matter of time before and this is our thing, like the same thing as far as you feel like, all right, well I can't fuck with you know, a nigga that don't take care of his kids? Why is that? Because you like if you can turn your back on your seat, ain't no telling them what the fuck you would do to me? And that goes for relationships, friendships and everything else. So it's just that may

not be the case. They may not do anything to you. They may just be one of the motherfuckers who's more loyal to their friends than their kids. But that doesn't mean you want to take the chance based off of the things that you've seen, Because I don't say that as advice. I'm not advising other women not to deal. Now I knew exactly why you was doing. I say it out of just you know, being aware. If you're not aware of yourself, your triggers, and what you want, then how

do you even start and begin today? You know what I'm saying. Okay, let's say I also realize I'm hearing this as a single mom raising the son alone with no men present. I hate for someone to judge him or look at him. And you know what, let me just let me respond. I'm a single mother of two boys. Matter of fact, I got two boys and I got another a young man who's like my godson. So

I'm surrounded by boys, but I'm very much like I find men. I have a support system of men that I put in my son's life so he doesn't only get a female narrative of whatever he goes through. So I'm not only aware of that for my choice and for myself. Those are actions that I put in place for my boys as well, so they don't become, you know, the type of man that I feel just maybe just needed some more male guidance and if I could put some positive male role models in their

lives. You know, that's the goal, you know, but definitely to give them something different than what I bring to the opinion table. I've actually touched on this before timing. He said. It's also not always good for a nigga to have a weirdly crosse relationship with a mama either. I've touched on that. I've said that I have had to let a nigga go because everything came down to his mom. So there are levels to being a mama's

boy. Absolutely not everything is always just you know at the tit at forty. You know what I'm saying. There are healthy mama's boys where they have a love and admiration for their mother, but they are also able to stand on their own two feet. I fuxed with that. The ones who feel like they can't turn and wipe they ass or like look at Scrappy and Mama d She is always in that man business and he do not check her. I can't deal with no nigga like that. I can't One man who should

have actually been my motherfucking daddy like my mom. He was like the perfect dude. The only difference was like his relationship with his mom. She meddled too much. She was doing too much. She didn't approve because she had

a kid already. He didn't have any kids. So it's like as good as they relationship was, it's like his mom is constantly inserting herself, and it's like there's a difference in disres expecting your mom and then just kind of letting her know that, bro, your place is outside this little box here. You know you you always gonna be moms. I love you and I respect you, but this this here, this is the box out zone, the little you know, the little moll photo. You are here. You

got to jar a little circle. You are here, So I get it. She said, what she's saying, it's a male voice in her circle, Kayla, and not completely women around. Well, and I asked, well, I think Kayla felt that way because, like Kayla has expressed, like when I had the episode a couple of weeks ago, asking like about the mentors and stuff, like Kayla has tried to find like male mentors and all of that stuff, and it's like it's been kind of just falling on

deaf ears. So she's been trying to get those male influences for her son. It's just it ain't been working out for and it ain't easy. It's scary because you got a lot of men that get into these positions to prey on boys. And that's the sad part about it, like these organizations and stuff like that. By me being a little maybe a little like I navigate,

not navigate. I what's the word I'm looking for? Hell? I mean, I keep a squad, you know, a man around me, so I didn't have to look far, you know what I mean, Like it was already men that I trusted. I didn't have to seek outside. And then kind of, you know, hope that I'm putting my son around some good dudes. And then it's some dudes that I I know that they're good in some areas, but they ain't shit in others. And I'll be like, look, don't don't teach that to my boy. You know what

I'm saying. Give them this part of you, but not that part of you. So it's it's men like that that I kind of you know, Yeah, And I'm gonna easy to come compartmentalize that. Yeah, it's like picking onions up a burger bro what I make Burger's fire? Well, I been't eat him lately, only on the cousins though, baby steps, baby just go what are we talking about? No, when you were saying like you want them to like pick and choose which parts, I said, it's

like picking burgers off on him, I mean on zer Berker. Yeah, almost as crazy as you saying, can you get a cheeseburger with no cheese? And you know, just just not in the fact you used to try to defend that. That's the part that bothered us. It wasn't the fact that all it was just easier to say that and but no you'd be like, but this is what I want and I just don't. All right, We're not going down that rabbit hole. Rida said, I feel you kla

my current situation as well. I had one, but he passed. Yeah, because because my stepdad, Like you can tell that he was raised by primarily women. Like you know what, now that you say that, I can see that, y'all can see that real nigga. No no, no,

no no no no no, you're you're mistaken a Southern nigga. Yeah, like like like he he was a real Southern Yeah, like he was able to do ship, like he learned how to you know, like work, but outside of that, like his men arhysms and ship that he do and like little attitudes and ship like you can tell that he was like because he got all like he doesn't have any brothers. He was the only boy. You got all brothers and then your mom and then his mom was like

a fucking bitch. I just yeah, like but fast mind. He just said, you did your thing with dial though, for real, for real, And I fight little girls because they're not about to corrupt him on my watch. But what she said, he's uh uh, he's a sasparal. No. But I but I do. I I one hundred percent gated because like and a lot of people say that as far as like with me, like like I said, they joke like, oh man, you a nigga with titties. But like my primary influence, like did I have women around?

Yes, I was raised by my mom, but my mom worked a lot, so my primary influence, Like I was around all my male cousins, like all of yeah, almost all of you know, my friends from the neighborhood. Like there were girls around, but it's like I had I was, I already was who I was, so I wasn't on the shit thatday was on shit, did watch wet grow Like That's how I know her, like from my childhood. So seeing me out at rufus king, who is I with the boys? That that was just that that was my thing.

So that's, you know, the element that I became comfortable in. So it's like I have my feminine side, that's just not my dominant side. Like yesterday I had. Hey, I told y'all before, look I might have my titties out one day and just like somebody nigga the next, I have my tittes out yesterday when she saw me and now look, so look you that's what Martin said yesterday. No, it's it's not missing any at all. No talking about some this episode is missing some random singing,

but no, this is what we were talking about. As far as like when niggas just being contradictory. She was walking business down for sport. Walk them down, you said, we did, was around for your fighting. Don't let don't let you fool you. She was a rough little time boys too. This this version of her is not this version. I grew up on seventeenth Capital between Capital and it just wasn't all my life. I have to fight. No, it wasn't like that. I just like I said,

like I would, I grew up rapping. You know, there was a persona and then my idols soft. Oh lord, you know like granny was. She was about that mess, like my granny was about that life, I think. And then it's like my mom, like mom was cool, but then it was that point like matter Okay, So the funny part is like who did was dating at the time. We would have our like family wars, and she's like, you know how like when houses on the black is beefing, so she was on the OIP side. We didn't have

you on that. But it was just you know, sometimes I had my own beef like at that house. I couldn't even indulge in because I never knew because this was my dude speaking of a dating and ship. I never knew. It was times where I would come in the house and be like downstairs and it'd be somebody upstairs, you know, so she's a whole lot going on over there. No, but even then, this is what happens when niggas want to rub two bitches together. You sure you want to try

that because there was one upstairs and one downstairs. But yeah, no, but it's cool as mommy, Like, mom, don't be on that.

But like even they mom they ship, they had moms outside like bring up because I'm sick of this ship, like and I'm like, damn bro, even mom getting active and my and mommy chill like she don't fuck with no nobody, So yeah I do, but no. So this is an example of like what we were talking about as far as with ship being a double edged sword and like my figgers never happy no matter what side we on. I want to save myself until marriage. You're never going to fund a man.

Why not. You're never gonna fund a man. A man that actually cares about me will wait for me. You think men want to wait? Are you crazy? I thought that's what was going to wait for you. You never, You're never going to find a man the way I see it, with whoever I want, the right man will show up. You're never gonna find a man. Why never. You'll never find a man. You're never going to find a man. Tell me, why do you think a man that's gonna be with everybody? I never said everybody and men do the

same. You're hopeless. You're hopeless. Go by cats? What go by? Cats. I can't hear you go by cats, so just focus on myself. I think both are extreme. I personally just wouldn't sleep with them on the first date. You're never gonna find a man. What why You're you're an adult? And what you're an adult? And what what are you talking about? I just want to make sure he respects me because I'm looking for a husband and not a boy. He's not going to respect you because

you can't even be an adult sleeping on the first day. I personally don't have problems with sleeping on the first date. We are adults, after all. You are never going to find a man. What why? Men like women that were effect themselves and that's clearly not you are. You're going to be alone. You will never find a man. You're never going to find But this is really how it is. Like this is one of the most accurate videos on the Internet right now because that is literally how it is.

It doesn't matter what we say. There is a nigga there, and it's usually the same nigga. That's the craziest part, the same nigga. It's like he forgets why he told you that ain't no man go want you? The first time you say on Tuesday, oh, well, I do things this way. See this why you single. You can have the exact opposite for Wednesday. See this why you single? And this is why you don't

listen to niggas. Lady. You do what you feel like one if it makes you happy and you are not imposing on the health and happiness of other people, as long as you were not harming anybody while you were seeking your happiness, do you and people who are you know, meant to be in your space, that's who you will attract. And that's my biggest thing. Like people talk to me all the time like I'm supposed to switch things up to attract people that they are attracted to. That's not my bad. I

don't want to attract that. I don't want to attract that type of person because that's not what I'm attracted to. He said, okay, with the frank Mitchell look he just said, Now he looked like the men he was talking about. Britt said me, me, look the fuck good. Thank you girl. I felt good. Oh she gotta be high because I looked good last night. Nigga. Yeah, he really did have the frank mental

hair though. That's wold. That's crazy, yeah, because it's like when it goes to having sex for money, niggas are always shaming women for saying, well, I'm not fucking with nobody, who ain't you know, who ain't spending nothing, who ain't got nothing, And y'all will, oh, you horror, you prostitute, you this, you ain't worth whatever. But ain't y'all the same niggas who say you ain't spending money on somebody that you ain't fucking How was that not the same thing? There? There are so

many There are so many. Uh yep, Yeah, I trust dear because I trust her these other niggas. Did you in charge? What ship? That was a bru? Okay, so I mean to touch bases back. Let's scale back to what we were talking about. What you want to talk about. I want to talk about what Tom said about hiding behind the zodiac,

right, yeah, I did. I just actually checked that. Let's go back to that right quick, because I don't I don't think like what people put out in the world, Like people will be like you're a cancer. Then they just get the labeling all this ship that they assume, yeah, or things that cancers do, and they just assume that you be on that kind of shit because you but on what as a cancer though we see memes that be like, damn, all of us is like that some ship

some shit. Do be like yeah that's usum be like so i'thing I'm taking this somewhere, so just stay with me, right. So that's kind of like grouping though, right, right, So now we're grouping all cancers being like what we in tourist season? The mean as tourists. We're in tourist season now, So I wonder how we could be so spot on sometimes in the group and with our zodiac, but we could be so dead ass off when we group these male and women topics. Okay, at what point though

that some of that gotta be? Right though? I feel like most of it? Do you think so? Because even as a man, or like on my end as a woman, rather we agree with her or now we can see that sure it's like public house. Do I even want to know? Why? Is it like public? Okay, maybe not public houses? But the gender wars ain't nothing but a big ass gangle. So it's like, so it's men and it's women. Right then, that's that's the overarching

concept as men and women. Then when you start breaking it down, it's like, so you got GDS, you got BDS, you got vice lords, you got bloods, you got crips. Then when you talk about then when you talk I said, he woke up to the bear coming. And then even when you get to crips, now it's different. Crips. You got rolling sixties, roll the twenties. Like it's all these subdivisions of things.

So like there's all these subdivisions of people's thought process. So like you might got a group of people that has one overarching point, but then you may have like a subdivision who like, well, at that point relates to

this point and that we all believe in this. So it's an exasperating cycle that we just not gonna ever get over because we'll never we'll never agree on anything like that agrees, right, you wouldn't want you did something you just could like and somebody says that you're gonna jump in and everything you say you're gonna say generalize making other people who have nothing to do with y'all too agree with you because it's triggering something. Let's just bringing me back up to where

we how we got talking about game banging and zodiacs. I brought it back to the I brought it around the corner about how zodiacs can be spot on and that's like a form of grouping people together. But when we talk men and women relationships, it's the grouping that's really making it difficult for us to come to a balance. And just looking at what Rita said, she said, if zodiacs are inaccurate, why do scorpios act like that? Listen and

she said, I trust in zodiacs. I definitely do. Somebody can tell me they are certain zodiac But it also goes back to experience. So if I had a bad experience like tour season, I'm hiding because cancers and tourists and taurus Is are supposed to be like you know, and I don't want no part. It's not a tourist. Second, you want to know what's funny. I was just about to ask, like any women who've had experience with tourists. I wanted to ask y'all assessment because I gave one, and

Kayla was like, dude, that is fucking spot on. And it's all of the tourists men that I have encountered, whether I've dated them, or not. But we also know, like, well, people who actually like follow ZODIAX, they know that it's not just the sign itself, like placement and all of that stuff matters. So it's like me being born at a certain point in the day or at the like, like, there's a lot

yeah like that that factors into it. It's not just the oh, well you're a Gemini so this it's like no, like you got your son's sign and like and all of this other kind of shit that factors into it. So but if you don't you know, really follow zodiacs, then you don't know that and you just hear oh man scorpios, y'all think we all this, No, it really depends. Show me a birth chart, nigga. Don't just tell me your sign. I want to see your full birth nigga,

What time was you born? Because your moaning your rise and make a big difference on the type of you know what you We gotta stop that too. Now when you get talk to me on some Johnny A ship like that, cool because it sounds like you understand what the fuck be going on with the moon and the stars. But if you just be like, well,

what's y'all sign cancer. Yeah, see they don't know. Sometimes we got cry before we tell this ship like that, because if I don't cry and I let this anchor out in another way, I'm going to jail and I just don't have I might not have the bail money that week. Like we got such great people, but soon as you say cancer, they were like, y'all cry babies. But I mean, well, people look at geminis and say we two faced. And the reason why they think that we're two

faces because we operate in a duality. So I can look at things from multiple angles. So say I'm sitting right here, I'm literally in the middle of YouTube. You can tell me your perspective. You can tell me your perspective, and I can agree with both of them because I understand why you feel the way that you feel through your lens, just like I can understand. I don't have to feel like something is right or wrong in order to understand it, because if I'm looking. This is the example I like to

use. So if I'm covering this eye, everything on this side completely blacked out. Same thing. If I switch it over here, uncover both my eyes. Now I can see the full picture of my perspective changes based on which eyes are covered, so that was accurate, though it was not. I'm only half to you all the way blind, like we take your glasses off, you just gone gang gang, Gang Gang. I burned all this ship down with tears in my eyes, I promise like a old girl on

uh oh, what's the one with? I don't know. I feel like you're lying, well, he said. I am not a cry baby, but I will tell you how I feel and how you're making me feel. I can also understand and empathize with how you feel, especially when you tell me I don't know. I don't think so, because I've heard ship Tommy has said, and it sounds like he shuts people down, like he don't want to deal with people talking about how they feel. Because we we've had

conversations in here now sound accurate. I can see how being over I'm looking for the need being over communicator. I see somebody look at that. You'd be like, why you bitching? But I'm not bitching. I need to tell you how I feel or you're never gonna get it like, because if I don't get it out when it should come out, then I'm gonna shut down I'm not. I also feel like people like to categorize shit is bitching

when they don't make corrections to the behavior. So of course, if I have to say something to you more than one time, it's going to sound like I am fucking bitching because I have to constantly tell you what needs to be corrected and how you're treating me. But then when I just say, okay, but you don't want to deuces, now, I'm a sudden. I'm overreacting. You get mad when I correct it for you. I'm saying, oh my god, don't hit me no more. Shut up, Oh

my god, why don't swing again? Tell me said I have no idea what you mean? No, because I will sit next to you one day. And I was like, I said, should fade timing on GP because he sounds the sound real bait? That's not bash now, because that nigga has it like he will express ship. But it's like motherfuckers don't want to hear ship. Yah, y'all want to tell the motherfucker on the f n J. But when it's time for a motherfucker to tell you, then you

don't want to deal with it until you want to deal with it. No, motherfucker. This is my issue. I don't know. He just said. I remember I started crying while arguing with this chick. I said, I'm crying because I'm about to hurt her. My voice, my voice get the quiver. Yeah, you better run like a mug because if my voice get the quivering. And he said, okay, okay, that may be true. Yeah I know because I because I I remember you was talking.

I was just looking. I said, R should just socked this nigga for sounding so much like it. You you almost caught a third party fade. Bro, you ain't even do it to me. You hating, but you're not living in it. No, he hate that one person. Oh. We actually just celebrated uh our five year anniversary last year. We did mushrooms on airy. Yeah. I think you're talking about how long the show go the episode? Oh? I thought she was talking about like how long we've

been doing it. Oh, you're talking about overall? Okay, because I was with that's what I was reading, because i'd have been crazy. She's like, yeah, how long did this goes like that? Five years? No, I gotta get come outside. Well no, it's just even just scrolling like it's hard to focus and watch you know, a lot of the podcast because Aiden Aiden takes up a lot of my uh my attention and stuff.

So I'm just like, damn, like, y'all be lit on this show, like I might have to start trying to tune in and and and it's funny because it's like caught a lot of shows don't give me, oh no, I listen, this is this is my ship, and I don't go back and listen like that's how a lot a lot a lot of fuck

ups that would happen. Tone was like sliding with it because I wasn't going back to do quality checks, and listeners would have to tell me I still listen to No, it wasn't a random phrase me talking about how that ship would come the mask because I wasn't going back to listen to the episodes for like quality check, like because my attention span is asked so the way that we do it now. Because and and that's why I don't listen to podcasts.

It's not because I don't feel like, you know, somebody's interesting. I'm like, oh, ain't nobody podcasts look like mine? No, what it is is I like to engage. So the structure of how we do my pot now, you see, we we put comments on the screen, we talking back, and we engaging with people. That's how I'm able to do this and be cool with it. It's like time is going and it don't like because it don't seem like we've been sitting here in no two hours

because it's a full conversation. Everybody's engaging and I actually talk to my listeners. So I a podcast, a talk show. She's a late night talk show. I've been I've been bothering about, like bring so let me get up. Let me get an unair public opinion right quick. Though. What do you think about me coming back and doing an erotic poetry show? Though?

Yeah, because I think that'll be like a good blend sometime. You know what I mean, and you know what and listen even if you feel like you know what damn, Even if you feel like to know what damn, that's a little bit of pressure. I don't I don't want to commit to, like, you know, doing like a full show, even if you want to just record blue ship and I slide you into the segment and I'll do that with no fucking problem at all. So look, whatever you

want to do. We need Dea on the waves. We need Dia back. So that's that's I was so excited when I saw her yesterday. I'm like, look us puzzle, yep, and I saw you. If I saw you tomorrow, i'd have been too late, you know. She was like, when you'll I was like tomorrow. On Sunday, she was like, I'm near because I was so lost to this. On my car, she was like, I'm gonna see you. I'm in the same boat and they had to come pick me up. I'm yeah, they don't even know

they're taking me home yet. I think we my ride was drunk so out here sleeping right, I ain't gonna lie. I love Bradie like as a home, but it's liquor tolerance, like dealing with your friends when they be lit. It gives you your gauge on like just how I feel like I would interact with other people when you hit a certain level. Because I felt when we was upstairs, I felt like I wanted to punch you. So I'm like, you was a nigga that I didn't know. This is a

full on fight because you irritated the ship out of me. Right now, I don't drink. I irritate myself and he just want to have like this deep philosophical conversation about why you like to smoke weed, bro, because I smoke weed. Family, I've just gotten talking to me while you were intoxicated. I ain't asking you why you like to hit the bottle I want to say. I wasn't gonna say nothing. But there's another reason I like drinking because I used to be one of them. Let me freestyle in your ear

at the club. Ask you don't wrap in my ear fan, that's Nicety Week sixteen for you. Yeah, and don't let the DJ be playing like a little bit of the instrumental before the song. Come on, I'm gone. I'm yeah, no alcohol, We're gonna We're gonna step out back on the patio for my drink. Well. Look, it's funny because I'm not

sure if we have any b m F watchers, but I was. I was catching up on a couple of episodes and uh Sweetie was in one of the episodes as a guest star, and I kept seeing people on my Facebook news feed talking about Chris Brown. I was like, what the fuck you do now? So I'm like, all right, so I pause it, and it just so happens that I paused it on her like she was in the scene. And then I go and I investigate on Twitter, because you

know, Twitter got all the answers. I'm not gonna sit here and ask on Facebook like what's going on if it's something of some celebrity shit, because I already know Twitter got all the teeth. So I head over there, and Bro Chris Brown is cutting the fuck up. So we go go ahead and play this little video first. What handles like? You got some players so we can get into some yanks. Okay, Chris, I don't want to know as brou I don't want no smoke, I don't want biting.

I don't want to do nothing brouh on smoking me, on smoking me, on smoking me? Want to smoke with seed or on smoking me? Ony? Okay, let's get down to the facts. Let's see I'm dripping red. Don't let this one beat ship fool your niggas get ripped the shreds quay Bo talking like here does nigga you a bitch with dread? They can't wait to see today that you back of ball of that ship. You said, what's all this bass ship? You talking. You ain't no honeo nigga to

the weakest SLINKs. Got it your quick Let's keep it a hone on you fuck my ex hole, that's cool. I don't give them no fuck little niggas because I fucked your ex when you were still with a bitch. I'm up, little nigga. They say revenge is sweets. Now think about that shit. Don't let that lie go over your head. I might just sing about this ship. I had a feeling about that date. Just something sweet about that ship. I got some tears about this set, but I ain't

gonna speak about that ship. I ain't playing chess with the CHECKI player. I'm a chicken bone on the detonator. I shit on niggas. I'm a deprecator. I'll put a meg on a ventilator. Stop talking about beating girls. You was beating bitches on the elevator. We've seen the taste. That's devastating you doing bad. You a bitch and your music trash. That should they set me next to your laying mass. I was truly mad all I kept thinking I was breaking your face, but I gave you a passhit lucky.

I ain't want to fuck the money up, boy, I would have broke you in half trying to be tough. You ain't like that white you showing up witch talk about drugs. You the only pack that I been smoking on. I just hit my plug, tell them come back. I'm gonna need more than one. Your last album was a weed trade. That some bullshit that we roll up on. You know what? So on put you to bed night night. That's to the fed. Show me that I'm tender bitch, trying to prove what you to say? Or peace? Take off?

He the only rail one that got your respect. Crazy how when he died everybody really wished it was you instead. You tripper Chris, don't say that. Don't lose your head. You just turn the big bad woof. When these fuck niggas never knew revenge. It happens when a fuck nigga puts a real nigga out to the edge. It happens when a dumb nigga gets fame and to get to his head. You gonna catch this ring niggas. Big fuck you from my middle finger. I tattoo my trigger fingers. Bring

real beef to your genterator. My mental state ain't never stayed Oh I know this ship gonna sing nigga, I ran your ass through the ring a nigga. You just got body by singing nigga on smoking me, on smoking me, on smoking me, I want to smoke with see or I wanna smoking me? Or Hey Tommy, he said, bring real beef to your dinner table on. All I thought was, I just want to know where he got that picture of him with that glizzy in his mouth? How what screen?

I mean, think about it, Chris Brown, what are you doing with that? Oh? The internet is under its under on it there no matter what you delete, somebody kept the files. I mean, I've heard Chris Brown like rap before, but I think in the height of of of the hip hop competitions that have been going on with the Big Three and all of that, I think that added a little razzle dazzle because real Chris Brown fans know that he can rap. Yeah, Yeah, we knew and I

don't even know. Yeah, And I don't know why every well, I don't know why. I was surprised because when I listen, I had to listen to it three times. I think it wasn't a surprise of him being able to wrap. I think it was the content of it. Yeah, it was a like bro was like because because they've had b for a while. So I think he just got caught up in the spirit of just battling on wax because why not. I don't I don't think it's wax though, Like I feel like if he was like like a safe way he beat dog

guys. I mean, because when when did Quevo say put out like the disc like the ship calling Chris Brown tender? When was that? Was that more recently? Yeah? Okay, so then that's because he said something about, you know, show me tender nigga, Like, because I saw that Quevo he did have something basketball was Chris Brown associated with it? Was? I got I got that video to two years in the row he was talking ship. So I mean, this has been going on for a while.

But you know what, if you think about it, it's really good promotional tactic because one everybody's thirsty for a good rat beef right now and he's about to go on tour. That was actually perfect time. That was perfect. I feel like Chris Brown the only real beef. Like I feel I feel like Chris Brown he should have picked on somebody's own side. I Chris Brown. Oh yeah, listen, but look, I have seen this opinion so

many times and I believe they said. And it's crazy how out of all of this ship, Chris the only nigga who I feel like go swinging this ship? Absolutely? Uh, just so he said, dog begging Chris not to put the paws on him is nasty work. Why he thinks leaving that message was gonna fly? Which is funny because like I said, back when, uh, I had issues with the bitch Ironita, with the two baby daddies, with the the twins, she was in my inbox like, I

don't even think we should be beefing. We got the same birthday, birthday, we geminized. We can't be like that, bitch. I'm smashing your ship when I see them my inbox with that ship. No, because it's just it ain't no coming back from the ship. She was saying, you gotta you gotta see me. So at this point one of them niggas got

to see each other. And then peoples like, well, uh but that's weak because why why Chris wouldn't fight him at the thing when he sat next to him, He's like, bro, he told you like he ain't want to fuck up his bad that's your problem now, like that, that's your problem now, nigga. You remember when Dave Chappelle had to when Keeping the Real goes wrong. That was the epitome of that them comments right there. It's like it's like when you see like gang members kill each other, they

be like, oh my god, we need to stop the violence. Dott die Yo, Dirk, why you ain't slide for vine? You just said we should stop killing people. Then you was like, why you ain't gonna get your get back? They killed your brother? Yeah, y'all niggas are stupid. Or it's like when when niggas make it like Bro, you are out of the hood. You don't have to do this shit anymore. You

don't even have to go back and fucking visit that place. You can do like a conference call or a zoom or some shit, and like bro, pay a local restaurant to get one of them inflatable movie screens and do a zoom call and say what's up to the hood. Since the cent of money, order for some free hot dogs and chips and ship for the kids. You do not have to go back there. But niggas want to prove that they still got that dog in them even after they make and then what happened.

Niggas get popped off and everybody be like, oh man, niggas just be hating, Like bro, that nigga was still actively dealing drugs and committing murders as a celebrity. Why are you surprised? Look at this like this old wire sess like, Bro, you made it and you was out here order organized or organizing murders and ship like, Bro, you didn't have to. Yeah, so I don't. I'm not even. I don't got no

times, nothing, I get famous, I'm never coming back. You just said, imagine making breakfast and you catch a straight from a past relationship. You just got body by seeking. Kayler said, Sweetie was minding her business and called it straight. Let's talk about why niggas talk so damn much because why she in it? Well, I mean, hey, you should have not. You gotta know that when you fucking famous people and then they start beefing, you're gonna be a casualty of war. Just it's all about who

gonna say it first, because it's there. There's no off limits. Look, you fucked both of them, so somebody gotta mention it because at this point, I feel like, like anybody I fuck with, like I gotta write. I gotta write some bars about you just in case you go. So said a master writer that was like work. In my opinion, there's no beef. I don't got no beef with you. But you know it's fucked done. So you know you said a money order though you oh,

you can't get some cash to the man. Man, Yeah, you really can't be no with me saying like paying, you know, send the money order to pay for the kids lunch and ship. Yeah, man, I need to actual withdrawal. I need this as a tax, right right. You can't send them through cash app. They trace back to your account. Chris Brown, You're the only one that can take Drake down. Why they

on the same side. They've already squashed the beef. Chris Brown's the only one that can take Drake down because he's the only one that like Drake might actually fear Chris Brown because again, Chris Brown too powder, so he might like actually chuck the ship out of Drake. Everybody else is playing the ain't not gonna touch the white boy time said these niggas holds. I don't talk about who I'm fucking It ain't nobody business. I ain't asking no nigga who

he fucking. Yeah, that ship is is definitely crazy, So I'm curious to see where the fuck this is going. Yeah, jail the way these go. Now this is this is unrelated, but it was just fucking hilarious to me because this is not the first time we've had a story similar to this or hostually awkward opening up your marriage so you can around then get mad

because your wife is getting slammed while you severely overestimate your market value. AMANDAM thinks so selfishly when they free up the open relationship relationship because there's there's just not a reality where it works for me. Yeah, facts, it will turn into a shanking match, bro, because she will twist the tables on me. Is this what you want it? This is your idea? I haven't sucked at all. My dam has been quiet since since I've said this

out loud that God says yes. Since he said yes, nothing's been fruitful. Nothing's been fruitful. I don't want you out in the close the whole relationship like you was trying to get all the bitches and now she getting all the penis and and that that was so funny to me because I'm like, I don't think like they said, they don't think that a lot of dudes think about that portion. And then it's like, well, now your wife

got all the motion, but none of these bitches want you. So then it begs the question when you're like, all right, I want the relationship closes now. Now what if she's like, damn, ain't no bitches want you now? I got a question why I want you. I don't think I want you now because if you're not desirable to nobody but me, then that's the problem. I ain't gonna lie. I used to say that all the time, like, dude, you open it up. Don't don't let me be kissed off. That's the first thing, Like, man, I

boosted your bitch right, and you know many motherfuckers what come on? Because I'd be bad and no better as a man. Do you know what kind of blow that is your ego? Where your girl be like, I'm the reason you get bitches when nobody looking at you before I was looking at your ugly as I think Meg has actually said that in one of her songs, but it's actually true, though I think Meg said, Okay, when a nigga is single and taking just doing for himself, there's a lot of ship

you don't give a fuck about. But the minute you get a woman, she cares about how you look, how you dress, what you got on, what you smell good. Basically, a woman will give a man everything he needs to make other bitches appreciate him and let me, let me, let me take it one step further like that you're a representation of her. But I'm gonna take it one stand further though. It ain't even just intimate relationships. My older brother when I was younger, Oh the bitch magnet.

He'll ma Mama do my hair in the morning. He'll take that ship down. And then that's how you know, some little girl he likes, could you do my sister hair? And now that's like time for him to try to pull some charm out older cousins. You know what I'm saying. They Tupac said it best listen the cute friends around you know, Yeah, someone don't open your relationship. If you get two bitches, close the doors immediately. You're gonna rub them together, You're gonna put them in separate rooms.

He gonna get a customer, but it's just one room, nobody else. And then it's like, I think that's good for a cancer to have two to rub two bitches together, because the way can well yeah that's but the but the way cancers are set up. At some point you're gonna wonder do they like rubbing each other together better than rubbing you? She just helped me. See see how a woman just made you better. I'm just I'm just I'm just fast forward. But we know everything like that in my in my

every day. You're gonna be at work like I bet you. But then it's like, okay, on social media you are ship. You're not a true piece of ship on social media. I just you a true piece of brother more and more. But you speaking from a truthful place with a little hot this is truth in every joke. But I feel like this. But when you look at it, it's like people aren't used to really seeing you in a relationship, right, So not seeing you in a relationship, they

don't really see how you operate while you were with somebody. So they they see the ship that you talk all the time, but they don't see how caring you are, how compassionate, you are to take care of who you're with. They don't see those things, but then you have a woman now

and they see those things now. But shit, I want that and and and I feel like that was kind of that was kind of like another thing like with the chick that was like at the strip club and shit, like she kept commenting on I love how he is with you, Like he's paying attention, like he protective, he not, you know, letting this and he not. Like she kept naming all of these things, and it's like that's how women are. I wasn't worried about it, but it's still like

they do. They see those kind of things and they're like, I want that. I see him doing that, you know, for her. I want him to do that for me instead of trying to find a guy who I don't know if he knows how to do those things. I see he knows how to do those things. Now I need to figure out how to get him to do those things for me. And that's why there's a lot of women that are comfortable with be in side chicks. They just want you

to do those things for them, but keep all that over there. But that brings the drama too, because when when a dude move on and get to do and all the ship that you've been bitching at him to do, and then it seemed like he's effortlessly doing that for somebody else, he ain't lucky because I think I would I would have I would have pulled one of these and I just would have hardened. Know what, what irritates me about

that? Well, this is only speaking out of doing a whole lot of shadow work and shadow boxing, but uh, it irritates me because you know, I had to deal with the possibility that I'm not the type of woman that brought out those things I'm you know, I mean, that's that's when you really deal with self. You gotta deal with some of that stuff because it ain't always the other person fault. When you point the fingers, you

gotta look at the fingers point back at you. Or what if it's just one of those things where it's like he's just as he finally grew into what

I knew he could be. He just wasn't that with me and me, And when you watch him and his growth with the next person, you're like, damn, you fuck asked, nigga, if only you would have just it still got a lot to do with with some women to give the dude all the game to make that that change and that growth sometimes, but also at the same time, sometimes he couldn't change to be that person while with you, Yeah, because there are things that you were doing that was making

him unhappy, which made him not even want to give you half of that. So it's a fifty to fifty and it's accountability on both sides. In regards to that, it's easier. He actually we got an episode about that, like about me and Ken like when we were dating. It's called X factors. So if you go back, you had to go back ways is one of my bonus episodes. Always it's always easier for me to perform in front of a lot of strangers than it is to perform in front of people

that I felt influence how I do poetry. And when I say that, to say that when you're dealing with when you're dealing with when you're dealing with a man sometimes and I mean when let's said that backwards, when a man sometimes are learning from a woman, and he recognized that. Sometimes it's a little hard, I think in my opinion because I ain't no, man, but I think it. It's like, Okay, I don't want to perform in front of the person that taught me how to do this, because you're

just gonna critique me on what I'm doing wrong. So let me go take this newfound knowledge in this free game and see how another motherfucker respond to it fresh out the box, you know what I'm saying. So I think that's where a lot of that drifting off goes, because then if she gets there appreciating that shit, it might not even be as polished or as well as

that other woman taught him to be. But if it's good enough to her, oh I'm going where I'm impressive at because she's already she's already showed me that I'm inadequate because now she's teaching me this shit, So I don't feel it pressive around her. Let me go take this ship and be impressive in front of somebody else, little bit. I don't disagree. Yeah, and

and and that's absolutely true. And it's like it's it's just weird because it's like you have the same type of situation that can produce so many different outcomes based on the people who were involved in that scenario. See, I was lucky. My baby daddy wasn't ship for all of us, but we all cool so it worked. Yeah, And I ain't talking about baby Mama's I'm talking about the women that he dealt with outside of me. It's weird, except for the last one. I'm cool with every last one of em,

except for the last one. Because she thought she would difficult. Oh no, I had already tapped out by the time she came to the picture. It was a lot of giving a fuck on my part that made those others my girl on my side. Bitches cannot be okay with each other at any point in life. Future said he had his baby mama inside bitch kissed himself. And when I had that king, when I had that's not my king, when I had missing dress, okay, and they blind and he don't

even know what he don't know what year it is. I'm almost sure he don't know what to day is. That's because he was ahead of his time. You know. Somebody said in this whole Drake Beef ship, they said, bro a little probably don't even know what's going on. That niggas a highest skateboarder I had, do you do you know, Drake is into it.

He'd be like, what who have future? Future? We just didn't yeah somewhere Bro when he realized that he didn't know his own lyric, whin a run out of words, he can't respond, you know, ain't else fantasy. That might have been the funniest video I've ever seen, Like these niggas sitting in the studio and he's doing an interview and Bro starts rapping legs and Wayne like he Bob was like that shit, nice one said that, and dude looking it was like, you said that? He said, I

said that. That's so funny because I was just gonna I was, I swear I was just gonna ask, like, I wonder if, as a person who doesn't write ship down, if he ever says ship and think it's him saying it for the first time, like damn this ship fire, not

realizing that that's some ship that he said before. Is that what happened at WrestleMania the like when he was doing Millie, he really thought he was going to start some new ship and then halfway through his like first few bars, he was like, oh, this old and just stop, which is why we got that cad of I feel like they played the wrong song. He went out there expecting this mother ship and they was like what this got? His music didn't come in time for his new song. His sample didn't clear.

I'm annoyed that Facebook won't let us like have certain music in our background. But fad I try to be cool to Yeah no, these a and these weren't even bms. These are just like miss llaneyous chicks that were just giving roles. Would you want to be cool with your boyfriends like female friends?

Would I want to be cool? I mean cool like her? My trust issues definition of cool cool, I'm saying you mean like like cool with say, we we've been together for about six months and he's still making female friends or you mean the ones that they sisters, and they called sisters and ship understanding that everyone has a life before you. These are true to the true to the heart plutonic friends. So if he's saying I go today, even busters you coming, And then when you say who are gonna be there?

He named two of the homeboys, But then it's them to plutiny friends and we all just ain't here. If I'm already made and I already know them, so you start naming broad's ain't I ain't never heard of before? You've heard of these people? Yeah? Yeah? I mean then yeah, because I know how some women could be. They don't want to be friends with everybody, and then when they come around and make sure it's awkward and stupid, because that's if you don't like the friends of the opposite sex.

But I read the room, though, so you know, I'm gonna know. I'm gonna know what's really going on with this quote unquote friend. And the only way here with just you don't trust that that's a friend, you know, men and women? Yeah, absolutely, because most of I don't have too many female friends, so a dude would have to come into a situation with me kind of being cool with like, you know, yeah, my problem has been but a lot of my male friends because I have I've

always primarily had male friends. I don't know what it is about me that makes certain women feel like I am a potential problem for their man, and I be offended because I'll be like, bitch, I be the one telling that nigga to stop cheating on you. You need to be fucking thanking me, bitch, give me a fucking edible arrangement or something, because like, I know all the reasons why you shouldn't even want him, and you need to do better. I don't want him. I don't want you to want

him. I just mind, girlfriends, you should do better. Nasty work telling my woman, Look, you can do better. You really, I know that's my cousin, that's my brother. But I've done it. I've done it. I said, look, baby, take care of you with like you you still fan regardless cause dog on that bullsh I don't condone it. I'm not and I might not be so blunt, but I'm definitely gonna talk a girl called like they get to calling me crying. I was like,

girl, you better find you something else to do. And if you don't catch them vapors, then you know, yeah, because I've done I've definitely done that to like with my homegirl, like because at this point, like what my cousins are, like, she had already decided she was out.

She was already divorcing them, and I think she thought that we was gonna be weird with her, like no, we understand, like, fuck, dog you you held this nigga down when he literally had nobody, all them so called friends and all that shit, like you basically did a bed with this nigga. This nigga should be kissing every video toes when you come

home and you still want to come home on bullshit. So the fact that you were like you over it pace me with your sister, well, I feel like you wasted too many years as it is, so go reclaim with your kids. Ship. I had an understanding though with lot of like my my cousins, and you know, don't bring me around no female you're not serious about, you know, because then don't you don't put me in that position that really have to give a fuck about none of that because I'm gonna

keep it real. And if you don't want me to keep it real, then was what you put these these you don't ask those don't answer questions that ain't asked. Oh yeah, I'm not gonna just come home and be like, see somebody sitting on the couch with my cousin, Be like, girl, you stupid. You know I ain't gonna do that. But you know you're gonna bring somebody in and you're gonna get us close. Then I'm gonna treat them like I treat my friends. And I might not I might not

say to win, what where's and why? Who telling you to be friends? Now? I mean I've dealt with that where it's like, especially like dealing with a nigga who got a sister, and sometimes I be on the yeah, listen, no, don't be on her side. I think sometimes y'all fa to realize that, yes, y'all family, y'all are niggas, but we are also women who have been in certain situations. And to see exactly that's the whole point. We are niggas who've been in certain situations.

Okay, who side that we're supposed to take the right side? All right? Then? So who sides you're supposed to be on the right side? So what side is that? You've been on dude side before before? It's not different, you've been on dou side. We want you all to be together, no woman, though, I'm gonna keep it real with my bro to be honest before I even really get into any right, if you want to estize me and your spare time, do it as you will everything from

this bitch when she go home. Yes, by all means yell at wine, win you buggers while you got her out here, Look at band like that. She's stupid, juice stupid, say whatever you want, but when she and the presidence of you, you are like Switzerland. And that is why a lot of women don't like niggas mamas, because that's exactly what they do. Know in a whole hole. Was just over here walking out the back door while you pulling up to the front door to get food brought to

you. And she know her son ain't ship. I remember what you worried about the wrong thing you worried about the holes we bring it in and out. You know, my mama, This beitch don't know my mama. Apparently your mama let her walk out the back door. My mama said, who is My mama is still asking me which one was that one? Exactly. I used to have a boyfriend. His mama used to take me to paddle to give her son time to ye activity while we got niggas now did what

we complaining about? Hey, family ain't always family, like Burdo. This nigga practically begged me to give his homeboy a chance because I don't you know, I don't like they also beat up your boyfriend. This nigga that would see Rizzie started that that was direct he started. But this nigga practically begged me to give his homeboys just like no man cool, like you really feeling

you blah blah blah blah blah blah. So I ended up actually dating Dog only for this same nigga who talked me, my cousin who talked me and is giving his homeboy a chance. These two niggas is going off together. Mm hmmm, Like, Bro, you are the one who pitched this ship and then was riding shotgun. Now, I don't remember when I told you earlier I cut that nigga thumb off. I think subconsciously my mom was like,

fuck this nigga, and that's what happened. Maybe I did see a movie his thumb and I just didn't give a fuck before it was after, So you cut this thumb after this happened, Yeah, I said, subconsciously, it might have been. It might have been a trigger like yeah, fuck that nigga. He ain't for you anywhere whatever, nigga. But yeah, I forget we didn't. You didn't listen. We are going to go ahead and get out of here because you know it's getting late, yes,

and I have to run all over the city. Now. Yeah, my ride be texting me for like an hour and just oh ship where she at? See now, jelly I'm now jelly Bean. We were talking about she just got on the bus from where she didn't I didn't say she had to work today? So where she at? Because she doesn't want to pay for when I was why she got the motherfuckers all the time. But then does

she responsible for being bro owned? She because I cut it off now it's m C T. Yes, I should be having to write upers off on my tax public. That's a whole nother podcast I got. I got the best story and pictures to prove it. I feel like old people. Listen,

listen though I've been on I've been on the bus. I've been riding the bus for for a while now, right, and I really could do I should do a podcast from the back of the bus because listen, you see bro like just the little time that I was doing it free so people can just get on it and just ride back and forth up and down Wisconsin. Wisconsin, y'all, Wisconsin is already wisconsinant okay, and baby Wisconsin was a wild pleaser. It's ten degrees outside of this is a nigga with the

shorts passes sty he got it on the new balances. He got the ship with the holes in the sleeve for your thumb. I don't get why there's a thumb hole in your sleeve hole, but he got those on as some gloves and they run. You ain't never did, so somebody did this today's sleeve. It was like, damn, this would be dope if my fucking thumbs was out, And like, hey man, you put your rollo,

put it on backwards a snuggie. I got something. Hey listen, they made a lot of or when niggas took shower caps and put them over bowls mmmm to cover leftover. I still say, somebody owe my mama some money, because my mama used to hand make these these holders that you hang from the doorknob, and you stuffed the bags in there so you can pull them

out one by one. And now that's like a whole product. And and it's it's so many ideas that I have that I never said because I know Google and should be listening, and they got the capital that I don't got, and I know motherfuckers will get rich off my ship. So I just be sitting on so many ideas. If I had like investment, shit, yeah I need some capital right now or something I want to do this summer. But we are going to go ahead and close out. I want to

thank you guys for tuning into this week's episode. Thank you Toda for coming through. You are welcome any time, literally anytime. We are here every single week. So if you ever got a free mumber, like you know what, I want to go, get some shit off my chest, come on down. You will never if I'm in the house, I'll be in the comments. You will never ever be turned away. So if you weren't

able to tune in for the full live, it's all good. You know, you always gets to replay or wait for the audio episodes to drop on all your favorite streaming platforms on Tuesday at ten am. Fuck Ken for snowing in the background. So you know, if you didn't see the full live, maybe you miss that part. But that that Nigga is terrible and he is not invited back while he is intoxicated. Under any circumstances that Nigga will be outside in the parking lott So yeah, until next time, we got a ho