Hey, humans. How's it going? Susan, Ruth here. Thanks. Listening to another episode of Hey Human Podcast. This is episode 379, and I had a conversation with Daniel Edwards. Daniel is a seasoned human design analyst. What is human design? You ask? It is combining elements of astrology, the ech, Kabbalah, and chakra system to quote, create a comprehensive map of your unique energy configuration, offering insights into your strengths, challenges, and potential life path,
unquote. Uh, it was really interesting, uh, to talk to Daniel about this. He, of course, kindly did some of my chart on the show, which was fun and pretty accurate. I gotta say. There was stuff he said, I thought, yeah, yeah, that's definitely me. Uh, he is also the founder of Danny guru.com and Human Design Advantage. He has a rumble page, which can be found at Rumble page, wait rumble.com, I guess. It's, uh, under Human design advantage.
And he digs into the charts of all sorts of well-known people. So that's really interesting just to see how that compares to how people present themselves and what their charts say. I don't know. I always find it all quite, quite intriguing. All right, check out, hey, human podcast.com for links. And to learn more about my guests and the show, check out susan root.com to learn more about me and my other artistic endeavors, and to see lots of interviews with me that other people did with me,
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please rate and review the show. I appreciate it to no end. And thank you for listening. Be well, be kind, be love and stay healthy. Yeah. Okay, here we go. Daniel Edwards, welcome to Hey, human. Hey, how's it going, Susan? It's nice to be here. It's going really well, and I'm glad to have you here. It's, uh, you reached out to me on, I think it was on Instagram. Yes.
It was. I found you because you had, uh, done a podcast with Brandon, uh, Joe Williams, and I have watched every one of his videos twice, but I heard your style and I just remember saying, oh God, she needs this. I, I need to just, so it became a generated response. L o l. So. Yeah. And by this you mean, uh, what we're gonna get into, which you are a practitioner and facilitator, I would say, of something called human design. Indeed. Can you explain what that is and how you came upon it?
Is it something you've been doing your whole life, or it's. No, no, it hasn't it, but it saved my life. So it was about maybe 2008 or so I had, or eight or nine. I lose track now. I had just run into, um, somebody who practiced human design, and I didn't give it much thought that in the moment I thought it was interesting. And I left it at that because I'm busy little generator. And, uh, and then it didn't take long before I realized, cent,
there's something to this. And I, I went from sort of doubting it, like, Hey, I don't think we have this technology yet. I just, I'm looking at your chart. Yeah, I just didn't believe we have that technology. I'm like, we don't know this yet. This is beyond our capability. And, and then it got revealed to me by my very first teacher, and she said, listen, give me your children's information. 'cause she was wanting to make a demonstration. And I gave it to her,
and she started telling me about my kids and my jaw hit the floor. Uh, and I needed it too. I was having this terrible, I've been so healthy my whole life. Everything was fine. And then through, uh, you know, a a, a divorce that had gone on and some chaos. I'm in the mortgage business, you know, that's my day job. Um, and, and it was hectic. And this was around the time of the crash, you know, when everything fell apart. And then anxiety came into my life,
and I didn't know what this was. I'd never heard of. I mean, I, I didn't know. And, you know, your heart starts tacking at, you know, 180 for no reason, and you just don't know why that is. And quickly, I had to turn to medication and a talk doctor, and then they put me on something that addicted my body and I didn't know, um, it wasn't their fault. Um, the very first one. Then I got to another practitioner who was, you know, just,
she's been with me this whole time. I love her. But at the same time, I didn't wanna be there, obviously, you know, who does. And now I'm hooked on a medication. I mean, my body needed it. And I was like, this can't be the end of this. This can't be right. I can't, this is, no, I just remember it's. Medication. Alprazolam. It's a benzodiazepine. Which I am still in the process of weaning off of. I am now down to, like, my weaning process is so regimented at this moment, like within a few months.
I should finally be clear of it, maybe three or four months. And I'm real excited about that. I just remember this gut feeling of no, no, just, no, it can't be. And then human design came into my life, and apparently I needed to know, apparently the forces wanted me to get out and teach. And, you know, my whole life, I've been like a believer in God, but we never went to church. So I just, you know, did the normal thing. If something's really bad, you start,
you find Jesus really quicker. Right? Or, you know, you pray to go, please God, please God. No, no, you know, and then, and then you'll live. 'cause I took a lot of chances when I was little. But, um, but then it started to come into my life and I started to realize I'm, I'm still not very religious, but there is some kind of creation going on. And, and I realized the perfection of everyone's form. And I realized this stuff was baked into the process from the very beginning.
And as soon as we were smart enough as humans to understand that, Hey, we have a design. Everyone knows they're different. You're different. I'm different. No two people are the same. Maybe there's information that will keynote this that we can talk about and put names to things so people can truly know what they are and what they're not. Once I threw myself into human design, that was it. I was called, and I, and I literally, I, I was in it, you know, full, full on.
And I've been there ever since. Um, even last night I did four and a half hours with one gal. She, she kept sucking information from me and I couldn't stop. And sort of like with you, remember, we had to stop when I read for you. Yeah. It went on and on for sure. Uh, not in a bad way, just, it's a lot of information. Can you give the boilerplate pitch of what human design is in the simplest of terms for people to understand? Absolutely. So human design is the science of genetic differentiation.
What it tells us is it tells us what we are and what we're not. It shows up on a body graph, and it maps out these things called codons 64 genetic codons are in our body. It maps 'em out. It gives them names. And when I pull up your information, I'm able to call out and speak in a language that is you. And suddenly we start to see that you have a strategy and authority. You have an imprinting that I can read. Anyone can read it if they study and do the work.
And you're always walk away understanding, wow, this is, this is no longer astrology. It's not astrology anymore. It's no longer any of the older sciences that were these esoterics that people don't, if you're smart, you'll, you'll look into it, but you can't really make decisions with it. Human design comes along and it says, here's a practical way for you to make decisions as yourself. You know, period. And, and suddenly you start to jettison the mind, which we call ego.
I notice it's in the spiritual community. It's very much called ego and mind. And, and we need mind. But we start to get rid of that for, in favor of realizing who we are. So the short answer is, human design is an imprinting of your differentiation. That which makes you different. It's super reliable. And you don't even have to take my word for it, just call it in and I'll demonstrate this for you. And next thing you know, you start to get yourself back. And how does it work?
Basically, we needed our, our, we needed science to really get this thing down. 'cause we needed measurement of small things. So how it works is, uh, the breadth of stars, we've always known we were star dust, right? And in that, we've always known that we're connected. We've always known this. So what happens is the sun pours out these subatomic particles called neutrinos. And these things are so small, they rip right through speed at near the speed of light, right through planets,
right through material. They're pouring through. All of us, trillions per square inch per second are pouring through you and I and all of our listeners here. And we can't see it. You know, we don't know what it is, but our genome does, the genetics in our body do. So at the moment of our birth, at the moment of separation from our mother, the genome inside of our body does many things. And one of them is, is it picks up its differentiation. It says, oh,
there's this field of this tiny stuff pouring past us. And it says, it's different because I'm born at this time and this place and all the planets and everything is in a certain spot. So as this new trino ocean pours in on us, the various planets, you know, they'll color it ever so slightly as Mars will treat that neutrino stream differently than will Jupiter or the moon. It's slight difference. We can't tell what that is. You can't see it. But our genome does.
And that's what it, it picks up the differentiation of what all of that is. Five minutes later, everything has moved, and the next kid born in that nursery is slightly different. We can read that difference. And it's, it's stunning right down to about a minute or two's worth of difference. Once you get smaller than that, people end up with the same, basically the same chart, but they still won't have the same life. 'cause they'll go home to different families, .
And they still need to be read as their own unique being. But with that kind of differentiation, you can start to see there's seven or 8 billion of us on the planet, and we're all different. We're all different. And the thing about that whole date of birth thing, Hey, what's your date of birth? Right? That's cute. That's fun to ask. And then someone will look up an astrology charter, they'll do a numerology thing based on your name and your date of birth and all.
And the science community treats that as, again, esoteric knowledge that, you know, they can't quite find a backbone for. Like they can, our genome, our genome is well mapped out. You know, we've got a backbone for that, that's rooted in measurements we can see. But they couldn't measure that stuff because ah, you know, you get an astrology reading, it doesn't quite tell you everything about who you are and how you're gonna make
decisions. Tomorrow. If anyone's had an astrology reading, they do know, Hey, those astrology guys, they were onto something because this person is describing me. Right. Have, have you ever had your astrology read, Ms. Susan? I. Have. I've had a vedic astrology and general astrology that was quite, I say general meaning the overall of astrology, but it was specific to my time of birth and placement of birth and all that. Who created human design? Where, where does it come from originally?
Before I get that, can I ask you a question about your astrology reading? Just one quick quickie. It's just, and it's, it's a general question. It's just, so each time you had it, if the practitioner was, you know, pretty intuitive, you noticed that you walked away with, oh my goodness, they're describing me.
Yes. I personally think if you dive deep enough, that's my own personal belief, that when you get the time of day, day, the birthplace and all that, that, that you have to get that deep into it. And then it starts getting pretty interesting. There have been scientific experiments where they basically give everybody the same reading, and they all say, oh my God, that's me. But of course, they're all different, but they think they've been given their own specific reading mm-hmm.
. So I do think that we, our brains are programmed to find ourselves in things, especially when somebody says, this is you, you will latch onto things that feels similar, that, that identify you, because that's all we are, these beings trying to find an identity that's what lifetime doing. Um, it's kinda like when I bought my scion every, there were scions everywhere. And I, I thought, how I've never seen a Scion before, and now I see them in every single place.
Right? I mean, that's a, that's a true phenomenon. So, but that being said, and my awareness of that being said, I myself have received readings where they got so specific that it would seem hard to hand that to someone else and have them find. Right areas. Right. Right. Especially the ve the Vedic astrologer. He was actually a guest, Don, hey human. He was able to see particular traumas that I had in childhood that nobody knew about at the time. Sure. Sure.
And so that was really interesting. That's. Because those astrology guys, they, uh, guys and gals, they were, they were onto something. What they were onto is if you take all of astrology, Vedic or otherwise, you'll realize there's this one principle. The principle is, hey, everyone seems to be made a little bit different in a way we can sort of read, depending on where the planets are and where the stars are in the background.
So on your, on your date of birth, there's a certain, uh, you know, astrological zodiac in the sky in a certain place. And then the other 11 zodiacs are also si signs are, are where they're supposed to be. And with that being said, depending on where the planets are, this seems to mean something to us humans. What they were aware of is that the neutrino field that's pouring off the breath of stars, we've measured this, we have measured this since 99.
We got it confirmed what they're aware of, that this energy as it pours through, it differentiates us. And then 10 minutes later it pours through differently because everything has shifted and it differentiates us differently. And that's what they were aware of. The only thing they couldn't do was they didn't have nasa, they didn't have our ability to tell us where Jupiter is, to within a meter, you know, at an exact as method. At an exact degree on the horizon. You know, literally, um, uh.
Galileo did pretty good, sort of Copernicus, but Yeah, I, I knew what you're saying. Yeah, they. Did great. They did. They just, but they, what I'm getting, you know what I'm saying? They didn't have Yeah, I get it. Mass. They didn't have the exact, uh, composition, makeup, all that stuff. So once we had all that, we realized that, hey, it really is making a difference. Um, but back to your other question.
So a man named Rah Uru, who as often are these downloads, these revelations that come to the planet, they seem to come through a person. And so he was originally Robert Allen Krakauer from I think Montreal, Canada. And, um, had a hard life. He was a manifester, an ego manifester with a splenic definition. You don't need to know what that is. It's just this particular type.
And he was getting angry all the time. And he finally had enough, blew his top, washed out a society, ended up on, on, in a visa. He just took whatever money he had. He, he was fairly wealthy. He wasn't loaded, but he had, he had enough. And he took whatever his little suitcase of cash was, whatever that was. And he hightailed it out of society. He just went dark. In fact, his family thought he had passed away. That's how dark he went.
And he was on an island called Ibiza, right outside of Spain, middle or early eighties. And then at some point in 1987, it was sort of like a bundle of consciousness, basically. Took him over for eight days. You can watch his, uh, YouTube video about, it's called the Encounter. This is where the leap comes in. Because if I start with this, with somebody who's scientifically oriented,
they're gonna roll their eyes at me. So I never start with that. But it's, this is his story of who am I to say, you know, he delivered the knowledge. And I've been using it. We've all been using it ever since. In 1987, somewhere around the, I think it was on the 2nd of January, from the second to the 9th of January, 1987, rah took a trip. Basically. He, he didn't go anywhere else. He was on Earth.
It's just that he, his body was taken over. It was literally taken over by what, by what he referred to as a crystal bundle, containing these crystals of consciousness. And it informed to infuse him with the knowledge over eight days and eight nights at that point, or maybe shortly before, or a, I don't know when he changed his name to Rah Uru, I assume it was after he started to give this information out to the people that
were local to him. He thought he'd gone crazy. But there he was, with that experience, he started drawing it out and realizing, oh my God, this, this is us. I think he was chosen because he was a misfit, meaning he'd left society so no one would recognize in case he didn't survive. No one would know. Um, he was also a denier. He was a huge nihilist. He taught science. He was a, not a high level physicist, but he studied physics.
And he had his college degree in physics and math. And so he taught, you know, school and, and junior high and high school and certain college classes, and as well as he did other things in life. And, um, and so I think he was chosen because he was an nihilist. He, he, he would deny stuff. He'd be like, astrology, what is that? You know, prove it. Prove it is what he would say to people. And so when you turn a person like that, they themselves get called into the fire.
They leap into that void. And so, because how, how can they not? I, I was like that too. I was a bit of a nihilist. And when it was shown to me, I was like, oh my God. And I had to tell everyone, you know, um, I was like, you can't, you can't be serious. This is amazing. From that came, the knowledge came, the book came. The crowds of people that started coming came the school, the International Human Design School. I never went to that school.
They were two regimented for me. I studied, I studied through raw and through two separate teachers and on my own. And came another three other schools and the Human Design Jovian Archive, which pulls these charts and came scientific studies that showed that type is something that's consistent on this planet. And ever since then, you know, we've been growing readers, people who can read, there's nowhere near enough of us yet that can actually intuitively read
proficiently and stay at it. So we're just hoping to grow the numbers. Nobody walks away from a human design reading. If we get to 'em saying, that's bs, then no, no way. At the end of it, just like with what happened with you, it's like, wow, okay. I guess there's something here. And the goal is to get to the kids. Sooner or later, when children are raised as according to their design, they don't grow up with a chip on their shoulder. Unlike you and I,
we have hangups. And the only way to get rid of 'em, I, I don't know anyone who gets out alive. Everyone's got a hangup and they got tons of them and their fears and their right, and they're right, and all the stuff that holds 'em back and their self-limiting beliefs and the mess inside our mind that's always talking, right? Never shuts up. Human design decondition us as adults out of that. And the next thing you know, after a few years, within the first month or two,
you're starting to live out your design. If you step into the experiment, my job is to enter you into that experiment and to enter whoever gets read into that experiment. And the next thing you know, you start living out your nature and you start witnessing, seeing is believing. So when you witness, oh my God, I did that. I consistently do that. And that's not me. The chip on your shoulder starts to go away. The hangup, the fear, the concern, I'm not worthy. I'm not good enough. I,
I can't be certain will I ever find love? There's a good one, right? Love and direction. Um, I'm under too much pressure. I can't think all of these things that you think you think are you, they're not. And you find out that there's a chemistry inside your body that's giving you your new awareness. And the chemistry inside your body is telling you the truth. And it's aware, it revealed the second consciousness, this duality that we've always had.
We call it a gut feeling, by the way. And we know that gut feeling. It tells us amazing things once in a while, right? That gut feeling that says, oh, don't go here, go there, whatever it is. And it steers us once in a while and it saves our bacon. But we don't give it any credence. We don't give it real credence. Like we can depend on it. I don't think we talked about my love life in ours. I don't think we got that yet.
, if you, if, if you recall when I sent you your recording, right? No. And we should, uh, when I sent you a recording, if you recall, I usually write on there. 'cause I say, this isn't a reading, this is class. And I said, hu, human design or, or foundational analysis, one of two or one of three. There's another session coming, um, your way and or two or three, um, usually three will do it. And it gets you fully into everything.
And then I have to stick around to help coach people through the process. So, 'cause they really wanna get to their kids. If their parents, 'cause they see what happens, their kids start self-doubting themselves over things that aren't them. When just a few years earlier at three, four, and five, they were still so perfect that just wasn't there. And intuitive parents start to realize, oh, my child is coming across these, I don't want them to have that.
But they don't know how to stop it until they get the owner's manual, which shows them exactly what their child is and isn't. So I forget how old you are, but I'm 57 and when I was young, I remember the book was Dr. Spock, my mom had that book. Uh, everyone in the neighborhood had Dr. Spock How to Raise Your Child book. And then there was another one,
A few people have come along how to raise your child. And you know, that boomed and got big and I can point to your child's differentiation and show you the owner's manual to your child that supersedes any book that you could ever get. Not that people who write books aren't intuitively clear on certain things that are wicked important. Take it in. It's true. Take that in. But get the owner's manual and get the foundational information as to what that
really is. If you're a couple, then you know, if there's a love life, if there's a special other in your life, shoot me as information. We'll look up this chart and I'll put you two guys together. And suddenly through the mechanics of the human design body graph, I can tell you where you struggle. What's not wrong with your partner that you might get a little annoyed with and tell him the same about you. I've never met two people that are like, we're in that only . Right? Have you,
I've never met that. Um, you know, no, no problems here ever. . I've never met that. So. Give an example using my chart of something that you. Lemme look at it right here. Gimme a second. Facilitated or as ascertained, uh. Oh. This, I love this ego definition that you have. Susan. Remember I would've pointed out to you at some point that there's a warrior spirit inside of you, you're aware of.
You're willing to take risks and jump into things. And, and there goes, Susan, she's just hopping into the thing. And I would've pointed out how you can't help but to be called into certain things when the calling comes. You hop up on your white horse and you're out telling everyone, and they can't shut you up. They, they. And if they try to, you move on to the next. This is a very specific, not everyone else has that.
I would've pointed out the struggle nature of this, uh, this channel of, uh, it's called the channel of struggle. But it has everything to do with stubbornly being yourself. So when someone comes along and tries to tell Susan to be different, Susan can't, can't hear it. But you've seen many people fall to other folks telling them how to be, and then they start to self-doubt and, and question it. And you recognize long ago that that's not true. You can't help it that,
you know, Susan, I need you to be this way. And you'll be like, oh no, maybe what, what are you talking about? Oh, and then pretty quickly it's no, absolutely not. And I would've pointed out this, um, identity of yours that has this warrior spirit that loves to leap. Let's leap into the thrilling thing and a sadness that comes when there's nothing new, nothing new under the sun, nothing exciting, no exciting. And suddenly there's a melancholy that rips through your body.
This is a genetic process by the way. It's meant to make you smarter. And that melancholy is, I'm sad 'cause there's nothing new under the sun. I can't tell if it's new and exciting. And I'm starting to feel insignificant. And that's when the warrior spirit is willing to take a chance again and leap into something new. Last, I would've pointed out as a projector, you're a projector type, so you can be prone to overdoing it. Sometimes you have to learn your own rest reward cycle.
You'll have to go into a hermit shell. And, and you have this incredible hermit thing that you just get away from everything and you just hermit yourself. And I probably would've described to you how that's a self-protective measure that keeps you free of the influence of others. As soon as they try influencing you, you just go in your room, closed door. Bye. When you were young, if your parents said, oh, you're being punished, we're sending you to your room.
I would've pointed out that that wasn't a punishment. You could find yourself entertained with, you know, blocks on the floor. It, it just wouldn't have mattered. You could have been counting stitches in the rug if you got suddenly doing that. The next thing you know, you one hour time out went by like nothing. And that was common for you. What else would I have pointed out? I mean, these would've been the big things that I would've pointed out.
I wouldn't have been able to get to everything. So you're still do another read? Mm-hmm. . It's interesting. I do think that I have come across people that have tried to change my base personality. Mm-hmm. I definitely rebelled against that. I am very open and nonjudgmental and curious. So it hasn't, it has little to do with how I perceive the world. It's about how the world perceives me. Right. And their perception of you is not your problem.
It has been a process of learning about myself to not allow what other people think of me to get in my head. No. And it's important. I'm looking at your incarnation, cross this cross of the unexpected. And this is where you find yourself unexpectedly influential. Where you, it's like, oh my God, how'd that happen? That's a path that you can count on continuing to happen. It's something that just happens.
And you are very tribal being when it comes to finding out what does and doesn't work as it relates to the support and the nurture of the principles that are gonna guide the tribe. So it finds you, you have a trajectory that's always gonna be in service of support to, in supportiveness to people. I love this cross of the unexpected because what it says is, I'm willing to take a risk for what I care for. And when I do unexpected things,
ta take place. Like you'll map out oh, x, y, and Z, but that ain't what happens. Is that, is that true? Yeah. I would say that's accurate. Yeah. Think unexpected things happen all the time, which is delightful and bizarre. I mean, I'm left scratching my head on many occasions wondering how mm-hmm. something came to be. Well. Let me ask you, what was, when we were done with our session? I, I remember 'cause it, by the time an hour and a half or two hours goes by,
people get tired, you know? I get Yeah. It's. A lot to take in. It's, it's, it's, but somewhere, you know, afterwards or at some point in time you had some kind of takeaway. You probably had some takeaways from that. Do you remember the sense of when I was reading for you, do you remember any sense you had of of, of wow. It felt grounding. It felt grounding in, in that the, the things that you said you have to be aware of are struggles that I've had in life. Certainly.
And then the things that you said that I am steadfast to and really grounded in those things were very true. And what I feel about my place in the world that, that I have moments of melancholy where I think, what's the point of any of this. Mm-hmm. , the rest of the world seems to be really contented in being where it is instead of moving to the next level, whatever that means. Right. You know, I don't know. So it is a, it's a conundrum. So it's interesting.
It's, it's, well, we don't get to know what's next. That's for fortune tellers and, and, and maybe psychics of some sort. I don't know. I don't, I might have that in me. I'm not aware of it. But, um, we. Do. I think it comes from my own exhaustion though. I think what happens is I push myself so hard in so many different directions that I think my brain falls out and I have to scoop up my brain, not talk to anyone for 24 hours and, and Right. Celebrate.
Right. No, I totally get it. And you do. And it's important. So yeah. So you came away with a sense that there's, that you were getting information. When we do round two, I'll get into these open centers that are in your body graph to show you why that busy brain of yours trying to solve the mystery and come up with the formulas that you wanna explain. I'm keynoting you right now. Aren't they? They're not paramount. These are aspects in you that are only intermittent.
Have you noticed this giant mystery solver that's in you? It's like there's a mystery. There's a mystery, there's a mystery. And suddenly in some pulse of a moment, the mystery gets solved. And if it doesn't get solved, it drives you crazy. Have you have and have you, oh, this. One. Which is why in my downtime, this is gonna make you laugh, but in my downtime, I love to listen to murder mysteries and who Dunt and Sherlock Holmes.
And I get the Christie's because I, and I figure it out about halfway through or the very, you know, and I love, I'm like, Ooh, I know who done it, then I get to wait to see if I'm right. Right. Right. Did for some reason that relax. , how do you make out? Do you, you you write half the time or more on or about Oh. No, I'm always right. Oh. Oh. That's so funny. Yeah. It's no surprise. It's absolutely no surprise. Um. I I'm looking forward to the relationship one . Yeah.
I can tell you this just about dating in general because you and I have the same profile. It is a bonding strategy. So there's 12 profiles in human design, and that means, uh, every, the planet is busted up into 12 sections. So what would that be about half a billion people per profile. A little, little more. And there's a, there's a very specific, um, bonding strategy. And for you and I, it is shyness before boldness. And then, and then it's confidant or not our mate must be our confidant.
And that's hard to find 'cause it means friends first. Yeah. First and a deep trust that you are, uh, that what you say stays within the relationship. Confidant or not, that's the keynoting. They are a confidant. I mean, con that's the, that's inherent in the term. So when I read human design for you, if anyone gets their design read and we do this analysis, it's keynoting meaning words. And suddenly by the end, I'm speaking in a language that is you. And that's what we did with, you know,
with you. And we get to the second session that'll happen. Shyness before boldness is something that's easy to flip around accidentally when you're younger. And our hormones are raging, right? I mean, we're all young. It's definitely always been me shyness before boldness. And I will, when I tell people I'm shy, they are shocked because in every other aspect of my life, I will talk to any stranger anytime about anything. Yeah. And it comes to my heart. It, uh,
I am a very slow burn. Slow. Mm-hmm. . It's supposed to be that way. Well, so I grew up in the late seventies and eighties and that meant that, you know, there was still all that macho dude conditioning in my life. But, you know, not my fault. That's what I grew up in. And so I was under great pressure to, you know, be all studly unmanly and all that stupid stuff. So I lost track of shyness before boldness, but that's what I wanted.
And the thing is, but I didn't know that. And I thought that that was like, made me look somehow, you know, whatever, like I had to fit in. So I, I felt, I felt prey to the peer pressure. And lo and behold, nothing worked out ever because I, I was bold first, you know? Um, even though I was shy going in, I'd have these incredible nerves. For all I know, that was part of my anxiety later in life. These little anchors, negative anchors I threw into myself that weren't mean.
And that's why we wanna get to the parents, to get to your kids so that they can know what's the scoop. You know what I mean? Uh, so you can treat your kid according to their design. You're a projector. I would've counseled your parents. Make sure you're recognizing, you know, your child. They need recognition. Don't worry about the generators. They just need a, they need some walls around them so that they don't run out into the road too easily. Your projector needs mental stimulation.
They need to master little systems, little ones at first, bigger and bigger. And you need to literally stop what you're doing. No multitasking when they come to you so that they feel recognized if you do this religiously and invite them in. Because invitation is the thing that feeds the projector. Um, me as a generator, I have to wait to respond. I don't get to know anything until I'm reoriented as a responder to it. And I was taught to initiate all the time. No,
go out and do it and make it happen. Oh no. Oh no. That made me sick. It'll make every generator not have a, not self life. But for you, if your parents had known these few key things, they would, and had taken it to heart, they would plant themselves squarely in your face, put down their thing, whatever they're doing, and be like, sweetie, what is it? And you'd feel recognized. You'd intuitively feel the love. 'cause parents love their kids, right? And, and they, they're supposed to.
So let's pres, let's pretend everything's perfect in that case. But you would've felt that recognition. And by the time you were 14, between 14 and 18, you would've never accepted anyone coming into your life that didn't do that for you. We would've trained you and conditioned you from a young age to be like, this is how it's supposed to be. So now when people don't do that, you'd be able to recog your projectors are here to recognize everything.
You're recognizers you recognize when we're burning up too much energy. You recognize when you are being recognized, you recognize when people are, aren't recognizing you, but they're trying to sort of just get you for something, you know, and sort of they're. Trying to take advantage. Yeah. Take. Advantage. You recognize that, you know, relatively quickly. Um, now. I do, I didn't in the beginning, but now I do. Right. Right. Because you weren't raised according to your design, had you been,
all of these things would've come much quicker. And, and had I been, I would've waited to respond more. So I wouldn't have jumped into every last stupid thing that came along thinking I had to prove how cool I was. You know what I'm saying? It's all very fascinating. I, I think that, I know for me, I really enjoyed the first part of the human design reading you did for me. And I look forward to the other parts. I'm sure people listening,
there are those who will be rolling their eyes. That's fine. Of course, for those people who are rolling their eyes, I almost challenge them just to do it to see, because please, that's kind of fun too. It's fun to not believe in something and then dig into it and just see where it takes you. That was me in the beginning. Yeah. So tell people how they might find you. Uh, I don't even mind. I give out my phone number. You can text me. Just don't write too much of a book.
But it's 4 1 3 2 4 6 5 6 5 2. If you want this, then I, I want you, I want to give it to you. So I'll, I'll generate the energy for that. I have my personal Instagram before I sort of set up one that I, I tried to, you know, get as a more business one, but d a guru HD on Instagram or Human Design Advantage. So that's the one where I have a website, human Design Advantage.
YouTube is where we do the most stuff. And um, and, uh, you can text me or, or Instagram is where I'm most likely to see your message faster. Texting is where I'll see your message for sure. Quickly. Even my email is danny g@dannyguru.com. D a n n y g uu. Yep. Thanks. Thanks for that. I would've rolled right past that. Thanks for recognizing that. I'll put links on hey human podcast.com that will directly take people to you and, and your work. Mm-hmm. It's really interesting.
I think anytime there's people on the planet helping others understand who they are and why they are, then that's a good thing. So. Human design is, is a scientific knowledge. It's empirical. You can see it for yourself. It is based in our genome and it's, it's left the field of the esoteric, uh, it, it can be proven to the person just by witnessing it. And it's, it's baked into all of us. So that's my pitch for anyone who's a doubter.
And if you're not a doubter, yeah, call it in. I wanna read for you. I want you to have it. Thank you so much, Daniel. I really appreciate it. And thank you for listening, everybody. You. Bet. This is great. Thanks. Sorry, I didn't mean to interrupt you. No. This is great. I loved it. I love being here with you. You, you bring the best out of me. You did last time. And you do now. I appreciate you. Oh, that's very kind. Thank you. Thank you so much. Thanks for listening everybody. Bye. To Lou.
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