In this episode Jody discusses how she learned how unhealed she was the longer she was in relationships. She talks about all the wild things she's experienced and how part of the reason she held on to these relationships is because of patriarchal and sexist programming. The other reason was... she was dickmatized. Can you relate? Thank god that's no longer her reality... well the unhealed part... She's still subject to being dickmatized every now and then, but she's more discerning and logical a...
Apr 09, 2025•40 min•Ep. 219
In this episode Jody discusses how she learned how unhealed she was the longer she was in relationships. She talks about all the wild things she's experienced and how part of the reason she held on to these relationships is because of patriarchal and sexist programming. The other reason was... she was dickmatized. Can you relate? Thank god that's no longer her reality... well the unhealed part... She's still subject to being dickmatized every now and then, but she's more discerning and logical a...
Apr 09, 2025•40 min•Ep. 218
Welcome to another Her Nut Matters Skinemax episode — a spicy, unfiltered deep dive into the steamiest scenes from your favorite erotic films. In this exclusive series, we break down the seduction, the fantasy, the kink, and the cringe, all while asking the real questions: What turns us on, and why? This episode features Temptation: Confessions of a Marriage Counselor, and trust us — it gets real juicy and FUNNY. 👀 🔥 These episodes are for Patreon subscribers only. To watch or listen to the fu...
Apr 06, 2025•45 min•Ep. 221
Welcome to another Her Nut Matters Skinemax episode — a spicy, unfiltered deep dive into the steamiest scenes from your favorite erotic films. In this exclusive series, we break down the seduction, the fantasy, the kink, and the cringe, all while asking the real questions: What turns us on, and why? This episode features Temptation: Confessions of a Marriage Counselor, and trust us — it gets real juicy and FUNNY. 👀 🔥 These episodes are for Patreon subscribers only. To watch or listen to the fu...
Apr 06, 2025•45 min•Ep. 220
In this episode, Jody gives a life update talking about her recent visit to the Sex Club (The Office ENT), some new toys she's tried from Honey Love, and a nice gift she received from Risky Dinner Convo. She also discusses sexual freedom and what she thinks is important to unlocking that sexual freedom. If you would like to get a testing kit: https://www.blkroomproject.com/risky-get-tested-contact Watch the Risky Dinner Convo Screening: https://youtu.be/VIFWwhFYWb4 Use promo code "SPRING20" Love...
Apr 04, 2025•36 min•Ep. 215
In this episode, Jody gives a life update talking about her recent visit to the Sex Club (The Office ENT), some new toys she's tried from Honey Love, and a nice gift she received from Risky Dinner Convo. She also discusses sexual freedom and what she thinks is important to unlocking that sexual freedom. If you would like to get a testing kit: https://www.blkroomproject.com/risky-get-tested-contact Watch the Risky Dinner Convo Screening: https://youtu.be/VIFWwhFYWb4 Use promo code "SPRING20" Love...
Apr 04, 2025•36 min•Ep. 214
Last year before the rebrand, Jody sat down with Koiya, the amazing curator behind Risky Dinner Conversations, an event to raise awareness of the HIV risk among African American women. Let's continue to practice safe sex but taking ownership of our experiences, getting tested, and maker better decisions. If you would like to watch the footage from the Risky Dinner Conversation, you may do that here: https://youtu.be/VIFWwhFYWb4 To order at home HIV test kits, click here: https://www.blkroomproje...
Mar 20, 2025•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 213
Let's run this one back today. This episode is from the PrHOEvocative podcast era. An oldie but a goodie. Let me know your thoughts. Enjoying the show? Want more?To receive exclusive episodes, bonus content, behind-the-scenes tea, and so much more —Subscribe to the Her Nut Matters Patreon patreon.com/hernutmatters Stay connected, shop merch, book events & more: beacons.ai/hernutmatters Follow us on Instagram: @HerNutMatters Heads up, babe: Her Nut Matters is now a Patreon-only experience. On...
Mar 13, 2025•33 min•Ep. 212
In this episode, Jody explores who is permitted to experience pleasure. Jody discusses the social and historical context in which we learn about pleasure. Enjoying the show? Want more?To receive exclusive episodes, bonus content, behind-the-scenes tea, and so much more —Subscribe to the Her Nut Matters Patreon patreon.com/hernutmatters Stay connected, shop merch, book events & more: beacons.ai/hernutmatters Follow us on Instagram: @HerNutMatters Heads up, babe: Her Nut Matters is now a Patre...
Mar 06, 2025•34 min•Ep. 211
In this episode, Jody explores who is permitted to experience pleasure. Jody discusses the social and historical context in which we learn about pleasure. Enjoying the show? Want more?To receive exclusive episodes, bonus content, behind-the-scenes tea, and so much more —Subscribe to the Her Nut Matters Patreon patreon.com/hernutmatters Stay connected, shop merch, book events & more: beacons.ai/hernutmatters Follow us on Instagram: @HerNutMatters Heads up, babe: Her Nut Matters is now a Patre...
Mar 06, 2025•34 min•Ep. 210
Jody sits down with close friend Jones from the Roses are Dead podcast to discuss an often overlooked topic: boys/men as victims of sexual assault. They discuss damaging narratives, social and historical contexts that contribute to how men feel safe and secure to speak up and advocate for themselves, the over-sexualization of young black boys and so much more. This one got deep, but there are some laughs as well. Enjoying the show? Want more?To receive exclusive episodes, bonus content, behind-t...
Feb 27, 2025•1 hr 13 min•Ep. 209
Jody sits down with close friend Jones from the Roses are Dead podcast to discuss an often overlooked topic: boys/men as victims of sexual assault. They discuss damaging narratives, social and historical contexts that contribute to how men feel safe and secure to speak up and advocate for themselves, the over-sexualization of young black boys and so much more. This one got deep, but there are some laughs as well. Enjoying the show? Want more?To receive exclusive episodes, bonus content, behind-t...
Feb 26, 2025•1 hr 13 min•Ep. 208
Jody recounts her earliest memories of consent and how she didn't really understand what consent was until she was an adult. She discusses how it's important to discuss what consent means as early as possible, and how consent can look different. This was a lot to unpack. It got vulnerable as well. Enjoying the show? Want more?To receive exclusive episodes, bonus content, behind-the-scenes tea, and so much more —Subscribe to the Her Nut Matters Patreon patreon.com/hernutmatters Stay connected, sh...
Feb 19, 2025•51 min•Ep. 207
Jody recounts her earliest memories of consent and how she didn't really understand what consent was until she was an adult. She discusses how it's important to discuss what consent means as early as possible, and how consent can look different. This was a lot to unpack. It got vulnerable as well. Enjoying the show? Want more?To receive exclusive episodes, bonus content, behind-the-scenes tea, and so much more —Subscribe to the Her Nut Matters Patreon patreon.com/hernutmatters Stay connected, sh...
Feb 19, 2025•51 min•Ep. 206
Jody dives deep into the history of women’s sexuality, exposing how societal repression, religious influence, and cultural taboos have shaped—and often stifled—female pleasure. Sharing her own personal journey from sexual restriction to full liberation, Jody breaks down how centuries of shame still impact women today and what we can do to reclaim autonomy, confidence, and pleasure in our sex lives. If you’ve ever struggled with guilt around desire, felt limited by outdated norms, or just want to...
Feb 12, 2025•36 min•Ep. 205
Jody dives deep into the history of women’s sexuality, exposing how societal repression, religious influence, and cultural taboos have shaped—and often stifled—female pleasure. Sharing her own personal journey from sexual restriction to full liberation, Jody breaks down how centuries of shame still impact women today and what we can do to reclaim autonomy, confidence, and pleasure in our sex lives. If you’ve ever struggled with guilt around desire, felt limited by outdated norms, or just want to...
Feb 12, 2025•36 min•Ep. 204
In this episode, Jody discusses a type of sexuality that is often overlooked... asexuality. What is asexuality? What does it mean? Jody discusses how we need to normalize discussing asexuality so that we better understand others who may not have the same level of desire/attraction as us. Enjoying the show? Want more?To receive exclusive episodes, bonus content, behind-the-scenes tea, and so much more —Subscribe to the Her Nut Matters Patreon patreon.com/hernutmatters Stay connected, shop merch, ...
Feb 04, 2025•22 min•Ep. 203
In this episode, Jody discusses a type of sexuality that is often overlooked... asexuality. What is asexuality? What does it mean? Jody discusses how we need to normalize discussing asexuality so that we better understand others who may not have the same level of desire/attraction as us. Enjoying the show? Want more?To receive exclusive episodes, bonus content, behind-the-scenes tea, and so much more —Subscribe to the Her Nut Matters Patreon patreon.com/hernutmatters Stay connected, shop merch, ...
Feb 04, 2025•22 min•Ep. 202
Today we dive into the fascinating intersection of psychedelics and sex. Our guests, owners of Mooonchild and psychedelic integration coaches and mycologists, share how these powerful fungi can transform intimacy, heighten sensory experiences, and help people reconnect with their bodies and partners. We explore how psychedelics can heal sexual trauma, break down emotional barriers, and even deepen relationships. From the science behind heightened pleasure to the cultural and historical roots of ...
Jan 22, 2025•1 hr 15 min•Ep. 197
Today we dive into the fascinating intersection of psychedelics and sex. Our guests, owners of Mooonchild and psychedelic integration coaches and mycologists, share how these powerful fungi can transform intimacy, heighten sensory experiences, and help people reconnect with their bodies and partners. We explore how psychedelics can heal sexual trauma, break down emotional barriers, and even deepen relationships. From the science behind heightened pleasure to the cultural and historical roots of ...
Jan 22, 2025•1 hr 15 min•Ep. 196
In this episode of Her Nut Matters, Jody dives into the heart of romance with special guest Demetri Wiley, host of The Lost Loverboy podcast. Known for his insights on love, relationships, and healing, Demetri joins us to explore the crucial role that romance plays in sexual relationships and lasting intimacy. Together, they unpack how romantic vulnerability can deepen connections, the balance of masculine and feminine energies in creating harmony, and whether Jody has ever made love... Tune in ...
Jan 15, 2025•1 hr 22 min•Ep. 195
In this episode, Her Nut Matters dives into the heart of romance with special guest Demetri Wiley, host of The Lost Loverboy podcast. Known for his insights on love, relationships, and healing, Demetri joins us to explore romance's crucial role in sexual relationships and lasting intimacy. Together, we unpack how romantic vulnerability can deepen connections, the balance of masculine and feminine energies in creating harmony, and whether Jody has ever made love... Tune in for a fresh perspective...
Jan 15, 2025•1 hr 22 min•Ep. 194
Jody's 2025 started with a BANG! In this episode, we recap 2024 and go into how 2025 began. In addition to her experience, she talked about her as an exhibitionist, erotic power and more. Tune in to this one, it escalates quickly. Enjoying the show? Want more?To receive exclusive episodes, bonus content, behind-the-scenes tea, and so much more —Subscribe to the Her Nut Matters Patreon patreon.com/hernutmatters Stay connected, shop merch, book events & more: beacons.ai/hernutmatters Follow us...
Jan 10, 2025•42 min•Ep. 201
Jody's 2025 started with a BANG! In this episode, we recap 2024 and go into how 2025 began. In addition to her experience, she talked about her as an exhibitionist, erotic power and more. Tune in to this one, it escalates quickly. Enjoying the show? Want more?To receive exclusive episodes, bonus content, behind-the-scenes tea, and so much more —Subscribe to the Her Nut Matters Patreon patreon.com/hernutmatters Stay connected, shop merch, book events & more: beacons.ai/hernutmatters Follow us...
Jan 08, 2025•42 min•Ep. 200
From the very beginning, Jody wanted to create a space to explore the good, bad, and ugly of sex—unapologetically and authentically. In this episode of Her Nut Matters, she shares her vision for this show and the community we’re building together: a space where we can live in our truths and embrace our shared experiences without judgment. Now more than ever, it’s vital to acknowledge that sex is a deeply human experience, and this platform exists to celebrate humanity in all its forms. If you’ve...
Jan 01, 2025•26 min•Ep. 192
From the very beginning, Jody wanted to create a space to explore the good, bad, and ugly of sex—unapologetically and authentically. In this episode of Her Nut Matters, she shares her vision for this show and the community we’re building together: a space where we can live in our truths and embrace our shared experiences without judgment. Now more than ever, it’s vital to acknowledge that sex is a deeply human experience, and this platform exists to celebrate humanity in all its forms. If you’ve...
Jan 01, 2025•26 min•Ep. 191
Shocker Shocker, one more thing Jody hates. Jody is very much a Grinch, and in this episode, she attempts (poorly depending on who you ask) to see why Christmas makes sense... and why people think this time of the year they should be having sex. December is the month of the year when people are VERY sexually active (hence why there are so many Virgos in the world)and is the second most romantic holiday. Jody shares insights around this and more... maybe by the end of the episode, Jody will get i...
Dec 24, 2024•40 min•Ep. 199
Shocker Shocker, one more thing Jody hates. Jody is very much a Grinch, and in this episode, she attempts (poorly dependaing on who you ask) to see why Christmas makes sense... and why people think this time of the year they should be having sex. December is the month of the year when people are VERY sexually active (hence why there are so many Virgos in the world)and is the second most romantic holiday. Jody shares insights around this and more... maybe by the end of the episode, Jody will get ...
Dec 24, 2024•40 min•Ep. 198
In this heartfelt episode of Her Nut Matters, Jody shares a deeply personal journey of healing, self-discovery, and loss. She reflects on how I realized I didn’t truly love myself until I learned to love my father—a love that required seeing his humanity beyond his flaws. This episode delves into the complexities of family relationships, forgiveness, and how love can transform both the living and the grieving. Enjoying the show? Want more?To receive exclusive episodes, bonus content, behind-the-...
Dec 18, 2024•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 190
In this heartfelt episode of Her Nut Matters, Jody shares a deeply personal journey of healing, self-discovery, and loss. She reflects on how I realized I didn’t truly love myself until I learned to love my father—a love that required seeing his humanity beyond his flaws. This episode delves into the complexities of family relationships, forgiveness, and how love can transform both the living and the grieving. Enjoying the show? Want more?To receive exclusive episodes, bonus content, behind-the-...
Dec 18, 2024•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 189
