6. Reviewing tips for finding "the one"

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Reference to the outline here: 

https://discord.com/channels/849564277224112138/849585077557002250/858423884919341086 

The article that has the tips listed in this podcast: 

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/open-gently/201902/15-questions-know-if-youve-found-the-one

[00:00:00] Future plans / Random banter 

[00:11:40] Intro to podcast topic / Tips start 

[00:12:48] Does your partner make you a better person, and do you do the same for them? 

[00:21:54] Are you and your partner both comfortable with sharing feelings, relying on each other, being close, and able to avoid worrying about the other person leaving? 

[00:32:35] Do you and your partner accept each other for who you are, without trying to change each other? 

[00:38:28] When disagreements arise, do you and your partner communicate respectfully and without contempt or negativity? 

[00:40:48] Do you and your partner share decision-making, power, and influence in the relationship? 

[00:46:46] Is your partner your best friend, and are you theirs? 

[00:50:10] Do you and your partner think more in terms of “we” and “us,” rather than “you” and “I”? 

[00:55:55] Would you and your partner trust each other with the passwords to social media and bank accounts? 

[00:59:39] Do you and your partner have good opinions of each other—without having an overinflated positive view? 

[01:03:37] Do your close friends, as well as your partner’s, think you have a great relationship that will stand the test of time? 

[01:09:02] Is your relationship free of red flags like cheating, jealousy and controlling behavior? 

[01:16:44] Do you and your partner share the same values when it comes to politics, religion, the importance of marriage, the desire to have kids (or not), and how to parent? 

[01:19:02] Are you and your partner willing to sacrifice your own needs, desires, and goals for each other (without being a doormat)? 

[01:21:00] Do you and your partner both have agreeable and emotionally stable personalities? 

[01:23:45] Are you and your partner sexually compatible? 

[01:28:31] Closing