4. The dating scene and knowing when you find "The one" Part 2 W/ Alon

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Podcast every Sunday at 4PM PST  

Speakers: Spencer, Alon

Reference to the question list here: https://discord.com/channels/849564277224112138/849585077557002250/853205878235463741

0:00:00 - Podcast introduction/introducing Alon 

0:07:29 - Q/A Starts 

0:08:11 - When are you ready to date? 

0:12:35 - How self love contributes to your self perception of being date-able 

0:16:03 - Deflecting romantic interest "hints" / What defines hints? / Exploring love languages 

0:22:10 - Past relationships 

0:25:49 - Spencer's perspective of his past relationships not working out 

0:28:13 - Alon's retrospective of his past relationship not working out 

0:31:31 - How do you market yourself? Does pursuing yourself make you more marketable? 

0:44:10 - Putting effort into marketing yourself 

0:45:41 - What advice would you give to someone who doesn't think they're ready to date yet? 

0:48:34 - How do you support someone who doesn't think they're ready to date 

0:56:05 - Dating apps 

0:58:55 - Men VS Women dating app experiences 

1:03:15 - Spencer's past resentment towards male dating pool 

1:04:31 - Benefits to different generic dating apps 

1:06:17 - Why hobby focused or regionalized dating apps are better than generic ones 

1:07:24 - The benefits to being an outgoing character on dating apps 

1:07:53 - Sifting through the dating app feedback of being undesirable 

1:09:52 - Alon's advice/takeaway perspectives about dating apps 

1:11:33 - The bio problem 

1:14:18 - How disconnected dating apps are from a genuine conversation / Other means to finding dates 

1:20:00 - Spencer's past relationships stemming from his existing network 

1:22:19 - Polyamorous-Monogamous relationships 

1:25:30 - Closing statements. Discussing "the one" for different podcast