47. Mindful Self-Compassion- A Conversation with Kristin Neff Ph.D.

“Just Try it”

Kristin Neff Ph.D. is an internationally renowned self-compassion researcher and teacher, Associate Professor of Educational Psychology at the University of Texas at Austin, co-developer of the mindful self-compassion curriculum, and author of multiple books, Self Compassion- The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself and Fierce Self-Compassion. 

The purpose of self-compassion is to alleviate suffering.

It does not have to be hard. 

It can be as simple as being a good friend to yourself.

“The goal of practicing self-compassion is to be a compassionate mess”

Self-compassion helps you shame yourself less and-- when shame pops up --as it will continue to do because you are human- to hold it with compassion.

Self-compassion helps you see the larger picture and know that you are not alone. 

The reason self-compassion seems hard is that “we generally are not wise when we think about ourselves.”

Takeaways of why to practice self-compassion

It is contagious.  

The more resources you give to yourself - the more resources you have to give to others.

It is much more effective than criticism as a motivator.

It is action-oriented and helps you live an aligned and full life.  

It is a way of protecting yourself, meeting your own needs, and caring for yourself so you can care for others. 

Stay tuned at the end-  for her advice for parents on how to raise self-compassionate next generation.

We are so excited to host Dr. Neff as our featured author at a Mindful Healthcare Collective Book Club on 1/27 at 5:30 pm Pacific, to discuss her new book Fierce Self-Compassion.  For details on the event please sign-up for email updates on mindfulhealthcarecollective.com 

To find out more about Dr. Neff and self-compassion please check out her website https://self-compassion.org/

And to get more resources on Mindful Self-Compassion and the Self-Compassion Course for Healthcare Professionals please check out the Center for Mindful Self Compassion website https://centerformsc.org/

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*Nothing in this episode should be considered medical advice.