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Happy Place

Fearne Cotton talks to incredible people about life, love, loss, and everything in-between as she reveals what happiness means to them.

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“I think the worst!” How to manage anxiety and intrusive thoughts

Fearne’s anxiety and OCD have been pretty loud recently, so she wanted to find a bit of solace in listening back to some other people with their own experiences of feeling anxious, low, having panic attacks, going through therapy, and accepting they’ll never be fully ‘fixed’... In this episode – -Musician Perrie Edwards explains why she brings her therapist to work with her -Actor Will Poulter’s taking a personalised approach to his OCD -Comedian Julian Clary reckons age and perspective have cal...

Oct 31, 202544 minSeason 38Ep. 6

Is there life after death? What happens when we die, with Brian Cox

Physicist Professor Brian Cox discusses his "Emergence" world tour and the awe-inspiring discoveries in cosmology, emphasizing how a scientific perspective can enhance happiness and promote open-mindedness. He delves into the nature of curiosity, the value of embracing doubt, and humanity's unique role in creating meaning in a vast universe. The conversation also touches on the critical importance of space exploration, the fragility of civilization, and how to encourage more women in science, concluding with reflections on life's ephemeral beauty and finding one's "happy place" through understanding.

Oct 27, 20251 hr 10 minSeason 38Ep. 5

Jamie Laing on fatherhood, family, loneliness, and male body image

Broadcaster and entrepreneur Jamie Laing had big fears about having kids... and yet he’s about to become a dad any day now. In this chat with Fearne, Jamie’s honest about the pros and cons he deliberated over before deciding to have children. He talks through how his parents’ divorce expanded his world in beautiful ways, as well as why he chose to re-kindle his relationship with his dad as an adult. Jamie also talks for the first time about his body image and eating disorder. Given Fearne has be...

Oct 20, 20251 hr 12 minSeason 38Ep. 4

Blame achieves nothing! How to forgive yourself and others, with Charlie Mackesy

Fearne Cotton and Charlie Mackesy delve into profound themes of self-forgiveness and connection. Charlie shares how his art helps people process grief and shame, encouraging vulnerability as a pathway to genuine human interaction. They discuss the importance of art, respectfully disagreeing in a polarized world, and finding peace by letting go of blame and fear. The episode also touches on the impact of Charlie's work on men's mental health.

Oct 13, 20251 hr 6 minSeason 38Ep. 3

Greg James: Stop sleepwalking through life! Find your childlike self-belief

What did you love doing when you were 10 years old? Broadcaster Greg James reckons we all need to prioritise fun and silliness more, and thinking about your childhood passions is a great place to start. In this chat, Fearne and Greg talk about how bleak, boring, and anxiety-inducing being a responsible grown up can be sometimes, and why that means it’s vital to choose to laugh every day. Greg also explains why it’s important to stop and ask yourself if you really want to get married, have kids, ...

Oct 06, 20251 hr 5 minSeason 38Ep. 2

Book Club Meets: Meeting their ex, jealousy, and heartbreak, with Aisha Muharrar

Loved Ones – the Happy Place Book Club pick for September – tells the story of Julia, whose first love Gabe dies aged 29, launching her into a world-wide quest to recover the possessions he left with friends and acquaintances across the world. It also brings her into contact with the last woman Gabe loved... In this chat, Fearne and author Aisha Muharrar wonder what would happen if you met others who had dated the same person as you. Would you get on and have loads in common? Or would there be i...

Oct 03, 202534 minSeason 38Ep. 1

Get your sh*t together: How to achieve work life balance

September always has a back-to-school feeling, so this episode is all about getting back into a successful work routine after the summer, without burning yourself out... In this episode – -Entrepreneur Grace Beverley chats through how to set boundaries to create a work life balance that works for you , and how to create new organisation habits so you can spend less time procrastinating - Researcher Brene Brown tackles perfectionism and how self-compassion can stop you putting so much pressure on...

Sep 29, 202540 minSeason 37Ep. 10

Lulu: “I deeply disliked myself!” Recovering from alcoholism and trauma

Lulu shot to fame at 15, and she’s been playing that part, masking who she really is – Marie McDonald McLaughlin Lawrie – for the six decades since. In this chat with Fearne, Lulu explains how she felt that everything from her real name and accent, to her personality and childhood weren’t good enough, so she created a character for the public to love. However, this kind of emotional suppression can have painful consequences, and she’s since learned to stop running from her messy parts. Lulu talk...

Sep 25, 20251 hr 1 minSeason 37Ep. 9

Joanna Page: I was breastfeeding on set! How to have a career and children

Gavin and Stacey’s Joanna Page didn’t want kids, until she suddenly did at 35! In this chat with Fearne, Joanna explains how she had to bring her baby on set in order to keep working as a new mum, and why she ultimately decided to focus on family over career. They chat about why it’s ok to do average – or even shit – work sometimes, and why perfection doesn’t need to be the goal. Joanna’s noticed on set that younger women seem to have much higher self-worth than she had at their age; what can we...

Sep 22, 202558 minSeason 37Ep. 8

Paddy McGuinness: “I was drowning and needed help!” Raising autistic kids and clinical depression

Men are starting to open up. Presenter and comedian Paddy McGuinness used to work on building sites where vulnerability would have been seen as a weakness, but he’s seen things changing... In this chat with Fearne, Paddy talks about his own clinical depression, and what he’s learnt from therapy about keeping his mental health in check. He explains that understanding why you’re reacting a certain way will give you the power to change your behaviour. Paddy’s three children all have autism, and he’...

Sep 15, 202548 minSeason 37Ep. 7

Book Club Meets: Namaste Motherf*ckers! How to nail midlife, with Cally Beaton

Cally Beaton spent much of her career in male-dominated board rooms. She, in her own words, was a ‘boring businessperson’. Now? She’s a stand up comedian! Namaste Motherfuckers was the Happy Place Book Club pick for August. It’s Cally’s manifesto for embracing the radical change that comes with midlife and menopause, proving it’s never too late to reinvent your life. In this chat with Fearne, Cally explains that she’s particularly passionate about better understanding perimenopause after being m...

Sep 12, 202549 minSeason 37Ep. 6

Vogue Williams: My health anxiety is bad! How to stop catastrophising

Have you noticed your body changing with age? Vogue Williams has suddenly become aware that she needs to make a point of staying physically and mentally strong. In this chat with Fearne, Vogue explains why having a drink and having fun are just as important as exercising and sleeping well when it comes to feeling good. She talks through how her health anxieties have manifested in the past, and how she’s used medication and therapy to move her through difficult periods of heartbreak and grief. Vo...

Sep 08, 202546 minSeason 37Ep. 5

Prue Leith: “You can’t have it all!” How to ask for help with work and family

Can women have it all? Renowned restauranteur, cookery writer, and Great British Bake Off judge Dame Prue Leith doesn’t think so. In this chat with Fearne, Prue explains why she’s glad she built her career before having children, and why no one should feel ashamed of asking for help with their business or family in order to keep everything afloat. Prue – who had the confidence to found a restaurant when she’d never worked in one – gives advice on never letting a lack of knowledge get in the way ...

Sep 01, 20251 hr 3 minSeason 37Ep. 4

“Self-care isn’t selfish!” How to keep fit and have fun

Fearne’s been loving the UEFA Women’s EUROS, so this episode celebrates the huge summer of sport we’re having by listening back to some brilliant sportspeople who’ve told their stories on Happy Place. Plus, if you’ve been inspired to move your own body more, how can you set your own fitness goals and – most importantly! – enjoy the process? In this episode – -Broadcaster Gabby Logan reflects on just how momentous it was when the Lionesses won the EUROs in 2023 -UFC fighter Molly McCann explains ...

Aug 29, 202545 minSeason 37Ep. 3

Your mental state manifests physically! How your body impacts your brain

Do you notice your body telling you when your brain is struggling? We’re headed back to this year’s Happy Place Festival in Gunnersbury Park, where loads of our guest speakers took to the Talk Stage to talk about the power of the mind-body connection... In this episode – - Breath and mindset coach Richie Norton explores the mind-body connection and how you can always start over with your physical and mental health -Broadcaster Julia Bradbury explains how nature has a very real impact on how heal...

Aug 25, 202541 minSeason 37Ep. 2

Sara Cox: I need to be left alone! How to take your holiday reading seriously

Are you obsessed with finding the best books – yes, multiple – to read on holiday? Broadcaster Sara Cox is! Welcome to The Happy Place Guide To Holidays! In this chat – brought to you by British Airways Holidays – Fearne and Sara share their thoughts on how to take your holiday reading more seriously. They natter about the joy of reading a novel set in the country you’re holidaying in, and whether the vivid descriptions of a location have inspired them to travel there themselves. They also swap ...

Aug 21, 202541 minSeason 37Ep. 1

Why don’t you like yourself? Gabby Bernstein: How to stop numbing difficult emotions

Getting lost in anxiety, shame, or self-loathing? Spiritual leader Gabby Bernstein wants you to acknowledge all the messy parts of your true character. Spoiler: you’re not going suddenly to like yourself overnight, but acknowledging the uncomfortable bits will get you there sooner! In this chat with Fearne, Gabby explains how ‘protector parts’ like perfectionism, people pleasing, and numbing out can spiral into extreme self-soothing behaviours like drug or porn addiction if they’re not dealt wit...

Aug 18, 202558 minSeason 36Ep. 10

Book Club Meets: I’m obsessed with romance scams! Gaslighting and misogyny, with Lisa Jewell

Do you love a true crime scam documentary? Our latest Happy Place Book Club read is for you! Iconic author Lisa Jewell has written Don’t Let Him In, a thriller about a perfect man... who’s a fraudulent liar. In this chat with Fearne, live from The Happy Place Festival, Lisa explains how she got into the mind of a psychopath despite being a very honest person herself. They explore how people fall for charming romance scammers, and how Lisa has become a relentlessly happy person. Plus, Lisa’s writ...

Aug 11, 202541 minSeason 36Ep. 9

Clara Amfo: “I’m afraid of being bored!” How to take your holiday hobbies seriously

Are holidays for switching off... or for fun activities? Broadcaster Clara Amfo is big into travelling solo so she can unapologetically indulge her own passions, like live music and salsa dancing. Welcome to The Happy Place Guide To Holidays! In this chat – brought to you by British Airways Holidays – Fearne and Clara share their thoughts on how to take your holiday hobbies and passions more seriously, including signing up for local classes, and swapping partying for fitness retreats. They also ...

Aug 07, 202545 minSeason 36Ep. 8

Davina McCall: “What if I don’t make it?” Embracing life after a brain tumour

Are you living the life you want to live? Broadcaster Davina McCall’s recent health scare has shown her the importance of living boldly, with no regrets. In this chat, live from The Happy Place Festival, best pals Fearne and Davina share how having tumours removed within a few months of each other brought them closer together. Davina explains how you can turn fear into joy through mindset changes, and how to apologise so you’re not carrying the weight of guilt anymore. She also reflects on how b...

Aug 04, 202549 minSeason 36Ep. 7

“I’m used to making mistakes!” Harriet Kemsley on how to stop worrying about being cringe

It’s ok to make mistakes! Comedian Harriet Kemsley says her dyspraxia meant she learnt very early on not to take herself too seriously. In this chat with Fearne, live from The Happy Place Festival, Harriet explains how to get through the cringe part where you’re really rubbish at something new, and why it builds resilience for all parts of your life. Harriet also chats about the chaos that comes with co-parenting and dating after divorce, and has the final word on that eye-roll stereotype that m...

Jul 28, 202545 minSeason 36Ep. 6

Release yourself from the male gaze: How to have more orgasms!

It’s National Orgasm Day on July 31st, so Fearne is listening back to Happy Place conversations about female sexuality, fantasy, and – obviously – orgasms, so that we can reclaim our bodies and desires as our own... In this episode – - Crystal Hefner describes what it was like living as a sexualised woman at the Playboy House -Emily Ratajkowski unpacks how we can remove our sexuality from the male gaze -Dita Von Teese gives her take on nudity and building confidence in your body -Gillian Anderso...

Jul 25, 202546 minSeason 36Ep. 5

Richard E. Grant: Nigella recommends restaurants to me! Take your holiday food and drink seriously

Be honest... do you pick your holiday destination based on the food you can eat there? You’re in good company – that’s just what Richard E. Grant does! Welcome to The Happy Place Guide To Holidays! In this chat – brought to you by British Airways Holidays – Fearne and Richard share their thoughts on how to take your holiday food and drink more seriously, including asking mates (Nigella Lawson, if you’re Richard!) for recommendations, looking for restaurants with small menus, and testing ingredie...

Jul 24, 202537 minSeason 36Ep. 4

How Trinny Woodall deals with rejection: Learning from failure and feedback

Are you more confident in your work life than in your personal life? Or vice versa? Entrepreneur and beauty & fashion icon Trinny Woodall is aware of where she needs to build her own self-worth. In this chat, Fearne and Trinny explore everything that comes with being the founder and CEO of Trinny London, being brazen enough to back your own ideas to women earning more than their male partners. Plus, Trinny is candid about her business endeavours that went pretty sideways, and explains how to...

Jul 21, 20251 hr 19 minSeason 36Ep. 3

Rita Ora: "It's all about what your body needs!" Body confidence starts with self-care

The size zero trend... the circle of shame... the fad diets... Millennial women who grew up during the 2000s now have the lowest body confidence of any generation, and Rita Ora understands the pressure for women to look a certain way all too well. In this chat, brought to you by Dove, Fearne and Rita explore the factors that might have influenced their relationships with their bodies over time – from magazines, to catwalks, to so-called health hacks. As part of Dove’s Self Esteem Project, Fearne...

Jul 16, 20251 hr 1 minSeason 36Ep. 2

Life doesn’t end at 40! How to live well for longer, with Dr Jenna Macciochi

Hit midlife? What do you want to do with the second part of your life? Immunologist Dr Jenna Macciochi wonders that despite living longer now, we’re not necessarily living as healthily or as fully as possible during that time. In this chat with Fearne, Jenna talks through how we can keep our bodies as resilient as possible as we age, so we have the strength to properly embrace the fun parts, and better cope with the shit parts. Jenna breaks down the science of immunity and its relationship with ...

Jul 14, 20251 hr 3 minSeason 36Ep. 1

Tess Daly: “I’m rubbish at switching off!” Take your holiday wellness seriously

How good are you at switching off on holiday? Are you even any good at taking a proper holiday in the first place? Broadcaster Tess Daly reckons wellness is being physically and mentally able to turn up for everything in life that demands your time... And that includes prioritising time off from a busy schedule! Welcome to The Happy Place Guide To Holidays! In this chat – brought to you by British Airways Holidays – Fearne and Tess share their advice on how to take your holiday wellbeing more se...

Jul 10, 202537 minSeason 35Ep. 10

Dita Von Teese: “You don’t look like a Playboy girl!” How to value your unique differences

Do you find stripping and nudity empowering or degrading? Burlesque performer Dita Von Teese says feminism is about respecting each other’s choices, even if they wouldn’t be your own. In this chat with Fearne, Dita charts her life from working in strip clubs in the 90s, to performing in sold out burlesque shows now. Painfully shy as a kid, Dita explains how turning herself into a femme fatale helped her feel confident and powerful in her own skin. Fearne and Dita talk about the joy of getting ol...

Jul 07, 202554 minSeason 35Ep. 9

Book Club Meets: Sliding doors and the power of a name, with Florence Knapp

Has your name influenced who you’ve become? Would you have different characteristics, would people react differently to you, would your life have turned out differently, if you had a different name? These are the questions author Florence Knapp grapples with in her book The Names – our Happy Place Book Club read for June. In this chat, Fearne and Florence share their own experiences of having slightly unusual names, and how they shaped them. Florence also explains the long journey she’s been on ...

Jul 04, 202530 minSeason 35Ep. 8

“Feel it, process it, move on!” Mary Earps: How to find gratitude after hardship

Do you trust your gut to make the best decision for yourself? Former England goalkeeper Mary Earps has had to make some bold, brave choices recently. In this chat with Fearne, Mary explains how she knew retiring from international football was right for her, and they both explore the importance of having different chapters and challenges in your life. Having experienced periods of real mental darkness, Mary talks through the practices that now ground her in the present. She also reckons setting ...

Jun 30, 202558 minSeason 35Ep. 7
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