Feeling lost in your career? You're not alone. In this episode, I'm talking about what happens when your job doesn't feel right anymore, when everyone else seems to have it figured out, and when the conventional career path just isn't working for you. What I Cover: When to Leave Your Job Why the two-year rule is BS, how to know when you're actually ready to leave, and why staying in the wrong job often feels easier than making a change. The Reality of Career Change in Your 20s Job searching whil...
Oct 21, 2025•31 min•Season 3Ep. 125
We've all done it. One good date and suddenly you're imagining the wedding playlist. In this episode of Guyset , I break down what I call the Ted Mosby Syndrome, when your expectations race ahead of reality and set you up for disappointment. I talk about why so many of us build storylines around people we barely know, how that pressure kills real chemistry, and what it actually means to hold high expectations, loosely. Building on my last episode about how to approach someone at a bar , I share ...
Oct 14, 2025•36 min•Season 3Ep. 124
In this episode, I'm breaking down one of the biggest questions guys in their twenties ask: how to talk to girls at a bar without being awkward. Walking up to a girl at a bar can feel awkward. You start overthinking, psych yourself out, and end up doing nothing. I've been there. We've all been there. I share the three-step framework that helped me stop overthinking and actually start conversations that feel natural. I talk about how to give a real compliment, what to say next, and when to ask fo...
Oct 07, 2025•35 min•Season 3Ep. 123
I used to walk into the gym and feel completely out of place. Everyone seemed to know exactly what they were doing, and I was stuck in the corner wondering how to even start. In this episode, I talk about what it's really like to deal with gym anxiety, imposter syndrome, and that fear of looking clueless. This episode tackles the universal experience of "gym imposter syndrome" that most men face but rarely discuss. I reveal exactly how I broke through mental barriers by taking each challenge one...
Sep 30, 2025•29 min•Season 3Ep. 122
In this candid conversation, 22-year-old American tennis pro Zach Svajda shares his extraordinary journey from starting tennis at age 2 to facing Novak Djokovic on Arthur Ashe Stadium at the US Open. Discover the untold reality of professional tennis as Svajda details his rigorous training regimen (70% focused on leg strength), the grueling 35-week travel schedule that spans the globe, and what it really takes to compete at tennis's highest level. Svajda offers rare insights into his mental appr...
Sep 23, 2025•51 min•Season 3Ep. 121
_*]:min-w-0 !gap-3.5"> Welcome back to another Ask Me Anything episode where I tackle the real questions guys are actually thinking about, wondering, and asking but don't know where to find answers to. This episode covers 10 questions that make you feel like you should already know the answer but have no idea where to find. Every single question I answer here, I've personally wondered about and felt weird for thinking. These types of questions are exactly why I started Guyset in the first pla...
Sep 16, 2025•36 min•Season 3Ep. 120
If you're feeling completely lost in your twenties right now, this episode is for you. I saw this guy's TikTok about feeling directionless at 25, and it hit me so hard because I've been feeling the exact same way. So I wanted to share something that's been helping me navigate this weird post-grad phase we're all going through. What I'll Share With You: The "Rule of Thirds" that changed how I think about my bad days (spoiler: you're only supposed to feel good 1/3 of the time) Why ages 22-28 feel ...
Sep 09, 2025•30 min•Season 3Ep. 119
Today I'm joined by Alex Joseph Grayson who is currently playing Dallas Winston in Broadway's hit musical The Outsiders. This conversation blew me away as Alex opened up about the reality behind one of Broadway's most physically demanding roles and shared his knowledge that will resonate with anyone chasing their dreams. What we dive into: The Real Broadway Experience: What it actually takes to perform 8 shows a week in one of Broadway's most physical roles How Alex stepped into The Outsiders mi...
Sep 02, 2025•1 hr 2 min•Season 3Ep. 118
This week's episode is all about how to actually restart and build momentum again when everything feels completely scattered and you've been stuck in a cycle of bad habits. After moving to a new apartment and completely losing my routine, I've been struggling with all the habits that used to make me feel good: going to the gym consistently, eating well, journaling, and staying off my phone before bed. If you've ever felt like you've lost your momentum or can't seem to get back into the swing of ...
Aug 26, 2025•33 min•Season 3Ep. 117
I never thought a conversation with my Uber driver would completely change how I think about meeting new people. What started as a dreaded 55-minute airport ride turned into one of the most genuine conversations I've had in months and it's got me thinking about how we've lost the art of talking to strangers. In this episode, I'm breaking down the incredible questions my Uber driver asked that turned small talk into real connection. I'll give you the exact conversation starters that work (perfect...
Aug 19, 2025•29 min•Season 3Ep. 116
I'm back with another moving story that proves I still haven't figured out how to move without everything going wrong. I'm recording this from a hotel room in LA because I had to travel for work just three days after finally getting into my new place. I'm sharing my latest NYC apartment move experience, from co-op board approval nightmares to furniture delivery disasters that had me stressed all day. This move was supposed to be way smoother than my first NYC disaster, but somehow I still manage...
Aug 12, 2025•29 min•Season 3Ep. 115
When I walked out of "John Proctor is the Villain" on Broadway, I knew I wanted to have a conversation about the guys in the show and I got to have it with two of them, Gabriel Ebert and Hagen Oliveras. These guys don't play the heroes in this show, they play the guys we recognize, the ones who make us uncomfortable because we've either known them or we've been them. Gabriel portrays Mr. Smith, a beloved teacher whose true nature becomes devastatingly clear. Hagen plays Lee, a troubled young man...
Aug 05, 2025•1 hr 1 min•Season 3Ep. 114
I'm recording from my first NYC apartment for the last time after three years, and I'm honestly feeling all kinds of ways about it. In this episode, I'm getting real about the complex emotions that come with moving out and the transition from roommates to living alone for the first time. I'm sharing my most vulnerable thoughts about this change, from my catastrophic first NYC move three years ago to how I'm preparing mentally for living on my own. If you're going through something similar, I thi...
Jul 29, 2025•33 min•Season 3Ep. 113
Should you shave before a date? Is it okay to show up to a date in work clothes? When will you finally know what you want to do with your life? In this Ask Me Anything episode of Guyset, I pull 10 real listener questions from my Spider-Man bucket hat and deliver honest and real advice for guys navigating their twenties. From dating anxiety to career setbacks, friendship changes to quarter-life crisis fears, these are the questions you've thought about but never knew who to ask. Timestamps: 03:28...
Jul 22, 2025•41 min•Season 3Ep. 112
I used to freeze up every time my boss asked how things were going. I'd ramble about how "things are good, things are moving" without actually saying anything meaningful about my work or impact. Recently, my boss left and I had to have THE conversation with our CEO about my role and future. I was terrified. But this time, I came prepared with a framework that completely transformed how I present myself at work. What I cover in this episode: The 3-example method that helped me showcase real impac...
Jul 15, 2025•34 min•Season 3Ep. 111
My roommate Reid is back! After living together for three years in our East Village apartment, we're moving out. This is his second time on the podcast and it's the perfect time because we're both going through some major life changes right now. Reid is moving out to live with his girlfriend and I'm going to live on my own for the first time. Reid also just finished a pretty long job search - 50+ interviews across 10+ companies over several months. After dealing with lots of rejection, he landed...
Jul 08, 2025•1 hr•Season 3Ep. 110
I almost bailed on my first networking event due to anxiety. Instead, I stayed, met a New York Times reporter, and completely bombed my pitch to her. Here's the story of what went wrong and why I'd do it all again. What You'll Learn: How to overcome social anxiety at networking events when you don't know anyone Why being "bold" beats being comfortable every time My biggest networking mistakes and what I learned from them Practical tips for starting conversations at professional events How to han...
Jul 01, 2025•33 min•Season 3Ep. 109
In this unfiltered episode, I sit down with Phoebe Gates (Bill Gates' daughter) to discuss her viral "nepo baby" moment on Call Her Daddy, building her shopping app Phia from a Stanford dorm room, and how she handles constant criticism as a young entrepreneur. What You'll Learn: How Phoebe owned her privilege and why authenticity matters more than PR training The biggest mistakes she's made building Phia that cost months of wasted work Why talking to customers early could have saved her startup ...
Jun 24, 2025•26 min•Season 3Ep. 108
I'm bringing back the anonymous question box format inspired by my high school sex ed class. This week, I'm pulling random questions from a hat that you guys asked and answering them completely unscripted. Topics I cover: Dating advice: How to know when to end things vs. keep dating someone Reading relationship signals: Signs she's actually into you after 5 dates Navigating weird conversations: The right way to talk about exclusivity without awkwardness Hookup etiquette: Do you have to stay over...
Jun 17, 2025•35 min•Season 3Ep. 107
Simon Goldman, a 24-year-old menswear designer and content creator, is here to share his style advice, brand recommendations, and summer fashion tips. He talks about his journey from sneaking into NYC fashion events as a student to building a massive following of over 500k across social media. He reveals the biggest mistake guys make when getting dressed (hint: it's all about fit), breaks down his essential 5-piece wardrobe formula, and explains his "buy once, buy well" philosophy. From sending ...
Jun 10, 2025•58 min•Season 3Ep. 106
I've been asking myself "what's next?" constantly lately, and I'm pretty sure you have too. In this episode, I talk about the anxiety that comes with being 25 and feeling like life is one giant transition period that never ends. I'm moving out of my apartment in less than two months which is my first move in three years and it's got me thinking about how we're always looking ahead instead of appreciating what we have right now. Whether it's wondering what's next for your job, your relationship, ...
Jun 03, 2025•28 min•Season 3Ep. 105
Renowned neurosurgeon at Lenox Hill Hospital Dr. Randy D'Amico is here to talk about one of the most high-pressure careers on the planet. After going viral on TikTok with his "day in the life of a neurosurgeon" videos, Dr. D'Amico opens up about what it's really like to perform brain surgery and how years of working on the human brain have shaped his perspective on life. What You'll Learn: Brain Health & Nutrition: The neurosurgeon's daily diet for optimal brain function (avocado toast, Gree...
May 27, 2025•1 hr 4 min•Season 3Ep. 104
Graduating this year? Already in your twenties and feeling lost? This episode is your brutally honest guide to navigating life after college when everything feels contradictory and confusing. I break down the impossible expectations placed on twenty-somethings: You're supposed to save money AND travel, take risks AND stay stable, find your purpose AND stick with your first job for two years. Sound contradictory? That's because it is. In this episode, you'll learn: Why feeling lost in your twenti...
May 20, 2025•25 min•Season 2Ep. 103
Thriller author Robert Bailey is here to talk about his new novel "The Boomerang" a page-turner that will have you guessing until the very last chapter. Whether you're a thriller fan, looking for your next summer read, or just love books that keep you hooked from page one, this episode has something for you. We dive deep into Robert's writing journey, from his early aspirations to getting his first book published, and what a typical day looks like for him as an author. Get an exclusive behind-th...
May 13, 2025•52 min•Season 2Ep. 102
Jordan Litz who is currently playing Fiyero in Wicked on Broadway is here! Wicked is also his Broadway debut and he is now the longest-running guy to ever play the role. He has such an interesting story of how he got here from competing against Michael Phelps in the 2012 Olympic trials to completely changing his career and chasing a new dream to play Fiyero in Wicked. This is one of my favorites and reminded me that it's never too late to change your life, change your career, find your passion, ...
May 06, 2025•1 hr 6 min•Season 2Ep. 101
When I started Guyset almost 2 years ago, I had no idea what I was getting myself into. What I did know was how much I wanted to see something like this in the world, a place for guys to hear real advice and different perspectives on the things they're thinking about, wondering about, anxious about, or feel weird about for not knowing and since I couldn't find that, I created it. Because I was that guy, and I am that guy. I created a place where I could hear advice that applies to me and the guy...
Apr 29, 2025•30 min•Season 2Ep. 100
I have a really special episode for you today with the oldest guest I've ever had on Guyset. It's his first ever podcast at 90 years old, Ralph Rehbock is on today to share the story of how he and his family survived the holocaust. The opportunity to hear from Holocaust survivors is so limited as many of them are no longer here with us and most people have never had the chance and might not ever get the chance to do so. I feel so fortunate to share this episode with you and I thought that becaus...
Apr 22, 2025•1 hr 6 min•Season 2Ep. 99
As guys, there's a notion that we're just supposed to know how everything works when it comes to the gym and lifting. Personally, I was so far from that until about a year ago when I decided to put my ego aside and try. A year later, here's what happened when I did. Subscribe, give this episode 5 stars, and leave a review! Guyset.com Connect on Instagram HERE Substack HERE Podcast on Instagram HERE Subscribe to YouTube HERE Ask me anything HERE Check out Guyset Magazine HERE Check out Guyset Sty...
Apr 15, 2025•31 min•Season 2Ep. 98
Jack went viral on TikTok for posting his story about losing his fiancé and has continued to share what it's like to lose someone you love, grieve, and learn to live without. I think this is such a hard topic to talk about but an incredibly important one. I don't think anyone really knows how to navigate grief so I'm really grateful to have had this conversation with Jack and share it with you. If you've lost someone or if you know someone who's lost someone, this episode is for you and dedicate...
Apr 08, 2025•49 min•Season 2Ep. 97
The second installment of Dear Guyset where I answer questions sent in by you. The questions I answer in this episode: What are some nice things I can do for my girlfriend? Do you ever feel anxious about your job? Can I go up to a girl at the gym and ask for her number? I feel like I'm too small, how do I get bigger? I've been on two dates with this girl but I don't know if I'm invested, should I go on another date? I feel like my hairline is receding, has this ever happened to you? What should ...
Apr 01, 2025•30 min•Season 2Ep. 96
