Addiction as a mindset pathway -battle for mental freedom. We delve into the hidden snares of addiction that capture our thoughts and dictate our actions. We learn: What is an addiction How our fears control us How default behaviours become amplified Understanding the hidden costs Reclaiming our potential Join us as we explore the journey from being ensnared by addiction to achieving mental liberation. Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purp...
Apr 09, 2024•27 min
How backup plans sabotage our success and learning to take calculated risks. What can we learn from the psychology of an incredible military tactic? How can we shape our behaviours and motivations to increase our chances of success? What happens in our minds when we remove Plan B? Matt Higgins is the author of "Burn the Boats" and has the story and success to back it. After growing up in poverty looking after a disabled mother Matt has taken incredible risks to become the success he is today. Af...
Apr 05, 2024•47 min
Explore beyond the edges of your thought patterns and default mind traps. Learn where the line between boring and daring is, without going so far into pure crazy. An adventurous episode today exploring: The dimensionality of existence Zen answers to observing our own behaviours Entropy and chaos Challenging thinking patterns Gravity applied to thoughts What makes life interesting If you have your growth mindset thinking hat on and are ready for some challenging ideas this is the episode for you....
Apr 02, 2024•25 min
The psychology of positive energy and influencing the world with warmth and kindness. Dr Harry Cohen is a psychologist and author of "Be the Sun, Not the Salt". A book about the Heliotropic effect applied to human behaviour, and how we can attract and uplift others through our energy and kindness. We cover: What is the Heliotropic effect The fallacy of good ideas without action Taking responsibility for your impact Embracing healthy negativity and avoiding toxic positivity Chasing realistic drea...
Mar 29, 2024•38 min
Avoid mental masturbation, curate an information diet that works, and learn tried and tested strategies to build resilience, positivity and a Growth mindset. Topics: The flaws of most 'self-improvement' content Reality vs ideal Advice without action Strategies that consistently change people's lives The world is full of knowledge of what to do and people not doing it. It is also full of people telling you what to do that are just selling you something that won't change your life. Learn how to sc...
Mar 26, 2024•26 min
Cultivate emotional wisdom with the bestselling author of Emotional Intelligence for Dummies. Steven J. Stien has worked with the FBI, American Express and even reality TV show Big Brother. Emotional Intelligence (EQ) is so important that his lessons are useful for anyone. We explore: Diagnosing your EQ How to build EQ The biggest traits of success in the FBI, air force, army and navy The psychology of reality TV Cross-cultural differences in EQ How to train Empathy If you are interested in lear...
Mar 22, 2024•58 min
A fresh look at what it means to be wise - beyond age and experience. Sam challenges and expands upon traditional views of wisdom, to redefine wisdom to be more useful and true. By examining how wisdom influences our life decisions and embracing a broader definition of wisdom, we invite listeners to reconsider their perceptions of wisdom. Personal wisdom begins with acknowledging that wisdom is not exclusively born from age or experience but emerges from making wise choices for personal happines...
Mar 19, 2024•16 min
How massive trauma and facing life's fragile nature can lead to people to be truly alive. Near-death experiences can build a positive psychology and the tools for a growth mindset. With my guest Talia Lazarus, we explore the essence of the Phoenix Phenomenon and rising from the ashes renewed. We share stories of resilience, the science behind post-traumatic growth, and practical strategies for leveraging life’s toughest moments to foster an unbreakable spirit. Topics include: Capturing the power...
Mar 15, 2024•54 min
How to take action and get things done. A simple strategy to find clarity on what is important: Being busy vs being productive Eliminate distractions Become accountable to your own priorities Stop being controlled by deadlines No more getting bogged down in being busy, without meaningful progress. Cut through all the productivity advice and get to the heart of doing the thing you need to do. Nothing fancy. - - Growth Mindset pod Sam Webster Harris explores the psychology of happiness, satisfacti...
Mar 12, 2024•27 min
Find a compatible partner for long-term happiness. Choosing the right partner is important. We cover everything you need to know: 🙌 Increase the quality of potential partners 🙈 Avoid common dating mistakes ☠️ Early signs of toxic partners 😵💫 Unlearn relationship myths 🗺️ Optimal search theory The episode is about the art and science of attracting and choosing the right partner. Discover 12 transformative tools designed to elevate the quality of individuals you draw into your life, ensure m...
Mar 08, 2024•35 min
The essentials of improving self-worth for better relationships and the practices for self-love that pave the way to finding and keeping love. Jonathon Aslay is known as America's leading mid-life relationships coach and is the author of "What the Heck is Self-Love Anyway?" Jonathon sheds light on the importance of self-reflection in dating and how to become someone of worth to others. Learn: the secrets to finding the right partner in modern dating identifying deal-breakers in potential partner...
Mar 05, 2024•45 min
Learn how to battle intrusive thoughts and create more peace in your mind and in your relationships. We cover the natural thinking pathways that lead to catastrophizing behaviours and how they become overused. We can then address how to start building healthier behaviours that reduce and calm our worries instead of amplifying them. This is an incredible game-changer for relationships as well as helping improve your social life and work life once you can better control your worries and fears befo...
Mar 01, 2024•40 min
Conversation drives the mechanics of love and connection. We talk with Topaz Adizes, the brilliant mind behind '12 Questions for Love' to increase the quality of our conversations. We explore the methodology behind asking the right questions to foster deeper intimacy and understanding in relationships. Topaz Azides is an Emmy award-winning film director, experience designer, and founder of Skin Deep. He shares his insights on engineering experiences that enrich our emotional bonds and the import...
Feb 27, 2024•1 hr
What makes you... you? How much of that can you decide? These are the big questions we tackle in this short Life Lesson bonus episode for some ideas to percolate over the weekend and take forward with us. From the attachment styles we learnt as children to our accents and even how we think about learning. These are all behaviours that are up to us if we choose to be pro-active about how we show up in life and who we want to be. We'll learn how to act consistently with compounding behaviours over...
Feb 25, 2024•19 min
We clear the complex waters of setting healthy boundaries in relationships, a masterclass designed to empower you with the tools for understanding and creating boundaries that foster freedom and respect. Join us as we navigate the nuances of recognizing and avoiding porous or rigid boundaries and understand the impact of weak boundaries on personal well-being. We explore strategies for balancing personal needs with those of others, ensuring your relationships are built on a foundation of mutual ...
Feb 23, 2024•42 min
We explore the profound impact of attachment theory on relationship dynamics, focusing on overcoming fears of intimacy linked to avoidant attachment and the influence of childhood experiences on adult attachment styles. Discover practical tips for anxious attachers seeking relationship harmony and learn how creating a secure base in relationships encourages growth and exploration. Whether you're dealing with attachment style mismatches or seeking to enhance emotional intelligence based on attach...
Feb 20, 2024•34 min
Join us on a journey through the labyrinth of love and the 15 keys to crafting harmony in romance and life. This episode tackles the subtle nuances that make or break relationships, including the importance of open communication, respecting privacy, and the art of compromise. Discover how to strike the perfect balance between giving and receiving, the significance of shared values, and the critical role of empathy and understanding. With stories that illustrate the beauty and challenges of love,...
Feb 16, 2024•28 min
Explore the dynamic interplay between solitude and connection in our latest episode on the Loneliness Paradox. This episode provides insights into overcoming the fear of loneliness, and creating a more peaceful self-assured independence and self-awareness to foster stronger emotional intimacy. Through discussions on the psychology of understanding love and the benefits of independence in love, we offer listeners a guide to cultivating fulfilling relationships that thrive on both togetherness and...
Feb 13, 2024•27 min
Explore the heart's invisible forces by understanding the biology behind love in our latest episode, where we decode the science of love through the lens of psychology and self-improvement. Learn about the hormonal effects on romantic behaviors, the significance of attachment hormones in humans, and how understanding the neurochemistry of love can lead to better decision-making in love. We'll discuss the evolutionary psychology of human bonding, the positive and negative effects of high vasopres...
Feb 09, 2024•24 min
We conclude the season reflecting on the most powerful lessons of stoicism and how to incorporate them into our lives to make lasting changes and improvements. We embark on a journey through Stoic wisdom for handling life's uncertainties and the Stoic approach to facing fears and anxieties. Uncover how Stoic practices for modern life challenges can transform your approach to daily obstacles, fostering a profound sense of contentment and resilience. The essence of Stoic teaching distinguishes bet...
Feb 06, 2024•25 min
We delve deep into stoicism and psychological strategies to empower your present self, aligning it seamlessly with your future goals. Discover the importance of living authentically, where your actions resonate louder than words. This journey through mindset transformation offers practical steps to build authority, embrace reality-based personal growth, and understand the dynamics of past versus present selves. It's time to take ownership and craft a fulfilling life Learn how to stop disappointi...
Feb 02, 2024•17 min
Dive deep into the science of mental toughness by exploring the four critical elements - Control, Commitment, Challenge, and Confidence. Understand how to build social confidence, develop emotional control techniques, and enhance life control through practical psychological methods. We delve into historical examples of mental toughness and how to build grit, inner strength and mind control in the face of adversity. Demonstrating the profound impact of resilience on personal growth and leadership...
Jan 30, 2024•32 min
We explore 16 paradoxes that challenge conventional wisdom, from the Freedom Paradox to the Happiness Paradox. Discover how understanding these contradictions can offer profound insights into personal growth and the human psyche. Whether it's the Intelligence Paradox that reveals knowledge's limitations or the Persuasion Paradox that underscores the power of listening, each paradox provides a unique lens through which to view our struggles and triumphs. Join us as we unravel these complexities, ...
Jan 26, 2024•27 min
Explore the timeless lessons from the Enchiridion, a manual for living by Epictetus Uncover how ancient Stoic principles provide practical guidance for today's challenges, offering insights into personal development and psychological resilience. Learn to apply Epictetus's teachings to cultivate a resilient mindset, manage stress, and transform obstacles into opportunities for growth. This episode bridges the gap between Stoicism and contemporary psychology, highlighting its relevance in cognitiv...
Jan 24, 2024•25 min
Do you feel like you're always rushing and never accomplishing anything meaningful? It's time to ditch the addiction to speed and rediscover the power of patience. We know that "Slow and steady wins the race" yet today's culture has a new obsession, SPEED. We want to get rich quick, build abs in 10 minutes and we want to go everywhere and we want to do it NOW. This episode will recalibrate how you think about progress and recalibrate your approach to goals, habits, and mindset. Stop seeking inst...
Jan 22, 2024•26 min
No matter what life throws your way in 2024, adopting a Stoic mindset can set you up for both success and satisfaction. Join our host, Sam Webster Harris, as he walks through 24 powerful Stoic rules that are just as important today as 2000 years ago. The lessons will help you develop more mindfulness, discipline, generosity, calmness, and contentment in your life. We'll tackle big ideas like controlling what you can control, letting go of resentment, and finding joy in simple things. So tune in ...
Jan 19, 2024•35 min
Are you ready to unlock your full potential and make smarter decisions in 2024? This episode provides a blueprint for developing true intelligence and wisdom. Learn why IQ is not the only determinant of success and what the components of complete intelligence are. Study practices anyone can use to reveal the thought patterns and habits holding you back. Learn daily practices to increase intelligence and open up new patterns of thinking. Whether you want to improve relationships, find fulfilling ...
Jan 16, 2024•42 min
It's time to stop searching for motivation and start building it instead. Willpower alone doesn’t work. One day you're fired up and ready to crush it, the next you're staring blankly at the wall wondering where your motivation went. In this psychology and self-improvement-focused episode, learn the scientifically proven tactics to construct motivation that sticks long-term - even through the toughest challenges. Discover the 4 key types of motivation, how to tap into them, and the warning signs ...
Jan 12, 2024•33 min
How we screw ourselves over and sabotage our happiness. Learn the cognitive biases, comfortable lies and deceitful practices that become routines and invite joy back into your life! In this psychology and self-improvement-focused episode, our host, Sam Webster, exposes the 7 toxic habits that secretly create misery - and how to ditch them for good. If you want to break destructive patterns holding you back from the happiness you deserve, this frank life skills discussion is for you. Become your ...
Jan 09, 2024•32 min
Kick-off 2024 with a plan to be unapologetically you! Are you ready to shed limiting beliefs and step into your fullest potential? In this episode of the Growth Mindset Podcast, we dive deep into the nuanced psychology of the unexpected blockers that prevent us from being our authentic selves and living life on our terms. You’ll learn how to quiet your inner critic, practice radical self-acceptance, and have the courage to pursue your unconventional dreams. Expect empowering stories, surprising ...
Jan 05, 2024•22 min
