This week on the podcast, we are back in the studio with our guest from last week, Monika Farhadi! We’re tackling the barriers that keep couples from truly opening up, the difference between hearing and actually listening, and how to create a safe space for vulnerability. Monika shares powerful insights on navigating difficult conversations, recognizing emotional shutdowns, and breaking free from unhealthy communication cycles. Whether you’re looking to strengthen your connection, repair past wo...
Mar 12, 2025•49 min
This week on the podcast, we’re diving deep into the heart of communication with Monika Farhadi! We’re tackling the barriers that keep couples from truly opening up, the difference between hearing and actually listening, and how to create a safe space for vulnerability. Monika shares powerful insights on navigating difficult conversations, recognizing emotional shutdowns, and breaking free from unhealthy communication cycles. Whether you’re looking to strengthen your connection, repair past woun...
Mar 05, 2025•51 min
Feel closer and more connected to your spouse in just 14 days! This week, we’re diving into Embrace —our brand-new resource designed to help couples grow closer and communicate better. We’re answering the most common questions from couples who want to know what Embrace is all about and whether it’s the right fit for their marriage. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the same conversations, struggled to connect, or just want a simple way to strengthen your relationship, this episode is for you! Tune in...
Feb 19, 2025•21 min
In this episode, we’re tackling two game-changers for a strong marriage—respect and encouragement. If you’ve ever felt unappreciated or like your efforts go unnoticed, you’re not alone! Respect fuels a husband’s confidence and leadership, while encouragement reassures a wife that she’s valued and cherished. We’re breaking down what this looks like in everyday life, sharing what husbands and wives really wish the other knew, and giving practical ways to build each other up. This episode will help...
Feb 12, 2025•45 min
In this episode, we’re talking about something every married couple craves—feeling emotionally pursued. It’s easy to assume love and connection will just happen, but over time, life gets busy, routines take over, and that intentional pursuit can start to fade. So, what does it really mean to feel emotionally pursued? How can you keep that deep connection alive beyond the honeymoon phase? We’re breaking it all down with real-life examples, practical tips, and simple ways to make your spouse feel ...
Feb 05, 2025•39 min
In this episode, we dive into conflict resolution and forgiveness with Tyler and Connie Boyd, exploring how young married couples can navigate disagreements without letting them spiral out of control. They share personal stories of arguments they handled well (and not so well), along with practical strategies for discussing sensitive topics and moving toward healing. We also talk about the power of forgiveness and how it can transform your marriage when done right. If you’re looking for ways to ...
Jan 29, 2025•1 hr 8 min
In this episode, we get real with Tyler and Connie Boyd about sex, romance, and staying connected in the early years of marriage. From setting healthy expectations for intimacy to navigating tough topics like porn struggles and vulnerability, we cover it all. Tyler and Connie open up about their own journey—what helped them talk openly about their needs, where they stumbled, and the intentional choices they made to keep romance alive. Whether you’re looking to deepen emotional and physical intim...
Jan 22, 2025•1 hr 7 min
We’re continuing our conversation with Tyler and Connie Boyd and this week we are talking about aligning your personal and spiritual goals early in marriage to create a shared vision for the future. They share how they’ve balanced their individual relationships with God while growing together in faith, plus the spiritual habits that have fueled their connection. We’ll also dive into the lessons they’ve learned—what worked, what didn’t, and how they’ve strengthened their sense of purpose along th...
Jan 15, 2025•49 min
In this episode, we’re chatting with Tyler and Connie Boyd about what it takes to build a strong emotional connection in those early years of marriage. From the small daily habits that deepen intimacy to tackling communication breakdowns, they’re sharing their real-life experiences and practical tips. We’ll dive into the kinds of conversations that helped them grow closer, the ones that tripped them up, and the lessons they’ve learned along the way. Hey Young Married, whether you’re newly marrie...
Jan 08, 2025•46 min
This week on the Growing In Marriage podcast, Rich and DeAnna sit down with Cindy Renfrow, LCSW, to tackle some of the most pressing and challenging questions couples face. In this episode, Cindy shares her expert insights on topics like how to get help when your spouse is resistant, rebuilding trust, breaking the cycle of emotional shutdowns, and reigniting excitement in a boring relationship. We also dive into sensitive issues such as comfort levels in the bedroom, managing resentment, and the...
Jul 24, 2024•1 hr 6 min
We did it! We finally have a shorty episode. 👉🏾**REGISTER FOR THE HAPPILY MARRIED WORKSHOP** 👈🏾 Purchase Soulmates Growing In Marriage Growing In Marriage Website Grab our freebie Buy Confident Husband Mastermind Have meaningful conversations with the person you love using our best selling book, Face to Face Study God's Word together in our Couples Bible Study Purchase our Couples Bible Study Book a Coaching Intensive and spend half a day working with us on your marriage Need help reigniting...
Jul 17, 2024•6 min
On this week’s episode of our the Growing In Marriage podcast, DeAnna is flipping the script and interviewing Rich about our brand new product, Soulmates. It’s designed especially for Christian couples, featuring interactive stories and guided conversations to help you grow closer and deepen your spiritual intimacy. DeAnna asks all the juicy questions you’ll want answers to, making sure you get all the details that will have you rushing to grab your copy. Tune in to discover how Soulmates can he...
Jul 10, 2024•43 min
Welcome to this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage Podcast with Rich and DeAnna! Today, we explore the profound impact of uplifting your spouse. Rich shares his journey from ignoring DeAnna’s pleas for help to taking responsibility for household chores and demonstrating true, lasting change. Discover the difference between temporary modifications and genuine transformation, and how consistent acts of love, inspired by God's Word, can strengthen your marriage. 👉🏾**REGISTER FOR THE HAPPIL...
Jul 03, 2024•38 min
We're jumping into the love language of physical touch. From holding hands and sharing hugs to intimate gestures like kissing and back rubs, we’ll uncover the powerful impact of physical touch in marriage. We’ll discuss the importance of learning how your spouse wants to be touched. Too often, we turn to books, other couples, or general advice, neglecting the one person who knows best: our spouse. Insisting on touching your spouse the way you want, instead of how they desire, can be more than ju...
Jun 26, 2024•46 min
Today, we’re diving into the importance of creating a healthier version of yourself. A happy marriage thrives when both individuals are committed to their personal growth and well-being. DeAnna shares how one of her own growth journeys has brought us closer together and positively impacted our marriage. **REGISTER FOR THE HAPPILY MARRIED WORKSHOP** Growing In Marriage Growing In Marriage Website Grab our freebie Buy Confident Husband Mastermind Have meaningful conversations with the person you l...
Jun 19, 2024•37 min
Join as we tackle the inevitable misunderstandings that arise in marriage. Discover how these moments can affect your feelings and learn strategies to navigate them without trying to convince your spouse that your perspective is the only perspective. We’ll share the importance of acknowledging and reflecting on each other’s viewpoints, even when you don’t agree. Rich and DeAnna will discuss how essential it is to believe that your spouse is on your side, which fosters openness and prevents defen...
Jun 12, 2024•45 min
Dive into the heart of what makes each of us unique and how to truly love and appreciate those differences in your spouse! Today, Rich and DeAnna are sharing insights on loving your spouse in a way that makes them feel cherished, quick and fun ways to connect and build intimacy through new experiences, travel, and even a bit of friendly competition. Plus, we'll talk about creating a daily routine that helps you slow down, share your life, and truly connect. We are also exploring how to understan...
Jun 05, 2024•56 min
Today, Rich and DeAnna are having fun and answering questions a marriage counselor would ask to determine if their marriage is savable. The reality is we believe all marriages are savable if you do them God's way. As Jimmy Evans would say, you have a 100% chance of success if you do it God's way. And to that, we say, "Amen!" Growing In Marriage Growing In Marriage Website Grab our freebie Buy Confident Husband Mastermind Have meaningful conversations with the person you love using our best selli...
Mar 13, 2024•42 min
Ever wonder what it truly means to have your spouse's back, in the good times and especially the bad? In this heartwarming episode, Rich and DeAnna dive into the art of being there for your spouse. We'll explore how these actions not only deepen your bond but also honor God's design for marriage. Tune in as we unpack practical tips, share inspiring examples, and delve into Scripture to guide you in cultivating a relationship where you and your spouse are each other's greatest allies, no matter w...
Mar 06, 2024•43 min
Hello, Jill Zimmerman from Pennsylvania! 👋🏻👋🏾 We've got a cool story to share about you today! We've been diving into a skill that can really change the game in your marriage: empathy. It's not always easy, but mastering it can make a huge difference. Research shows that couples who get good at empathy have over 30% better conflict resolution and repair skills. Plus, they tend to have happier, more successful marriages overall. So, what exactly is empathy, and why is it such a big deal? Let'...
Feb 28, 2024•39 min
Today's episode is a real eye-opener as we delve into the often-taboo topic of overcoming unwanted sexual behaviors (e.g., porn) and understanding the complexities of sexual fantasies within marriage. We're joined by a remarkable guest, Drew Boa from Husband Material , who brings a fresh perspective to the table. Drew's journey from struggling with pornography to finding true freedom has been transformative, and he's here to share his insights on how addressing these challenges can have profound...
Feb 07, 2024•1 hr 5 min
Introducing the Happily Married Workshop. Rich and DeAnna spill the beans on their new in-person event. If you are local to the Central Valley of California: Bay Area, Sacramento, Fresno, Foothills then you don't want to miss this fun one-day workshop that will help you achieve the kind of relationship others will be asking, "How do they do it." Sign Up for The Happily Married Workshop Register for the Happily Married Workshop Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified...
Jan 31, 2024•36 min
Today Rich and DeAnna are talking about a topic that affects every marriage, but often lurks in the shadows of the relationship. This darkness leaves a silent but very profound impact on both spouses—it’s criticism! So, grab a cup of coffee, find a comfortable space, and listen to us engage in a conversation that could breathe new life into your relationship. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first about upcoming events, special discounts, and when Rich and De...
Jan 24, 2024•54 min
Rich and DeAnna finally deliver a "short" episode. In this podcast, DeAnna's back and she is sharing how she celebrated her 50th birthday and created a memory we will NEVER forget. 😂 Tune into this fun episode that's sure to make you smile and gasp all within 24 minutes. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first about upcoming events, special discounts, and when Rich and DeAnna are in your area. Show Links Grab our freebie Buy Confident Husband Mastermind Have ...
Jan 17, 2024•25 min
Today, Rich is teaming up with Shannon McKiernan as she fills in for DeAnna. DeAnna had an unexpected event take place that sidelined her for this episode. We want you to step into intimacy in your marriage. One of the ways to do that is through caregiving. Listen as Rich and Shannon discuss why careging is necessary in your marriage and what it looks like. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first about upcoming events, special discounts, and when Rich and DeAn...
Jan 10, 2024•56 min
To some degree, we all love being taken care of at times, especially when the care is coming from our spouse. Today, Rich and DeAnna want you to stop taking care of your spouse in exchange for something better. Listen as they discuss why caretaking is detremental to your marriage and what you should do instead. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first about upcoming events, special discounts, and when Rich and DeAnna are in your area. Show Links Grab our freebi...
Jan 03, 2024•49 min
Rich and DeAnna are replaying a popular episode from two years ago. Settle in and listen again to Rich and DeAnna share how you can handle rejection from your spouse and in your marriage. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first about upcoming events, special discounts, and when Rich and DeAnna are in your area. Show Links Grab our freebie Buy Confident Husband Mastermind Have meaningful conversations with the person you love using our best selling book, Face t...
Dec 27, 2023•36 min
Rich and DeAnna are spilling the beans on what happens behind closed doors in their marriage. Enjoy this fun, light-hearted episode that sure to make you smile. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first about upcoming events, special discounts, and when Rich and DeAnna are in your area. Show Links Grab our freebie Buy Confident Husband Mastermind Have meaningful conversations with the person you love using our best selling book, Face to Face Study God's Word tog...
Dec 20, 2023•39 min
Today, Rich and DeAnna aim to equip couples with practical strategies and guidance to navigate the holiday season more smoothly, reducing stress and overwhelm. It's the perfect opportunity to fostering emotional closeness, rediscover intimacy, and create meaningful moments together. Learn to embrace and relish the holiday moments as a team, fostering a sense of joy, togetherness, and shared celebration. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first about upcoming ev...
Dec 13, 2023•38 min
Ever felt like you and your partner are speaking different languages, even when you're saying the same things? This podcast episode is the ultimate playbook for upgrading your relationship communication skills. Rich and DeAnna are addressing five powerful moves to help you ace those heart-to-heart talks. From genuinely tuning in and understanding your partner's vibes to nailing that tricky balance between words and body language, this episode is all about practical tips to make your conversation...
Dec 06, 2023•44 min
