How to get a sign from your deceased loved one?

Signs from Christopher are an important part of coping with my grief about his death. I have seen and spoken with different people who say they do not have signs from their deceased loved one. When I hear someone say that I feel sad for them. There are three things that I believe get in the way of people receiving signs from a loved one. In the beginning, your grief is internalized within yourself. Your focus is on trying to cope with the pain of losing the loved one. During this time it is hard to pay attention to the environment around you because of this. Secondly, you have to believe that it is possible that you can get signs from your loved one. Several things interfere with this belief system. One is the fear that you might be considered crazy if you believe you can communicate with someone who is deceased. The second one is that several religious belief systems say that communicating with someone who is deceased is wrong. Lastly, you must have faith that it is possible to talk to them. Faith comes first. Many people look for absolute proof then they will believe. It is actually the other way around. You must believe you can first, pick the sign and then look for it. 

Be careful about what you ask for though, because you might get it. Then, you are saying Goodbye again. 

Biography: I was living the average life. I was married with two children working in a profession that I loved. On June 19. 2011 that life was destroyed and I became another person. My oldest son died unexpectedly. My son did not die from cancer. Chemotherapy killed him. It is a common experience, but I didn’t know that then. I thought that chemotherapy was going to save him. Almost immediately I felt betrayed by my profession because I was a counselor. I should have known how to handle his death. The loneliness started almost immediately. I felt so alone. I stopped sleeping and the people around me began to disappear. I knew I need community. 10 years later I am finally in a place where I am trying to build the community that I so desperately needed when Christopher first died. We can’t change that our children died, but we can help each other through it. Join me in creating a community for grieving mothers to share our stories with each other creating a sacred space for authentic grieving.

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