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GOODBYE HEARTBREAK, HELLO HEALING, Healing Broken Hearts, Empowering Women, Scriptural Healing, Find Your Love, Single Women, Christian Singles

Kandice A. Bateast, Heartbreak Coach, Author, Prayer Warriorkandiceabateast.podbean.com
Do you feel heartbroken over a recent breakup? Did you think he was “the one”, but it turned out to be another failed relationship? Are you feeling like you’ll never find “the one” for you? Do you wish God would just bring the right man along so you can be happy? In this podcast I will share my journey of looking for love in all the wrong places to finally finding the true love I needed and how that led to me getting into the right position to be married. I had a lot of work to do in my single season. When I finally put God first in my life and truly gave Him my heart, I became content as a single woman. Then, and only then was I ready for marriage. I will share all my tips and insight on healing and moving on after painful breakups, growing close to God during heartbreak, and how to get into position to have the deepest desires of your heart (i.e., marriage, children, etc.). If you’re ready to ditch that broken heart for healing and wholeness, you’re in the right place. Hey Sis! I’m Kandice–a faith-led wife and mother of 3. I’m carrying out the call God placed on my life by helping women heal and move forward after breakups. While I love my life now, this wasn’t always the case. I remember being single, thriving in my career as a school psychologist, and faking a smile everyday. People thought I had it all together on the outside, but inside I had a broken heart and was unfulfilled with my life. The cycle of failed relationships began to make me have thoughts like, “What’s wrong with me?” and “Why am I not enough?” I desperately wanted to find the right man for me and get married. So I went from relationship to relationship; but instead of finding my soulmate with whom I would spend the rest of my life, I found disappointment and more heartbreak. Then, in 2015, my heart was shattered, and I knew something had to change. I finally realized that if I was ever going to truly heal my heart and be fulfilled, I was going to have to partner with God in the healing process. Through healing and connection with God, I finally felt whole and complete. I learned the proper way to heal and grow my relationship with God, and I want to help you do the same. Plus I have tips to help you get ready for future relationships, so when the right one comes along, you’ll be complete and lacking nothing. If you are ready to finally heal your heart, stop going from failed relationship to failed relationship, and grow your relationship with God in the midst of it, all while becoming the woman you want to be who is ready when the right man comes along–this is definitely the podcast for you. Sis, kick off those cute shoes that’s been hurting your feet all day and turn me up in those earbuds, we’re about to get into it! Links Connect: contact@kandiceabateast.com IG: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/427484885847810/ Book: https://www.kandiceabateast.com/shop Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose
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Episodes

022. Minisode: Daily Bread during Heartbreak + Zoom Chat with Me

Hey Sis! Surprise! You’re getting another episode this week! Just a short quick “minisode.” After our last episode with Erika Diaz Castro, I wanted to elaborate on something we were discussing at the end of it, which is our daily bread. We tend to talk about daily bread in terms of getting God’s Word everyday. While that is true, our daily bread is the thing we need from God each day; and it can be different from day to day. Join me in today’s minisode as I dig a little deeper into this. Also, S...

Aug 26, 20228 min

021. Bonus: From Heartbroken and Desperate for Healing to a Purposeful Survivor, Part 2 with Erika from Her Renewed Strength

Hey Sis! I know part 1 of Erika’s story had you on the edge of your seat! We are picking up with the rest of her story today. So if you haven’t listened to part 1, don’t press play here until you listen to it. Here’s a reminder about who Erika is. Erika is a wife, mom, and the host of the podcast, Her Renewed Strength. Erika is also known as your Jesus-loving Puerto Rican life coach, and she helps anxious, burnt out, overwhelmed Christian women go from discouraged, disorganized, and disoriented ...

Aug 25, 202240 min

020. 10 Scriptures to Combat the Lies of the Enemy that God is Not with You in Your Season of Heartbreak, Pt. 2

Hey Sis! I hope you enjoyed part 1 of this episode last week! I get very riled up in today’s episode because, if I must be honest, the devil really just gets on my last nerve. I am so sick of him, but I’m not playing with him anymore. We are here to serve hell notice that we are not staying in this broken place! We are rising up, and we are ready to fight! Here’s a reminder from last week (along with this week’s scriptures): Did you know you’re on the enemy’s hit list? If you didn’t know, I’m so...

Aug 23, 202232 min

019. Bonus: From Heartbroken and Desperate for Healing to a Purposeful Survivor, Part 1 with Erika from Her Renewed Strength

Hey Sis! Have you ever felt so hurt and broken that you would do anything to be happy or just feel better for even just a moment? If so, you’re in good company. Meet today’s guest, Erika Diaz Castro, also known as your Jesus-loving Puerto Rican life coach! Erika is also a wife, mom, and the host of the podcast, Her Renewed Strength. Erika helps anxious, burnt out, overwhelmed Christian women go from discouraged, disorganized, and disoriented to clear-headed, confident and consistent; so they can...

Aug 18, 202237 min

018. 10 Scriptures to Combat the Lies of the Enemy that God Is Not with You in Your Season of Heartbreak, Pt. 1

Hey Sis! Did you know you’re on the enemy’s hit list? If you didn’t know, I’m sorry to be the one to tell you this; but he’s watching you! He knows that you’re walking through a difficult season right now, but he also knows you’re doing what’s necessary to heal your heart–and he doesn’t like that! The enemy is mad and hell is nervous! He knows if you are truly healed and set free, you will be a force to be reckoned with. He knows the stronger you get, the less power he has over you, so he’s givi...

Aug 16, 202229 min

017. Bonus: Stewarding Your Time and Money Well on Your Road to Purpose with Kara of Money and Mental Peace

Hey Sis, We talk a lot about healing from heartbreak on this show, but you know I want to help you become the woman God called you to be and walk in purpose. I have a special guest today who is going to help with that. A big part of really walking in purpose and being able to answer the calling of God is to be good stewards over what He has already entrusted to us. Kara shares her story of how she began living out the calling God placed on her life. Kara also gives tips on how to be good steward...

Aug 11, 202233 min

016. Is It Okay to Miss My Ex? The 4 Stages of Missing Him and Tips to Help at Each Stage

Hey Sis! Have you been implementing the steps and tips you’re getting from this podcast, but you’re discouraged because you’re still missing your ex? Then, today’s today’s episode is definitely for you! The truth is, working towards your healing doesn’t stop you from feeling emotions. And an even harder truth to digest is that just because your ex hurt you doesn’t mean your love for him automatically disappears. Don’t be so hard on yourself if you’re missing your ex. These are natural feelings t...

Aug 09, 202222 min

015. Bonus: The Dealbreaker Relationship that led to God and Purpose with Melia Diana from “The Vertical Relationship Show”

Hey Sis! I know how hard it is to experience heartbreak and to wonder will the pain ever stop. I know you’re wondering if you’ll ever make it to the other side. I’m always telling you that you will make it, but perhaps hearing it from someone else might help. That’s why I have a guest joining me today! Meet Melia Diana. Our stories are very similar, with a few twists. She’s a prime example of how heartbreak grows you closer to God and propels you into purpose. Melia is a Best-Selling Author, Cer...

Aug 04, 202231 min

014. You are Enough//Take a Me Moment

Hey Sis, Today’s episode is a little different. I hope you don’t mind. In the hustle and bustle of life, it’s hard to slow down and take care of ourselves. Everyone needs something from us. They are depending on us. The world wants us to show up for them, but what about us? God is dealing with me in this season to make sure I take time to fill my cup. I am constantly pouring out to others, so my cup has to always be filled. While He was dealing with me one night, I felt Holy Spirit nudging me to...

Aug 02, 202223 min

013. 5 Powerful Steps for Your Faith to Heal Your Heart Now

Hey Sis! How long have you been dealing with heartbreak? Days, weeks, months, years, decades? You know what, Sis, it doesn’t even matter. You know why? Because you’re getting set free and healed today! That’s right, TODAY! The enemy will no longer plague your mind and keep you in this broken hearted state! In today’s episode, we are going to dissect a very familiar passage of scripture to show you how you can use your faith to take hold of the healing that is rightfully yours. We are going to ta...

Jul 26, 202229 min

012. Is God Telling Me to Leave My Relationship//4 Ways God Told Me to Leave 4 Different Relationships

Hey Sis! We have talked about this before. Making the decision to leave a relationship is one of the hardest things in life. There's all of these thoughts, “but I love him,” “but I don’t want to be alone,” “but if not him, then who?” These thoughts keep us frozen in fear, staying in relationships way past our time. I have already shared with you in a previous episode how God told me to leave one relationship (check out episode #8). Today, I’m going to tell you how God told me to leave 4 differen...

Jul 19, 202234 min

011. Worshiping Through Heartbreak with Pastor Jessika Rae Gayden

Hey sis! I have a special treat for you today! I want to welcome our first guest to the podcast, my lil sista from another mista–Pastor Jessika Rae Gayden! This episode is so good and refreshing, and it is for you whether or not you are dealing with heartbreak. Pastor Jessika is a worship Pastor at our church, a nurse, a Mary Kay consultant, and the founder of Lover of Jesus Apparel. Her biggest desire in life is to know Him (Jesus) and to make Him known ❤️! This is such a special episode where ...

Jul 12, 202243 min

010. 5 Benefits I Gained from a Single Act of Obedience + How God Told Me to Leave That Relationship

Hey sis! So, I don’t know if you know this, but obedience is really important on the healing journey. Maybe that’s not what you were ever expecting to hear, but it’s true. If you really want to be healed from this heartbreak, you have to be willing to do what it is God is telling you to do. We always want to be aligned with God’s purpose for our lives, and sometimes that alignment is going to take us being obedient to God in a big way. Here’s the things. The things God tells us to do are not alw...

Jul 05, 202246 min

009. I Need Closure to Move on after a Breakup//Shattering the Myth + 3 Things to do Instead of Seeking Closure

Hey sis, Listen, I know this heartbreak thing is hard, but we’re going to get through this! Today’s episode is all about giving you your power back. We are going to shatter this myth that you need closure to move on after this breakup. First, let me say that I know all about this feeling of needing closure, but I learned that really is just an illusion. In a not so subtle way, God made it clear to me that it’s definitely not needed. I learned so much, though, in this process because it wasn’t ea...

Jun 28, 202231 min

008. The #1 Decision to Make after a Breakup + The 4 Amazing Results You Get

Hey Sis! Have you been tormented by the constant back and forth about whether to truly walk away from a relationship or return to it after a breakup? We’re going to really dig into that double-minded nature today. The enemy tries to keep us in the double-minded state because he knows we won’t receive anything from God as long as we’re in this frame of mind. The constant back and forth is robbing you of God’s blessings and keeping you stagnant. How can you ever move forward and build a complete a...

Jun 21, 202223 min

007. Bonus: Happy Juneteenth: Living in the Promise of our Ancestors // Reflect and Honor

Hey Yall! Happy Juneteenth! I have a special bonus episode for you today as we celebrate our Black Independence Day, the day our ancestors were emancipated and freed from slavery. If you are not a black person, please don’t skip over this episode. Please listen and celebrate with us. I promise there’s no blaming or condemnation, and you’ll be able to glean from it too. My hope is that we can come together and celebrate this day as a nation. In today’s episode we have a very short history of how ...

Jun 20, 202225 min

006. We Broke up, Now What? Where Do I Go from Here? + 10 Steps to Help You Move on after Heartbreak

Hey sis! Listen, I know moving on with a broken heart is hard, and trying to find a roadmap to help you move forward can be even harder. Don’t fret chile! That’s why I’m here! If you have that burning question of “Where do I go from here,” today’s episode is definitely for you. I map out 10 clear steps on how to move on from heartbreak. All of them are necessary and practical. There is no shame in taking time to grieve the loss of a relationship and the loss of the future you thought you would h...

Jun 14, 202233 min

005. Start Walking in Purpose and Carrying out Your Calling Today

Hey Sis! Today’s society is obsessed with purpose, but few know where to start. The question, “What was I created to do?” lingers in the minds of many, especially the Christian community. We are going to delve into it in today’s episode. God created us all with purpose in mind and unique callings. So, if you think you have no purpose, you’ll think differently after listening to what I have to say. We’ll talk about the distinction between purpose and calling. I’ll also help you discover the ways ...

Jun 07, 202243 min

004. The Foundation of Identity and Behavior Patterns//Who am I? Why do I do what I Do?

Hi! I’m so excited about today’s episode. I’ll dig into my psychology background today as we lay the foundation for discovering our identity and uncover our behavior patterns. There is no way we can be complete and whole without knowing who we are. It’s not only important for us to know who we are but also why we do what we do. These two things are essential in order to walk in purpose and carry out the calling God placed on our lives. Join me as we prepare to become masters of ourselves! We’ll ...

May 31, 202219 min

003. 3 Keys to Kick Start Your Spiritual Growth

Hey there! Are you ready to start or grow your relationship with God, but you don’t know where to start? Today’s episode is definitely for you! I’m going to share with you 3 practical keys that I have applied in my own life for spiritual growth, and I’m a living witness that they absolutely work. And be sure to listen to the end because number 3 is my favorite! I will even give you a little homework today to help you get started applying these practical tips to your life. If you’re ready to star...

May 23, 202225 min

002. The Importance of Emotional Healing after a Breakup//My Top 5 Reasons

Hey there! Has someone ever told you, “The best way to get over a man is to get a new one.” Someone told it to me, and I guess I took it to heart. Instead of taking time to actually heal after breakups, I typically jumped right into another relationship with someone else. Essentially, I slapped a bandaid on the wound and kept moving. All the while the wound was becoming infected and began affecting my entire life. Like Proverbs 4:23 says, “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do ...

May 23, 202220 min

001. Introduction to Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose//My Story

Hey there!! I know when a relationship ends and your heart is broken, the pain can be unbearable. It might feel like something that will never go away, and you may even wonder if you’ll ever get through it. I’m here to encourage you. You absolutely can and will get through it! In today’s episode, I share a little of my story to let you know what I went through and experienced with regards to failed relationships and heartbreak. I also share how God brought me out, and what it looks like on the o...

May 23, 202220 min

Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose Trailer

Hey there! Welcome to Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose the podcast! If you're here, I know you're ready to move forward from all the heartbreaks you've experienced in your life and finally feel whole and complete. Heartbreak keeps so many of us from reaching our full potential and achieving purpose because it keeps us stuck in emotional instability, stunted faith, and identity confusion. I don't care how successful you are in your career or business. Heartbreak will leave you feeling unfulfille...

May 10, 20222 min
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