Remember to 🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming platform. Are you afraid of ghosts? Don’t worry, we all are. In this episode we talk about that scary moment we know all too well. Ghosting. That’s right- it’s happened to the best of us. But is there a time and place for it? Or is it all around a hurtful thing to do? We speak about the bad and the potential good about ghosting and as always give our honest opinion. Don’t miss out! Instagram: @goodforshidduchim Email: goodforshidduchim@gmail.com...
May 29, 2025•29 min
Remember to 🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming platform. Lisa Elefant has entered the room! That’s right! We had the pleasure to interview and speak with the founder of Adopt A Shadchan! This incredible episode has some of the best Shadchan advice and dating advice led by Lisa Elefant herself! We cover topics of: age gaps, older singles, and Shadchanim who charge fees.**Dedicated Leilui Nishmas Chaim Ben Yaakov Shmuel. His Neshama should have an Aliyah.https://adoptashadchan.com/ Instagram: ...
May 22, 2025•1 hr 6 min
Remember to 🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming platform. We are going to Utah! Well, not really—figuratively! Meet our friend Mckall, who tells us all about dating in Mormon culture! In this episode, we discuss the similarities and differences between Mormon dating and orthodox Jewish dating! Instagram: @goodforshidduchim Email: goodforshidduchim@gmail.com ---> Merch Store...
May 15, 2025•44 min
Remember to 🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming platform. Anxious about meeting new people? Singles events have you tripping over your words? Finding a group of girls intimidating? How exactly do you get a girl's digits? In this episode, we talk about dating events and the lovely anxiety it can trigger. We have all been and done that- maybe four times over. Listen to this episode to receive some tips and tricks from someone who understands how challenging a singles event environment can be! A...
May 09, 2025•1 hr 7 min
Remember to 🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming platform. We know first dates can be uncomfortable, especially when an awkward silence settles in. So, what should one say when these silences happen? In this episode, we give advice on what to say and what not to say on the first date. And when those awkward silences sneak in, we have some advice on how to tackle it and have the date turn around and be successful! Instagram: @goodforshidduchim Email: goodforshidduchim@gmail.com ---> Merch...
Apr 24, 2025•35 min
Remember to 🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming platform.We all know dating costs a pretty penny. Ever wonder how much dating actually costs you? Or need to know the reason why your bank account is so low after a first date? Leave it to Gavriel Levy, data analyst and experienced dater to break down the money math of dating. Instagram: @goodforshidduchim Email: goodforshidduchim@gmail.com ---> Merch Store...
Apr 17, 2025•1 hr 4 min
🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming platform.Warning - this episode speaks about eating disorders and anxiety Looks play a big part in dating. Theres no way going around it these days. The pressure of looking a certain way can lead some to feel lost, anxious and overwhelmed. Unfortunately, if these feelings aren’t dealt with properly- it can lead to underlying serious issues. To understand a little more about this, we spoke with Elizabeth Bergmen an eating disorders specialist to break it dow...
Apr 10, 2025•1 hr 3 min
🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming platform. Are the bride and groom responsible for their single friends meeting others at their wedding? How much effort should be put into setting up your single friends during a wedding? And what about those awful resume pictures are they necessary? In this episode we tackle the controversial opinions on the rules of the bride and groom and if resume pictures are yay or nay. Instagram: @goodforshidduchim Email: goodforshidduchim@gmail.com ---> Merch...
Apr 03, 2025•45 min
🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming platform. Online dating is never easy. When a good idea comes along guy or girls way, excitement and hope can be in the back of his/her mind. However, it’s possible the match may not be approved on the other end - and devastation takes over. Or even worse, the match is timed out or expired without any information. In this weeks episode we discuss whether or not a match should just be timed out or a girl or guy should give a straight up “no” with some explan...
Mar 27, 2025•34 min
Remember to 🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming platform. Should parents be involved in dating? Uselessness of a Resume. This podcast cuts through the shidduch charade, smashing resume robots and awkward pauses. Unleash your true essence, rewrite your love story, and find your bashert on your terms. Ignite the revolution, swipe right on real connections. "Make Shidduchim Great Again" Coffee Mug: https://good-for-shidduchim.printify.me/product/10580470/make-shidduchim-great-again-coffee-mug-11...
Mar 20, 2025•1 hr 11 min
In this episode, we delve into the complexities of dating as a divorced single woman within the Orthodox Jewish community. Join us as we speak with a brave single woman who shares her candid thoughts, experiences, and challenges in re-entering the dating scene post-divorce. From societal stigmas to personal growth, our guest provides valuable insights and perspectives on navigating the unique landscape of Orthodox Jewish dating. Tune in for an honest and enlightening conversation. Email us: good...
Mar 14, 2025•49 min
In this episode we talk about if references on shidduch resumes are ineffective or effective. Which questions are constructive when looking into a potential date and which questions are plan crazy. Should questions be subjective or objective? Is being more straightforward good? Or can it cause harm? All these questions answered with our own spin on things in this episode!Remember to 🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming platform.Instagram: @goodforshidduchimEmail: goodforshidduchim@gmail.com ...
Mar 06, 2025•36 min
At some points, dating can be fun, exciting and adventurous. However, it can also lead to burnout, being emotionally drained and tired. In this episode we talk about dating burnout and how people can become jaded. It’s happened to anyone who has been dating. In this episode we offer our perspectives on what leads to burnout and how to possibly manage those tiring dating days! Listen to the episode for more! Remember to 🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming platform.Instagram: @goodforshidduchim...
Feb 20, 2025•57 min
Throughout our podcast we have been focusing on singles 20-40s. This episode we took a turn to gain perspective on those dating who are dating in their 50s and up. To shed some light on this topic- we welcomed Hannah- a widow who is navigating the dating world for a second time along with her friend Marla- who is divorced and also conquering the roller coaster ride of dating. There are many parallels to their dating experiences to those dating in their 20-40s, but also many different challenges ...
Feb 13, 2025•1 hr 1 min•Ep. 47
In this episode we speak about the “ick” factor all girls get while dating. It could be 20 seconds in or 3 dates in- but what triggers the “ick” factor ? Are singles blurring their expectations vs reality while looking for their match? This and more discussed in this episode! "Make Shidduchim Great Again" Coffee Mug: https://good-for-shidduchim.printify.me/product/10580470/make-shidduchim-great-again-coffee-mug-11oz Remember to 🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming platform. Instagram: @goodfor...
Feb 06, 2025•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 46
Get ready for a new episode, featuring Tamar Berger Ben Tzvi! You may know her from her social media platform “talesoftamar” in which she is very vocal about fertility awareness. Not only does Tamar speak about fertility, she also brings up conversations that would likely be considered controversial such as, mental health, sex ed and of course dating. Once we connected we knew the conversation about shidduchim would be something to share with our audience! Not to mention a special surprise guest...
Jan 30, 2025•1 hr 22 min•Ep. 45
This episode topic was brought to our attention by Daniella, a listener to the podcast. She informed us of an interesting concept in Jewish dating that added fuel to the fire. Doesn’t one start dating after coming back from seminary? Isn’t the age of 19-21 when to start in shidduchim? Apparently, that’s debatable. Listen to this episode to hear our thoughts! "Make Shidduchim Great Again" Coffee Mug: https://good-for-shidduchim.printify.me/product/10580470/make-shidduchim-great-again-coffee-mug-1...
Jan 23, 2025•56 min•Ep. 44
We are so excited to welcome Rachel Salutsky to the show! Rachel is the host of her own podcast, shticky situations, in which Jewish singles share their dating stories. In this episode we explore Rachel’s views on dating amongst many other dating opinions! Follow Rachel on Instagram: @shtickysituationspod | @rsaluts Claim your "MAKE SHIDDUCHIM GREAT AGAIN" coffee mug. Remember to 🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming platform. Instagram: @goodforshidduchim Email: goodforshidduchim@gmail.com...
Jan 16, 2025•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 43
Think the common “facts” about Jewish dating are true? Think again. In this episode, Rabbi Dr. Yosef Sokol, PhD in Clinical Psychology, targets some widely circulated “facts” that are anything but accurate. When he came across a shocking statistic about Jewish singles, he decided to take matters into his own hands, and what he uncovered were true facts and statistics relating to Jewish age and marriage. Prepare for some uncomfortable truths and major myth-busting—this is one conversation you don...
Jan 09, 2025•1 hr•Ep. 42
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Jan 02, 2025•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 41
In this episode we talk about that holiday anxiety and what it means to be single during the holiday season. Is it a time for happiness and celebration? Or a time you feel the most single with explosions of engagements and weddings in your face? Or maybe it’s a little mix of both? Listen to episode to find out our opinions! Check Out Our Merch Store: https://good-for-shidduchim.printify.me/products Remember to 🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming platform. Instagram: @goodforshiddu...
Dec 27, 2024•41 min•Ep. 40
In this episode, we chat with Nathan Aboff about the rise of matchmaking through WhatsApp groups. Should these groups charge a fee? Are they a genuine service or more of a disservice? We unpack the good, the bad, and the unexpected. Oh, and Sydney Sweeney may have been mentioned a couple of times. Check Out Our Merch Store: https://good-for-shidduchim.printify.me/products Remember to 🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming platform. Instagram: @goodforshidduchim Email: goodforshidduch...
Dec 19, 2024•40 min•Ep. 39
We sit down with comedian Eli Lebowicz to talk about what else...Shhhhhhidduchim. It’s always refreshing to share a good laugh, especially when tackling the ups and downs of shidduchim. The journey isn’t always smooth, but sometimes humor is exactly what we need to lighten the load and shift perspective. In this episode, we’re joined by comedian Eli Lebowicz, who brings his sharp wit and relatable humor to the topic we all know (and sometimes dread): shidduchim. Eli shares his hilarious take on ...
Dec 12, 2024•1 hr 26 min•Ep. 38
In this episode, Max reveals an A.I. app that has changed the game when it comes to “what to say” in the chats on dating apps. Never again message the typical “hey, what’s up”, but rather, learn how to get more responses that leads to more dates. ---> Check Out Our Merch Store Remember to 🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming platform. Instagram: @goodforshidduchim Email: goodforshidduchim@gmail.com...
Dec 05, 2024•48 min•Ep. 37
When it comes to Jewish dating, our guest this week is an expert. She's a personal dating coach and matchmaker. She is well known for her Netflix show “Jewish Matchmaking”. She's a published author, podcast host, and world renowned speaker. She's been featured in Rolling Stone, BBC World News, Aish[dot]com, and many other prominent media outlets. We discuss controversial questions relating to Jewish dating such as the "Shidduch Crisis" and "how Jewish singles are treated in their communities". P...
Nov 28, 2024•1 hr 17 min•Ep. 36
When it comes to women’s roles in terms of raising a family, being a spouse and having a successful job- some eyebrows can be raised. The debate if the woman should stay at home or have a career is a topic often spoken about amongst the Jewish community. We sit down with a woman who delivers to all three categories and how this dynamic works for her and her family. ---> Check Out Our Merch Store Remember to 🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming platform. Instagram: @goodforsh...
Nov 21, 2024•43 min•Ep. 35
Hobbies are a way for individuals to have an outlet or an escape from day to day life. Hobbies usually make us feel happy and accomplished. So why are hobbies kept such a secret while dating? And why are certain hobbies frowned upon? In this episode we discuss how one should view hobbies and which hobbies can leave a red flag. ---> Check Out Our Merch Store Remember to 🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming platform. Instagram: @goodforshidduchim Email: goodforshidduchim@gmail.c...
Nov 14, 2024•51 min•Ep. 34
Is it possible to date someone with opposing political views? Political conversations are bound to be brought up during dating. Whether it’s a comfortable conversation or cringy one- that’s a whole different story. Especially nowadays, this topic can get very heated. In this episode we discuss when and if politics should be discussed and how to tackle such heated conversations. ---> Check Out Our Merch Store Remember to 🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming platform. Instagram: @...
Nov 07, 2024•38 min•Ep. 33
In this episode we go over all the greatest moments of season 1. ---> Check Out Our Merch Store Remember to 🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming platform. Instagram: @goodforshidduchim Email: goodforshidduchim@gmail.com ***To sponsor a future podcast, email us, and we can send you our media kit.
Aug 15, 2024•36 min•Season 1Ep. 32
In this episode we interview Leah Respler. She's responsible for 6 marriages and hosting what we think are the most successful singles events to date. Hear what she has to say about what makes a good event. How do you attract both girls AND guys to come. And so much more... ---> Check Out Our Merch Store Remember to 🔔 'FOLLOW' on your favorite streaming platform. Instagram: @goodforshidduchim Email: goodforshidduchim@gmail.com ***To sponsor a future podcast, email us, and we can send...
Aug 01, 2024•54 min•Ep. 31
