This week, Elle and Vee sit down with kink educator Foxie Lou . This is a masterclass in turning sex from performance into exploration touching on BDSM, play, trust, and connection. From primal wrestling and predicament play to nervous system safety and the fear of receiving, the conversation gets raw fast as Elle realizes her struggle with submission might actually be a struggle with vulnerability. Foxie breaks down why great sex has way less to do with performance and way more to do with curio...
May 28, 2026•1 hr 10 min
In this episode, Dr. Elle aka Dr. Sexy breaks down the 13 biggest things quietly wrecking the vaginal microbiome and why so many women stay stuck in cycles of BV, yeast infections, odor, irritation, and feeling “off” in their own bodies. She gets real about what it actually takes to keep your pussy balanced while living a sexually open lifestyle, from sex parties and multiple partners to semen exposure, stress, sleep, hormones, and the everyday habits nobody realizes are throwing their body into...
May 21, 2026•44 min•Season 3Ep. 173
This week, Elle and V are diving headfirst into the messy, vulnerable, wildly under-discussed world of vaginal health, BV, yeast infections, microbiomes, and the shame so many women silently carry around their bodies. Check out our first episode on this topic in 011: Vagina Health: How to Prevent and Treat Yeast Infections, BV, and UTIs. In this NEW episode, we go deeper. From play party etiquette to how to tell someone their pussy smells with care instead of humiliation, this episode is raw, fu...
May 14, 2026•40 min•Season 3Ep. 172
In this episode, Elle and Vee sit down with Genevieve Lejeune, founder of Skirt Club , to explore what really happens when women gather without the male gaze. From all female play parties and bisexual awakening to sex magic, nervous system regulation, and erotic sisterhood, this conversation dives deep into the emotional and psychological layers of female desire. Genevieve opens up about building a global community for bi curious women, the healing power of feminine spaces, and why so many women...
May 07, 2026•1 hr 5 min
In this episode, Elle and Vee sit down with Elle's husband M just four weeks postpartum to unpack a birth story that took a wild, unexpected turn. From using a vibrator to trigger contractions to an intense, emotional delivery that led to a complete mindset shift, nothing went as planned. They dive into the raw reality of postpartum healing, libido shifts, and what happens to your sex life after baby number two. It’s messy, vulnerable, and brutally honest in the way only they can be. Chapters Wh...
Apr 30, 2026•1 hr 6 min•Season 4Ep. 170
This week Elle and Vee chat with Aviva (aka Leora) about the raw and unexpected intersection of parenting, tantra, and kink. They explore how divorce became a gateway to self-discovery, pleasure, and reclaiming personal power—while unpacking how core principles of kink and tantra (like attunement, boundaries, and presence) can actually enhance the way we parent. The conversation weaves through emotional regulation, dominance vs. control, and finding pleasure in everyday parenting moments. It’s a...
Apr 23, 2026•1 hr 2 min•Season 4Ep. 169
This week, Vee and Elle go deep with Catherine Drysdale — a dating and intimacy expert who accidentally stepped into her power as a mommy dom and never looked back. She breaks down the truth behind dominance that no one talks about: it’s not about pain, it’s about presence, boundaries, and knowing exactly what you want. We get into service subs, pleasure-first dynamics, and why she refuses to center men’s pleasure in her sex life. From making men clean her apartment to teaching women how to acce...
Apr 16, 2026•1 hr 9 min•Season 4Ep. 168
This week, Elle and Vee sit down with Suriya Nikko to dive into the world of yoni massage, internal orgasms, and what your body might be holding onto beneath the surface. They unpack how pelvic tension, stress, and even subtle trauma can block pleasure. This is for women who already orgasm and want more pleasure, and for partners who want to learn how to slow down, tune in, and unlock deeper layers of pleasure. From internal hotspots to breath, rhythm, and presence, this episode is about expandi...
Apr 09, 2026•1 hr 7 min•Season 4Ep. 167
This week, in this wildly honest and unexpectedly human episode, Vee and Elle sit down with adult film star Aaron Thompson , better known as Small Hands, to pull back the curtain on what really goes down behind the scenes of porn. Elle, Vee and Small Hands get into kink, consent, gang bang dynamics, emotional intelligence, erectile dysfunction, and what it actually means to be a good Dom. This episode is raw, hilarious, deeply insightful—and might completely change the way you see porn, sex, and...
Apr 02, 2026•1 hr 17 min•Season 4Ep. 166
This week Elle and Vee chat with Ian Kerner , a licensed psychotherapist and bestselling author of She Comes First who helps individuals and couples build deeper desire, connection, and sexual confidence. Together, they unpack how everything from your early sexual experiences to the “sex scripts” you’ve internalized may be quietly shaping your turn-ons, your relationships, and your struggles with desire, ED, and communication. From de-centering intercourse and exploring coreplay to navigating fa...
Mar 26, 2026•1 hr 4 min•Season 4Ep. 165
This week, Elle and Vee chat with Tash Doherty about all the random sexy, kinky things that come up during a game of WHOREible Life (think: never have I ever, but unhinged). Playing Would You Rather with WHOREible Life cards opens the door to a wildly honest, funny, and surprisingly deep conversation about fantasies, exhibitionism, impact play, submission, and the psychology behind what turns us on. From sex toys to self-awareness to craving attention in all the right (and wrong) ways, nothing i...
Mar 19, 2026•41 min•Season 4Ep. 164
This week, Jade Greene shares her unconventional journey from beauty queen and professional cheerleader to erotica author and porn performer. Jade pulls back the curtain on what really happens behind the scenes of porn, from consent talks and filming mishaps to the hilarious realities of sex on camera. Between laugh-out-loud stories and honest truth bombs, this episode is a playful, unfiltered peek into sex, creativity, and living boldly. Chapter Beauty Pageants To Pole Dancing To Accountant To ...
Mar 12, 2026•1 hr 10 min
This week Elle and Vee join Annette Benedetti of the Talk Sex with Annette podcast for a crossover episode all about blowjobs. The girls share their top tips for giving incredible oral, from rhythm and enthusiasm to reading a partner’s reactions, and the surprisingly important etiquette of being on the receiving end. They get into the little things that make oral sex unforgettable, and the habits that can quietly ruin the vibe. 05:21 Goals for the Episode: Skills and Confidence 06:19 Confidence ...
Mar 05, 2026•1 hr 2 min•Season 4Ep. 162
This week Elle and Vee chat with JJ of Sexie Show podcast about all things cuckolding. From the thrill of watching, to the juicy tension of jealousy, ego, and control, the girls ask the questions on everyone's minds: why do it? What does a cuck get out of it? They get into the real difference between cuckolding and hot wifing, why so many couples are secretly curious, and how this “taboo” dynamic can actually unlock deeper trust, better communication, and unexpected emotional intimacy. JJ shares...
Feb 26, 2026•1 hr 6 min•Season 4Ep. 161
This is a crossover episode in which Elle and Vee join Sexie Show host JJ as guests for a completely chaotic conversation packed with sex games, hot takes, and the kinds of questions that expose how well (or how poorly) you actually know your co-host. They cover everything from memorable moments from the playful dynamics of their friendship, GGD and sexual memories, breast milk play, golden showers, and soaking (yes, like the Mormons do). The conversation is filled with laughter, insights, and a...
Feb 19, 2026•52 min•Season 4Ep. 160
This week Elle and Vee have a deep, free-flowing and wide-ranging chat with JC Wilde, writer and director of the film Wild Fire. They speak about emotional affairs and the radical honesty that nearly burned her marriage down, and then what happens when you stop performing “perfect partner” and start saying the thing that scares you most. Inspired by real-life truth-or-dare confessions, Wild Fire sparks a raw conversation about open relationships, people-pleasing, projection, and the freedom of a...
Feb 12, 2026•1 hr 1 min•Season 4Ep. 159
This week, Elle and Vee play Whoreible Life with sexologist, relationship coach, and host of In Bed with Alexa podcast , Alexa Andre . As usual, a few cards turn into larger conversations about being a unicorn, OnlyFans, orgies, the best kind of dildo, latex fantasies, receiving pleasure, and why couple privilege can make or break group sex. Messy, honest, hilarious, and very on-brand. What is Whoreible Life ? Whoreible Life is a sex-positive card game designed to spark honest, funny, and someti...
Feb 05, 2026•59 min•Season 4Ep. 158
This week Elle and Vee chat with Annette Benedetti, badass sex educator, pleasure expert, and host of Talk Sex with Annette , known for her no-bullshit approach to sex, orgasms, and sexual health. They dive into her 365 Days of Pleasure experiment, daily masturbation, favorite sex toys, and why the intermittent setting actually exists on the Magic Wand (do people really use that?!). If you want the real talk on clitoral, G-spot, cervical, blended, rolling, A-spot, P-spot, and anal orgasms, don’t...
Jan 29, 2026•1 hr 1 min•Season 4Ep. 157
This week, Vee and Elle chat with Mistress Chi, a tantric dominatrix and erotic facilitator who blends sacred sexuality with BDSM and ritual. They explore discovering your inner switch, blending tantra and kink, and how power exchange can become a portal for emotional and erotic transformation. From impact play to pussy-led creativity, this episode is full of insights for anyone curious about kink, tantra, and embodiment. Discover your inner switch: how Mistress Chi tapped in to both sides of he...
Jan 22, 2026•58 min•Season 4Ep. 156
This Week, Elle and Vee chat with Leandra Petroff , Somatica-certified sexologist and sex & intimacy coach, and pick her brain about everything from narcissism in relationships, the perspective of a switch, and building real intimacy in modern relationships. They break down what “somatic” actually means and how to radically deepen connection. From the psychology of dominance and submission to core desires, hottest sexual movies, and spotting narcissism in ENM and polyamory, this episode is p...
Jan 15, 2026•55 min•Season 4Ep. 155
Fisting isn’t about going hard — it’s about going slowly, intentionally, and deeply connected. In this episode Elle and Vee sit down with Jamie Joy and Riley Ocean to take the shame, fear, and mystery out of fisting and talk about what actually makes it powerful, pleasurable, and safe. Together, they explore anal and vaginal prep, communication, pacing, and aftercare, breaking down what it really takes to explore deep penetration — emotionally, mentally, and physically. Fisting: first fisting ex...
Jan 08, 2026•1 hr 20 min•Season 4Ep. 154
In this episode, Vee and Elle answer listener questions from the @girlsgonedeeppod instagram. Chapters How Do You Find a Unicorn or a 3rd? (See Episode 81 for more tips ) (00:00) What Was Your First Girl on Girl Experience? Was It a Friend or Random? What’s the Largest Orgy You’ve Been In? Defining Two Types of Orgies. (31:00) Condoms in Mouths and Ureaplasma.(37:06) What Do You Do To Make Your ENM Partnership Work? (43:45) Why Do This Lifestyle And How You Know It's For You? (01:01:57) ________...
Jan 01, 2026•1 hr 6 min•Season 4Ep. 153
In this episode, Elle and Vee recap their Joy Family holiday party, aka the Naughty Snowball, at which LOTS of naughty fun was had! This is a revisit from January 2025, and still holds up as one of the naughtiest most exploratory parties they've been at together. Themes/dressing for body confidence (especially after having a baby). (2:23) Prostate play with Daddy: Elle gets a lesson in best practices for milking the prostate, and snowballing cum between five people. (5:22) Rope 101: Vee uses her...
Dec 25, 2025•57 min•Season 3Ep. 152
This week Elle and Vee discuss all the ways they've been exploring pleasure recently: including BDSM scenes with vibrators, flogging and five orgasms, achieving sub space, mushroom-fueled connection, cervical orgasms while pregnant, knife play, cock warming, and that very specific moment when you yawn on a dick and keep going anyway. Halloween Night BDSM Scene Gone Wrong: Vee and Mister A are stranded in a spooky AirBnB. (1:37) Pain/Pleasure Cycling: Vee has five orgasms during a BDSM scene with...
Dec 18, 2025•52 min•Season 3Ep. 151
This week, Vee and Elle sit down with Tash Doherty — a British-Irish-American writer, creator of Misseducated (the blog and podcast helping the world become shamelessly sexy), and author of These Perfectly Careless Things , her spicy coming-of-age debut novel. She is a bold, candid, and deeply reflective sexuality writer who holds nothing back. We discuss Tash’s latest project, The Intimacy Journa l, which invites readers into deeper erotic self-reflection through writing. They also wander into ...
Dec 04, 2025•58 min•Season 3Ep. 149
Have you been naughty or nice? Either way, Vee and Elle are serving up the ultimate sexy gift guide to help you heat up your season. We’re sharing the toys, experiences, and books we actually love… and several come with special discount codes just for GGD listeners. Happy HOlidays, naughty snowballs! Vee is bedridden from a sex injury, and Elle has pelvic girdle pain. Our fave toys - why are we doing this? (Answer: because we helpful, good girls :) (5:55) Best Couple Toy: Sex Swing. (7:36) Best ...
Nov 27, 2025•1 hr 2 min•Season 3Ep. 148
This week, Elle and Vee play time Fuck-Marry-Kill version of the card game WHOREible Life with Athena. This episode is pure chaotic pleasure — the kind where nostalgia, food, kink, and butt-stuff all swirl into one ridiculous open conversation. We go from childhood games to double-ended vegetables, from grooming disasters to pegging wins, from lingerie-in-public confessions to pee-play experimentation, from CNC fantasies to explicit photo close calls. Strap in (or strap on)… this one gets naught...
Nov 20, 2025•53 min•Season 3Ep. 147
This week, it’s Guys Gone Deep! Elle and Vee are joined by Ricky — their resident anal expert — for an honest, hilarious, and educational chat about what it really takes to feel comfortable exploring the backdoor. From understanding how to prepare your body, to learning the right tools, techniques, and hygiene tips, this episode dives into the practical side of exploration — and the mindset that makes it enjoyable. We cover topics like body awareness, relaxation, communication, common myths, and...
Nov 13, 2025•1 hr 11 min•Season 3Ep. 146
What happens when a psychologist in a 25-year sexless marriage decides she’s done living without desire? This week, Dr. Alisa Kriegel joins Elle and Vee to share her raw, transformative journey from disconnection to deep erotic empowerment — the story behind her upcoming memoir From Sexless Marriage to Sex Goddess. We talk about: How up to 40% of marriages are sexless — and why no one wants to admit it The power of communication, curiosity, and skin-to-skin contact in rekindling intimacy The tru...
Nov 06, 2025•1 hr 12 min•Season 3Ep. 145
This week Elle and Vee chat about rough oral play: aka face fucking. What is face fucking? What is the difference between fellatio and erumatio? (00:34) Do you like rough oral sex? How our relationship with it has evolved. (4:11) Running mascara as marks. (11:04) CNC. (12:24) Roman showers: throat sex to the point of throwing up. (14:25) Things to think about for the giver/top. (17:52) Tricks and tips for the receiver/bottom. How to deal with gag reflex. (21:30) The best positions. (25:45) Safet...
Oct 30, 2025•48 min•Season 3Ep. 144