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Girl Stop Talking

Girl Stop Talking is your new favorite unfiltered podcast hosted by Tatum Zoeee and her unhinged co-host, Chance. Two 90s babies with millennial meltdowns and Gen Z humor, they’re here to talk about everything you’re voice-noting your friends: sex, situationships, body image, therapy, and men who should absolutely not be dating. From wild overshares to hot takes no one asked for, Tatum and Chance bring bold opinions, messy stories, and chaotic best-friend energy. If you’ve ever been told you’re too loud, or too much—this is the show for you. Grab a drink, lower your standards, and press play.
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Episodes

3 Seasons & 100 Episodes Later

Happy 100th episodes girrrrllllll!! It's been 3 weeks too long and I'm happy to be back. I obviously wanted this episodes to be perfect but knew it'd take time putting it together. Tune in to quite literally watch the growth of the show! From my old bedroom, un-synced audio, shitty camera quality to an in home studio, a better camera, and a co-host! I truly wish i could have added more because I couldn't even highlight HALF of the amazing people I've had on. I tried to grab my hottest takes and ...

Jun 03, 20251 hr 3 minSeason 3Ep. 100

Broke Man Energy & Highschool Drama

99- Hey friends! Today, Chance and I are back at it —chatting about the latest hard-boiled egg trend, and diving into our most chaotic nights out. Like seriously… how do we always manage to find ourselves in these wild situations?! It’s giving messy, but we love it! I also go on a little rant—because duh—about a very specific type of man. You know the one. He’s always lurking in Old Town or posted up at the bar, acting like he’s got game, but really? He’s just using people to get what he wants. ...

May 05, 202542 min

Who’s The “Crazy” Ex Now: A Guide to Accountability

98- TRIGGER WARNING! THIS EPISODE CONTAINS DOMESTIC ABUSE. Hey, girl—welcome to my story! This week, I’m getting extra vulnerable and spilling all the tea on how I used these exact steps to break free from my most toxic relationship. And trust me... everything you’re about to hear? 100% facts. I seriously could not make this sh*t up if I tried! I'm opening up because I want you to know: you are allowed to change your story. If you’re not changing it, you’re choosing it—and girl, we are not choos...

Apr 29, 202539 minSeason 3Ep. 98

Celibacy Is Trending

97- On this week’s episode, Chance and I are back and chatting about everything from tariffs (yeah, we’re getting weirdly smart today) to celibacy in young women—and why we’re all still out here just trying to find real love. We’re kicking things off with some trending topics to keep you in the loop and get us in the perfect mood to gossip. You already know the vibes—let’s get into it.

Apr 21, 202548 minSeason 3Ep. 2

Rumor Has It, She's Desperate For Love

96- Hi, it’s me again—back for another solo episode, and whew... this one’s juicy ! This week, I’m spilling the full story behind that viral threesome rumor I posted about online—the one that was making its rounds in my friend group. Did it actually happen? Has it happened since then? You’ll just have to listen to find out. As the episode goes on, I also dive into some wild relationship tales—especially about one particularly crazy ex. From him trying to tear down my soul to the ways toxic relat...

Apr 16, 202552 minSeason 3Ep. 1

A Millennial Summer

95- This week, Chance and I are finally catching up after three long weeks apart—can you believe it?! We’re diving into all things millennial: from the words making a comeback (yes, we’re bringing them back like it’s 2009) to wondering if we’re about to get ourselves canceled... maybe. Idk?? And since summer is basically knocking on the door, we’ve officially claimed it: This is the Millennial Summer, baby! Millennials, unite! Oh—and you know I always have a surprise or two up my sleeve… We’re d...

Apr 07, 202545 minSeason 2Ep. 95

Saving Lives & A Trip to Daytona

This week’s episode is all about catching up! I’m giving you the scoop on everything that’s been going on in my life over the past month. And okay, I’ll admit—I was recording this one at the pool, so if I sound a little off, it’s because I’m still working on not getting totally awkward when people are around. 94-This week, I’m sharing a wild story about how I ended up helping save someone’s life, and how my girlfriend turned around and saved mine right back. I’m also giving you a sneak peek at o...

Mar 31, 202541 minSeason 2Ep. 94

Fatherless Behavior

93- This week on the pod, Chance and I are dishing out all the juicy details from our wild Vegas adventure—because trust me, it was pure chaos in the best way. We’re talking all-nighters, new friends, a mind-blowing experience at The Sphere, and yes… even a pit stop at the wax museum (because why not?). We packed an entire reality show’s worth of drama into 24 hours, only to crash for another 24 like true party warriors. So buckle up, because it’s basically like you were right there with us! Oh,...

Mar 17, 202558 minSeason 2Ep. 93

Road Trips & Dating in the Social Media Era

92- Vegas, baby! We’re hittin’ the road, and you’re coming with us! Buckle up for the ultimate girls’ trip as we spill the tea on relationships, dating, and the wild world of social media. Oh, and you know I had to bring the drama—I’ve got two brand-new games that’ll have us diving deep into our own love lives, insecurities, and how we really handle the chaos of social media. This episode? Controversial. Unfiltered. And absolutely juicy. Let’s go!Follow Us Here: https://www.youtube.com/@girlstop...

Mar 12, 20251 hr 7 minSeason 2Ep. 92

Dating Dilemmas

91- Catch up with us, we have more surprises! On this weeks LATE episode we're going over all of our most recent ideas for the show including how to get more of us with a new YouTube series (coming soon). We also have a handful of write in's from our listeners and we're giving our opinions on their dilemmas! Everything from going on trips without your man, to "best friends" staying friends with your ex! These details are juicy. stay tuned for more drama, and yapping! Instagram: https://www.insta...

Feb 27, 202543 minSeason 2Ep. 91

Are We Dating The Same Guy?

90- Girlfriends, we’re back! After three weeks of absolute chaos, Tatum and Chance are finally kicking back on the couch for some much-needed girl talk. We’re catching up on everything — dishing out the details on our exciting new ideas for the show, dropping some sneaky hints about our upcoming reality series on YouTube (yes, it’s happening!), and, of course, diving into our fashion, or much needed fashion. Plus, you know we're chatting about our love for the new season of Love Is Blind —debrie...

Feb 17, 202540 minSeason 2Ep. 90

On The DL

Chance is spilling all the tea about the time he unknowingly became the other woman ! Yep, you heard that right—he hooked up with a man on the down low who just so happened to be in a whole relationship. Whew! And guess what? We’ve got the voice messages to prove it! Why does Chance keep attracting these men? How did it all go down? And most importantly... who caught the c*m? Tune in to find out—because this tea is hot , the details are hotter , and the mess? Absolutely next level! YouTube: http...

Feb 10, 202554 minSeason 2Ep. 89

88- Pulling All Nighters & Adult Sleepovers

We’re BACK, baby! It’s our second episode, but officially our first real yapping session—so buckle up! Today, Chance and I are spilling all the tea on our wild nights out together… and trust me, we’ve got stories for days ! From staying up till sunrise to, um… trying to hook up with guys in the bathroom—WAIT, WHAAAAT?! Yeah, you heard that right. But it’s not just about the chaos (although, let’s be real, there’s a lot of that). We’re also diving into surface-level friendships and how they evolv...

Feb 03, 20251 hr 1 minSeason 2Ep. 88

87- BIG SURPRISE GIIRLLLL

It’s Monday, girl! And ooooh, do I have a surprise for you! On this week’s episode, the one and only Chance is BACK—yes, a fan favorite, if you will—and trust me, we have so much to talk about. But don’t worry, we’re keeping it fun as always! We’re spicing things up with some juicy ‘Would You Rather’ questions and a wild round of ‘Never Have I Ever.’ And of course, we’re getting to know Chance on a whole new level... Why, you ask? Well, babe, you’ll just have to listen to find out! Let’s get int...

Jan 27, 20251 hr 4 minSeason 87Ep. 2

86- The Change Starts With YOU! Ft. Coach Zoe

Another Monday, another dose of motivation giirlll! This week, I’ve got an amazing guest joining me—Coach Zoe from Team OPTMZE—and we’re diving deep into our goals. That’s right, we’re not giving up just yet! And listen, if you haven’t exactly stuck to those New Year’s resolutions… it’s okay! We’ve got you covered with tips on how to set attainable goals that actually stick. Let’s be real—we all struggle with keeping commitments to ourselves, but procrastination only drags things out and leaves ...

Jan 20, 202543 minSeason 2Ep. 86

85- What I Wish I Knew About S*x

Congrats, you made it to the second Monday of the year! This week, we’re diving into the juicy world of New Year’s resolutions with a little twist. Ever heard of the “quitting day” theory? Don’t worry, we’re breaking it down and giving you tips on how to set goals that are actually doable . But wait—this isn’t just your average goals episode. Oh no, we’re spicing things up by mixing in some real talk about sex—because, let’s be honest, it’s what we all wish we learned sooner. I asked you on Inst...

Jan 13, 202541 minSeason 2Ep. 85

84- New Year, New Evolution

New Year, Same ol' ME! To be so honest we're only 6 days in and I already feel SO behind, like I'm not doing enough... posting, creating content, dropping episodes on time etc. Does anyone else feel like they could be doing more?! Because same! The facts are... today is the FIRST Monday of the year! In my book it's the official first week of January, therefore we are not behind, and we're all going to set ourselves up for success TODAY! Today's episode we're catching up on life + the holidays. T...

Jan 06, 202545 minSeason 2Ep. 84

Ho's, Bro's & Different Area Codes

Episode 83(Holiday Edition)- Merry Christmas Eve Eve, and welcome to this weeks episode full of holiday tea. Let me tell you it is pipping HOT! We're discussing holiday pet peeves, drama and I sourced yours guys' best or worst holiday experiences, and I'm giving advice on it all. From postponing a break up until after the holidays, to exes reaching out for holiday hookups...while in other relationships. I'm divulging it all! Happy Holidays!

Dec 25, 202430 minEp. 83

Relationship Titles & Societal Expectations Ft. Joli Hamilton

EP82- This weeks guest is Dr. Joli Hamilton is the relationship coach for couples who color outside the lines & founder of The Year of Opening. She is a research psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and AASECT certified sex educator. Joli’s been featured in The New York Times, Vogue, Cosmo, and NPR. Alright, so our conversation took a turn I totally didn’t see coming—but honestly, it was so good! We got into some juicy stuff, like personal relationships, Joli’s journey of leaving...

Dec 09, 202459 minSeason 3Ep. 82

Prison Pals & Couch Salesmen

(Episode 81)- Solo story time, plus a catch up on what's been going on the last couple of weeks! There's always something worth talking about, this week it's a story about how I became his pen pal with my ex in prison. Not once... but twice! Along with some uncomfortable DM's I've received over the last week or so. Happy F*cking MONDAYYYYYY!

Dec 02, 202436 minEp. 81

Listening To Your Intuition Ft. Cat Meyers

EP80- In this week's episode, we delve into a conversation with Cat Meyer, the founder of Head South—a sexual wellness brand dedicated to body-safe lubricants. Our discussion transcends products and branding, exploring themes of creativity, intuition, and the pursuit of one's purpose. We also examine the significance of surrounding oneself with like-minded individuals and the origins of inspiration. Throughout our conversation, Cat shares her experiences of overcoming challenges, such as embraci...

Nov 25, 202453 minSeason 3Ep. 80

NGL- Anonymous Questions

EP79- This week, I’m bringing you a fun, totally random solo episode to ease us back into the groove! I’ve got a stack of anonymous questions I pulled straight from Instagram—some serious, some super random, a few dating questions, and, of course, the juicy personal stuff. So, grab a drink, settle in, and let’s have some fun! GO SUBSCRIBE! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@girlstoptalkingpodcast

Nov 18, 202430 minSeason 3Ep. 79

The Cosmetic Gynecologist ft. Dr. Michael Reed

Dr. Michael Reed aka The Cosmetic Gyn is a leading board-certified cosmetic gynecologist with over 22 years of experience in women's sexual health. Dr. Reed's mission is to destigmatize sexual health services and normalize discussions about both sexual health and pleasure, empowering women in the process. As a board-certified OB/GYN, Dr. Reed understands the anatomical intricacies of genital plastic surgery and has an aesthetic eye for creating beautiful, natural-looking results. He listens to h...

Nov 11, 202443 minSeason 3Ep. 78

Feeling Lost in Life Lately

Episode77- Giiirllll, today we're diving into the whirlwind that’s been my life these past few weeks. Picture this: a couple of ‘I'm too cool for you’ encounters with some interesting ladies—IYKYK! I’ve got the stories, and I’m spilling the tea. Oh, and let’s not forget Halloween! I went full Patrick Star, and let’s just say... things got wild when my edibles kicked in and my social anxiety decided to join the party. It was a night to remember—or maybe one to slightly forget? And, on a more seri...

Nov 05, 202440 minSeason 3Ep. 77

Cvnty Carnival Confessional

EP76- GIIIIRLL, this is a MUST WATCH epsiode. Get ready for the ultimate spill session at the Cvnty Carnival! My friends and I are dishing out all the juicy tea in today’s confessional episode. We basically turned the podcast into a party—so come vibe with us while we relive our totally degenerate (allegedly) teenage years. Think reality TV meets podcast meets rave, and honestly, it’s a whole vibe! Warning: we're serving up nonstop jokes, so don’t take us too seriously. Stick around as my friend...

Oct 21, 202437 minSeason 3Ep. 76

Birthday Recap Ft. Amanda Mae

Episode 75- I'm BAAACCKKK from my two week hiatus and I'm giving you a recap on life lately. This episode is all about my c*nty carnival birthday weekend, and let me tell you—it’s a wild one! My bestie Amanda is in town, spilling all the tea about her journey with sobriety and how things have definitely changed in the bedroom. I also drop a little sneak peek into next week’s confessional episode and turn the heat up by putting Amanda right in the hot seat!

Oct 14, 202457 minSeason 3Ep. 75

It's Giving Confidence Ft. Hayden Merryn Van Hulzen

Episode 74- We had to break you down before building you back up.. This episode will better help you understand where confidence comes from and how being in the wrong relationship can dull your shine. Hayden and I go from shitty relationship to the difference between loving, supportive partners. We chat about how to stick up for your needs within a relationship and why it's important to be honest with yourself on whether or not you're truly being fulfilled and happy in your current situation. Co...

Sep 23, 202459 minSeason 3Ep. 74

Navigating Healing

Episode 73- We had to break it down, call you out, and reminisce on our most unhealthy relationship so we truly understand what happiness feels like. This weeks episode is a continued conversation except we're HEALING baby. It's not all green juice and spa days baby.. Healing is ugly crying in your closet at 2am on the phone with your best friend. It's realizing that being vulnerable is your super power, it's holding yourself accountable for continuously picking the men partner. It sucks, and we...

Sep 16, 202434 minSeason 3Ep. 73

Detaching From Toxicity Ft. Alex Scot

Episode 72 - Welcome to the beginning of the rest of your LIFE! This episode is bittersweet because sometimes we have to get knocked down.. HARD, to recognize our greatest potential. I have Alex Scot on and we're discussing all things unhealthy & toxic. This is the first of a 2 part episode where we chat about whether or not we're in an unhealthy relationship, how to leave and completely detach from the toxicity. Girl, it's hard, we get it. Whether you've been there, are current in there, or...

Sep 09, 202452 minSeason 3Ep. 72

S*x Therapy Ft. Elle Fultz

Episode 71- This week we're talking S*X! Buckle up because this months episodes we're holding ourselves accountable in the bedroom. Joined today with Sex Therapist, Elle Fultz, and we discuss how to have better communication within your relationship, and how therapy doesn't always have to be problematic. We're talking about how being vulnerable shows strength, and how being curious allows you to be open minded. this is the first week into growing, learning and better loving ourselves in our pers...

Sep 03, 202438 minSeason 3Ep. 71
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