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Wherever you are , it is beautiful . You are breathing , you are living . Hopefully , you are hydrated . It's a beautiful day and on this episode , I want to get into the question of what if you dot , dot , dot ? So what if you actually did that thing that you're afraid of , or you're telling yourself you're afraid of doing ?

What if you actually put yourself out there and went for that promotion at your job ? What if you actually believed enough in yourself to create that dream that you have been thinking about for years , months , weeks , days , hours ? What if you honored yourself and decided to truly live fully , instead of just existing on this planet ?

What if you decided to call that person you've been thinking about , instead of just putting it off for another day ? What if you recognized that you have one body and you deserve to treat it well and it deserves for you to treat it well ? What if you decided enough is enough and you got out of that relationship that you know is not the one for you ?

Or what if you said enough is enough . I deserve good love , sweet love , and I'm going to have that kind of love . What if you gave more to the relationship that you are in , whether that is with yourself or with someone else ? What if you stopped being a bully to yourself and actually started being a true friend ? What would change for you then ?

What if you decided to make better choices with your money and actually invest in yourself , investing in your energy , your joy , your desires , your health ? What if you stopped being around the wrong people and started being around the right people ?

What if you stopped saying this is just who I am or this is just how I've always been , knowing that's not how you want to continue ? And what if you started living , acting and deciding to be the person you want to become .

What if you stopped being obsessed with what everyone else is doing and what everyone else is thinking about and started being obsessed with what you want to do ? What if you kicked the guilt to the curb and did something so wonderful just for yourself ? What if you told that person how much they truly mean to you ?

What if you decided that fear could just be something to help you become more aware of the things you're wanting to do , instead of allowing fear to be what's holding you back from what you're wanting to do ?

What if you got to the end of your life and looked back and smiled because you truly lived the way you really wanted to , in ways that felt oh so good ? What if you got to the end of your life and couldn't smile because there were so many regrets that you had ? Guess what , regardless of the regrets you had before ?

Today , you do not have to continue to have regrets moving forward . What if you danced as if no one was watching you , even if there were a hundred of eyes on you ? What if you just closed your eyes , sat in silence and just allowed yourself to be ?

Yes , you can do that , even if you've told yourself that you can't , or even if you've said you've tried it before and it was so hard , guess what . That doesn't have to be the truth .

Moving forward , what if you decided to choose the beliefs that felt good for you , not just because that's how you were raised , what you were born to believe , or what everyone else is doing ?

What if you chose to have the relationship with your spiritual self and your spiritual higher being , whoever or whatever that is based on what you feel is right for you , not because it's what everyone says is the right thing to do ? What if you ate the foods that your body really loved , that helped to nourish your body and that helps keeping you alive ?

What if you decided to drink more water , or drink the liquids that actually make you feel alive , hydrated and loved ? What if you looked yourself in the mirror every single day and said kind and sweet words to yourself , words that uplift you , words that encourage you , words that make you feel like you are enough ?

What if you stopped looking in the mirror and bullying yourself and telling yourself horrible things that you would never say to anyone to their face unless you were a mean person ? What if you , right now , wrapped your arms around yourself as tight as you can and say to yourself I love you self , we are wonderful , we do great things , we are enough .

What if you took that hurt that you've been holding onto and asked yourself what would happen if you just released it ? How much more free would you feel ? What if you stopped playing the victim and started playing the hero ? What if you forgave that person who hurt you ? It's just releasing all of the pain that you've been carrying around .

Remember , forgiveness is for you , not for them . Speaking of forgiveness , what if you forgave yourself for all of the things you have been punishing yourself for ? What would change for you ? What if you loved more , lived more , laughed more ? What would be the beauty in all of that ? What if you believed that you deserve more , better ? What if ? What if you ?

What if we ? What if all of this was just what we dreamt it could be ? What if you started that project ? What if you started that new idea ? What if you said yes to that thing you've been wanting to say yes to ? What if you said no more often ? What if you set up boundaries that you knew would benefit you ?

What if you set up boundaries that you knew would benefit those you love . What if you just said this is what I want to do , just because I want to do it ? What if you decided your happiness is important ? What if you decided your happiness is important ?

What if you decided your happiness is important and yes , I said it three times because I want you to hear me , let me say it again what if you decided that your happiness is important ? What choices would you make ? What decisions would be different ? How would you show up for yourself ? What would you say to yourself and others ? What moves would you make ?

What would you stop doing ? What would you start doing ? Your happiness is important , but you have to believe that it is not selfish to love on yourself . It is not selfish to live life in ways that feels good to you and for you . It is self-full .

And for those who are in your life , the people you love , the people you support , the people who depend on you , they will thank you for you doing more for you , because then you'll be better for them . It may not seem like it in the beginning . You may get a lot of pushback . You may get a lot of people being disgruntled about your choices .

But guess what ? This is your life and you get to choose how you live it , and if you're only living for other people , that is no life to live . You are included in your own life . Think about it , listen to it . You are included in your own gosh darn life , and too many people are not living that way .

Too many people are living in the way that only benefits others and they are leaving themselves out of the equation . That stops now . Do you like yourself enough to live in a way that feels good ? Do you respect yourself enough to live in a way that makes you cry tears of joy , make you smile ? Can you give your own self butterflies ?

Can you make your own skin tingle ? Can you do that for you ?

What if you fell in love with yourself and your life ? What if you just started with just one act , one choice , one step and then another and then another ? What if you thought it was it you got into wrong that you crossed so big ? You were just walking down the road . A Spider in Louth was now draufing in my eyes .

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Embrace your uniqueness , cherish your self-worth and set those healthy boundaries with confidence . Keep diving deep into your true self , unleashing the potential that resides within you . Are capable of greatness and the world needs your authentic brilliance . Thank you once again for being a part of this incredible community .

Until next time , stay true to yourself , keep shining and let's keep getting raw together .