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Gayish Podcast

Featured in Buzzfeed, Oprah Magazine, Esquire, and Queerty, Gayish is an award-winning podcast that breaks down one gay stereotype each week. Mike and Kyle bring humor, honesty, and irreverence to topics like the hanky code, depression, and open relationships. Past guests have included Jinkx Monsoon, YouTuber Davey Wavey, gay porn star Calvin Banks, disability activist Andrew Gurza, a gay priest, a trans atheist, and Mike’s wildly supportive mom.
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Episodes

Gayish: 192 Bisexuals

We asked our bisexual listeners to share their stories, and you delivered! This episode features some of the voicemails and emails we received, plus our usual rigamarole talking about topics like gayta (bita???), history, and stereotypes about bisexuals. In this episode: News- 4:30 || Main Topic (Bisexuals)- 15:10 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:08:02 If you want to support us (and also get ad-free episodes a day early), go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

Sep 24, 20201 hr 18 minEp. 192

Gayish: 191 Coaches (w/ Brian Falduto)

Coaches are sexy/terrifying for gay kids. Mike and Kyle talk about all aspects of coaches, from childhood P. E. to gay coaches in sports. Plus, we’re joined by Brian Falduto, host of The Gay Life Coach Podcast, to give Kyle a much-needed life coaching session. In this episode: News- 5:37 || Main Topic (Coaches)- 18:03 || Guest (Brian Falduto)- 56:28 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:16:02 On Monday, you can hear the Patreon bonus segment about a completely different kind of coach: a poppers coach. ...

Sep 17, 20201 hr 28 minEp. 191

Gayish: 190 Poker

Y’know, poker is actually kinda gay. In this episode: News- 5:58 || Main Topic (Poker)- 17:59 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:39

Sep 10, 20201 hr 24 minEp. 190

Gayish: 189 Prostate

Booping the snoop. Hitting the he-spot. Wailing on the walnut. Whatever you want to call it, we’re talking about prostates in all their splendor. In this episode: News- 8:16 || Main Topic (Prostate)- 20:27 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:19:34 In the bonus Patreon segment, Fucking Dan tells us that maybe everyone has a prostate. Kinda. For this plus hours and hours of other bonus content, go to patreon.com/gayishpodcast .

Sep 03, 20201 hr 31 minEp. 189

Gayish: 188 Celebrity

Is Selena Gomez an A-list celebrity? The war between Mike and Kyle begins. In this episode: News- 5:25 || Main Topic (Celebrity)- 14:48 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:25:10 On what may be the longest and most enjoyable Patreon segment to date, we talk about when gay celebrities came out, including our coming out-birthday twins.

Aug 27, 20201 hr 38 minEp. 188

Gayish: 187 Interracial Relationships (w/ the Critelli's from Relationsh!t)

Interracial gay couples have two strikes against them before the leave their home in the morning. We talk race and relationships with Marko and Tony Critelli, an interracial married gay couple and hosts of the podcast Relationsh!t. In this episode: News- 4:34 || Main Topic (Interracial Relationships)- 26:27 || Guests (Marko and Tony Critelli from Relationsh!t)- 31:21 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:15:23 On Monday's bonus episode, the actual, genuine conversation with had with Marko and Tony duri...

Aug 20, 20201 hr 23 minEp. 187

Gayish: 186 Swingers

Are there gay swingers? We sure hope so, although per usual we have no idea. Suggested to us by a Patreon supporter, we take a look at "the lifestyle" in typical Gayish fashion. In this episode: News- 1:22 || Main Topic (Swingers)- 17:04 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:03:01 On the bonus segment coming Monday, Fucking Dan gives us an update on the Palm Springs Sex Hotel we went to with Davey Wavey in Episode 144.

Aug 13, 20201 hr 9 minEp. 186

Gayish: 185 Football (w/ Butz from My Gay Life)

We talk American football with Cyndi Butz-Houghton aka Butz from the podcast My Gay Life. She shares her thoughts on football lesbians, lingerie football, being bad at softball, and trans women in sports. In this episode: News- 3:44 || Main Topic (Football)- 17:25 || Guest (Butz)- 28:27 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:00:51 On the bonus segment coming Monday, we'll have more with Butz on why women's football mascots are better than men's and other topics we didn't get to on the main episode....

Aug 06, 20201 hr 7 minEp. 185

Gayish: 184 Sexting

Eggplant. Water spurts. Peach, peach, peach. Devil emoji. We talk about the studies on sexters vs. non-sexters, the bizarre history of sexting, and emoji misunderstandings. In this episode: News- 2:34 || Main Topic (Sexting)- 14:49 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:12:20 On the bonus segment, coming soon, we'll read tips from the internet on sexting and debate their efficacy.

Jul 30, 20201 hr 25 minEp. 184

A Short Teaser of Gayish

Get to know us! Take a listen to some of our favorite clips and guests so you can hear what the podcast is all about. We bring research studies, news stories, history, personal experience and expert guests to the table when we discuss our topics. Episodes come out weekly on Thursdays (we rarely miss a week). Join the Gayish Agenda!

Jul 26, 202010 min

Gayish: 183 Rodeo

Ma Johnson joins us to play a game of “Rodeo Term or Sex Act.” Also, the gay rodeo, bareback, Willie Nelson, Lil Nas X, and lots of talk about gay cowboys. In this episode: News- 1:31 || Main Topic (Rodeo)- 17:31 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:01:30

Jul 23, 20201 hr 10 minEp. 183

Gayish: 182 Intersectionality (w/ Kris & Shana from Bad Queers)

Kris & Shana from the Bad Queers podcast join us to talk about intersectionality, the sassy black woman affectation, and their experience of racism and sexism within the queer community. In this episode: News- 2:42 || Main Topic (Intersectionality)- 20:52 || Guests (Kris & Shana)- 27:00 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:11:47

Jul 17, 20201 hr 23 minEp. 182

Gayish: 181 Asexual

Asexuals! This is the moment you’ve been waiting for! We talk about the meaning, the history, the studies, and the made-up stereotypes about asexual people. Ace, aro, gray, demi; we love all of you (in a predominantly non-sexual way). In this episode: News- 8:25 || Main Topic (Asexual)- 25:07 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:03 If you're able, please support the victims of a brutal vehicular attack through Go Fund Me. Both were non-binary people protesting for BLM in Seattle. Diaz Love: https:/...

Jul 09, 20201 hr 13 minEp. 181

Gayish: 180 Freeballing

In this live streamed episode, we talk about all the celebrities and synonyms and orgasms you need to know about associated with #thatfreeballinglife. In this episode: News- 3:05 || Main Topic (Freeballing)- 9:30 || Gayest & Straightest- 50:00 In the Patreon bonus segment, Fucking Dan tells us about the origins of the phrase "going commando." For all the bonus content we have to offer, go to patreon.com/gayishpodcast .

Jul 02, 202059 minEp. 180

Gayish: 179 Gay Baiting

As requested by Patreon member Tipsy McStumbles (obvi a Gayish listener), we talk about gay baiting, i.e. queerbaiting. What is it? Does Nick Jonas qualify? What does Urban Dictionary think? And what does it have to do with breast cancer? In this episode: News- 5:19 || Main Topic (Gay Baiting)- 23:35 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:52 If you want some gayish rewards, including the opportunity to pick your own episode topic, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast

Jun 25, 20201 hr 16 minEp. 179

Gayish: 178 Fathers' Day (w/ the Peters-Mathews Family)

We follow up on episode 139 (Surrogacy) to see what it’s like so far for gay dads raising their newborn baby. Joseph, Brandon, and baby Topher Peters-Mathews join us to talk about Fathers’ Day. In this episode: News- 2:33 || Main Topic (Fathers' Day)- 22:21 || Guests (the Peters-Mathews Family)- 35:49 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:00 On the Patreon bonus segment, you'll hear how Joseph felt about his sermon being used in the Gay White Privilege episode. Support us and get bonus stuff at the ...

Jun 18, 20201 hr 13 minEp. 178

Gayish: 177 Fat (w/ @gayfatfriend aka Todd Masterson)

Todd Masterson, known on Instagram as @gayfatfriend, shares how Instagays like Matt Dempsey feel about his account. Plus, Mike and Kyle get uncomfortably personal. In this episode: News- 2:33 || Main Topic (Fat)- 19:34 || Guest (Todd Masterson)- 1:13:09 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:31:01 On Monday's bonus segment, fat shaming. To access this segment, plus tons of bonus content, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

Jun 11, 20201 hr 37 minEp. 177

Gayish: 176 Gay White Privilege

You are not exempt from white privilege just because you’re gay. Information for "Dear White People" artist: Mwende “FreeQuency” Katwiwa is a Kenyan, Immigrant, Queer Womxn storyteller. www.freequencyspeaks.com IG: @MwendersInSuspenders TWITTER: @freeqthamighty Facebook: search FreeQuency aka FreeQ tha Mighty Please consider donating to support the artist: Venmo: @mwende-Katwiwa Cash app: $mkatwiwa PayPal: PayPal.me/FreeQuency Featured Audio: “Your Assignment” speech by Andre Taylor from Not Thi...

Jun 05, 20201 hr 3 minEp. 176

Gayish: 175 Aliens

This episode has everything: anal probes, Marvin the Martian, Britney Spears, Chuck Tingle, and we reveal which of the hosts is most likely to be an alien. In this episode: News- 3:44 || Main Topic (Aliens)- 14:13 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:07:07 On Monday's bonus segment, Fucking Dan shares the details of his new favorite competition and life goal, Intergalactic Power Bottom. For other fun bonus things, go to www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

May 28, 20201 hr 14 minEp. 175

Gayish: 174 Versatile

Move over tops, bottoms, and sides. We finally talk about that #VersLife. In this episode: News- 5:55 || Main Topic (Versatile)- 19:01 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:01:17 On Monday's bonus segment, Fucking Dan talks about the many definitions of "switch," and it's not the same as versatile.

May 22, 20201 hr 16 minEp. 174

Gayish: 173 Disability (w/ Andrew Gurza)

Special. Sex Education. Glee. We talk about these shows and more when we discuss disability representation in the media with Andrew Gurza from the podcast Disability After Dark. #PP4CP In this episode: News- 3:10 || Main Topic (Disability)- 19:30 || Guest (Andrew Gurza)- 26:10 || Gayest & Straightest- 55:30 Coming Monday on our Patreon bonus segment, Fucking Dan shares his personal experiences. For bonus content, go to patreon.com/gayishpodcast ....

May 15, 20201 hr 10 minEp. 173

Gayish: 170 Monster Trucks

On this supes butch livestream, we talk about monster trucks! But no really. We really talk about monster trucks. Like, the history of monster truck rallies, famous monster trucks, personal monster truck experiences. It’s so str8. (Sorry this is a day late!) In this episode: News- 1:33 || Main Topic (Monster Trucks)- 17:44 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:14:40 In one of Kyle’s favorite Patreon segments, fucking Dan talks about gendered kids’ toys and Friends. For bonus content, go to patreon.com/...

May 01, 20201 hr 26 minEp. 170

Gayish: 169 Camming

In these difficult times, so many ads and articles start with the phrase “in these difficult times,” and it really bums me out. Instead, let’s talk about the fun you can have with camming, even in these difficult times. In this episode: News- 3:08 || Main Topic (Camming)- 15:04 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:04:23 Thank you to our sponsor, Taimi! Download the Taimi app for LGBTQ chatting, hanging out (virtually), and dating.

Apr 23, 20201 hr 13 minEp. 169

Gayish: 168 AIDS

We do our best to cover the monumental topic of AIDS and end up calling Mike’s Mom for reinforcement. Thank you to Patreon member Steve Hartman for requesting this topic. In this episode: News- 1:50 || Main Topic (AIDS)- 13:40 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:09:49 To see how you can pick an episode topic, visit our Patreon page for levels and rewards: www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

Apr 16, 20201 hr 17 minEp. 168

Gayish: 167 Rubber (w/ Amp Somers from Watts Your Safeword)

Special guest, Amp Somers (aka Pup Amp) from the podcast Watts Your Safeword, shares the basics of rubber as a kink. Bring your lube and a couple of friends, because we’re getting into it. In this episode: News- 1:40 || Main Topic (Rubber)- 21:19 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:01:24 On Monday, we'll post the pop culture references (mainly KimK) that didn't make the cut to the final episode. Bonus content, episode, and other cool shit at patreon.com/gayishpodcast...

Apr 09, 20201 hr 8 minEp. 167

Gayish: 166 Threesomes II

“How did we fuck this up so much?” asks Mike during this monumental Gayish first. But whatever, it’s our THIRD BIRTHDAY so we re-talk about threesomes! In this episode: News- 11:28 || Main Topic (Threesomes)- 25:47 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:05:30 Monday’s bonus segment is FREE as our birthday gift to you. I don’t know what to say about it other than idk y’all. Check it out at www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

Apr 02, 20201 hr 14 minEp. 166

Gayish: 165 Cocktails

It’s a hot mess of a quarantined livestream where we talk about, and (regrettably) make each other, cocktails. In this episode: News- 7:19 || Main Topic (Cocktails)- 20:03 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:23:53 On Monday, you'll get to hear the Q&A we did after the livestream where we answer your gayish questions! Go to patreon.com/gayishpodcast for bonus content and more stuff.

Mar 26, 20201 hr 38 minEp. 165

Gayish: 164 Open Relationships (w/ Keegan & Tom)

Open up, it’s time for open relationships! Mike and Kyle share gayta and our personal experiences with open relationships. Plus, our married friends Keegan and Tom talk about opening up their relationship after 12 years of monogamy. In this episode: News- 2:54 || Main Topic (Open Relationships)- 13:36 || Guests (Keegan & Tom)- 37:51 || Gayest & Straightest- 1:06:17 On Monday, get ready, because Keegan and Tom talk about hooking up with one of the Gayish people... but which one? This bonu...

Mar 19, 20201 hr 18 minEp. 164
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