GayBCD with Farhad & Sunetro

How do you learn a new language? You start with the alphabet! The ABCD of it all. Two blokes - Farhad Karkaria and Sunetro Lahiri will do exactly that, trying to learn, unravel, uncover and discover a little more about being queer in today's day and age. What's in store? Some laughter, flubs and hearty moments. Tune in to discover the dictionary of all things in life from a queer perspective on GayBCD! New episodes out every Tuesday, starting 24th September.

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Ep. 11: F for Fashion

On this episode. Farhad and Sunetro talk about how they have evolved in relation with their clothes. When Farhad points out how he has been shamed for not dressing up enough, Sunetro mentions his reclamation of fashion as the space. Why are flamboyant colors considered effeminate? Is fashion the extension of one's personality? Tune in to find out how important is dressing up in one's life. You can follow Farhad on his instagram handle: @theqr8r You can follow Sunetro on his instagram handle: @gl...

Dec 03, 2019•55 min•Season 1Ep. 11

Ep. 10: F for F*ckBuddies

On the new episode of GAYBCD, Farhad and Sunetro talk about different kinds of intimacy. Who is a f*ckbuddy? Has the new dating culture affected our response to people we sleep with? How do we understand polyamory and commitments? Tune in to understand the modern relevant problems involved in inclusive relationships. Sunetro and Farhad share the deepest understanding of one's cumulative sexual being. You can follow Farhad on his instagram handle: @theqr8r You can follow Sunetro on his instagram ...

Nov 26, 2019•59 min•Season 1Ep. 10

Ep. 09: H for Hobbies

On this episode, Sunetro and Farhad talk about their obsessions from childhood that made them feel they could be queer. They discuss the not-so-straight hobbies and passions they followed as kids. Were they allowed to follow these passions or did it take a different turn altogether? What are some of the hobbies forbidden by the society for boys? Tune in to this conversation to find out what Farhad and Sunetro loved to do as kids that made them feel different. You can follow Farhad on his instagr...

Nov 19, 2019•58 min•Season 1Ep. 9

Ep. 08: D for Dating Women

On this episode, Farhad and Sunetro share their experiences of dating women. How is dating a woman different than dating a man? How is it received when you come out to a woman you are dating? What if other people around the woman you are dating get involved? Tune in to this honest conversation where both the hosts open up about all their intimate relationships they have had with women. You can follow Farhad on his instagram handle: @theqr8r You can follow Sunetro on his instagram handle: @glitte...

Nov 12, 2019•59 min•Season 1Ep. 8

Ep. 07: F for Firsts

On this episode, Sunetro and Farhad talk about many 'firsts' of their life from first kiss to first sexual experience. They take you through the stories of their first date, first love, first crush and much more. Which first gay art inspired them? Which was the first queer film they could identify with? Tune in to know all about these Firsts of this conversation. You can follow Farhad on his instagram handle: @theqr8r You can follow Sunetro on his instagram handle: @glitterbugged You can listen ...

Nov 05, 2019•46 min•Season 1Ep. 7

Ep. 06: A for Aging

Thirties come with expectations and anxiety but also a lot of learning. On this episode, Farhad and Sunetro share how it felt when they surpassed this threshold. Do you feel wiser or more broke? Does it really get easy after thirty as they say? Can someone be an age-ist? How do they feel interacting with the millennial? Tune in to the episode to know about two different ways of looking at one's life at thirty. You can follow Farhad on his instagram handle: @theqr8r You can follow Sunetro on his ...

Oct 29, 2019•43 min•Season 1Ep. 6

Ep. 05: W for Workplace

On this episode, Sunetro and Farhad discuss their work life and how inclusive it is or isn't. Do you tell people at workplace that you are queer? Do you fear being discriminated due to your sexual identity? Is workplace a safe space for queer people? What does 'butch it up' phrase mean? Do you confront homophobia at workplace? Tune in to this episode to find out how can workplaces become inclusive. You can follow Farhad on his instagram handle: @theqr8r You can follow Sunetro on his instagram ha...

Oct 22, 2019•53 min•Season 1Ep. 5

Ep. 04: C for College Days

On this episode, Farhad and Sunetro spill the beans about all things queer from their college days. They discuss their crushes, watching porn, breakups, falling in love and being vulnerable. Did it help them evolve with their own personality? What is a Kuch Kuch Hota hai Syndrome that Farhad talks about? Tune in to this hilarious episode where both the blokes give you answers to these questions. You can follow Farhad on his instagram handle: @theqr8r You can follow Sunetro on his instagram handl...

Oct 15, 2019•52 min•Season 1Ep. 4

Ep. 03: S for School Days

On this episode, we get introduced to two different kinds of kids from the school. Farhad represents the hyper-active, highly energetic and horny kid on one hand and Sunetro represents the extra-curricular kid around the corner who jumps at every dance performance. Tune in to explore the letter 'S' of GAYBCD as two blokes tell you what it meant to confront one's queerness in the school. You can follow Farhad on his instagram handle: @theqr8r You can follow Sunetro on his instagram handle: @glitt...

Oct 08, 2019•52 min•Season 1Ep. 3

Ep. 02: P for Parents

On this episode, Sunetro and Farhad talk about their complex relation with their parents. They discuss how acceptance of their queer identity or coming out is just one step of the day-to-day navigation of this relation. What is a dysfunctional family? Can you let your parents go and move on? What does a loss of a parent feel like? Tune in to this episode as two blokes tell you how to come to terms with your parents on GAYBCD. You can follow Farhad on his instagram handle: @theqr8r You can follow...

Oct 01, 2019•54 min•Season 1Ep. 2

Ep. 01: C for Coming Out

On the first episode, Farhad and Sunetro share their Coming Out experiences and how their friends and family took it. They discuss how they had to teach the ABCD of "What it means to be GAY" to their parents. Does the process continue even when one is out and loud? What is the concept of a chosen family that each queer person relies on? Tune in to this conversation where two blokes tell you how to approach the same situation of Coming Out in two different ways and embrace one's identity in their...

Sep 24, 2019•57 min•Season 1Ep. 1

Ep. 00: Introduction to GAYBCD With Sunetro and Farhad

Sep 10, 2019•1 min0

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