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We all know that hot people are used in marketing campaigns. We see it in the sale of everything from dog food to cars to cleaning services. Is this still ethical in the lifestyle? And what happens if that marketing goes just a little too far, into the territory of being straight-up dishonest? We discuss this, plus one HELLUVA dick show we went to... Book your free peptide consultation call today at https://revitaglowmeds.com Join us for Hotwife Palooza 2026! Info at https://members.frontporchsw...
It's become one of the buzz phrases in the lifestyle: It should be about you as a couple. Do the things that bring you closer together as a couple. While we understand this concept, it does have us questioning.... When is it ok to be a little selfish in the lifestyle? And more importantly, when can that selfishness go a little too far? Get 15% off our favorite pleasure-enhancing gummies with code FPS at https://shivers.store Schedule a call to get started on your peptide journey today! https://r...
A controversial take on religious lifestylers from the perspective of two people who consider themselves anti-religion... Before you get offended, listen to our take! Join us for an upcoming event, including Hotwife Palooza in May: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Get bonus content and support the show at https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Try Kasidie FREE for a month! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com Get your health and wellness in check! Schedule a free c...
We all know it happens: Something doesn't work exactly as it should, we catch a funky odor, or something else happens that otherwise derails the fun. But whose responsibility is it? And when do you call it? All of that and much more discussed on this week's episode of the Front Porch Swingers Podcast. Ready to take your sexual wellness seriously? See how we can help: https://betterbedroombody.com See how peptides, TRT, HRT, and weight loss meds can transform your world: https://revitaglowmeds.co...
Brian was introduced to a new concept in the lifestyle this week: Pre-consent. It was argued that if you negotiate play prior to taking substances, it's a very ethical way to get f-ed up out of your mind and play in the lifestyle. We share our opinions on this, including the pros and cons to "pre-consent." Join us for an upcoming event, including Hotwife Palooza in Tucson: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Try Kasidie FREE for a month! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswinge...
After watching a documentary all about the rampant misogyny currently being spewed to young men on the internet, we were left with one important question: How is this going to impact the lifestyle? Plus, a VERY colorful message from a listener had us both laughing and shaking our heads at the same time... Join us for an upcoming event, including Hotwife Palooza: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Get 20% off our favorite pleasure-enhancing gummies with code FPS at https://shivers.store Try K...
A very raw and honest conversation about the intimacy issues we've experienced, in part because of our involvement in the lifestyle. How did jumping straight into ethical non-monogamy impact our sex lives together? And what's our plan moving forward? Photographer mentioned on this episode: https://lezandraphotography.com/ Get 15% off Shivers gummies with code FPS at https://shivers.store Schedule a consultation call with us today to get your health and wellness on track: https://revitaglowmeds.c...
We haven't always been the best when it comes to setting solid boundaries in our lifestyle friendships. When you combine sex with interpersonal relationships, things can get sticky fast. We explain how this has impacted the amount of time we dedicate to lifestyle friendships, and our plan moving forward. Plus, we FINALLY took a vacation!! Get 15% off your first order of Shivers gummies with code FPS at https://shivers.store Get TONS of bonus content and support the show at https://patreon.com/fr...
Brenna finally reveals the catalyst for her sobriety, and it leads to a very real and honest conversation about how we plan to navigate our professional worlds moving forward. We also discuss the concept of "personality being more important than looks" in the lifestyle. Schedule your free wellness consultation with us today at https://revitaglowmeds.com Join us for an upcoming event, including Hotwife Palooza in May: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Get tons of bonus content and support th...
Our birthdays have spurred a renewed conversation around age in the lifestyle, specifically how different generations interact both digitally and at events. It's led us to one very important question: Is age really just a number in the lifestyle? Or is it deeper than that? Schedule your FREE consultation call with us to get your health journey on the right track: https://revitaglowmeds.com Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Support the show and receive bonus co...
It's a running joke in the lifestyle: Women are almost always better put together than their male counterparts at clubs and events. We all laugh about it, but have you ever stopped to think about the WHY behind it? We examine some of our theories.... Plus, upcoming birthday celebrations! Get 15% off your first order of Shivers gummies with code FPS at https://shivers.store Let's get you on the right path with your health and wellness today! Schedule a free consultation call with us at https://re...
"We're trying so hard to connect with lifestylers online, but we're having no luck! What gives?" We discuss how we are currently receiving digital communication, and sometimes in the most inappropriate of places... So where should lifestylers be finding other lifestylers? And much more importantly, HOW should they be reaching out? Plus, some very big life updates, including a sobriety milestone for Brenna! Schedule your wellness consultation with us today: https://revitaglowmeds.com Get tickets ...
Stagnation and a lack of safety protocols in the lifestyle have left many lifestylers disenfranchised with clubs and events over the last year. They're going less often and spending less money. But does that mean the lifestyle is dying? We discuss our opinions as people who have operated in the "lifestyle industry" for almost eight years. Get a FREE month of Kasidie access! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com Schedule your free wellness consultation at https://revitaglo...
A forum post leads to a very interesting conversation around shared sexual identities in couples, regret in the lifestyle, and when it's ok to keep some of your desires and fantasies a secret from your partner. Plus, is it more or less vulnerable to be raunchy with a new play partner? Join us for an upcoming event, including our Wifey.com sponsored AVN party: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Get TONS of bonus content at https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Schedule a FREE consultation ca...
Brenna and Brian address a listener's emotional email regarding Brenna's body image journey, weight loss, and plastic surgery. Brenna bravely reveals her lifelong battle with self-hate, including childhood experiences and the dark place she was in before sobriety. The episode delves into the one-sided nature of parasocial relationships and the curated content often presented online, explaining how Brenna's radical personal transformation has shifted her self-worth, priorities in the lifestyle, and the podcast's format.
Everyone has to start somewhere in the lifestyle, but is it also ok to not want to bang people that are brand new to the space? We discuss this after Brenna gets an interesting proposition from a newbie couple. Plus, we look back on newbie mistakes we made when it all started seven and a half years ago! Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Get your new year off on the right foot with a peptide protocol! https://revitaglowmeds.com Try Kasidie FREE for a month! Cli...
Since we're all just mammals at the end of the day, it makes perfect sense that the biological urges seen in nature can also be seen in the lifestyle, right? This time around, we discuss how male on male competition, biologically referred to as "sperm competition," can both help and hurt in a lifestyle dynamic. Plus, "Pubes Guy" fumbles the ball, just as Brenna was getting ready to go out with him.... Join us for an upcoming event, including our Wifey sponsored AVN event: https://members.frontpo...
A post on a swingers' forum had us scratching our heads about the state of "old school swinging," and led to in-depth conversations about consent, alcohol consumption, and where we fit into all of it as sober lifestylers. Plus, we chat about learning how to pick and choose our battles in the space. Join us on Patreon for big news that won't be disclosed anywhere else at this time... https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Sched...
A message from a single man looking to enter the lifestyle spurs a conversation on the balance between being honest and being kind... We also talk about how single men hold other single men accountable at our events, and our thoughts on why that doesn't happen more often. Plus, big life changes are teased.... To enter the Shivers holiday giveaway, comment under the Shivers post on our Instagram, https://instagram.com/fpspodmedia or our X, https://x.com/fpswingers . Winner will be chosen next Mon...
A trip down memory lane reminds us of the things that felt very taboo and naughty before getting into the lifestyle. And how truly vanilla they seem now. We talk sex shops, strip clubs and more! Plus, what MOVES us to continue in the world of ethical non-monogamy? Check us out at https://revitaglowmeds.com for all your peptide and weight loss med needs. See our upcoming events: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Try Kasidie FREE for a whole month! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://front...
A jam packed and very vulnerable episode about Brenna's imposter syndrome in the lifestyle, fears for our future as a hotwife couple, and some very honest epiphanies from recent weeks. Plus... the return of Worst of the Week TIMES TWO! Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Get on the Peptide train! Schedule your free consultation at https://revitaglowmeds.com Try Shivers gummies at 15% off with code FPS at https://shivers.store Join our Patreon community to get bo...
As two proud members of the LGBTQ community, we have some very strong opinions about inclusivity in the lifestyle. Nowhere is this more important that at lifestyle events and clubs. We discuss sexuality representation, as well as some new discoveries in our own world with regards to sexual orientation. Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Schedule your free consultation with Brian for peptides, weight loss meds, and TRT at https://revitaglowmeds.com Get a free mo...
We spent a weekend in Detroit to host the Real Hotwives of Detroit at Hidden Agenda. And the experience has spurred MANY conversations between us about club quality and the standard lifestylers should demand from club owners and event organizers. Plus, a little bit on the naughtiness Brian got up to.... Get on the peptide train! https://revitaglowmeds.com Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Get bonus episodes and more by joining our Patreon community! https://pa...
A message on our kink profile has had our heads spinning.... And asking questions like, "Is it really just a numbers game in the lifestyle?" Plus, Brenna had a procedure done that apparently is pissing off some of our followers.... Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Check us out at https://revitaglowmeds.com for your free peptide, TRT, or medical weight loss consultation. Get TONS of bonus content by joining us at https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Try Kasi...
After a 5 year hiatus from swapping with couples, we did it! Hear our thoughts on the experience, and if we plan to continue pursuing couple play in the future. Plus, this foursome might have Brenna considering a brand new type of play... Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Try Kasidie FREE for a month! Click on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com Get a free TRT, peptide, or weight loss consultation today at https://revitaglowmeds.com Get 15% of...
Cognitive dissonance is a real thing. And social programming very much impacts how others view us as non-monogamous people. But does all of that programming just go out the window when we get into the lifestyle? We think not... Allow us to explain on this week's episode of the Front Porch Swingers Podcast! For weight loss meds, peptides, and TRT, check us out at https://revitaglowmeds.com Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Get weekly bonus videos of the podcast...
Brian gets VERY vulnerable this time around.... He discusses how some of his past experiences, both romantic and sexual, have shaped who he is as a lifestyler, and why he is as cautious as he is. Plus, we discuss how this has impacted our relationship over its 8 years. For more conversations like this, join us on Patreon for bonus episodes! https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Get 10% off your first order when you mention the podcast at https://revitaglowmeds.com Get 15% off our favorite pleas...
Through conversations online recently, we may have found ourselves in some hot water with a particular opinion... So we discuss in depth: Is physical attraction the most important thing in the lifestyle? And maybe more importantly, should it be? As usual, buckle up for an unfiltered ride... Visit us at RevitaGlow Meds for peptides, HRT, TRT, and medical weight loss products: https://revitaglowmeds.com Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Get bonus episodes and ot...
Everyone knows a person who is a cheater, who has been cheated on, or they themselves are the victim of cheating. Is that the reason infidelity seems more socially acceptable than ethical non-monogamy? We provide our opinions and anecdotal evidence on the topic. Ready to look and feel your best? Schedule a free consultation with Brian at https://revitaglowmeds.com Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Try Shivers pleasure-enhancing gummies at a discount with code ...
Whether it's financials, looks, frequency of play, or relationship dynamics, it's almost impossible to not compare yourself to other lifestylers and the way they are "lifestyling." But when does it become a problem? Plus, have we finally met a couple we might want to swap with?? Ready to up your health and fitness game NATURALLY?? Set up a free consultation with Brian today at https://revitaglowmeds.com Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com Try Kasidie FREE for a ...
