The Weight of Acceptance: When Approval Becomes Your God

We often chase what feels good on the surface, but what if the real drive comes from something far deeper? In this episode, we're diving into the source idol of approval – that intense, often subconscious, desire to be loved and respected by others above all else. This isn't just about affirmation; it's about a deep-seated longing that, if left unchecked, can quietly displace God in your heart.

We'll explore how the need for approval manifests in your life, from the fear of rejection to the relentless quest to exceed expectations. You'll learn why this idol can lead to a problematic emotion like cowardice, and how it subtly accuses God of not being trustworthy or enough. Drawing on insights like Tim Keller's definition of a "counterfeit god," we'll uncover how the approval of others can become so central that life feels unbearable without it. Join us as we unmask this powerful idol and begin to understand what it means to find true freedom and identity in God's unconditional love.

Topics discussed in this episode:

Have you ever had a job that you absolutely hated? We have!

Josh shares a story about how he was motivated by the approval of others

How approval warps our sense of purpose

The source idol of Approval

The worst nightmare of someone with an approval idol

The problem emotion of cowardice

Questions that you can ask to interrogate the source idol of approval

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