How diamonds became the symbol of love

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Let's see. I've got the French hens and there's the half dozen geese. Oi, turtle doves. Uh, get off that pear tree. That's for the partridge. Speaking of which, where is the portrait? Hey Joy. Whoa, it smells like a chicken coop in here. Ugh. Makes sense because French hens are chickens. I also have some calling birds. Oh, I think one just pooped on your shoulder. Ew um why? Probably because I didn't set up the birdie potty yet. Also, they're birds. No. Why do you have all these birds?

Oh they're my new way to express my love. Using birds? Well, birds are just the start. Eventually I need eight maids milking, nine ladies dancing, ten lords leaping, and so on and so on and so on. Wait, is this from that song Twelve Days of Christmas? Exactly. You see, I'm trying to find a better way to tell someone I love them. It's customary to give your beloved a diamond ring, but I think we need some other options. Not everyone likes diamonds. Oh. Cool. I'd love to have.

But first, I think there's something in your hair. What? Oh, hey! That's where the partridge was. No, you may not build a nest in my hair. I got you a whole pear tree for that, my dude. Explore the before. Today we're talking about diamonds, and I'm your host, Joy Dolo. And my co pilot today is Dia from California. Hi there. Dea, what do you think? Best way to show someone you love them? So I think that the best way to show someone that you love them is through handmade gifts.

Because it really shows that you care and that you put effort into their gift. Oh yeah. Is there one that you received that was handmade or one that you made that was handmade? I think um so in fifth grade when we all went off to science camp there was a day when you could get mail from your parents. Um, and I remember that my mom she made me like a little joke book. And it had some like camp related jokes. I thought that was really sweet of her.

Oh, that is really sweet. Like making a joke book. Making a book in general is a great idea, but making a joke book

Like your mom knows what's up. That's pretty awesome. Well, today we're gonna learn about how diamonds became the go-to jewel for wedding rings and saying I love you. But first, what if we showed people we love them with fleas? No. Hear me out. It says, I always want to be as close to you as possible. I need you to live. And you wouldn't actually put fleas on the person. You'd give them pet fleas in a decorative glass box like this one. Oh wait, where are the fleas?

I see what you're saying, but I think most people wouldn't be able to get past the ick factor of it being fleas. Ah yeah, you're right. Scratch that idea. And my arms. Is it itchy in here or is it just me? But I do like the idea of finding an alternative to diamonds, even though I love looking at them. Oh totally. Diamonds are super pretty. I love a sparkle as much as the next podcast host, but diamonds can be problematic. For starters, new diamonds are often expensive.

Not everyone has several thousand dollars to spare. Yeah. And also many diamonds come from mines. That means people have to dig up the earth to find them. The people who do the digging are often working in dangerous conditions and treated very unfairly. And those mines can be pretty bad for the environment. That's one reason a lot of people have stopped buying diamonds from mines. But let's talk about how diamonds became the symbol of love and marriage in the first place.

Humans have been giving each other diamonds for centuries. The oldest known record of someone giving their love a diamond ring dates back to the year 1477. An archduke from Austria had a diamond ring made for the woman he planned to marry. This kicked off a trend where rich and powerful people in Europe

Started giving each other diamond rings. But still, most people back then got married without diamonds because diamonds were expensive and rare. But that changed after a lot of new diamonds were found in South Africa.

For that part of the story, we need to visit the late eighteen hundreds. Twas the time before cars and airplanes, when people got around the US and Europe on big steam trains. And they crossed the ocean on big sand. Ships. Or they rode on big steam horses. Wait, I mean regular horses. Steam horses aren't a thing. That's not a that's not it's not a thing. A lot of really important inventions showed up around this time. Like the light bulb and the telephone.

But it would take a while before those things were common in homes. And over in South Africa, Two brothers of European descent were about to strike it big. They owned a farm, which turned out to be quite special. This potato looks way too hard, brother. Our farm stinks. I agree, brother. Ugh, this whole field is full of these uh hold up. Uh uh I think we should quit farming. Quit? But we need to eat. Yeah, but brother, these aren't potatoes. They're diamonds!

The brothers' last name was De Beers, which is now a name lots of people associate with diamonds, which makes sense because they were standing on what would become one of the most important diamond mines in all the world.

But all these diamonds would lead to a new problem. We'll tell you about that in a bit. But right now, how about we hit pause and do a round of This is the game where we take three things from history and try to put them in order of which came first Second and most recent in time.

Today, in honor of showing someone you care, we have three traditional ways to say I love you. Writing a poem, candy hearts, you know, those little pastel heart-shaped candies that say cute things on them, and lastly, sending a Valentine's Day card. So Dia, which do you think came first in history, which came second, and which came most recently? I think the one that came first in history was Sunning Valentine's. Oh I I'm not sure about this, but I think that it came

from Greeks. I'm not completely sure, but I think it came from Greeks. So it might have been like a very old tradition. I think second in history came writing a poem. And then finally I think it was Candy Hart. Candy Hearts. That probably just is the most recent because candy seems like it would be like a newer kinda you know,'cause they're like pastel and colors and printing and things. That's a really good guess. So we have Valentine's first and then poems and then candy as last, right? Yes.

Should I lock it in? Okay. We'll hear the answers at the end of the episode, right after the credits. So stick around. Hey, we're doing an episode. Slang words. The cool thing about So if you were to make up a slam. Silly, whatever. Then send it to us at brainson.com. Use it in a sense. At Great Wolf Lodge there's adventure.

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Welcome back to Forever Ago. I'm Joy. And I'm Dea. And we're talking about diamonds. And how they became a symbol of love. When we left off, the De Beers brothers discovered a massive collection of diamonds on their farm in South Africa. Combined with another. Yeah. a problem on their We have so many dubs! I am afraid that's not how it works. Not so rare. Diamonds.

So these diamond dealers hatched a plan. All the diamond miners would join forces so they could control the sale of pretty much all the diamonds in the world. They figured if they had no competition, they could charge whatever they wanted. But this was only part of the problem. If you have a lot of diamonds, you need a lot of customers. But diamonds were seen as jewels for the rich and powerful, and that's a small group.

So the owners of the De Beers Diamond Company got crafty. In the late 1930s, the De Beers group hired an advertising agency to convince people in the United States that diamonds are something everyone needs. And they did that by making the diamond a symbol of love. Of course, they ran ads. And magazines and newspapers, but they also started putting diamonds in romantic movies. My dear, how can I show you my love is true?

Respect me? Support my dreams? Encourage me to grow and develop as an independent person? How about this very large diamond ring? They also got celebrities to wear diamonds at flash. They got fashion experts to talk about how diamonds were super on trend. Then, to give the idea a personal touch, they hired a charming middle-aged woman named Joy. Just kidding. Her name was Gladys Babson Hannah Ford. Gladys never studied gems in school.

She didn't know much about mining. But she had experience acting in theater. And she had that certain something that made her click with audiences. She could give a great lecture. So the De Beers helped her prepare a talk all about how diamonds are mined and cut into sparkly shapes. Then she hit the road to talk about diamonds. Affectionately called baby. We have a job to do. We gotta tell the Let's skidaddle. Hundreds of lectures. And super fashion. And of course Gladys would talk to Crow.

to be old enough to marry, and she'd slip in not so subtle messages about diamonds being the peak of romance. The enduring quality of a diamond is associated with an enduring love. She became known as the Diamond Lady. That is just wild. Imagine attending a school assembly and it's all about getting married and buying expensive jewelry. You know, how would you feel about that, Dia? I would honestly be so confused. Like

Am I in the wrong room? Is this supposed to be for the teachers? I'm here to learn. Oh, oh, oh, say, how about showing you love someone through lectures? Hear me out. Imagine a slideshow of all the things you adore about your beloved. Maybe some charts and graphs of romance over time? Honestly, that sounds very cute. I know but kind of hard to wrap. Hmm. I'll keep thinking. We've got more diamond history coming up. Be right back.

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Okie dokie, when we left off, the De Beers company had put diamonds everywhere. In advertisements, in movies. They even had a woman give lectures about diamonds at school. But they really struck gold with a slogan. A slogan is a catchy line that helps sell a product. Like Nike's Just Do It. Or McDonald's Ba-da-ba. I'm loving it. For diamonds, that slogan was a diamond is forever. nineteen forties. It was the brainchild of a writer named Frank.

Because she was one of the only women working in the world. And she worked hard. Back then, women weren't Many jobs outside of a few professions like teaching. But since this company was trying to convince women, they decided to actually have women work. Smart move. For real. So Francis had been working all night on an ad campaign for Diamond. It was late and she was excited. She just wanted to collapse in her bed when she realized she hadn't thought. Bag for the ad.

SEND ME A She wrote something down right before falling asleep. When she woke up, she thought what she'd written was just okay. A diamond is forever. I guess it'll have to do. When she showed it to her co-workers, They didn't think much of it. In fact, some of the men tried to pick apart her grammar. Be a diamond lasts. Can a diamond be for you? They didn't realize. Yeah, that slogan perfectly sums up the idea that a diamond equals everlasting love. It would help sell countless rings.

That's from a commercial made in the 1990s, almost 50 years after Francis came up with that slogan. One magazine even crowned it the slogan of the century. Even if it's sort of untrue, diamonds can shatter or chip or get discolored. Still, all of these efforts worked. Diamond purchases in the U.S. boomed over the next several decades.

And the De Beers Company is still around and still specializing in diamonds. And that's how diamonds became the stone for lovers. You know what else is great for lovers? Pickles. What? Yeah, so say I love you with a treat you can eat, right? They last so long in the fridge and are great for your gut microbes. Like love, they make you feel full and happy. Pickles the snack of true romance Here, have one! That really does taste like love to me. Oh thanks. I think this might be the one.

Diamonds were once very rare and fairly. But after miners in South Africa discovered a big troll So all the diamonds. Teamed up to control prices. And convince people to show affection with their stones. Thanks to some pioneering women, the idea that diamonds are for lovers caught on. But nothing says I love you. This episode was written by Sand and Totten. by Nico Gonzalez Whistler. Back checking by Nico Gonzalez Whistler. We had sound design by Rachel Breeze. Original theme.

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Yeah, it's about that time. Are you ready to hear the answers for first things first? Yep. Okay, so just a reminder, we did Valentine's First, Poem, writing a poem second, and Candy as the last one, okay? Yeah. Oh this is intense What is the answer? Nobody knows. Oh okay, you did you did okay. Dea, you did okay. Uh so first up, actually, the oldest thing is love poems.

So that is from 2000 BCE. The oldest known love poem dates back to around 4000 years ago. Wow. So it was composed in ancient Mesopotamia, which today is in Western Asia. And the poem is called The Love Song of Shusin. It was both a poem and part of a ritual.

Oh my gosh, have you ever heard of that? Not yet. I haven't heard of that. It was found written on a clay tablet, and it's likely there were other love poems before this one, but as of now, this is the oldest one we know about. I feel like more people should know this one. That's really cool. Yeah. And so second was actually the Valentine's card. So you got candy hearts, right? So you did good. The oldest known Valentine's letter was written in 1415 by a guy in prison.

Who That's crazy, you're right. The guy was Charles, Duke of Orleans, who was imprisoned in London Tower after being captured in a battle. He wrote to his wife, which is a romantic story worthy of its own movie. Yeah. And then last but certainly not least is the candy heart, which you were absolutely right about. Candy hearts are from the year 1866.

and were first made by the New England confectionery company of Neko. They were originally made shaped like a seashell, and they were larger than they are today, and they had longer sayings like Married in White, you have chosen right, or Married in Pink, He'll take to drink. What? These days more than eight billion of these chalky little hearts are sold in the weeks leading up to Valentine's Day. Do you like those little candy hearts, Dea?

Yeah, I love Candy Hurts. Um, on Valentine's Day at school each one of us got a box. It was so fun. Oh nice. Yeah, you know, um I I th I like Valentine's Day, but I like the day after Valentine's Day more because then you can get all the chocolate and the candy hearts for like super cheap. This it's like uh Valentine's Day. February 15th is for lovers.

So, uh, which one of these was like the most interesting for you? I honestly thought that um probably the Valentine's, like the backstory behind it is kind of crazy. Like the fact that it was written in a Uh by a prisoner in a tower in London. Yeah. It's a very it's it's a really great story, I think. It should be like a movie or something. Yeah, it could be a movie or like a forever go episode and we can have really cool sound effects and we can have Hermie.

The Duke of Orleans Hermione, get out of jail! Cool, you did a great job. Join us next week for a new episode about the history of Candyland. Thanks for listening.