Flirt with Tawni Blake

Don't you think it's time for you to find love? Then it's time for Flirt with Tawni Blake, the podcast that will let you unleash the full power of flirting! I'm Tawni, and I'm a dating coach, entrepreneur, relationship guru, and world-class flirt! I've heard every story, studied every scenario, and know all the do's and don'ts when it comes to attracting the partner of your dreams. And that journey starts with discovering your inner flirt. Join me each week where my special guests and I will share it all - the funny, the tragic, the embarrassing, and the hopeful - in a podcast that is super honest, flirty as hell, direct and to the point, and always hilarious. I'll reveal everything to you - all my favorite tips, tricks, resources, and results - and we will discover our best lives, our true selves, and our new loves - together!

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Episodes

Ep. 90 - Boundaries & Expectations

Level up! Raise your standards in your dating life. You are worth more!

Aug 13, 2024•17 min

Ep. 89 - Stop Being So Damn Boring

First dates should not be boring. Up your game. Shift your energy. Be more fun, more playful. Be curious. Ask great questions. Be memorable.

Jul 30, 2024•29 min

Ep. 88 - The Myth of the Fairy Tale

Women are taught from a young age that their only real purpose & goal in life is to get married & procreate. I find this antiquated expectation ridiculous of course and I share my point of view on it all.

Jul 16, 2024•19 min

Ep. 87 - The One That Got Away

I tell stories about past loves…. Love lost. Nostalgia. How I deal with all the memories that haunt me a bit. And the adventures I had moving to new cities all on my own.

May 29, 2024•44 min

Ep. 86 - You Will Have to Leave Your House!

To meet someone in real life, you have to get out! Let’s face it, dating apps are hit or miss. They take up a lot of time without a lot of real tangible results. It is way more effective (and fun, in my opinion) to meet in person and see if there’s chemistry immediately. Let’s get off our phones (& the apps) this summer and fully engage with the world full of people around us!

May 20, 2024•26 min

Ep. 85 - Can You Be Friends With Your Ex?

I discuss the pros and cons of this idea, and share my own personal experience through the years.

May 13, 2024•22 min

Ep. 84 - There's Hope For You Yet

In this episode, I share 3 success stories of clients who had given up hope on ever finding lasting love. Was it timing? Was it geography? Was it the work they did on themselves? We all need a little HOPE.

May 05, 2024•34 min

Ep. 83 - Insecurity: The Root of All Evil (In Relationships)

Your insecurity will inevitably manifest in your relationship. How you deal with it, and how you & your partner communicate about it will be the deciding factor if your relationship will last. Create a safer space for your person to talk about their issues with you.

Apr 28, 2024•29 min

Ep. 82 - You Should Talk To Someone About That

In this episode, I talk about dating after therapy....How you might feel really ready! You've talked it all out. You may feel you have it all figured out now. All the sh#t from your childhood....But then you meet someone you really like, and all that you think you know flies right out the window....

Apr 14, 2024•27 min

Ep. 81 - Shit We Don't Talk About

The stress affecting your mental & physical health and therefore your relationships--your ability to date, connect and attract. Finding joy in the middle of it all. Self care. Taking care of each other. It all matters!

Apr 10, 2024•31 min

Ep. 80 - Be Careful What You Wish For

I'm back!

Mar 25, 2024•35 min

Ep. 79 - Are You Happy?

That glimpse at insecurity that causes you to stay stuck. Are you spending way too much time in your head? Are you happy with your current partner? Or do you stay for all the wrong reasons?

Dec 18, 2023•29 min

Ep. 78 - The Loneliest Time of the Year

Being single during the holidays can be rough! Newly single parents experiencing their first holiday without their kids, the family split apart. You are not the only one! Focus on yourself and self care and maybe do the unexpected.

Dec 10, 2023•18 min

Ep. 77 - Day 54: Avoiding Self Sabotage

Perfect, beautiful date nights. And realizing my susceptibility to fear in a new relationship. The key to getting past it....and not messing it all up.

Nov 21, 2023•28 min

Ep. 76 - The Love Of My Life

1992 was the year I fell in love for the first time with the most amazing human I have ever met...I am so grateful to him for setting the bar high for all the men that followed.

Nov 05, 2023•29 min

Ep. 75 - Cuffing Season

Cold weather is here....time to find someone to cuddle with to stay warm. I am also celebrating another successful singles gathering and feeling beyond grateful!

Oct 30, 2023•21 min

Ep. 74 - The Evolution of the Beginning

How does a relationship get started? From the first date to the exclusivity conversation. How do you make that decision to choose that one person to try and make something work?

Oct 22, 2023•31 min

Ep. 73 - Gratitude in a Time of Tragedy

"During dark times, gratitude matters more than ever." This quote is from an article from a college on ethical leadership. Expressing gratitude can be a valuable tool when it comes to healing from grief. This week has been devastating for so many people. I have had few words to express my feelings, but I have remained in gratitude for every single thing that I have. Taking nothing for granted. Sending you all a little extra love....

Oct 15, 2023•28 min

Ep. 72 - Happy Happy Joy Joy

My take on how to get a relationship to develop after your first date. The happy medium of communication, expressing your genuine interest, and curiosity. Flirting, fun, and some directness!

Oct 09, 2023•27 min

Ep. 71 - Abundance vs Scarcity

In your dating life, you are the common denominator. Your energy and your thoughts dictate how your dates will go. If you think all the good ones are taken.... If you think dating sucks...then this will be true for you. What do you bring to the table? Drama or healthy fun? Negativity or positive vibes? Get your sh#t together, people. :)

Oct 01, 2023•31 min

Ep. 70 - So Damn Dramatic!

I keep the theme of going down memory lane and read some of my love letters from the 6th and 7th grades. The intensity. The drama. So passionately in love for two 12 year olds. And this is who I have always been. Makes me smile.

Sep 23, 2023•34 min

Ep. 69 - Hard To Say I'm Sorry

A "dear diary" episode about my 7th grade love affair who has recently shown up in my life, making us revisit our past moments together. This is the song by Chicago (the band) that takes us both back to me breaking his 13 year old heart back then. (Ouch!) So we have reconnected....now what? :)

Sep 18, 2023•25 min

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