Flex and Rooms, Flex and Frooms. This is the Flex and Rooms catch up podcast. It is Flex and Rooms on CADA. Quick question all the dating things to be fearful of. Why aren't we more scared of theft every day? It's ick, red flag heartbreak? What about theft? You're not thinking about it enough? You let people into your home, You're going into their home. Did you just think about this or is this like triggered by something? Oh was
triggered by something, not a personal experience. A TikTok I was just saying, working through something, I'm getting to it, Okay, let me cook. Anyway, I did see this girl on TikTok. I didn't really follow the story closely because I'm trying to mind my business for the sake of my cortosol levels. But what I did gather, because it's like a six part story and it had extra bits and pieces, is that a girl went on a date with a guy
that she matched with on a dating app. But the reason why it came to be is that they match with each other. They didn't talk, maybe had a few pleasantries exchanged, but they walked past each other on the street and he clocked her and said Oh my god, Hey, like, we've matched on an app. We should hang out. So they agreed to hang out. It's like a meet cute. Obviously a lot of the details I've missed, but from what I can gather, they matched. They went on a date.
He came over to her house, and the morning after she realized that he had stolen her shoes. Not just any shoes, Mason Margella tabbies, those shoes that kind of look like horse knuckle feet or I am you know, fluctuational Japanese tabbies, however you want to call them. Now, she goes on this rampage to try and get these shoes back. She's telling the full story. She's dropped his face, dropped a video of what he looks like, details that
he gave her in exchange to her. And as she's recalling the red flags and trying to backtrack how it possibly happened and at what time, she realized that, of course he took the shoes in the night. But when she tried to text him to say hey, like did you steal my things? She didn't have his number anymore. She was like, how is it possible that I don't have your number? Like, when did you get my phone?
She remembers him insisting that he wanted to share a playlist with her, but he wanted to make it on her phone or share it from her phone straight away. So while he was there pretending to save a playlist, he deleted his number off her phone. Turns out the whole time he had stolen the shoes for his girlfriend. What dream guy, Oh, that's amazing. The layers basically, this
goes viral. It's blowing up. He gets in touch with her naturally because obvious reasons, and so she's gone to meet him, and a friend of hers is filming the interaction. Why is he smiling and looking so smug? So smug? He's like he he he. What was she mad? I mean, I think the cloud kind of wore off the anger for her, Like she was going viral. People kind of knew her by face. They were rooting for her, they
were like abusing him. It was amazing. It was a cultural moment, if anything, but it led me to the point I don't think enough of us are scared about dating theft. We're not assuming that when we go to someone's house, when they come back to ours, that something could go missing, and I think we should be. Yeah, I haven't even thought of that, right, And people snoop. Yeah, go to a bathroom, snoop, See what's going on there. You might look at a bedside table, see what's popping off?
This one's looked and taken something. Would you look in a person's like bedside table if it was open, if it was a jar, you know I would pick in. Yet I'm more like I'm looking at a bedside table top. I do that a lot. Oh, I mean that's like you're inviting. What you put on there is quite intentional. Someone say, oh you think, yeah, I've got my little lineese lip bomb. What are you intentionally trying to add? The lewish moisture, cool, calm and collected nice, some other
things inside the door. They're not for a sleeper. Okay. You've been listening to the Flex and Frooms Daily podcast. For more, tune Indicator on DAB or stream it on iHeartRadio