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First Things First

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Join Brooke Blurton & Matty Mills, your Deadly duo, as they share personal yarns through a First Nations Lens.

Listen as they connect through stories of shared, lived and first experiences.

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Episodes

You’ve Heard of Girl Math, Introducing Blakfulla Math

Blakfulla Math is like Blakfulla time, we're always late! Blakfulla Math is calling everyone aunty + uncle when you're not even related. There's a tonne more where that came from! Plus we're also sharing our best stories of when we've lied to get out of work/ school and when it's gone WAY too far! I'm talking someone had a surgery they didn't need because of a lie gone too far! Nova Entertainment acknowledges the traditional custodians of the land on which we recorded this podcast, the Gadigal P...

Dec 04, 202332 minSeason 2Ep. 46

We’re Blowing Up the Conventional Family

Brooke + Matty are very parental people and would both love to have a family, but what would that look like for them? Today we dive into the details surrounding surrogacy, IVF, adoption and respite care and how they both see their families taking place. Plus the cost for Matty to have a kid with a same sex partner, and all the pressure that surrounds women in their late 20s with their 'fertility clock'. And of course how important Brooke + Matty's culture is to pass down to the next generation. ...

Nov 27, 202335 minSeason 2Ep. 45

It’s Time To Change How We View Indigenous Fathers

We're tackling addiction today, in particular the cycle of addiction and the effect it can have on kids. Brooke and Matty share their experiences of addiction within their families and communities and how they were impacted. Plus we're joined by First Nations rapper Kobie Dee to chat about his experience getting sober for hid kids and how he created his latest single 'Fathers Eyes' with Stan Walker. Nova Entertainment acknowledges the traditional custodians of the land on which we recorded this ...

Nov 20, 202329 minSeason 2Ep. 44

Note To Self: Therapy Is Helpful

Today's episode is all about therapy and especially our own journeys with it. Brooke + Matty have both been doing a lot of internal learning and working towards fixing some traumas as well as breaking some unhealthy habits. But they've also learnt some amazing tools and ways to keep yourself in the moment which we'd love to share with you today. If you're someone who wants to reach out to a service you can contact First Nations service 13 YARN; https://www.13yarn.org.au Or also Lifeline: https:/...

Nov 13, 202344 minSeason 2Ep. 43

The People That Influenced Our Lives

Like a lot of kids growing up, we didn't have the most stable of childhoods. But we did have some pretty important people that we met along the way that influenced our lives in the best way possible. Both Matty and Brooke share stories from growing up, going through the foster system, and how these role models had a positive impact on their lives. Nova Entertainment acknowledges the traditional custodians of the land on which we recorded this podcast, the Gadigal People of the Eora Nation. We pa...

Nov 06, 202346 minSeason 2Ep. 42

What Is Really Happening In The Israel/Palestine Conflict

We along with the rest of the world have been saddened and shocked with what is happening with the Israel and Palestine conflict and the sad reality there seems to be hundreds and thousands of innocent civilians being killed on both sides. Today we chat to Antony Loewenstein an Australian/ German & Jewish journalist who was based in east Jerusalem between 2016 and 2020. Antony explains how the conflict started, whether the global press reporting on the situation has been biased and if he bel...

Oct 30, 202349 minSeason 2Ep. 41

How To Show Allyship After The Referendum

Since the outcome of the ‘No’ vote in the Voice referendum there have been a lot of Australians who want to show their support. How do you do that? In this episode, Matty and Brooke talk us through the best ways to show support and allyship to First Nations People after the devastating result of the referendum. Plus! Why is Matty leaving the country? Find out in this episode of Not So PG! Nova Entertainment acknowledges the traditional custodians of the land on which we recorded this podcast, th...

Oct 24, 202351 minSeason 2Ep. 40

Australia Has Voted No

Australia has voted NO. The Voice referendum has had a result that Matty and Brooke were not expecting. In this episode they discuss their feelings about the way the nation voted and why it is so important to keep going and not give up for the community. Nova Entertainment acknowledges the traditional custodians of the land on which we recorded this podcast, the Gadigal People of the Eora Nation. We pay our respect to Elders past and present. LINKS Follow @itsmattymills on Instagram Follow @broo...

Oct 16, 202332 minSeason 2Ep. 39

Why the Voice Will Impact Young People the Most

No matter what happens in this Voice, it will impact young people the most. Today we're joined by Allira Davis and Bridget Cama today from the Uluru Youth Dialogue to chat about why The Voice is so important for young people in this country and how it will impact them. The Voice isn't something that has just popped up, and the girls chat through their journey campaigning over the last year or so and why this Voice to Parliament is so important. Plus Brooke and Matty also talk about how you can b...

Oct 09, 202354 minSeason 2Ep. 38

What Is the Voice to Parliament & What Will It Do?

We're aiming to simplify the Voice to Parliament for you today. We'll tell you exactly what it is, what it will do and what it will mean for Indigenous communities. Plus we tackle some of the most frequently asked questions about the referendum. We also share some personal stories on our upbringing and what effect colonisation had on our families - even as close as 2 generations ago. And why this referendum is so important both for First Nations + Torres Straight people, but also for the future ...

Oct 02, 202346 minSeason 2Ep. 37

The Loneliness Survival Guide

NOTE: This episode discusses mental health, depression and mentions of suicide. We want to be honest with you today... Our mental health at the moment isn't the best, and that's ok. We're both going through breakups, Brooke's feeling a bit lonely and Matty's just started therapy and we want to talk about it. How do we deal with it? Do we hermit, or party? Why are we feeling this way? We're unpacking it all and having a pretty real and raw conversation to let you know you're not alone. Plus... th...

Sep 25, 202344 minSeason 2Ep. 36

Brooke’s Dad’s Advice for the Honeybadger

We're back for Part 2 of Brooke's episode with her Dad Pete and they're talking all things Bachelor and love. What advice did Pete give to the Honeybadger when they were filming? And what was Nick's reaction to Brooke's family and hometown. Plus Brooke and Pete talk about the type of person she wants/ they think she should end up with. Not to mention how her brothers react when she does have a boyfriend! And Pete opens up about the death of his wife and how the community rallied around him and h...

Sep 18, 202329 minSeason 2Ep. 35

Who is Brooke Blurton's Dad? Part 1

Matty is off sick this week but we have an incredibly special replacement... Brooke's Dad Pete! You might remember Pete from Brooke's Bachelorette season. Brooke and Pete have an incredibly special relationship and how they came in touch with each other is a beautiful story. Brooke didn't have a lot of consistent males in her life until Pete came along and showed her what a real man and a real father is like. On today's episode they share stories from Brooke's mother's childhood and also chat ab...

Sep 12, 202332 minSeason 2Ep. 34

The Blaque Showgirls Join Not So PG!

Today we are joined by Matty's co-stars from Nakkiah Lui's 'Blaque Showgirls' Angeline Penrith and Stephanie Somerville tell us about the show and what it means to be proud Black Creatives. Plus, it is an emotional time for Brooke and Matty with it being the anniversary of when they lost their siblings. Brooke and Matty open up about how they feel this time of year and give honest and forthright account of how they are coping. Nova Entertainment acknowledges the traditional custodians of the lan...

Sep 04, 202345 minSeason 2Ep. 33

Throwing Out All Those Red Flags!

Today we are joined by Sleeping Beauty - also known as Brooke Blurton after she missed her alarm and almost slept right through the podcast recording session this week! Also... Is it a Red Flag? Matty and Brooke discuss red flags in a relationship. With the Voice to Parliament vote coming up really fast, we take a quick look at the facts and urge you to do your own research on the matter - Education is key - Know what you are voting for! Nova Entertainment acknowledges the traditional custodians...

Aug 28, 202340 minSeason 2Ep. 32

Let's Pause and Rewind For a Second!

Matty and Brooke are off sick this week, so in this episode, we go back in time a little and re-live some of the highlights from past episodes. Nova Entertainment acknowledges the traditional custodians of the land on which we recorded this podcast, the Gadigal People of the Eora Nation. We pay our respect to Elders past and present. LINKS Follow @itsmattymills on Instagram Follow @brooke.blurton on Instagram Follow @novapodcastsofficial on Instagram CREDITS Hosts : Brooke Blurton and Matty Mill...

Aug 21, 202328 minSeason 2Ep. 31

Matty Has Been Blacklisted!

Who put Matty on a black list? Matty found out through a few yarns in Darwin on the weekend that he has been put on the outer because of a misunderstanding! Ooft... the politics are just too much to handle! We also talk manifesting your destiny after Brooke decided to cut off all of her hair and which of the Matilda's has caught Matty's eye? Nova Entertainment acknowledges the traditional custodians of the land on which we recorded this podcast, the Gadigal People of the Eora Nation. We pay our ...

Aug 14, 202327 minSeason 2Ep. 30

Get Over Them With an Ick List!

We all have an ex that we just can't quit but Brooke has the perfect way to get over them and we aren't sure if it is working for her, but we are willing to give it a try! We also have a chat about the upcoming referendum and how important the vote actually is... Nova Entertainment acknowledges the traditional custodians of the land on which we recorded this podcast, the Gadigal People of the Eora Nation. We pay our respect to Elders past and present. LINKS Follow @itsmattymills on Instagram Fol...

Aug 07, 202331 minSeason 2Ep. 29

The Morning After The Logies

Brooke and Matty discuss the Logie awards winners and the exclusion of the acknowledgement of country from the television broadcast. Matty also learned something that shook him to the CORE! Talk about a sliding doors moment! Nova Entertainment acknowledges the traditional custodians of the land on which we recorded this podcast, the Gadigal People of the Eora Nation. We pay our respect to Elders past and present. LINKS Follow @itsmattymills on Instagram Follow @brooke.blurton on Instagram Follow...

Jul 31, 202331 minSeason 2Ep. 28

Spending Some Time With Lizzo

Brooke is back after hanging out with Lizzo at Splendour in the grass! But it's what she saw in the crowd that shocked her. Matty has been doing some stalking on Instagram and Brooke breaks down after her relationship breakdown and really opens up about how she is really feeling. And the Bachelor is back - How does Brooke really feel about another 3 way Bachelor title? Nova Entertainment acknowledges the traditional custodians of the land on which we recorded this podcast, the Gadigal People of ...

Jul 24, 202335 minSeason 2Ep. 27

Another Relationship Bites The Dust...

Last week we were talking about rosters and Brooke's boyfriend... And this week, she's back on the market! Brooke talks about her relationship breakdown and why she's not dwelling on the negatives and rather focussing on the positives. Like knowing you gave 110% and that your now ex-partner couldn't give you what you deserved. Also what her WA trip has been like! Plus Matty asks whether social media can get in the way of a relationship, if he's self-sabotaging with his new fling and we need to c...

Jul 17, 202343 minSeason 2Ep. 26

Let's Talk S*x Rosters...

Trying not to catch feelings for someone? No worries, get yourself a sex roster babe! Matty's wondering if he's caught the feels a bit too early, so of course Brooke's got the best advice for him from her F Boy days... And yes, she accidentally called the wrong name out in bed once. Plus, how pets and dating can cause the 'icks'... And speaking of icks... Brooke's having some thoughts herself. Nova Entertainment acknowledges the traditional custodians of the land on which we recorded this podcas...

Jul 10, 202329 minSeason 2Ep. 25

It's NAIDOC Week and We're Tired Babe

Happy NAIDOC Week!! We are celebrating of course, but this year we are putting ourselves first. We chat about what the theme "For Our Elders" means to us, and the power of being on Country. Also, Matty is rubbing shoulders with the big leagues (and not getting nervous about it!), and Brooke has a big ol' rant about Pauline Hanson and she does NOT hold back! Go off queen!! Nova Entertainment acknowledges the traditional custodians of the land on which we recorded this podcast, the Gadigal People ...

Jul 03, 202329 minSeason 2Ep. 24

We're Calling It... Beyonce's Better Than Taylor

If you're a Swiftie, you might not want to listen to this episode because Matty's making a pretty big call! Even though he'll probably end up at the Eras tour anyway. Plus we figure out which one of us can't keep secrets and how tight some non disclosure agreements are in the media. Especially on The Bachelorette. And both of us are in early stages of relationships/ seeing someone so how are we handling it? And what's the key to success? Nova Entertainment acknowledges the traditional custodians...

Jun 26, 202328 minSeason 2Ep. 23

Brooke Blurton is EXPOSED!

We dish all the gossip on our trip to LA! Where did we go? What did we do? Where were our organs almost harvested? And which celebrities bed did we end up in? Matty also exposed Brooke for something she did on the trip! Nova Entertainment acknowledges the traditional custodians of the land on which we recorded this podcast, the Gadigal People of the Eora Nation. We pay our respect to Elders past and present. LINKS Follow @itsmattymills on Instagram Follow @brooke.blurton on Instagram CREDITS Hos...

Jun 19, 202339 minSeason 2Ep. 22

Are You Being Rainbow Washed?

Happy Pride month! Brooke and Matty are in LA for pride and having the most amazing time! In this episode we speak about Rainbow washing... what is it and have you been a victim of it? We also talk about the gym and gym etiquette! What grinds your gears at the gym? Nova Entertainment acknowledges the traditional custodians of the land on which we recorded this podcast, the Gadigal People of the Eora Nation. We pay our respect to Elders past and present. LINKS Follow @itsmattymills on Instagram F...

Jun 11, 202334 minSeason 2Ep. 21

What Did Brooke Sneak Onto the Set of the Bachelorette

When you are on a reality TV show, they usually take away your social media and your phone... especially if you are the star or the winner. We speak with the winner of 'The Summit' Isaac Compton about his experience and Brooke dropped a bombshell about her time on the Bachelorette! Isaac tells us all about how he will spend his $250,000 and why is Matty learning Spanish for some reason and it turns out, he isnt very good at it... Nova Entertainment acknowledges the traditional custodians of the ...

Jun 05, 202333 minSeason 2Ep. 20

Is The Voice The Answer?

When it comes to life expectancy for First Nations people, the figures are very different to other groups in Australia. Matty and Brooke take a deep dive into the statistics and open the lid on why this is the case and what we can do to help close the gap. Nova Entertainment acknowledges the traditional custodians of the land on which we recorded this podcast, the Gadigal People of the Eora Nation. We pay our respect to Elders past and present. LINKS Follow @itsmattymills on Instagram Follow @br...

May 29, 202331 minSeason 2Ep. 19

You Should Definitely See Colour!

Being back on country always fills Matty's cup and he was back on country this week - he shares some stories from his time back home. Consent is a huge deal in this day and age, but do we all get it? Brooke discusses consent and the weirdness around being on the bachelorette with the topic and with prominent and well-loved first nations journalist Stan Grant's sudden departure from our TV screens, Brooke and Matty discuss discrimination in Australia and how we can stop this from happening. Nova ...

May 22, 202340 minSeason 2Ep. 18

How Brooke Spent Her Bachie Money Might Surprise You

When Brooke finished up on the bachelorette, she obviously got a little pay day, but how she spent that money might surprise you! Matty cracks open the kink chest and talks about what he does and doesn't like in the bedroom and Brooke has a knack for talking to people at any place and at any time! Nova Entertainment acknowledges the traditional custodians of the land on which we recorded this podcast, the Gadigal People of the Eora Nation. We pay our respect to Elders past and present. LINKS Fol...

May 15, 202338 minSeason 2Ep. 17
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