#124 - Lessons From My First Love
Summary
In a raw and emotional episode, Minji recounts her journey with her first love, Jay, from their innocent childhood romance to a complex, codependent adult friendship. She candidly discusses his battle with depression, her own experience with an abusive relationship and suicidal thoughts, and the devastating impact of his suicide. The episode delves into themes of grief, forgiveness, the fragility of life, and the transformative power of both healthy and unhealthy love, ultimately leading to a profound understanding of self-love.Episode description
(Warning: this episode includes content regarding suicide. If you are not in a good space to hear thoughts on this topic, we recommend listening at another time. Be well & take care of yourself.) We're getting into all our feelings in this one. In this episode, Minji shares the story, memory, & lessons learned from her first love, Jay. In celebration of his life & the lasting impact he made on her in the many years since they fell in love at church as 10-year-old kids, Minji reflects on some of her most beautiful & painful moments. She goes into the joyful innocence & heart awakening of a first love as well as the lasting friendship that also veered into unhealthy territory at times. She shares the process of losing him to suicide in 2018 & how that has shaped her until now. She hopes that in commemorating Jay, she can continue her healing while also helping others process their own pain & keep finding light at the end of their tunnels.
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