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Connor is on the phone today for a first day follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Gso we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date. But first we have to find out about the date. Connor, how long has it been since you talked to you.

It's been a little over a week, and I've I've tried everything. I've tried, calling, texting, you know the works.

Okay, Well, that's a frustrating feeling. Maybe she lost her phone.

That would be a good, excellent right, you be hopeful.

Why don't you tell us about your date?

Okay? So we did something that's I don't know, I guess it's a little quirky. It was a scavenger hunt at the Art Museum downtown. And basically, you like download this app, right, and it gives you all these clues and like riddles to solve, and you basically like run around finding stuff, like, you know, the ugliest statue or the most romantic painting. And we were like when we started, I was like, you know, do you ever watch like Amazing Race or any of those like reality shows. And

And it seemed like she was super into it too.

Oh totally. It was easy. We were it. To me, it was like we were in our own bubble. Like even at one point, like we sat we were sitting and we found this like weird abstract sculpture that was on the like scavenger hunt, and we just sat there and before I knew it, I looked at my watch and forty minutes had passed. We had just been like talking and I don't know, like you know that kind of when something like that happens. It just feels like

Yeah, okay, So why do you think you're getting ghosted?

Well, that's it. I don't know, because I guess I've never had a date that I would actually describe as like fun. I feel like I meet a girl, I go out on like the obligatory coffee date. We have small talk, or there's like an awkward dinner where you're wondering, oh am I paying for this? Or we splitting it like it's just so awkward. And this was not any of that. It's kind of like we were I don't know, we were on like a little adventure, you know.

Yeah.

And I think the part that was like I'm not trying to sound corny or anything, but like the part that was most attractive is that I got to see her brain at work, you know, like how she saws stuff and like how she thinks and how she approaches the world. And I was just very very attracted by what I saw.

Yeah, you're into her, into her?

I am.

It's weird, Like she even when she even made this super dry joke about modern art that like no one else would have caught and I to this like a week later, I'm thinking about it every single day, Like the joke like replays in my head, and I'm like, I don't know, it's just so smart, you know, you don't you don't run into someone who's like as attractive but also so interesting and so easy to have fun with.

Yeah, are you smart too?

Because I mean, if we're thinking about what could have gone wrong, I don't know if she's super intellectual and maybe you can't think of anything, like there weren't even any awkward moments.

I didn't have any, and like I'd like to think that I'm pretty smart, which is why I'm always looking for intelligence as like a part of the package. So no, I mean, I don't think that would be it. I would be pretty surprised if she didn't find like, you know, she didn't feel like I was keeping up.

Okay, well we'll see if we can figure it out for you. Then we'll play a song, come back call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you or if you lost her phone.

Yeah, and then we're never to get you a second date.

Okay, thanks. I would appreciate that.

All right, we'll play a song come back and get your first date follow up next.

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Right in the middle of your first date follow Up and if you're just joining us, Connor is on the phone and Connor is getting ghosted by a woman named Giso. We're about to call her and see if she'll tell us the reason she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date. But first, Connor, why don't you break down your date again real quick with you?

Yeah? It was perfect at least on my end, and I thought she had fune. We went to the Art Museum downtown. We like downloaded this app where you can go on scavenger hunt and solve riddles and like find different pieces of art, and it was it was everything I looked for and to date, it was fun, it

Okay? Are you ready for us to call her?

As ready as I'll ever be?

All right, here we go, Hello him, I speak to you. Please?

Hey, Gia, how are you? This is the Jubil Show. It's a radio show.

Hi, Gia, I'm Nina.

Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jubil. How are you hi?

Good?

Think?

Yeah?

Are you? Do you know the show?

Not like that?

Well okay, I don't remember submitting to anything.

But.

Well I don't think you did. But we did get an email about you from somebody who listens to the show. That's why we're on the shoe. Oh cool, okay, you have the most chill attitude. Well, we do a segment on the show that's called the First Date follow Up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them, that person can help.

Us call you to ask us why you're ghosting them?

Who are you ghosting?

So Connor, Yes, it is about Connor.

He said that he really liked you, thought your date was great, and it's confused that it's been you know, over a week now and you haven't responded to him.

Do you mind telling us why?

Yeah? Well, oh my goodness. The date was fun, like surprisingly fun. He's you know, clever and charming, but also he was just a.

Lot a lot What does that mean?

Well, you know how people can just like there's a line of like too much sometimes. At first we were clicking and like I thought it was, you know, cute, how into the scavenger he wasn't, you know, I love like interactive things and games and everything, but he kept making like literally everything into a bit just the whole time, like narrating the date in a god the worst fake

Of a warm energy, you.

Know, yeah, I mean like like this old guy just kind of looked at him weird, which actually was pretty funny. But then he like he climbed up on a fountain to like look for another clue.

I don't know.

It set off his emotional arm and this was then sing like a docent uh huh yeah, yeah, like he got into like an argument with him and like they were starting to like call security.

He was arguing.

About whether this, like you know, I've seen it in different TV shows where it's like a banana or a fire extinguisher or something just like on the wall, whether that counts as art, you know, like having this debate about modern art. And it was just like I feel like those two tables just kind of like explain it the best. It was just like chaotic energy, and I was just like at first I was excited, but but then by the end, I was just exhausted. Wait.

Wait, that's why you got to me because I was too fun.

You guys didn't she was on here, you didn't.

You didn't say anything. I mean you were laughing and we were having a really good time. We're having fun.

We were, But then I also laugh when I'm stressed, like I'm nervous, you know, like I'm not going to tell someone that I barely know like how to not act when they're having fun. And yeah, some of it was fun and funny, but then I was just like, by the end of it, I didn't feel safe leaving you on supervised in public.

I feel like you should have had one of those bad beliefs. Listen. Yeah, I wasn't trying to be extra. I just I really liked you.

I was nervous, so I leaned into the jokes because it felt easier than like being awkward or quiet or like too serious.

I get that. However, it's like okay to be quiet for a little bit in a museum, you know, there wasn't any room for just like being and like stopping and observing. It was just like onto the next, on to the next. It was like being stuck in an improv.

Oh well, look, I know I can be a lot, but but like on that date, I swear I was not putting on a show. I was genuinely having one of the best dates I've ever had in my life. And I was just so surprised and it was so refreshing that you were so smart and funny, and you you made art to me feel like less pretentious. So I just didn't want it to end.

Geah, he loves your brain.

Okay, Well, that's really sweet.

Actually, thank you.

I mean, listen, I'm not looking for you to change your vibe or anything. Like if you're Camra Mail, that's great, But I don't know Camma Mail and Espresso Espresso can work together, balance through thatselves, each other out or whatever.

Right, so you're Espresso.

I mean, I do like lavender more than cam meal. But what you want to be a lot like yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly. See I can be a whole day macchiato if you'll let me.

What do you think, Geo, you want to let him be a macchiato? Would you go on another date with.

Okay?

Let me think. I appreciate the honesty.

I do.

I did have a good time, minus apart where I thought we were going to get a band from the museum.

Forever there's coming up. I will not climb on fountains. I will not climb on fountains. That's where I will. I will not get in fights with the dose and and there will be no fake accents and requested.

It like maybe their next date is maybe signing up for an improv show or something.

I mean, I think you should give we should give it one more shot.

Yeah you will, you will yeah, because even today maybe last Yay.

All right, sweet, this is awesome. Oh yes, this is exactly how I hope this would go. This is great.

Okay, well I'll text you and we can go get those lattes and play the next thing.

Cool. Just let me know when and I won't be latte.

What what does that mean?

Like late? Like like latte late?

All right, you will first date, follow up