All right, all right. Feeney Talks with friends. Episode 124. I'm really excited about our guest today. What's up? Steve? How are you? Great to be here. This is amazing. Feeney talks with friends. I use this podcast. Feeney talks with friends, and I talk to wonderful people in the community that are doing great things. And, Steve, I mean, how fitting is it? It's it's episode 124, and you represent. Two for one. You got it. Two for one. Life's too short for one, sport. That's an amazing slogan.
I mean, where can we start? We're so excited. How did how did that model get started? Where's two for one? Well, you know, I've told this story many times, and actually probably this is one of the closest places to where it happened, where I, got to tell it. So you might know, I, you know, I was working as a counselor and a coach right here at Hall High School, not too far from where we're doing this.
And my wife was athletic director at the Watkinson School, and we had a young family, and I was coaching different sports over at Hall, and Sarah's coaching soccer, and my, my oldest daughter, who's now, you know, going to be 29, was trying out for the local travel soccer team as an eight year old. And, you know, we just didn't want our kid to be bad at sports, right? You know, we just weren't because we knew how life giving it was to us. So we'd hope she'd make the team.
Well, we get the call after the tryout. Guy says to us, your daughter's our number one prospect. And I was like, dude, she's eight years old. She's nobody's prospect. But, you know, still, you know, it was it still made you feel good that your kid was good. Right? And so she starts to go on about the Brazilian style of play that she's going to fit in into a system and the whole thing.
And after about 20 minutes or so of like him talking about the commitment and all this, I said, well, look, Elena showed some interest in playing lacrosse because my wife played lacrosse in college, you know, and I've always thought of soccer as a fall sport. But I knew knowing that there was some commitment in the spring and some. Right. As soon as I say that he goes radio silent kind of gets angry and says, hold on a second.
And then literally, as if he's talking to the guy in the back of the car dealership, he comes back on like 20 awkward seconds later and says, we're no longer interested in your daughter, simply because as an eight year old, she was showing some interest in another sport. So I said some things that I probably shouldn't say on a friend's podcast to this guy. And I said to my wife that night, you know, we're in a position to do something about this.
Like, you know, we could shout from the mountaintops, or we could actually think about bringing back the three season athlete, the whole thing. And we came up with the tagline that night, life's too short for just one sport. And we actually started as a, summer camp mom and pop camp just for girls. We had three daughters. We had a bunch of friends who had daughters.
We knew we could get them to at least send their kids, get 64 girls the first the first summer over at Watkinson and moms and dads showed up holding the hands of their sons and said, we do this for boys. And to be honest, you know, I was coaching girls, we had daughters. I didn't know if we could get boys. And I said, if you send them, we'll run the camp for boys.
So we did single gender our first two years, believe it or not, three years actually, because then we did alternating weeks of girls and boys. But we outgrew Watkinson, the facility, just when it rained, there was no turf and we were eating up the grass.
So luckily Kingswood Oxford took us over there and in 2014, it was maybe five years after we started the Aspen Institute in Washington DC contacted us and said, would you mind if we recognized you as one of eight model programs in the United States as like this. They had a seminal report called Project Play. It was reimagining youth sports. So the elite organizations were organizations like Special Olympics, Pop Warner, the Tony Hawk Foundation, USA, hockey, and then Little two for one sports.
And it was crazy like, so I go and I, you know, Billie Jean King is there and Michelle Obama is there. And then there's me like, and I was like, Mr. Smith goes to Washington. But it really there was no one doing it anymore. Right? There was like, it didn't seem like a novel idea to us, but we were just like kids playing more than one sport, not specializing. That's that's not brilliant. It's just what we believe in. Yeah, but no one was programing for it, so it elevated us to the national stage.
And you know, I know I'm going on about this, but like, sometimes I look back and I'm like, wow, how did this happen man? Like given given the scope of what we're doing right now. I know it's amazing. And to grow, they always say like Coca-Cola was once sold for a quarter here and now it's global. And now you're all over. You're international now. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So you have again, two for one. We're with Steve Boyle. He's the executive director and co-founder of two for one.
Got my swag, you know. How do you like it? Two for one. I'm honored to because as you can see, there's some partners on the back. Yeah, there he is. The bottom fringe of Fini. Yes. All right. Very excited to have you. This a long time coming. I know we we've talked about getting you on the podcast and it worked out. I wish I could say I set it up that it's 124, but I'm just. Glad we didn't wait for two, four, one, two right to do it. I mean. It's a while away. Yeah.
So it says here that you can't started in 2008. So you're going on 16. What's that. Right. 16 years. This will be our 17th. 17 years. Yeah. It goes from ages 5 to 14. You're at 21,000 kids. 16 states and five countries. Yeah. Wow. Yeah. What are the five countries. So we had, we've done, we have direct programing going on in Canada. We've been in outside of Vancouver for coming on six years. And then we do programing in Zambia, Africa and Kenya.
And so, we've consulted to Australia and India, Mexico. And while it's not a country, we actually right now in conversations we're bringing program to Puerto Rico as well. And so we're excited about that. We did a lot of during Covid, we became sort of a, a program that different countries reached out to because, we were one of the first to do real programing with kids during the pandemic.
And part of the way we convinced some of the schools was like, you got to let us try it because you're going to try to open school in the fall so we can do some trial and error stuff. And we we really were able to, based on best practice and science, put together really good quality programing. And, that was that was crazy, actually. Just when I look back at that not too long ago, as far as states go, you know, we've got really good footprint in Colorado.
We've been in Boulder and the Denver area for a long time. Charlotte, North Carolina, we're in Englewood, new Jersey, as well as Englewood, Colorado. We've, during pandemic, we did programing in Indianapolis, Indiana. You know, our model is one where we always quip that kids are kids no matter where you go, right? You know, regardless of their zip code. And, we're trying to be more strategic about where we go. It used to be we would chase the tail a little bit.
Someone said, hey, come to Colorado, we'd be like, okay, we'll come. That sounds cool. But now you know, our with our board and with our growth, we're able to be more intentional about those places where we're trying to, to do programing. So yeah. No, that's amazing. I mean, and Africa. So how does that work? How do you do you reach out to someone or does someone reach out to you? I, I'm so interested on how that worked out. Well.
I'm so grateful that, you know, you get these sort of random spam emails, right? And so and you can usually tell by the way they're formatted or how, like dear sir or something like that, but I got one and that was it said physical literacy in Kenya. And I looked up the website of the gentleman who had sent the email, and they were legit, you know, but knew, what they call NGO or not non-governmental organizations, the equivalent of being a nonprofit in, in Africa.
And so I set up a zoom call with him. And this when we started, we were, an LLC. We were a small business, if you will. It's kind of a side thing that my wife and I had been doing all these years. We looked and smelled a lot like a nonprofit because we were giving scholarships and we were clearly mission driven, but it was just the way we had set it up, and we'd always wanted to go nonprofit.
And so in talking with this organization called wellness for greatness, we actually before Covid, we were we were looking to figure out a way if we could start a nonprofit arm for them, and then we would go over and do training and let them know sort of a two, four one way. And then Covid came and conversations died on the vine a little bit, and then we rebooted. And then Omicron came and Omicron started in South Africa. And it worked its way up the continent.
And so then during that time in 2021, we actually did decide to go nonprofit. So we applied for our 501 C3 in December of 21. We were approved in August of 22. And that is absolutely more than quadrupled our reach.
It's just because we now still live in the, in the world where we are doing, you know, anti specialization in places like West Hartford and Denver and you know, our traditional what we call parent pay camps, we now are probably have I don't know multiply times ten done grant funded programing. So we're programing year round in places like Hartford and New Britain in in, in in underserved communities. And two of those underserved communities are Nairobi, Kenya and Kitt Way, Zambia.
So, last year Carrie and I went over, we did training. We have since hired someone to sort of lead our projects in Africa. And we're we're down the path with some organizations that we could really scale there because the need is just, as you can imagine, just so great. I know it says that you went in January 2024 and, you know, they predominantly played soccer, but you introduced ultimate Frisbee and some other fun sports. So that's so cool. Yeah, two for one. Any sport, you know.
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So West Hartford lock Eric and Yuri with West for lock. What are three keys that make you great at being the executive director? Two for one. Wow. I thought you brought me with all the hard questions, but, three keys. So, I think what's interesting about even my team. But, you know, I went to that team is that we have a just a wealth of experience. And, you know, I, we do programing in communities. We do them in schools. Right.
And so I've spent my whole life around kids and working with institutions and understanding what are those things that are challenges for schools and communities, and what are those things that can be a value add. And so whenever we go into places, we're always trying to find what's the win win situation for the kids, but also understanding it's educators who are delivering it, or there's community based organizations and there's challenges with that.
So I think I think our experience around understanding governmental agencies, understanding public schools, private schools, the how schools run and then what the needs are for families as well. I think that's important. I'm a I come from a family of eight. I'm the I'm the oldest middle child, as I like to say, because I got, you know, there's three older brothers and then there's three, two girls and a boy. They're younger than me.
And my my brother David are the middle are the middle ones, and I'm the oldest of the middle ones, but I'm kind of the classic middle child, right? Like, I, I worry about everybody, you know? And so I want I want people to be happy, you know, and, and in my family that was they people just sort of knew it. And in fact, my we lost my mom two years ago this week and I got I, the family asked me to do the eulogy.
Right. You know, so I think I think I come from a place of empathy and, worrying about others and I think they're there to value in a nonprofit space, right, to really want to be concerned for what's happening in other people's lives and making sure that they're happy. Three keys. You know, it's funny.
I, you know, there's a guidance counselor for a long time, and I would often say, like, you know, when you get an interview, like one of the things I would always people would ask is like in an interview, what's your greatest strength? And I'd say my competitiveness, you know, and I was an athlete. Right. And so and I had all these brothers and so we fun. And what's your greatest weakness. My competitiveness. Right.
Because and in fact, in the work we do now around social emotional learning, it's really how to manage your anger, how to channel it. And competitiveness and anger can be two separate things. So I really think that, you know, I, I'm driven. But I think I'm driven in a mission driven way, you know, that it's not for, you know, owning a certain house or having things. It's really for leaving a legacy. You know, I'm at that.
I'm approaching my 60s and, you know, I, I realize we're on to something here in terms of being able to change lives and change communities and change cultures. And so, I think my competitiveness helps in that case because I'm driven to like, make sure we get good stuff done before I'm gone and that there's systems in place, you know? So I love it. Yeah, yeah. So I've heard empathy, knowledge and, drive and motivation competitiveness I like it. Yeah. So middle child.
Yeah I'm the oldest child. So what's that say? I don't know, I thought that's why I went into teaching because I was, I don't know, so funny. The middle child. Everyone has a drive in a way a story. Yeah. Exactly. Yeah. Oh, it was great. Your three kids were amazing. That's so good. Thank you. Two for one. Executive director and co-founder. Who are you co-founding it with? My wife, Carrie. Yeah. So, Carrie grew up in Baltimore.
Her mom, believe it or not, was Miss New Jersey in the Miss America pageant. And brilliant woman and her dad. I wrote a blog once called them the original two for one. Or, he was a Golden Gloves boxer. He was, college basketball, football and baseball player. Cheese. He was a teaching tennis pro. Just an amazing guy. But he was a long a 44 year teacher coach at the Gilman School in Baltimore.
People might know Gilman because there's a recent alumni there named Luigi, but we won't go into that right now. Okay. And, he was Senator Paul Sarbanes longest standing advisor. So Paul Sarbanes, Sarbanes Oxley act people sometimes will know that, so he, he was like and he was a good friend to me. And I'm not just saying that because on this podcast, like I really miss him when he's been going on with a decade.
So one of the things we're doing this year is we're, we're starting a pilot in Washington, DC, but we're also going to look to do a program in Carrie's dad's name in Baltimore, because that's where he's from. He was he was known as a civil rights activist. Helped integrate a lot of schools down there. So we're going to try to bring our model to Baltimore and raise funds in his honor, to, to get programs starting down there. So, you know, so Carrie grew up in a sports world. Heard her.
Are you New York Giants family? Yes. So her, her godfather's guy named George Young. He'll go hired Bill Parcell. He was the general manager of the Giants. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. So, yeah. So he was the general manager. He wound up, leaving the Giants and headed NFL Europe before they were doing all that stuff started. Get it started. Yeah. But he he passed away about 15 years ago or so. But she's just, you know, my our first date was 50 yard line of the New York Giants versus Minnesota Vikings.
So yeah. Yeah. Beat it. Yeah. It's awesome. Yeah. Go Giants. Great. Go Giants man. Yeah. So your father in law was an amazing human being. Jeez. Yeah. Boxing. Basketball baseball. Football. Oh my god. And you know, and so Carrie always joked that she couldn't date anybody from, you know, because she was in there all girl school across the street from where he was. And no one wanted to date Coach Slaughter's daughter because he was he was old school tough guy, you know what I mean?
But he used to call me a snack and I go watch a snack. He goes, you're a sensitive new age guy. Oh, okay, I like that. No names for that. No, but. Smell right here. Yeah. That's so funny. Yeah. He was he was a good man, a good man. And we're excited to actually do something in his honor. It's great to pay tribute to him and honor his his legacy. That's amazing. Yeah. And I think he motivated us to do this, right? I mean, he he was stoked when we started it, right?
Because he was sort of like, oh, that's great. But he was frustrated as well like that. It was a need because for him especially, you know, the era he grew up in, it's just the idea of not playing more than one sport was crazy. He had a great line. We walked into FSA one day and, you know, because our kids were doing the travel soccer thing and he walks in and he looks around, kind of does a slow roll. He goes, you know what this place is? He goes, this is a shrine to Overinvolved parents.
And I thought very fitting. But again, you think about it, you know a guy from that generation that, that to have an indoor sports arena to play an outdoor game and it's packed with parents on the sidelines screaming at coaches and cheering their kids on or yelling directions. It was we used to call that a park, right. And, you know, regardless of the time of year. So anyway, he had a lot of influence on us as well. Nice. Yeah. Well, I'm glad you get to honor him.
That's great. Yeah. And also congratulations. I mean, it's a year late, but you received the catalyst endowment fund. Actually, no, that was this year. That was this year. Yeah. We applied in the, in the fall, and we won November. Yeah, yeah, yeah, we received a two year grant. So, Yeah. So the Catalyst Endowment Fund is part of the Hartford Foundation for Public Giving. You know, that's the new thing for us two, right? Is that we we had been lifelong educator.
So this idea of writing grants and, you know, finding what are the sources of funds and who who would be interested in being a donor. So we have to constantly be on the lookout and also work really hard to put forth good grants because the they're competitive and the qualifications for them. You got to make sure like you're doing things that are, you know, budget and the whole piece.
And so this year's grant like fit the like the theme each year that catalyst Group has a different theme and it just fit us because it was really around access to youth sports, and developing leadership through youth sports. And that we do that in Hartford right now. And with a lot of Covid money, Esser money, you know, people would call it stimulus money, what have you. Those funds have all dried up in the last 12 months.
And so we're becoming more and more dependent on on grants and corporate ownership and individual ownership. And so, we applied for 69,000. They awarded a 64,000. So it's going to allow us to start a brand new, full year program at the Sand School in, in Hartford. It's going to allow us to continue at West Middle School. These are both community schools.
Like when I say community schools, they're like in Hartford, you've got magnet schools, you got charter schools, you got neighborhood schools or community schools. Community schools are where kids walk, you know, like there's very few busses. And so, and they tend to be poorer schools, and with less resources. So we're so psyched to have gotten that. The other thing it's going to allow us to do is increase our partnership with the center for Healing and Justice through Sports.
They're a national organization that, does coach training through a trauma informed lens. And so because we do so much work around social emotional learning and sports, but we're programmers and their trainers, they've become a great partner of ours. So they're going to come into Hartford and do two live trainings. For anybody in the Hartford community that wants to come, we're already partnering with Active City Hartford, with Crec coaches, with, Hartford Public School coaches, with UConn.
We're hoping to get 150 people to come do this training free for everybody. Well done with this funding. But the other thing it's really cool is that they're going to help us digitize our our training platform. So like in the next week, I've got I'm training people in Norwich, Hartford, East Hartford, Washington DC, Africa all delivering our program. We can't do live training as much as we'd like to do.
So they're going to help us digitize our online modules in a way that we're not going to lose efficacy in terms of it, there's nothing better than in-person training, but as we scale, there's a reality to it. Center for Healing and Justice Through Sports is partnered. In fact, they're up there at Nike headquarters in Oregon right now. They're they're backed by Nike. They just got they're just so good at what they do. I mean, you and I are lifelong teachers, right?
We all know there's like, good professional development and there's like, why am I sitting here? Professional development. They do the best professional development I've ever been a part of. I'm not just saying that like we did one, in Hartford last year. They came up and it was 5:38 p.m. on a school night. Teachers and coaches in there, some of them were told they had to go and the first people were in the back. Like all right, when's this going to be over?
It was 830 for a PD that ended at 8:00. No one had checked their watch and people were literally angry when they saw what time it was because we had to end. We had to get out of the school we were in. It was just that good. It was that engaging. So yeah. We're there's a. Lot. Yeah, we're super stoked. And the fact that we got some funding, through, through this grant is huge for us. Yeah. That's amazing. Yeah. Congratulations. Thanks, man. Yeah. What's top stand for?
Top thinking on purpose. All right. So, crazy story on her on how this one started. Right. So, I'm in my mid mid 30s teaching and coaching over and over at whole. I got a young family and, I actually was involved in the rescue of, in a faculty meeting. A colleague had a heart attack. She flatlined, and, I and another colleague did CPR in such a way that we were able to the defibrillator was able to do what it's supposed to do.
And so they say that 3% of all people who, flatlined make it to the hospital alive. And of those 3%, only 3% don't have any brain damage. Well, this colleague called me three days later to say I'm okay. And so I didn't know it at the time, but I then developed I had a I had a PTSD response to that, not realizing. And I went up in the hospital myself four times. The first three times they checked me for heart issues and the whole thing
because I was having chest pains and race and thing. And the fourth time they said, you got to go to the psychiatrist. So little did I know I was having a panic attacks. I'd always suffered from anxiety, but I didn't know that. And I manage it through emotion and humor and just ways that young guys do. Right. And so, it was really humbling for the counselor to have to go see a counselor. And, but it literally is changing thousands of lives around the world because that happened.
So we I had to learn what's called cognitive behavioral therapy. And it's basically allowing yourself to to not let the anxiety creep in to like, use your brain to tell yourself this is what's happening and use strategies to distract yourself from it, and to prevent it from consuming you. So tap came from that. So we created this sort of a marriage of different social emotional learning platforms that are out there.
A lot of people are familiar with a ruler. Second step, and we created this one to have a sports sort of focus on it, but it used. So the strategy that I learned that helped me the most was when I felt the anxiety coming on would be able to quickly do some breathing that would take me to my favorite place in the world, which was up in Maine, on the beach with my family.
And so I had started to talk to people about wanting to do this with the kids I was working with and bringing it into the school. And so a lot of people like, well, that mindfulness or that, you know, mindfulness, brainwashing and I'm like, no, it's not. So someone said, you know, what they call it in, the Army, they call it strategic thinking. And I thought to myself, all right, that's kind of cool, because then anybody that's like anti, you know, mindfulness or whatever.
So I came up with the idea of top thinking on purpose. Right. There's an intention ality of, you know, John Kabat-Zinn definition of mindfulness literally says thinking on purpose in there. So we got top self. And so what we do is we help kids identify the emotions they're feeling. No judgment. Right. You're angry, you're anxious, you're whatever. And I always just lead with kids. And I get anxious a lot. I get nervous and that helps calm them down.
And then we just give them strategies for how to go from how they're feeling to how they want to feel. And there's an emoji based image that we have it up on our website. We have that poster hanging in all the schools that we do. So we start all of our programs just normalizing social emotional learning, right? That it's okay to get angry. It's okay to be nervous. It's okay to feel sad. It's just not okay to live in that space if you can do something about it.
And the reason it works so well is because sports are the most authentic classroom for teaching school, right? Kids get they get nervous, they get upset, right? And they get upset about different things. He fouled me. He pushed me. She's not she's not passing the ball to me. My mom and dad didn't come to the game and they told me they were going to, you know, like there's all different emotions that happen.
Whereas a school counselor I used to go in and have to do a lecture on social emotional learning. So I'd be like, all right, make pretend you're angry right now. You know, like that's not helpful. And then you leave and they don't forget what you taught them in our program. They really are angry. They really are upset. They really. And then they can use the strategies that we used to start the lesson. And it's it's every day, right. We start every day with it.
But it's 2 or 3 minutes. We normalize it. We help them understand, like, you know, superheroes have anxiety. NBA stars, why do they take a deep breath before they take a foul shot? Why does the kicker try to calm themselves down? Why do people get hyped up before a game so that they can understand the value of controlling and regulating their emotions? So you don't want to get a technical foul or a yellow card? Yeah. Or yell at your coach because he pulled you out of the game.
Yeah. Yeah. Now it's so interesting in the breathing is a very helpful mindfulness breathing. Yeah. You know, as a teacher like you deal with you probably there's so many teachers now, especially coming out of Covid that say so much of their work is really on self-regulation and classroom management, behavior management. And the PE teachers that we've been doing this program with, it's a before after school program. They ask us, can I use this during my PE or health class?
We're like, absolutely. And every single one of them does it because while they have other things they've been trained in, they said, nothing works like this because it's just quick, you know, That's awesome. Thinking on purpose top. Yeah. So we just presented at the Castle conference in, in Chicago. So Doctor Julie Goldstein, who used to she was principal of, Breakthrough Magnet South, which was number one magnet school in America in 2015.
She then was, principal at Hartford Magnet, Trinity College Academy, where we poached her. She's now our, chief program officer. We actually just changed her title to director of strategic Initiatives. She she got her doctorate studying top shelf. And, so it's now research back, evidence based. And we were the only youth sport development program at Castle in Chicago this year, presenting our research.
And, you know, we've got every all the schools we're going to now, that piece is obviously a big sell for them because, you know, social emotional learning is something it's not a buzzword. They realize how important it really is. So we do second step in schools. Yeah yeah yeah. It's similar. It's just you know, it's in my opinion because I know all of them. It's just a little more authentic, especially for our setting. And you're the goal is to get to home base.
So there's a sports sort of analogy with that. So we have emojis on the outside. And then it's like how do you get to home base. And people know home base and hide and seek. It's a safe place in baseball or kickball. It's you're trying to score there, so you're always trying to get to home base. That's the strategy we use. Well, what's PLP plps. All right. So that's another kind of cool acronyms.
Yeah. Cool thing we added into our program that just, I had always known as a teacher and a coach that if I could get my players to teach a skill that I had taught them, they would own it more. All right. The other thing is, we were trying to figure out a creative way to get more kids involved in our programs. So PLP stands for Physical Literacy Pal. So when we got that Aspen Institute recognition, we also helped write the United States White paper on physical literacy.
So we're contributors to that. And people have seen myself in our organization as sort of experts in this concept of physical literacy. Physical literacy definition US is ability, confidence and desire to be active for life. A lot of sports, it's about it. It's about skills. It's about the, ability piece. But I was always drawn to the affective pieces of confidence and motivation or confidence and desire to want to participate. Like how do you make that happen?
So it's kind of a catchy name, right? Pop physical literacy. People think of them like reading buddies at school, like walk out. Maybe your oldest kids go down and read to the kindergartners. In this case, we train the oldest kids in the school. So in a K-5 school, we train the fifth graders to be these pops. We interview them, they sign a contract, they have to commit to coming.
And what they do is they're there either sometimes we call them like the assistant coaches to the to the adult that's working or like the captains. And so their jobs are essentially to help organize the games, welcome the kids upon arrival, sometimes lead to the top self social emotional learning piece. But what happens is once because a lot of times kids don't know how to organize themselves anymore, right?
You get ten kids to say, okay, split sides and play a game, and they'll look at you like you got to head right because they don't know how to pick teams or at least do it fairly. So by giving them these responsibilities, what's happening is two things. At recess, they're going outside and they're organizing themselves for the first time. And these stories are crazy.
Teachers are telling us that, you know, Eric, who's a trained PLP, see, Steve starting to lose his cool, who hasn't been in the program? Eric starts to teach Steve top self, this is how you come down. You don't want to fight that kid. You don't want to get kicked out of whatever. And so we're seeing now like giving these kids this leadership role, it's a big deal. It's impacting school culture. And they're just better citizens in the school.
You know, nothing works better than giving a kid a leadership role. So they love that. And we don't always give it to those kids that are like the rock star kids that are already getting all the accolades. Like, what we try to do is we say to the people that administrators are the fifth grade team who are those kids are on the cusp, right? That, you know, we often say at risk, but who are who's that promise, right.
Who's that kid that you know that given the right leadership, it's going to change. It's going to change their life. And it's really like it's it's a core component of the program's amazing. You got a lot of good stuff going on at two for one. Where can someone reach out to you if they want to work or apply or. Yeah. So have their kid join. I, myself and Carrie used to, you know, receive all that.
So, you know, our website is, 241 play.org when we went from 241 sports LLC mom and Pop camp to sort of global nonprofit, we went to 241 care. But people were getting confused. So now we say we put play back into sports. So our easy to remember 241 play.org. There's some you know those questionnaires on there like if you if you want more info. Usually we let our camp directors on site to the hiring of staff for, for particular sites.
And then when we get grants and we just open things up, we send it out to the general population. Jessica from our team handles, you know, our staffing for all of our parent pay camps. And then, Carrie, usually we'll do our grant funded programs in terms of, you know, hiring for that. Nice. And it's the mailing address. 1424 Park Street. That's right. 8114. Yes, you can get that on our website. So we have an office, office space down there.
And, you know, it's our headquarters, right into Hartford. Address. But, you know, truth be told, we're programmers. We're we're we're not spending much time in an office. We're out at schools and in the community all the time. What do you have for suggestions on someone that's, a nonprofit that's looking to start writing grants like the Hartford Foundation for Public Giving?
Do you have a suggestion for I. Do I you know what drives me crazy sometimes is how like, guarded people can be about not wanting to share our stuff. We have found that, you know, you and I are a perfect example. Like partnering is where the magic happens, right? We don't do what you do and you don't do what we do. And so it's it's finding those people that are like minded that you can collaborate with. Now, would we struggle to find a grant we could write for together?
Probably. Right. But that doesn't mean I can't share with you. Like, hey, here's a good grant. I heard about that. I think you did. But center for Healing and Justice three sports, that's a perfect example. Like there are people that want to compete with them as opposed to join with them. It's crazy to me, like we're serving kids. And so a lot of, grantors love it when nonprofits collaborate, right? Because they know they're more powerful together and the dollars can, can get more spread out.
So that would be my first piece of advice is to find likeminded, partners that you can help fill each fill gaps like we're partners with Active City, Hartford. That's been a huge partnership for us. Some people could see us as essentially competitors, but we don't look at things that way. Like we don't we're not fighting over kids, right? If you're doing good work and we're doing good work, there's plenty of kids to go around. And so, that's the mentality we've always had. So I'd lead with that.
Thank you. Yeah. And speaking of partnership and collaboration, what happened on May 11th, 2024? The blue Jean mile. So, that was our second annual blue Jean mile. And so, the story behind that is, most people in West Hartford at least know, Stephanie Blowzy, who, was the owner of Fleet Feet, for, for many years, she and I shared in common. Jason Hannigan, who was, a guy who grew up in town that everybody love, personal trainer, but struggled his whole life with mental health issues.
We were both, friends with Mary Painter, his wife. And, Jason used to play basketball with me, and, you know, I can't say, like, we were, like, the best of friends, but, you know, he's one of those guys that once you met him, you were his guy, right? No matter what. So I took him in the Whole Foods, and I get your newsletters about two for one. I love what you're doing. I always, you know, I'm always pumped about it. Well, sadly, he died by suicide shortly after Covid.
And, for those who knew him well, it was devastating, but not a shock, right? Because they knew what his struggles were and because we were doing so much work around, around mental health. But really our, our we're in the prevention space, right? We're not in the intervention space. And what I mean by that is the work we do with top self is to get kids to never get to that point, right.
That they have strategies to either ask for help or to self-regulate to a point where they would never get to that, you know, situation. And so, Stephanie and I, Stephanie said, you know what? This guy Johnny Gregoire, lost his brother to suicide with? Johnny Cork is a world class runner. And what he did remember his brother, he came up with this idea, the blue Jean mile. And so what it is, is you run a mile in blue jeans.
And the reason he chose that is he said that was the closest equivalent he could get to describing his brother's pain. Right? That his mental health pain was like trying to run a mile in blue jeans, just the, you know, just sweating in your, you know, like scratching you in the hole, like, why would you do it? But until you've experienced something like that, you know, I as a lifelong anxiety sufferer, it's hard to tell people what it feels like. Right?
And so we heard about this and we thought, I wouldn't that we should do a local blue jean mile and we we approached Mary, Jason's wife, and, she jumped on board. And, the first year we raised $10,000 and it was just it was a really good feeling community event. It was a great place for everybody to come together. And then the next year we tried to grow it. And that's when we reconnected with our friend at friend Tiffany and, as soon as you all heard about it, you jumped right on board.
You guys came. You set up a photo booth. You got a chance to, welcome, the group that was there. Let them know about your mission. And I remember being so impressed with how well you articulate what your mission is like. You just. It it flows, and it's clearly so natural and again, I think that's a perfect example of like, yeah, we can find ways to partner. Right.
We and there's going to be opportunities I know that are going to happen as a result of the work we're doing in parallel with each other. Know I'm here. I wanted to thank you for that opportunity because I still see people and they're like, oh yeah, we remember you from the blue Jean. Yeah, yeah. And we have a photo booth pic. So we took one as a group. Stephanie is going to put it up here, but yeah, we had the. Oh that's. Right. Yeah, we had a little photo booth. Both logos are on there.
Yeah yeah yeah. We raised we raised $15,000 that day and that and the money went directly to, us being able to do a season and a half at West Middle School and the Asylum Hill, neighborhood of, of Hartford. And a lot of the, the donors from that, came over and saw the program and they were so impressed. So we're actually in a move that event, this spring to Bushnell Park. We had thought we had to have a track, but no one's going to run a 406 mile.
We don't think so. We're not worried about the unofficial market over. Yeah, no, what we'll do is because most people walk it, probably. I think about 85% of the people did it last year. Walk the mile, which is great. And then, then we have like two heat to have, like, I want to run it for time heat. And then we have like an elite heat and, but we think it'll be a good spot to do it this year because we run, free programing at Bushnell Park in the evenings.
One of them is a run club, and so we're going to have all the kids in the run club participate in it. We'll, hopefully you guys can come back and set up a booth and, you. Know, the date. We don't have, we haven't secured it yet because we got to sort it out with, the city of Hartford, plus the Bushnell, Park Foundation, who have been wonderful partners of ours.
But, and we also want to look at things like, legislative sessions, what's going on at UConn, you know, like things like that, because we don't want to pick a date that is, we think we think the last Thursday in April, but, which is the 24th, I believe. But we'll we'll make sure that doesn't. Yeah, I appreciate it. Yeah. Like you said, that partnership and collaboration is powerful. And it goes a long way when people come together. So yeah. And thank you for being a good friend and inviting us.
Thank you for everything. Yeah. You're doing great things. What? How do you feel for exercise? Helping mental health. Oh, my God. You know, it's interesting because, you know, I shared my own stuff, struggle with anxiety and, you know, I, I grew up playing everything and even into my young adult life, I was training for marathons, and, I, just before the time I was telling you about when, I did the CPR and I started to have my own panic.
I had gotten a little bit injured, and so I went from exercising probably an hour and a half to two hours a day to maybe 3 or 4 times a week for 45 minutes or so, because I'd gotten some severe knee pain. I put on a few pounds. I my schedule was just not what it was. And so I think what happened was I had spent my whole life having exercise, manage my mental health. And then when I stopped exercising, I didn't know that.
And so that's when all of a sudden I'd be having these episodes of and sometimes it was sadness to watch like, and I didn't know where it was coming from. And it's interesting because as someone who went through the process. So SSRI eyes are the drugs that people get typically for depression or for anxiety when they give the same drug for a reason.
People know me as Lexapro or Zoloft, so those are sort of the more common names were basically what the way was described to me is that your brain should is here ideally right. When you're anxious, you're you're up here when you're depressed, you're down here. What the drug does, is it takes the it takes the anxious and brings it down, and it takes the depression, brings it up. But you know what? Exercise does the exact same thing. Right.
And so and and for me to have learned that was super powerful with my recovery because then I sort of knew like it was just brain chemistry that was messing with me. So when I had to do the CBT stuff, I could tell myself that that's just your anxiety talking, that's just your sadness talking. Right. So and then I, I that's why everybody says like it's putting the shoes on is the hardest part.
Once you actually do the exercise, everyone's like, I mean it was hard, but you're you're glad you did it in most in most cases. But I'll tell you, even as a counselor, I when I first started in West Hartford, it would be the random 10th or 11th grader who was on medication for different things. And then, 2008, which was the start of this. Right? It started to creep down into freshman year.
Then middle school, and then even elementary school kids that are being put on medication because they're not moving as much. They're just not they're not regulating their body with exercise. And look, I don't I'm not sitting here to be an be an expert. A lot of it is just done on my own personal experience, my own research. But exercise is the best medicine for for mental health. And when I say exercise, let people hear. I push ups. And, you know, you know, like calisthenics.
I mean, play like, I mean, because the other thing about it is, is that it's belongingness. Like when you play, you're with other people, you're making social connections, right? You're learning how to belong to something. You're learning empathy, you're learning social skills and if you're if you're on your device, you're not. How to be a good winner, how to be a loser 100. Percent. Yeah. Social media and phones, man. That's a that's a whole podcast for another day.
Yeah. No exercise. I cosign that personally. I find that, you know, this Saturday I was feeling lethargic. Down and out. Let's go for a run. Yeah. Get the dog. Go for a run or you know, let's just do ten squats, ten pushups, get that blood flowing. And it's hard because unless you sort of have experienced the positive outcome, if you're feeling lethargic, sometimes you just want to go deeper into the lethargy. Right.
And so you have to be able to help kids experience the power of of that and be really intentional about helping them to recognize how good playing and moving makes them feel. Joy. Dancing is great. Dancing. Yeah, yeah. Listen, you're talking to a dancer, I. Believe me, I know you just don't. You don't think I brought that up intentionally? Thank you for that. We shared last podcast with whole videos out there on 123. If you want to see the award winning dancing performance.
Very. Easily, Robert Rivera my, my my co partner from, Juniper Homes. I meant to say juniper, but, Kerry, Kerry and I love to dance. And so, we, in fact, I purchased some ballroom dance stuff from Playhouse on Parks auction that have still been sitting there because, you know, when you get these auction items, you're like, oh, got it. This is be so fun. This will be cool. So you've now prompted me that I got to follow up with them?
Yeah, I. That motivated me to sign up with my wife too, because it was like something to do with your loved one. Yeah. You're in touch. You're learning something new. You're vulnerable. I loved it, I. Mean, it's like built in date night. Yeah, yeah, built in date night. And it's, like, scheduled. You have to go. Yeah. You're you're going to do it. You make it. Make time for it. But yeah, Nicole and I have done it once before it Arthur Murray and we're going back.
Yeah, we've we've offered dance at a number of our programs because, you know, at the end of the day, that's a sport to meet you like. Yeah, that's great. So my two sisters run the largest Irish dance school in all of Washington, D.C. area, Boyle School of Irish Dance. You can look it up and, you know, it's a little bit cultural, right? Growing up, Irish immigrants, the girls danced and the boys played sports. But I loved the dance.
In fact, I was decent at Irish dancing until my brothers just made fun of me for being in a kilt. Like, literally. That's how it was when we grew up. And I, you know, I look back at it now and I really wish I still had that as something that I did. But my sisters are great athletes, like my Irish dance. It's tough. Right? Calves are oh my god. Yeah. Just yeah. And I like how their upper body. Oh yeah yeah. It stays tight. Yeah. You know why the arms stay down there.
Because I guess they danced in bars and they were tight. It was a small area, so even you couldn't wave your hands around or in pubs. I think you're just. You hurt. You read that on the internet. Abraham Lincoln told me was on the internet is true. And speaking of which, Irish night at the town hall. Are you going to come? I am, that's the 24th. Yeah, it's coming up. Right. I already have a table, I don't. Oh, you want to see what? Our table.
I would love to sit at your table. Right. All right. Yeah. The Boyle's. In the. Holstein here. All right. I was, I was too. I was on a reality ten years ago. It was a long time, but it was really nice. My mom and dad came. My brother from Mexico surprised me. It was really cool. Yeah, I think it was around 2014 or somewhere else. The brother and Mexico rank of the eight. He's the youngest middle child. Oh, yeah. Yeah, yeah. You threatened them to come. You know, Carrie surprised me.
I didn't know anybody was coming. Yeah. And, everybody showed up at the bar, and, and we walked over to town hall from there. Yeah. Nice. All right. Yeah. Join us. We'll have a, That's awesome for. You. That's this weekend, right? It's the 25th. Two weeks. So fall for a cure. Are the honorees this time okay? Reynolds. Yeah. Jameson and a couple other people. But, yeah, I was an honorary once, too, so that was awesome. A couple years ago. Honored and proud of my Irish heritage.
You still got your shillelagh? You still got. No, I didn't give me a shillelagh. I got a, Yeah, yeah, okay. I think I think you did. I heard that back in the day. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm going to call I'm going to talk to John. So I'm, I'm actually during Covid, I, I became a member of the European Union. I got my Irish passport. See. Yeah. And that's been on my things to do list forever. Yeah. My grandfather was born in Waterford, Ireland. I have his death certificate. Birth certificate?
Everything. Yeah, I just been. You just got to do all those things. I just kind of getting it off. In. Years now. To what extent I'll use it. I mean, we travel a fair bit. So, you know, if, God forbid, I, you know, got hurt, I think that would be the one good thing is, like, you know, I could get the health care when I'm over there, but, but it's just it makes me feel proud to have it both. Like, my mom and dad were both born there. So nice. Yeah. I'm first generation. Yeah, that's.
The main reason I wanted it. Just for the pride and. Yeah, yeah, yeah. No. It's cool. Very cool. Where was your family from? So my dad's from County Donegal, which is in the northwest. And a couple counties below that is Leitrim, which is where my mom's from. But how many times have you been to the motherland? Probably ten to both of our daughters. I, went to school there, for a semester. Sharon went to, University of Dublin in, in Dublin.
And then, Michaela went to University of Galway and, yeah, it was, you know, great study abroad stuff. And then, Did they just. One semester once? One semester? Yeah. And I still have a number of cousins that live there. In fact, my cousin still lives in the and works the farm where my dad was born and raised. My my mom was one of 13 and my dad's one of 11. I have 77 first cousins. Yeah. Yeah, my dad's one of eight. And, my sister had a pen pal, which was a cousin when she was little.
I don't know if they still continue to write, but yeah, I went there once with my wife before we married. Fluent to Dublin. Did the horseshoe flew out of Shannon? Yeah, yeah. Best time of my life. I can't wait to go back. It's awesome. Yeah. Yeah. So. Yeah. All right. Cool. 25th. All right. Any other upcoming events? You're so. You're Bushnell. It's kind of like your home base. Well, we've got winter carnival coming up. Yeah, we've got that.
And so Winter Carnival is one we came up with last year. Sort of a version of like. It just drives me crazy that I drive around town and there's nobody ever outside playing like I love. I grew up in upstate New York and I loved playing football in the winter, you know what I mean? Just like, you know, tackle with my brothers or whatever, just going sledding and we would play soccer.
We'd play anything, you know, I'd scrape the driveway and shoot hoops and, so really what we were trying to do is to help kids understand, like, you're not going to die like you playing outside is actually good for you, right? Yeah. Build your immune system, get your heart rate going. So just for an hour, we just essentially do what we do an hour before an after school program. We do on the. And it was awesome. Last year. So Mayor Brown indicated was in the program.
He lived right across the street. We just basically we play team handball, we play touch football, we play a version of baseball. And last year it was it was golden because it snowed on the first day we did it. And a lot of times it's like, oh, snow, we got to cancel. We're like, no, we're not cancel it. Like, you know, I was safe enough for people. You know, it's a choice. We tell them, like basically, you know, we're not anything to, like, tell you not to or to tell you to.
We're going to be there. If you can get there safely, then come on over. And a lot of kids walked. So, yeah, it's outdoor program we call Winter Carnival because we want it to sound fun, but we also want people to know it's going to be outside. We got we got some funding from Dick's Sporting Goods. So if kids don't have gloves or hats, they just send us a discreet email, tell us what size, and we show up with gloves and hats for kids.
So cool. Yeah. So we, I mean, it's our it's our, like, park home base because we've, we have just found it a good spot for us to do very general things we do. Like we have a partnership with USA fencing. We, we have a way to teach fencing at 2% of the cost of traditional fencing. We do that there. Once a week, in the, in the winter. And I'm sorry, in the fall, in the spring. Yeah. So we're in, it's just.
And then usually the foundation will come and open the carousel on the last night of our event, and let kids have free carousel rides, which is cool, too. Can't beat it. Yeah. Winter carnival. Yeah. So cool. Yeah. Well, a couple other upcoming events. Do you have any other upcoming events? We have so much going on right now that, you know, when you say event. We, we had, August 29th, you know what day that is? It's the 241st day of the calendar year.
So okay, so we got it declared National Sports Sampling Day by the National Day calendar. So we are looking to make that an annual event as a as our you know how people got giving Tuesday and you've got you know blue Jean mile. But we want to make our that day be our annual giving day. And because it it is named in our, in our honor. So we're going to be thinking about what are some things we can do leading up to that.
We're really excited about this partnership with fight for children, which is a DC based organization that sort of oversees all, youth sports in Washington, DC. We just partnered with Boston Afterschool and Beyond, which is a similar cohort of outside of school time programing that partners with Boston Public Schools. We met today with Achievement First in Hartford. Hoffman Auto Group has committed a large amount of fund to help us start new programing in East Hartford. And in Hartford.
And one of them is a music and movement program. So, we are we're we're looking to, combine our top shelf sports with, music sampling program at Achievement First in Hartford. So, yeah, when I you ask what we got going on it, it really is a lot. Yeah. No, it's, it's great you got. The three on three in Hartford. East Hartford. No, that actually was a was a, one of the other recipients of the catalyst grants. Low is a different nonprofit that they got a $5,000 grant. There were $69,000 available.
We got a large chunk of that. And then they, you know, it's based on what we asked for it, you know? So, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So big. Irish night, January 25th. Wolfpack game. What? Friends of Feeney, February 28th. If you're available, come join us. I think we are available. And Kerry and I have been talking about wanting to get to a Wolfpack game. Oh, we do have a grant that's out there right now through Liberty Bank that we're pretty confident about. You know, you just never know.
You know how many other people have asked for grants? So one of the things we're looking to do, we're going to use that money to support Grace Academy in Hartford, to bring our model and support their athletics. But we want to do a sports sampling day in May with Hartford Athletics. So Hartford Athletic has been a really good partner of ours, and I'm only thinking of it now because of the Wolfpack.
You just brought them up. Yeah. And that it would be on site, but we would welcome all kids from all of our programs. But it would be kind of be hosted by Hartford Athletic and by, Grace Academy. So it'll be it'll be grant pending, but that'll be sometime in May. Very cool. Then we have Parkville Market. We're going to have a presence there. We are the Be a Good Friend concert series sponsors every Saturday there's a band in there. We collaborated with the Greater Hartford Arts and got a grant.
And then Travis Moody Blues, my good friend, is going to be playing, so please join us February 22nd. Okay. And then our golf event September 13th. Yes, fourth annual Friends of Fini golf tournament that dunks. Do you golf? I, I have been known to try to swing a club, but, I'm not sure I did this year. But I don't slow anybody down. But I won't break any records. Yeah. You're perfect. You're perfect person we need at our tournaments. All right. Great. You'll keep.
Keep me in the loop on those dates, and, and again, maybe there's a there's an opportunity for a joint fundraiser at some point where we would love to collect funds for each other's works together. So. Well, I think you're doing great things. I consider you a good friend. You know, two for one. I've been a teacher for 21 years. What minute are we at? Stephania? You're at 97. We're at 97. Whoa. 57. 57. Like. Well, we've been talking for an hour and a half hour.
We're at an hour, so it's perfect time to drop an exclusive. Two for one. I'm taking my talents to South Beach. Yeah. The LeBron James. No, I don't know. What did you want to share? Well, yeah. Well, I mean, I'm so excited about this. Like, I feel like we, you know, we stepped in it a little bit. I know how how popular you are as a teacher in town. How many people know you in town for the good work you do at French Feeney?
But also, that you've done summer program and quality summer programing at a great camp for many years. And so, you and I had met almost a decade ago to talk about two for one for the first time. And at that point, I didn't really have anything for you. Right. Because we were still relatively small, and it was based on revenue we were bringing in. And so it just never happened.
Now we're at a in a position where we know every summer we have so much work and we are always looking for quality educators, quality teacher coaches. And so, we're here to announce that, Eric's going to be working at least four weeks for two for one this summer. We're not quite ready to declare what his role will be. Because last year, I would have had you be a utility player at some of our grant funded programs.
There was a lot of young teacher coaches, paraprofessionals, behavior techs who could use mentorship, who could use some guidance. We probably would have had you support in some of those programs. But, we're committed to having you as many weeks as you are available. We have at least eight weeks of programing that are going to happen this summer. It'll be a combination of parent pay camps here in West Hartford. We have two weeks at Kingswood.
Actually, we have two weeks at the University of Saint Joseph's. We're really excited about that. In August, first time ever. We have two weeks in Farmington at Farmington High School. We have two weeks up in Suffield, but last year we employed almost 250 people across our network. We we got a giant grant from the State Department of Education to serve 750 kids in the correct system. We were in three schools there.
We've always been in the New Britain schools for the past decade doing summer programing. If this summer's like any other summer, we're going to need it. You know, ten more of you if you can replicate. So, but we're just we're thrilled to have you on board and make the announcement of where you'll be and what you'll be doing when the time comes. I'm honored. I'm excited. I'm motivated. So I'm. Really. And your daughters are welcome to work with us as well. Nice. Yeah.
Bring the trouble along. Yeah. No, they're excited too. Great. So this is great. Yeah. No, I remember our meeting. Jeremy. Yes. And you were like. I was ready to sit and talk and have coffee. You're like, I prefer walking meetings. And I was like, I like this guy. And we walked all the way down Park Road, took the left down what runs parallel to Park Road and went all the. Way around Boulevard? Yeah, Boulevard. Yeah. We almost did a full mile. Yeah. Talking and chatting and catching up.
First time I ever met you. And I was like, that stood out. So if I ever meet with anyone, I'm doing walking meeting. It's so funny cuz my kids would make fun of me there. You're like Mr. Physical Literacy doing walking meetings all the time. That's stood out forever. Yeah. And, so I remember that day. And, so ten years later, here we are. Yeah. I'm excited to join the team. That's great. Really looking forward to it. Thank you. Thank you very much. Yeah. Of course. Well. Welcome aboard.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. So, yeah, we got the two for one. Got the. Yes. We got all sorts of, you know, swag for you. The United Colors of two for one. Yeah. And I will say that I am a competitive guy and I see way more be a good friend magnet than I see two for one Magnus's day. But I have each on my car and I would I would expect nothing less of the of the Feeney vehicles. Two honorary swag. Yes. All right. Yeah. The trade. The trade stand. There we go. Be a good friend. Thank you.
And, Yeah. So let's let's get let's get be a good friend. Friend to Feeney. And two for one. Magnets on thousands more cars this year. Let's do it. Yeah. No, your website has quite the swag. You know, you have pillows, bottles, scarves. Travis. Matthew polos. Come on, that's good stuff. Carhartt hats. Yeah, yeah, it's hoodie. To be honest, no one uses that store. We got to you know and it's it's one of those sort of squat locker sort of things where you go on and they do the logo.
So yeah. Yeah. So yeah not yeah. We don't use it as a fundraiser. Yeah. No it's good stuff. But we've, we've waited we want to try to because people are like they see it now and it's a noticeable brand. Can we travel or people like whoa a cool shirt or just they like the tagline, you know? And so yeah, thanks. Can't beat it. So being a teacher 21 years, my favorite teacher of all time was Mrs. Joel, my fifth grade teacher.
You know, beside my mom, most important person in my life, she kind of motivated me in the right time. My parents were going through a divorce. Do you have a favorite teacher? I do, in fact, I've reconnected with him. You know, it used to always be one of those things where I would have a kid that would come back, or they'd find me on social media and they'd say something like, you might not remember saying this, but you said something to me in the hallway or in your office.
And that changed my life. And I thought I would never know that unless the kid had the gumption, you know? And then I started to think, like how powerful we are as educators. So I reached back out to, I call him, doctor Kisic. Coach Kisic. He's not a doctor. And he wasn't even my coach, but he he was a coach. He was my my English teacher and theology teacher. And what was kind of cool was that I didn't know if I was in English class or if I was in theology class.
So he just he was a Vietnam vet and he he just had a way. He was sort of like, the guy from, got Robin Williams and, Oh, yeah. Stand on the desk. Yeah. Why am I your captain? My captain? How am I forgetting the name of this Dead Poets Society? Thank you. Which I literally used to watch every year to start my teaching career. So he just had that sort of way of. There were no notes, and he. He would talk about love. He would talk about, you know, it was all boys school, right?
And talk about love in a way that like, was philosophical. And so I sent reconnected with him and we get together on a fairly regular basis. He lives up in, Saratoga, New York, which is the town my brother lives in. And, he's he kept all of our yearbooks. He kept news clippings of me and, and also just randomly send me a note once in a while, just saying how proud he is of me. And two for one and what we do, and he just he's just. That guy's a motivator.
And his John and Kerry's dad was a lot like that. Like, there's so many people that showed for Kerry's dad's funeral. So he carries. Dad was not my teacher, but he was a teacher. And he had a huge impact on my life, too. Yeah. So Coach Kissack and, Coach Schlueter. Nice. Yeah. That's amazing. And our newest question, based on our podcast, last episode with Stephania one, two, three. Who's your favorite superhero or what's your favorite superpower? Ooh. I got to go with Superman and flying. Yeah.
I mean, I think if, you know, I was when I was little, like, if the idea of being able to fly would be like, oh, that's pretty cool. Yeah, yeah. So have we touched on? Is there anything that I've missed that you want to share or talk about? Any questions for me. Yeah. Anything that I missed.
Well, you had you had asked about, an experience with a friend and, when we were, we were talking about doing this, and so I want to I did want to share with you my favorite moment, you know, just because I had thought about it a lot. And, like, I have an incredibly good relationship with my wife, like. And so we work together. We found at this together. We love to travel together. Our our girls.
I think it's literally a challenge for them because we have such a high crossbar with relationships that they sometimes will say, like, okay, how are we going to find someone who gets along as well as the two of you do? And that's not to say that we haven't had our, you know, stuff.
But I will say when we, I had a moment when we were in Nairobi, Kenya, and we had done a training the day before we were on this literally just Dust Bowl dirt soccer field with 115 kids from Nairobi, all wearing two for one shirt in different stations. And we made eye contact and we had this look to each other, like, how did we get here? You know what I mean? And so to be with my best friend in a setting like that, knowing we were impacting the globe was really powerful.
And so when you asked that question, when you reached out to me, I wanted to share that story. That's amazing. Yeah. Give me my feels. Man, that was good. That was pretty good. No. Yeah. It's good to have a partner, you know, life partner. And that's that's an amazing relationship. So 31 years. Congratulations. Yeah, yeah, I'm in my 19th year. All right, keep them coming. Yep, I love it. And you have three girls. So you're a girl, dad. I am a girl, dad. In fact, I have a girl dad hat.
Yeah, and two of them are teaching and coaching, in Austin, Texas. And, the oldest one who tried out for the local travel soccer team, my Irish Catholic daughter works for the National Council of Jewish Women. She does faith based organizing around social justice issues for, you know, a global, organization. And, and, you know, it's obviously with everything going on in the globe, it's, it's challenging work, but, she she does good work. Yeah. It's amazing.
Yeah. Proud dad too. Good job. Thanks. Thanks. Thanks, man. Yeah. So, any closing remarks, recommendations? Are you listening to any podcast, TV shows, books? Well, we're hoping actually to maybe start our own podcast. I think we're going to call it the Pudding Play Back into sports podcast. It's a mouthful and probably too long for SEO, but we'll figure it out.
So I guess maybe that would be a question I have for you is like, why did you start doing a podcast and what's the value add been for you and and doing great. Yeah. I want to thank Dave from Direct Line Media. None of this would have been possible. He invited me into his studio to do a behind the brand. I talked about friends with Feeney and being a teacher and inspired me to to do so. And then on the way out, I said, hey, can I ask the pod? Can I ask the questions?
And, you know, he took it upon himself and he opened it up and volunteered all his time. He's an amazing person. Thank you Dave, I know he's going to listen to this in fast motion, but he's going to listen to this. So thank you. Direct Line Media is amazing. They're just a great, great group. Stephanie is all right to check out our last podcast episode. 123. I'm kidding. It was great. No, it helps me. Like you said, our phones are away. We're talking one on one.
Yeah, bringing back that social peace. You're doing great things. I'm learning something new. I love learning something new. I'm an audio learner. Yeah. You know, I prefer to listen than read or, you know, so just. I'm talking with over 120 people. The mayor, the police chief, Kenny Main, you know, some IT people in sports, the secretary of education. You can't beat it. Medal of Honor recipient, you name it. It was just like such diverse groups, all doing great things.
And the little. Old me, that's. For Steve Boyle. That's very cool. No, but I I'm sure. I think your podcast would be great, too, because you have an angle that, you know, you could your first guest could be Steve Nash because he plays soccer and basketball. Yeah. Oh, or, you know this Travis Hunter guy? Well, he's gone both ways in one sport, but I'm just seen. There's so many people. Yeah, I knew Ginobili did both sports. Deion Sanders you know there's so many Mr.
Jackson all these people out there. Yeah. And you have that going for you. So yeah. Exactly. And I think also there's the anti specialization piece. But then there's also the equity piece. The access piece. You know like educators like you know, you you talk to the Secretary of Education I heard him speak not long after that. And his whole thing was around equity. Right. And getting kids the opportunity.
Like it's one thing to be able to become a college football player, professional athlete, but it's another thing to know how to catch or throw or know the rules. To be able to watch those games. You can engage in society. So yeah, I think our angles would be, you know, would be we'd want to walk both of the worlds we walk in, obviously getting big names on it, like Eric Feeney and stuff like that. You'll be your first guest. Yeah, right. Yeah. I caught a two point conversion freshman year.
My friend. The like through to me. We still joke about it was the highlight of my career. Yeah. And then you did a baseball swing, so. Right. Yeah. There you go. I won tallest runner at Toad's Place for the Shamrock and Run. Yeah, I did run a marathon once for four hours and 45 minutes. God bless you. Yeah, I only ran a faster because I wanted to get it over with. What did you. Do? I was just about to be under three hours when the whole left side of my body fell asleep.
I was in 50th place at the Hartford Marathon when if the 24.5 mile mark the left side I crossed, I crossed with my hand, my shoes in my hands at three minutes and 21 seconds. Yeah. So I never ran another one. Yeah. Oh boy. I was on. I only needed to break 310 and I was just having a great run and it was hot. And I think, you know, I had an MRI done because they didn't know what happened. They thought I might have stroke.
And, they just said it was probably a dehydration response or some compression on the back or something like that. So I was I was literally weeping when I, when I did it. Yeah, I, I, I was probably a better runner than I was a basketball player, but, and I miss it, man. I really miss it. Yeah. Yeah, man, I did. I, I got in my fields when I cross too, because I felt like you really accomplished something. Oh my God. Yeah, yeah. My family was there to meet me and I like, saw them and I just like.
Yeah, I did it. Yeah. Like 27 miles, 26 point something is a long. Shot a big deal. And you know why you might all watch people do marathons. No. Like the majority of the people in this world will never even consider doing one. It's a big deal. Yeah. It's good I did it. Yeah. Good for you. And I'm still trying to play hoop. So we got to hoop some day. Yeah, I'm. I still play in the old man Sunday morning game. And, I have some great year just. And that I missed that during Covid so much.
And again I think it's one of the things that motivates me is that I find so much joy and value in playing sports even now as an adult, but I wouldn't be doing it if I didn't learn those things as a kid. And when I think about how many kids out there, Eric, that don't have the opportunity to play or their sport experience is so negative because it's a job at a young age, I just worry about, will kids be playing when they're older?
Yeah. And you do get the folks that maybe took 20 or 30 years off and they discover pickleball or whatever, but that's a long gap. Like I never really stopped. And I, you know, you're younger than I am peers. You've to haven't stopped either, right? Yeah. I can't stop and continue, like you said, that the relationships I'm building at the JCC, wonderful network of people. Main reason we moved near Wolcott Park was the park. Yeah. I go down and get.
And I jump into some of those pickup games, and that court still just really. Yeah, it's. I have a real funny quick last story show. So one time I'm like, I, I was over at Eisenhower. My, my daughters were playing soccer, and, like, I don't want to watch another soccer game. So there's basketball courts right there. And I saw some kids playing. So I get up and I go across to the bicycle.
I'm going to go try to get in a game over there. And and I'm, I'm playing pretty well, like, you know, like to a point where I'm like, I'm feeling pretty good. So some other kids show up and they had come in from Hartford and they were younger. And, all of a sudden one of the guys that I had been scoring against cause I got OG and I was like, devastated. So I go home that night and I'm like, I mean, I was killing this kid and he.
Calls me OG. So I tell him my girls this story and I'm like, you know, I mean, I know I'm old, but does you have to call me the old guy? They're like, dad, he wasn't calling you the old guy. You are. OG. You're the original. Gangster. And I'm like, he. That was like, the biggest compliment he could have given you. And I'm like, oh, I feel. So bad because I was like, so mad at him for calling me OG. I love it. The OG. Yeah, yeah. It's original gangster. It's like ultimate compliment.
Oh I do for I didn't know so yeah. Now you know. Yeah. Well I had such a blast talking with you. I'm so excited. Our our future collaborations. I'm looking forward to this summer. I learned so much about you in the program. Two for one is doing great things in five countries. I mean, keep it up. Thanks, mate. Thanks. I'm proud to know you, and I'm really looking forward to it. We usually end with be a good friend, but we're going to say two things today.
We're going to say life's too short for one sport. Just one sport. Yeah. Oh, excuse me, I jacked that up. That's your life's too short for just one sport. Just one sport. Gotcha. And then we'll say be a good friend. All right. On three. One. Two, three. Life's too short for just one sport. Be a good friend. Love it.