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Fatherhood Field Notes

Fatherhood Field Notes is where we hear real stories from real men living real lives every week. Fatherhood is not only about being a dad, it incorporates providing and serving a home, loving and serving a spouse, engaging and serving in a community, as well as intentionally serving your children. Fatherhood is an adventure, one full of fun, wild, and messy stories. In this podcast, we will hear stories from real men who have found themselves living the Adventure of Fatherhood. The Craft of Fatherhood episodes are 5-10 minute episodes where your guide Ned Schaut shares stories on his own fatherhood journey.
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Episodes

EP 389: The Capacity for a Man To Love His Children Is Not a Lacking Resource | Craft of Fatherhood

Ned takes us on a journey into the heart of parenting, punctuated by moments of raw vulnerability and genuine insight. Ned unravels the notion that fatherhood is constrained by the finite resources of time and money. He proposes a transformative perspective: our true capacity for love and connection knows no bounds. Through vivid anecdotes from his own life—skateboarding with his son, marveling at his daughter's new haircut, and the delicate balance of listening to their stories—Ned paints a pic...

Feb 16, 20249 minEp. 389

EP 388 Jeremy McWilliams: Intentionally Creating Family Culture, Becoming Less Selfish, and Grenades

Jeremy McWilliams shares his extraordinary journey from being a Green Beret to embracing the pivotal role of fatherhood. His story is one of resilience, transformation, and the deep commitment to cultivating a nurturing family environment. Jeremy discusses the importance of investing time, energy, and resources into family culture, navigating life's challenges with grace, and the continuous journey of personal growth and learning as a father. His insights not only highlight the critical role fat...

Feb 13, 202450 minEp. 388

Ep. 387: What is a GOOD Father? | Craft of Fatherhood

Ned never expected that getting a new puppy would teach him so much about being a father. Today he reflects on the surprising lessons he learned from his furry friend, and how they relate to his fatherhood experience. He talks about the importance of adaptability, patience, and the deep emotional bonds that form through caregiving. He also shares his conversation with Jeremy McWilliams, a fellow father and friend, who enriches the narrative with his own insights. Jeremy emphasizes fatherhood as ...

Feb 09, 202411 minEp. 387

EP 386 Jay Morris: Understanding the Power of a Father who Loves Himself and Believes His Family Needs Him

What does it take to be a good father in today’s world? How do you balance your professional ambitions with your personal aspirations? How do you heal from your past wounds and create a better future for your children? Jay Morris is a former entrepreneur who traded his pursuit of success for a journey of self-discovery. He opens up and shares his raw and honest story of how he faced his inner demons, learned to love himself, and broke the cycle of generational trauma. He also reveals how his fai...

Feb 06, 202451 minEp. 386

EP 385: House Projects and Deception | Craft of Fatherhood

Ned shares a heartwarming story of a weekend spent working on a home project with his son. Emphasizing the importance of fatherhood, Ned discusses the powerful impact of involving children in practical tasks, highlighting a specific instance where they moved the microwave to create more space in the kitchen. This narrative not only showcases the bonding experience between father and son but also teaches valuable life lessons about responsibility, teamwork, and understanding household management....

Feb 02, 202411 minEp. 385

Ep. 384 Lucas Bonzer: Stop Asking if You’re a "Good Dad”, Connect With Your Kids Over Healthy Meals, and Lead From the Front

Ned chats with Lucas Bonzer, a father of two who transformed his body and mind through fitness. Lucas reveals how he went from being overweight and unhappy to being fit and fulfilled, and how this affected his relationship with his children. He also shares his tips and tricks for staying motivated, overcoming obstacles, and creating a healthy and happy family culture. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who wants to learn how fitness can enhance one’s fatherhood experience and make a positi...

Jan 30, 202451 minEp. 384

EP 383: Firepit Conversations | Craft of Fatherhood

Ned is shares a touching story about how a simple backyard fire pit becomes a catalyst for deep, meaningful conversations with his daughters. As they gather under the stars, what starts as a planned ten-minute chat transforms into an hour-long bonding experience, filled with dreams about college and the future. Ned highlights the power of intention and how setting a reminder to spend quality time can lead to unexpectedly beautiful moments. The episode is a poignant reminder of the simple yet pro...

Jan 26, 20247 minEp. 383

EP 382 Alex Medina: How To Love the Day Ahead, Teach Your Sons To Be Men, and Recognizing Your Kiddos Skills, Talents, and Gifts

Alex Medina, an attorney and a father of four boys, who opens up about his unique experiences and perspectives on fatherhood. Alex takes us into the intricate balance between his demanding professional life and his deep commitment to being an actively involved father. He shares the valuable lessons he's learned about patience, understanding, and adapting to the individual needs of each of his sons. A significant part of the conversation highlights how Alex incorporates fitness into his life, not...

Jan 23, 202454 minEp. 382

EP 381: How To Get Your Teenagers To Make Healthy Choices | Craft of Fatherhood

Ned shares how his transformative journey of fatherhood is intertwined with physical fitness. Ned illustrates how his dedication to fitness has not only sculpted his physique but also strengthened the bonds within his family. He tells his experiences with fitness routines, nutritional insights, and the joy of sharing these moments with his children, emphasizing the profound impact a father's actions can have on his family. Ned serves as a testament to the power of leading by example, showcasing ...

Jan 19, 202411 minEp. 381

EP 380 Joshua Weir: Creating a Vision for Your Family and a Culture For Your Family

Ned sits down with Joshua Weir to explore the profound impact and high calling of fatherhood. Weir shares his personal insights on serving, guiding, protecting, and finding joy in the chaotic yet rewarding journey of raising a family. The discussion delves into creating a vision for your family, the importance of embracing fatherhood, and the unique joys and challenges that come with this vital role. Get ready to be inspired and gain valuable wisdom on how to love the adventure of going home and...

Jan 16, 202458 minEp. 380

EP 379: The Definition of a Father | Craft of Fatherhood

Ned dives deep into the essence of fatherhood, sharing personal stories and reflections that highlight the importance of being present and available for one's children. He explores the balancing act between pursuing personal goals and being an attentive, nurturing father. Ned redefines his morning routine to accommodate his daughter's wish to experience a sunrise devotion together. This decision becomes a powerful metaphor for the essence of fatherhood—prioritizing the needs and moments with one...

Jan 12, 202410 minEp. 379

EP 378: Father-Daughter Connection…A Conversation With My 17 Year Old Senior Brooklyn

Join Ned as he shares his journey of being a father to his daughter Brooklyn, who is in her final year of high school. They talk about the joys and challenges of father-daughter relationships, from dating to college applications. The episode reveals how they keep their bond strong through honest communication, empathy, and teamwork. It also shows how a father’s influence can shape a daughter’s outlook on life’s opportunities and obstacles, from career decisions to personal development. ---------...

Jan 09, 202452 minEp. 378

EP 377: New Year, Set Some Intention! | Craft of Fatherhood

Ned dives into the profound role of fatherhood, emphasizing its power to shape the world. He shares personal stories and insights, reflecting on the responsibilities and joys of being a father. He explores the importance of physical fitness and discipline, highlighting his impact on mental and spiritual well-being. Ned discusses the concept of being a role model, not just within the family but also in the wider community. Ned shared a blend of motivation, personal anecdotes, and practical advice...

Jan 05, 20249 minEp. 377

EP 376: Reflection on the Transformation and Growth From 2023 and How I Plan for a New Year

Ned shares his wisdom on how to pursue true transformation, growth, and presence as a father. He reflects on his most transformative moments of 2023, such as traveling with his family, writing love letters to his wife, getting in the best shape of his life, and attending two powerful events that challenged him to see his blind spots and deepen his connection with his wife and kids. He also reveals how he plans for a new year, setting intentions and goals that align with his values and vision. He...

Jan 02, 202448 min

EP 375: Listen to the Words Your Kids Say | Craft of Fatherhood

Ned goes into the complexities and joys of fatherhood, focusing particularly on how fathers can effectively engage with their teenage daughters. He shares personal anecdotes about setting boundaries, the importance of being more than just the 'no' parent, and fostering open communication. Ned offers valuable insights into creating a culture of trust and understanding, highlighting how fathers can be actively involved in their daughters' lives and decision-making processes. ---------- This episod...

Dec 29, 202310 minEp. 375

EP 374: Highlighting Wisdom from the Trenches of Fatherhood

Ned revisits key moments from the past year, weaving together a tapestry of fatherhood experiences that underscore the transformative power of this role. The episode highlights a range of fathers, each sharing profound insights into their personal journeys, struggles, and triumphs. From confronting personal flaws and rebuilding relationships to finding strength in vulnerability, these stories illuminate the deep emotional landscape of fatherhood. This is a reflection into the complexities of man...

Dec 26, 202341 min

EP 373: Presence is the Best Gift You Can Give | Craft of Fatherhood

Ned shares his personal journey, underscoring the profound importance of presence and connection within the family, particularly during festive times. He narrates heartwarming moments, like playing guitar by the Christmas tree with his children, illustrating the deep and lasting impact of these experiences. During this holiday season use this time as a reminder of a father's role in fostering familial bonds and personal growth, resonating with listeners who value the intricacies and joys of pare...

Dec 22, 20238 min

EP 372 Luke Entrup: Guide Your Son in His Power, Create Healthy Rites of Passage, and Don’t Outsource Your Parenting

Luke Entrup, a men’s and leadership coach who is passionate about helping boys make the transition into healthy manhood. Luke shares his own story of how he was initiated into fatherhood through a psychedelic journey and a divorce, and how he learned to show up for his kids in a deeper way. He also talks about the work he does around rites of passage, helping fathers and sons connect with nature, their emotions, their purpose, and their power. Luke offers some practical advice and insights on ho...

Dec 19, 202353 min

EP 371: How do you respond when your kid lies? | Craft of Fatherhood

Ned shares a personal story of how he handled a situation where his teenager lied to him. He explains how he used the opportunity to have a deeper conversation with his kid, rather than just reacting with anger or punishment. He also talks about how he encourages his kids to lead in different situations, and how he prepares for the new year with his 90-day fatherhood legacy journal. Ned shares his passion for helping men discover their powerful fatherhood role and build their fatherhood skills t...

Dec 15, 202311 min

EP 370 Dan Tocchini: WHO To Be For Your Family, Processing Death in the Family, and AI Parenting

Ned welcomes guest Dan Tocchini, who dives deep into the intricate and rewarding journey of fatherhood. Sharing his personal experiences, Dan highlights both the challenges and victories inherent in being a dad, from navigating family tragedies to fostering profound connections with his children and reflecting on his marital journey. His honest discussions shed light on the resilience and growth that come with paternal responsibility. Listeners will be inspired by Dan's perspective on confrontin...

Dec 12, 202359 minEp. 370

EP 369: Making Your Home a Sacred space | Craft of Fatherhood

Ned, dives deep into the transformative journey of fatherhood. He reflects on the profound impact fathers have in shaping their homes into sacred, safe spaces where children can thrive. Ned emphasizes the importance of creating an environment of safety and trust, nurturing peace, and embracing the messiness and challenges of family life. He shares personal anecdotes and insights, encouraging fathers to be present, curious, and involved in their children's lives. This episode is a heartfelt explo...

Dec 08, 20238 min

EP 368 with Gary Harvey: 340 Acre Legacy Property, Stand in the Moment, and Meet Your Kids Where They're At

Gary Harvey shares his profound journey of personal and paternal transformation. Delving into the themes of family, faith, and breaking generational curses, Gary discusses how he redefined his definitions of success and masculinity. From creating a 340-acre family compound to balancing the demands of business with the needs of his family, Gary’s narrative is a compelling tale of obedience, vulnerability, and the power of being present. His reflections on fatherhood, especially his relationships ...

Dec 05, 202346 minEp. 368

EP 367: The Benefits of Taking an Interest in Your Kid | Craft of Fatherhood

Ned discusses the importance of actively engaging in his children's interests to strengthen familial bonds. Sharing personal experiences, he illustrates his involvement in activities like soccer and track with his daughter and watching car shows with his son. Ned also recounts specific moments of connection, such as accompanying his daughter for a sliding glass window purchase, fixing a drawer, and a memorable Disneyland trip. These stories underscore his message about the positive impact of a f...

Dec 01, 20239 min

EP 366 with Brent Crawley: Bullying, Choosing Fatherhood, and Farts

Brent Crawley delves into the intricacies of fatherhood, discussing the complexities of blended family dynamics, the pivotal role of discipline balanced with empathy, and the importance of being emotionally present for children. Brent shares personal insights on how spirituality shapes his parenting approach, offering valuable lessons on understanding and supporting children through life's ups and downs. His thoughtful perspectives provide a refreshing take on the transformative journey of fathe...

Nov 28, 202354 min

EP 365: The Benefits of Taking Your Kids to Work | Craft of Fatherhood

Ned delves into the transformative power of fatherhood, sharing poignant anecdotes from his own life. He narrates the enriching experiences of involving his children in his work life, underlining the profound bonds and open communication fostered through these shared moments. Ned highlights the importance of making space for these interactions, demonstrating how they significantly influence both parent and child. His platform, "The Adventure of Fatherhood," is a focal point, offering resources f...

Nov 24, 20237 min

EP 364 David Nichols: CrossFit Coach, Parenting Styles, & Content Awareness

Ned delves into the life of David Nichols, a devoted father and entrepreneur. David shares candid insights into his 12-year marriage, raising three children, and running a CrossFit gym with his wife. He reflects on the influence of his own father's absence, the challenges of internet content exposure to children, and his aspirations for his family's future. David’s personal stories of growth, parenting challenges, and the legacy he wishes to leave, offer a deep and compelling perspective on mode...

Nov 21, 202345 min

EP 363: Seek and You Will Find | Craft of Fatherhood

Ned delves into the intricate dance of fatherhood, sharing his personal experiences and insights. From the joyous chaos of a Disneyland trip with his daughter to the profound responsibility of shaping a family's future, Ned's journey is a testament to the transformative power of parenting. He discusses the importance of being present, vigilant, and proactive in one's role as a father, emphasizing the need to transform potential chaos into a habitable order. This episode is not just a narrative b...

Nov 17, 20239 min

EP 362 Clay Rojas: Teen Dad, Police Officer, US Marine, Prisoner, Pastor, and Dad

We explore the dynamic and challenging world of modern fatherhood with Clay Rojas. Clay offers a unique and profound perspective on what it means to be a father today, delving into the complexities of nurturing, building trust, and the crucial role of overcoming personal traumas. He shares personal anecdotes and practical solutions, highlighting his journey towards becoming a safe and supportive space for his children, with a special focus on strengthening father-daughter relationships. He also ...

Nov 14, 202344 min

EP 361: Don’t Criticize, Connect then Correct | Craft of Fatherhood

Ned digs into the transformative power of fatherhood, emphasizing the importance of knowing oneself and embracing the journey. From creating an 18-year roadmap to fostering meaningful conversations with our children, Ned challenges the stereotype that fatherhood has little impact. He encourages fathers to connect before correcting and to be anchored in their identity, offering practical advice and personal stories that underscore the significance of a father's role in shaping the future. -------...

Nov 10, 20237 minEp. 361

EP360 Jon Brown: Finding Your Fathers Heart

In this heartfelt episode, we delve into the transformative journey of fatherhood, exploring the nuanced difference between mere presence and true emotional connection with our children. Jon Brown shares profound insights on the roles of a father, likening it to being both a warrior and a gardener—disciplined yet nurturing. We discuss the delicate balance of empowering our children's voices without relinquishing parental authority and the unexpected wisdom found in bedtime conversations. Jon sha...

Nov 07, 202353 min
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