On this episode of FamilyLife Today, Ron Deal, along with hosts Dave and Ann Wilson, introduces Devon and Asha Still as they share their personal journey of overcoming the challenges that come with a blended family. This conversation dives deep into how they navigated both blended family struggles and personal battles, focusing on communication, faith, and intentional effort. Devon and Asha came together under difficult circumstances. Devon, a former NFL player, had to make life-changing decisio...
Apr 02, 2025•26 min
“My spouse is having an affair. What do I do now?” Affairs expert Dave Carder walks through searing betrayal, what you need to know, and what to do next. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Dave Carder on his website . Purchase " The Anatomy of an Affair " by Dave Carder online. Find a Weekend to Remember event in your area today! Find our Resurrection Eggs here Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com . See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources o...
Apr 01, 2025•25 min
Counselor Dave Carder, author of "The Anatomy of An Affair," explains how attractions and addictions develop—and how to guard your marriage against them. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Dave Carder on his website . Purchase " The Anatomy of an Affair " by Dave Carder online. Find a Weekend to Remember event in your area today! Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com . See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app ! Help ot...
Mar 31, 2025•27 min
Ever feel lost trying to explain marriage and love to your kids? Author Sam Alberry discusses how to have these important conversations—and others around sensitive subjects—with grace and understanding. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Sam Allberry at samallberry.com Receive his book, "God's Go-Togethers" for a donation of any size this week, as our way of saying a huge "Thank you!" for partnering with us. Learn more about our Weekend to Remember events at weekendtoremember.com Find res...
Mar 28, 2025•24 min
Does the Bible turn off millennials and Gen Z? Authors Michael and Lauren McAfee discuss the growing disconnect between younger generations and Scripture and how to bridge the generational gap and open up conversations about the Bible's relevance. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Lauren Mcafee at laurenamcafee.com Her book, "Not What You Think" is available at no cost to you with a donation of any size this week, as our way of saying a huge "Thank you!" for partnering with us. Learn mor...
Mar 27, 2025•30 min
Wondering "Where is God in my pain?" Maybe He's closer than you think. Author Dane Ortlund digs deep into what God tells us about Himself--and what that means for our lowest, messiest, most desperate moments. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Dane Ortlund at Daneortlund.com Get his book, "Gentle and Lowly" in our FamilyLife shop Learn more about our Weekend to Remember events at weekendtoremember.com Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com . See resources from our past po...
Mar 26, 2025•23 min
In rough days, it's easy to see God as our #1 critic. Is He fighting for us--or fed up with us? Author Dane Ortlund examines whether God's adding the unbearable weight of perfection on top of our pain...or if it's true His burden is light. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Dane Ortlund at Daneortlund.com Get his book, "Gentle and Lowly" in our FamilyLife shop Learn more about our Weekend to Remember events at weekendtoremember.com Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com ....
Mar 25, 2025•23 min
Where is God in our families' lowest moments? Bestselling author Dane Ortlund paints an image of a God in the mess with us at rock-bottom--who's advocating and compassionate, gentle and lowly. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Dane Ortlund at Daneortlund.com Get his book, "Gentle and Lowly" in our FamilyLife shop Learn more about our Weekend to Remember events at weekendtoremember.com Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com . See resources from our past podcasts. Find mor...
Mar 24, 2025•24 min
Do happy couples really never go to bed angry? Surprising research might challenge the age-old advice revealing how to navigate conflict constructively, even if it means hitting pause for the night. Show Notes and Resources Listen to the "Married With Benefits" podcast . Get Shaunti's book " The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Couples ." in our shop Learn more about our Weekend to Remember events at weekendtoremember.com Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com . See resources ...
Mar 21, 2025•29 min
Could one of the long-held beliefs of happy couples actually be wrong? Guests from the "Married With Benefits" podcast discuss why going to bed angry can sometimes lead to better marriages. Show Notes and Resources Listen to the "Married With Benefits" podcast . Get Shaunti's book " The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Couples ." in our shop Learn more about our Weekend to Remember events at weekendtoremember.com Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com . See resources from our ...
Mar 20, 2025•29 min
Intentional parenting isn't accidental. Author Kathy Koch shares how to consciously cultivate biblical character in your children, navigate tough topics like sleepovers and sex, and model the very traits you hope to instill. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Kathy Koch's ministry " Celebrate Kids " on her website. Listen to the "Celebrate Kids" podcast We will send you Kathy's book, "Parent Differently" at no cost to you with a donation of any size this week, as our way of saying a huge ...
Mar 19, 2025•28 min
Raising kids with character means focusing on their development over performance. Author Kathy Koch discusses how everyday moments can shape a child's moral compass and faith journey. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Kathy Koch's ministry " Celebrate Kids " on her website. Listen to the "Celebrate Kids" podcast We will send you Kathy's book, "Parent Differently" at no cost to you with a donation of any size this week, as our way of saying a huge "Thank you!" for partnering with us. Find...
Mar 18, 2025•27 min
Are you tired of the same old parenting advice? Are you ready to parent differently? Author Kathy Koch shares her powerful insights on raising children with purpose and love, emphasizing the crucial role of character development, empathy, and gratitude. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Kathy Koch's ministry " Celebrate Kids " on her website. Listen to the "Celebrate Kids" podcast We will send you Kathy's book, "Parent Differently" at no cost to you with a donation of any size this week,...
Mar 17, 2025•26 min
It's not easy to build a marriage that lasts, but it can be done! Dave and Ann Wilson share their experience navigating a health crisis and the challenges it presented to their relationship. They open up about a time of disconnect and the crucial lesson they learned about supporting each other through difficult times. This episode explores how trials, while painful, can be opportunities for growth, individually and as a couple. The Wilsons emphasize the importance of vulnerability, not just with...
Mar 14, 2025•26 min
Unexpected challenges, or "cows," can appear in any marriage–from financial struggles and rebellious children to illness and infertility. These "cows" can cause damage if left unaddressed. In this episode, Brian and Jen Goins explore how to "tame the cows" in your marriage by building resilience through intentional habits. We'll discuss how resilience is crucial to navigating adversity and why it's vital to avoid isolation by seeking support from your community. Discover practical habits like pr...
Mar 13, 2025•26 min
Tired of the same old marital struggles? Join us as we explore the secrets to a thriving marriage, straight from couples who have weathered the storms and found lasting joy. This episode dives into powerful insights from a panel of experienced couples who emphasize that the key to a successful marriage isn't about changing your spouse but about surrendering to God and focusing on your own spiritual growth. We'll unpack the often misunderstood concepts of headship, submission, respect, and love, ...
Mar 12, 2025•25 min
Do you remember the excitement of early dating, the eagerness to welcome your new love into your life? Trent and Andrea Griffith remind us how easily that fades in marriage, but how crucial it is to reignite that spirit of welcome. In this episode, we explore Romans 15:7 and discover four powerful ways to welcome your spouse as Christ welcomed us, starting with joy. We discuss "The Prodigal Son" story, C.S. Lewis's insights on the eternal nature of individuals, and the powerful example of Jesus ...
Mar 11, 2025•25 min
We all bring baggage into our relationships, but some baggage is heavier than others. Ron and Nan Deal explore the often unspoken burdens couples carry, including pride, the scars of abuse, and even the profound grief of losing a child. We'll examine common but ineffective approaches to dealing with this baggage, such as expecting your partner to fix you or trying to eliminate their issues. Discover the power of humility, the importance of submitting to God, and how trusting Him with our pain ca...
Mar 10, 2025•25 min
Ever feel like your past, or even your family's past, is holding you back? Author Dr. Lee Warren discusses the incredible power of the mind to heal from trauma and reshape your future. Show Notes and Resources Listen to the full FamilyLife Blended Podcast, episode 144 "Hope is What the Doctor Ordered " Find Ron Deal's book, "The Mindful Marriage" in our shop Learn more about Dr. Lee Warren at his website . Listen to Dr. Warren's podcast, "The Self-Brain Surgery Podcast" Sign up for FamilyLife's ...
Mar 07, 2025•25 min
Neurosurgeon and Iraq War veteran Dr. Lee Warren explores the powerful connection between neuroscience, faith, and healing from trauma. Discover how grief, loss, and past relationship pain can impact your brain, creating negative patterns that affect your present and future. Show Notes and Resources Listen to the full FamilyLife Blended Podcast, episode 144 "Hope is What the Doctor Ordered " Find Ron Deal's book, "The Mindful Marriage" in our shop Learn more about Dr. Lee Warren at his website ....
Mar 06, 2025•25 min
Where are the young men we need today? Author Brant Hansen offers a vision for healthy masculinity, emphasizing purpose, responsibility, and the importance of being "keepers of the garden." Show Notes and Resources Follow Brant on Instagram, YouTube, or check out his website. Brant's book, "The (Young) Men We Need" is available at no cost to you with a donation of any size this week, as our way of saying a huge "Thank you!" for partnering with us. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familyl...
Mar 05, 2025•28 min
Masculinity doesn't need a rebrand; it needs to be redefined. Author Brant Hansen explores how traditional ideas of manhood often fall short, especially for young men, and unpacks a powerful alternative: the concept of men as "keepers of the garden"—protectors, providers, and cultivators of security. Show Notes and Resources Follow Brant on Instagram, YouTube, or check out his website. Brant's book, "The (Young) Men We Need" is available at no cost to you with a donation of any size this week, a...
Mar 04, 2025•25 min
What does it mean to be a man in today's world? Author Brant Hansen talks about the crisis of masculinity and how to reclaim a biblical vision for manhood. Brant challenges both toxic masculinity and passive stereotypes, offering a refreshing perspective rooted in security and protection. Show Notes and Resources Follow Brant on Instagram, YouTube, or check out his website. Brant's book, "The (Young) Men We Need" is available at no cost to you with a donation of any size this week, as our way of...
Mar 03, 2025•28 min
What makes a great dad? Jerrad Lopes, founder of "Dad Tired," shares five traits and practical steps to become the father you want to be. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Jerrad Lopes at dadtired.com or follow him on Instagram @JaredLopes We'll send his book "Did You Know My Daddy is a Superhero?" at no cost to you with a donation of any size this week, as our way of saying a huge "Thank you!" for partnering with us. Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com . See resource...
Feb 28, 2025•27 min
Simple yet meaningful activities can quickly turn fatherhood from a struggle to an overnight success. Jerrad Lopes and Bobby Markham give practical advice for parents seeking to reconnect with their children through repentance, presence, and consistent effort. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Jerrad Lopes at dadtired.com or follow him on Instagram @JaredLopes We'll send his book "Did You Know My Daddy is a Superhero?" at no cost to you with a donation of any size this week, as our way o...
Feb 27, 2025•25 min
Jerrad Lopes, founder of "Dad Tired," is exhausted. There's a silent struggle of fatherhood marked with feelings of inadequacy and loneliness. Jared shares how vulnerability, community, and faith can have a profound impact on dads who need help. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Jerrad Lopes at dadtired.com or follow him on Instagram @JaredLopes We'll send his book "Did You Know My Daddy is a Superhero?" at no cost to you with a donation of any size this week, as our way of saying a huge...
Feb 26, 2025•27 min
Wondering how to find peace—for real? Scholar and author Jeremiah Johnston shares practical ways to choose and implement the shalom you crave. Show Notes and Resources The mission from Jeremiah Johnston with creating Christian Thinkers Society is to teach Christians to become Thinkers and Thinkers to Become Christians. Get his book, "Unleashing Peace" in our FamilyLife shop Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com . Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app !Help oth...
Feb 25, 2025•36 min
Are you hungering for peace from God but have no idea how to get there? Scholar and author Jeremiah Johnston points the way to uncovering shalom in every area of life. Show Notes and Resources The mission from Jeremiah Johnston with creating Christian Thinkers Society is to teach Christians to become Thinkers and Thinkers to Become Christians. Get his book, "Unleashing Peace" in our FamilyLife shop Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com . Find more content and resources on the F...
Feb 24, 2025•27 min
Pastors and adoptive parents Chris and Yodit Brooks share how patience, love, and unexpected blessings can transform lives and build stronger families. Show Notes and Resources Hear the entire episode, 121: Lessons from Adoptive Parents on the FamilyLife Blended YouTube channel Learn more about Family Life Blended . Purchase " Mindful Marriage " in the FamilyLife online store Take the Mindful Marriage Assessment [] Register for our Blended and Blessed event happening April 5th, 2025 at blendedan...
Feb 21, 2025•27 min
What could your legacy be to your family? Artists Blair and Shai Linne offer you-can-do-this ways to hand Jesus to the next generation. Show Notes and Resources Learn more about Shai Linne at shailinnemusic.com Get Blair Linne's book " Finding My Father " in the FamilyLife shop Find resources from this podcast at shop.familylife.com . See resources from our past podcasts. Find more content and resources on the FamilyLife's app ! Help others find FamilyLife. Leave a review on Apple Podcast or Spo...
Feb 20, 2025•28 min