Emi is a brilliant child caught in the storms of the adults around her. As such, her own troubles begin to brew and her secrets compound. From foster care to homelessness to an Ivy League education and robust career, Emi’s trajectory is an extraordinary lesson in what is possible when resilience wins the day. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jun 01, 2023•56 min•Season 8Ep. 5
Allison knows something is fundamentally different about her. She looks different and she feels different from the other girls in school. But when her parents refuse to acknowledge just how different she is, it becomes harder and harder for her to reckon with who she is, and who she wants to become. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
May 25, 2023•54 min•Season 8Ep. 4
Forever punctuated by shame, secrecy, and danger, Isaac's search to know himself has always been a precarious journey. But as he walks the rocky road toward self-acceptance, he must reconcile his need to be both strong and vulnerable. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
May 18, 2023•43 min•Season 8Ep. 3
From a very young age, Sophia is taught to deflect when people ask questions. Her parents teach her this lesson, and they tell her to keep a low profile as an American living abroad. When she finds a letter she’s not supposed to read, she learns what her parents do for a living – and that changes everything. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
May 11, 2023•34 min•Season 8Ep. 2
Growing up among conflicting cultures and customs, Carmen feels a profound sense of otherness. When her mother reveals their family secret, Carmen’s conflicts deepen and the puzzle pieces of her identity scatter before eventually— they finally snap into place. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
May 04, 2023•52 min•Season 8Ep. 1
Join us starting May 4th for 10 new stories of tenacity, resilience, and the profoundly necessary excavation of long-held family secrets. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Apr 27, 2023•3 min
In this special bonus episode, the tables are turned as veteran journalist and podcast host Kimi Culp interviews Dani about her own family history and the secret at its core. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Apr 20, 2023•1 hr 8 min
Stories from our friends at The Secrets Hotline Podcast, hosted by Nick van der Kolk. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mar 30, 2023•18 min
In this bonus episode, Dani speaks with renowned physician and author Dr. Gabor Maté about his new book,The Myth of Normal, and the ways in which we can begin to heal from our wounds and traumas. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mar 16, 2023•25 min
In this bonus series, “Dani’s Listening”, Dani connects with listeners by responding to those who’ve called in to share their family secrets. Mark your calendars for the launch of season 8 on May 4th. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Feb 23, 2023•8 min
In this bonus series, “Dani’s Listening”, Dani connects with listeners by responding to those who’ve called in to share their family secrets. Mark your calendars for the launch of season 8 on May 4th. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jan 19, 2023•7 min
Dani shares a message this Thanksgiving with the Family Secrets community. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Nov 24, 2022•3 min
When Judy receives a thick envelope from her father—presumably including answers to long kept secrets about his identity and past—he instructs her to burn it before opening. Despite her plaguing curiosity, she follows her father’s wishes. But later in her life, she seeks answers. What was in that envelope? And who was her father, really ? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Nov 03, 2022•45 min•Season 7Ep. 10
As Tad reckons with the choices he’s made in his relationships—most prominently, in his marriage—he must confront the choices made by his father, too. And his grandmother. In uncovering staggering truths, he finds his own struggles with intimacy are part of a long string of inherited secrecy. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Oct 27, 2022•42 min•Season 7Ep. 9
Meyli Chapin shares her story and discusses PTSD with host Kimi Culp. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Oct 24, 2022•1 hr 17 min
Fraidy is raised in an ultra-Orthodox Jewish community where she is forced to follow many conventions including an arranged marriage in her teens. After enduring emotional and physical abuse, Fraidy is determined to figure out a way to save herself, her children, and many, many others. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Oct 20, 2022•1 hr•Season 7Ep. 8
We all know—or think we know—the wonderful journalist, news anchor, and bestselling author, Katie Couric. But behind and beyond her camera-ready exterior is the interior world of a very real individual— a daughter, sister, wife, and mother navigating the complexities of a public life. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Oct 13, 2022•49 min•Season 7Ep. 7
After Mark’s divorce, he cannot eat or sleep or function. Hesitant to pathologize these feelings, he finally acknowledges the clinical magnitude of his condition. But even after accepting that he’s suffering from depression, he keeps it under wraps; he runs a residential treatment center for homeless teens where he feels he must keep up appearances. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Oct 06, 2022•42 min•Season 7Ep. 6
The opening chapter of SIGNAL FIRES is shared here, in Dani's voice, for the very first time. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Oct 03, 2022•10 min
Ashley’s father is imprisoned when she’s eight months old. She has no real context for him until she visits him for the first time, when she’s seven. They forge as best a relationship they can, writing letters, and talking on the phone. It’s not until she’s fourteen when she discovers why he’s in jail. What she learns is shattering and confirms to her that the world is not always a safe place. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information....
Sep 29, 2022•49 min•Season 7Ep. 5
From a harrowing, unstable childhood, Venus perseveres and creates an ideal life for herself—with an exuberant husband and a gaggle of amazing kids. But harrowing returns for her when she learns the dark truths—and lies—about her husband. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sep 22, 2022•50 min•Season 7Ep. 4
Growing up, Rich doesn’t know much about his family, save for the singular fact that his mother came to the US from Haiti when she was thirteen. But in 2010, when the worst recorded earthquake in the Western hemisphere’s history hits Haiti, Rich is met with a series of life-altering discoveries about his family’s past. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sep 15, 2022•43 min•Season 7Ep. 3
Chloe is an only child, but she’s not entirely alone. She has dogs. Meaningful, magical, ever-supportive dogs. With reserved parents and a habit of hiding her feelings, Chloe retreats deeply into her canine world, and the search to find herself, and free herself, takes years. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Sep 08, 2022•40 min•Season 7Ep. 2
Putsata was an infant when she and her family fled from war-torn Cambodia on an escape boat. When the captain saw that baby Putsata was ill, he suggested that her mother—Ma—throw her overboard. Ma couldn’t do this; she believed her baby would get better, and sure enough she did. Putsata grows up feeling indebted to Ma for saving her life. The weight of this debt gets heavier and heavier over time, causing Put to bury large and important parts of her true self. See omnystudio.com/listener for pri...
Sep 01, 2022•55 min•Season 7Ep. 1
Welcome to the new season of Family Secrets, premiering September 1st. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Aug 25, 2022•3 min
In this bonus episode, Dani speaks with professor and author Michael Slepian about the psychology of secret keeping and his new book T he Secret Life of Secrets: How Our Inner Worlds Shape Well-Being, Relationships, and Who We Are. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jul 07, 2022•39 min
In this bonus episode, Dani speaks with psychoanalyst and author Dr. Galit Atlas about her new book Emotional Inheritance and the role of secrecy in families— all families. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Jun 23, 2022•41 min
In this replay bonus episode, Dani speaks with writer Jennifer Senior about her cover story ‘What Bobby McIlvaine Left Behind’ for the September 2021 issue of The Atlantic. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
May 12, 2022•43 min
Tell us what stories you'd like to hear at 1-888-SECRET-0. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Apr 28, 2022•1 min
Dani sits down with her friend and fellow podcaster Nora McInerney for a deep dive into her own family secrets. Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mar 17, 2022•1 hr 1 min