Buckle up friends, this one is the dooziest of doozies. Our guest today is Lisa aka Tiktok's _Stronger_than_before. She's a relationship coach who specializes in abusive relationships... and the perfect co-host to talk about an extremely popular "nice guy" Tiktok therapist that has some truly terrible takes. Oh you want an example? How about him making MULTIPLE videos about how people pleasers can be just as toxic as narcissists. And that's not even the half of it... F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon...
Jul 20, 2024•1 hr 7 min•Season 3Ep. 27
Did anyone have tightening jar lids on their manipulation bingo card? Us either. But this week we're talking about a man who tightened jar lids right into a divorce. At first this story seems silly, but as we dig deeper into the details we realized it was never about the lids and always about control. And we wan't to hear from you! What do you think of this Jar Lid Debacle? And what's the simple thing your toxic ex did to drive you "crazy"? F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: Fthe...
Jul 13, 2024•1 hr 2 min•Season 3Ep. 26
Buckle up friends because this is one of the craziest stories yet. We're talking about the absolutely insane story of Brooke Schofield, Clinton Kane, and one of the most unhinged PR strategies of all time - using a woman you traumatized for Tiktok clout to market your new song. And that's not even the craziest part... This episode has everything... mentions of handsome squidward, 14 part Tiktok tell alls, one fake accents, multiple fake deaths, and so much for. F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patr...
Jul 06, 2024•54 min•Season 3Ep. 25
Kate is back and ready to talk about a topic that gets both hosts thoroughly heated.... THE IMAGINARY FRIEND ZONE. If you're on the internet then you've undoubtedly heard men complain at some point about being "friend zoned" because apparently the worst thing in the world is to be... a woman's friend. But what doesn't get talked about enough is the real pain women suffer when they realized the "friend" they thought they had was just a man manipulating them to get in their pants. So... we're goin...
Jun 29, 2024•1 hr 5 min•Season 3Ep. 24
Chesko (The Speech Prof) is back and we're talking about the Ashley Madison (the cheater's only dating website) documentary but more specifically - the Viral "Christian Family Vlogger" with an Ashley Madison account. Because if "Nice Guy"s love anything, it's being absolute hypocrites. Buckle up my friends because this episode is an absolute DOOZY where just when you think it can't get any worse, it does. If you want to listen to the full episode and see our lovely faces at the same time, watch ...
Jun 27, 2024•1 hr 2 min•Season 3Ep. 23
Buckle up friends because today we are spilling some very personal, piping hot tea. Recently we had to speak out against a predator in our community and let's just say.... it didn't go as planned. We were askedan organization to share our experiences with a predator, they did the right thing and chose not to use him, but their other choices.... you'll have to hear to believe. F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page CHERI'S BOOK Baby Bea...
Jun 22, 2024•58 min•Season 3Ep. 23
When you're a woman making content on the internet, one thing is certain. Men are going to say some CRAZY shit to you. And we're not talking your average mean troll comments, we're talking absolutely unhinged. On this week's episode, we're breaking down some of our craziest comments and as always my friends... BUCKLE UP! This episode has. everything toxic men talking about diapers, toxic men talking about trees, and above all else, toxic men doing what they do best... being absolute hypocrites. ...
Jun 15, 2024•1 hr 17 min•Season 3Ep. 21
You all are in for a special treat this week. We're brought Payton back on to tell one of our family's favorite "nice guy" stories. It is truly a classic and something that could only ever happen to Payton - the queen of the 90's rom-com shenanigans. This episode has everything... brocollini, bunk beds, break up marathons, and so much more! F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page...
Jun 08, 2024•1 hr 2 min•Season 3Ep. 22
In a world where so many horrible men have podcasts, it's refreshing to hear a self proclaimed "neutral" podcaster who kindly and calmly discusses "important" issues. But often these "nice guys" are just wolves in sheep's clothing pushing the same misogynistic BS in prettier packaging. This week we've brought on one of my favorite creators Therese Lee to breakdown one such man. Buckle up my friends, this one's a doozy. THERESE'S LINKS Youtube Tiktok F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tik...
May 25, 2024•1 hr 30 min•Season 3Ep. 20
When a "feminist" brand made for women by women puts up billboards with taglines like "Thou Shalt Not Give Up On Dating and Become A Nun"... you know you've got a problem. But this advertising choice is not as off brand for Bumble as you may think. Follow us down the rabbit hole.. or rather take this hike down the hive as we breakdown the Bumble fumble. Go Fund Me's of The Families Kate's Family: Nada Alaraj & Her 3 Little Girls Regan's Family: Yousra Saving Her Sick Dad F THE NICE GUY LINKS...
May 18, 2024•48 min•Season 3Ep. 19
Kendrick Lamar and Drake are in the midst of an epic rap beef with Kendrick bringing up one particularly damning and disturbing topic... Drake's inappropriate behavior with underage girls. But for those of us who've been paying attention, this is not new information. He's been creepy. He's just had no push back. And he's not the only one. On this week's episode, Kate is back and we're breaking down some of Hollywood's worst creeps who somehow have gotten away with it, what they did, and why we t...
May 11, 2024•59 min•Season 3Ep. 18
We're back to finish our conversation on grooming... so buckle up because this conversation is a rough ride. As we jump back in, we're diving into why people stay, why they go back, and all of the other "questionable" things people in "groomed" relationships do that actually make perfect sense once you understand the dynamics. This is not an easy listen, but it may be our most important episode yet. TW: Mentions of grooming and hints at abuse (no specific details) F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: P...
May 04, 2024•55 min•Season 3Ep. 17
This may be our most important episode yet. Inspired by Baby Reindeer and our own experiences, Kate and I are discussing grooming. We get into what it is, what tactics they us, how common it is with teenage girls and mid 20's men, and really dig deep into our own experiences to make sense of the things that happened to us. TW: Grooming and mentions (without details) of abuse F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page...
May 04, 2024•41 min•Season 3Ep. 16
So a few weeks ago we talked about the terrible things our ex's did and we STILL stayed. Then someone asked us a question. WHY? Why would we stay with men who were doing unquestionably awful things. Victim blaming aside, the answer to that is complicated... but we're breaking it down. Hopefully some of you can relate. F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page...
Apr 20, 2024•1 hr 9 min•Season 3Ep. 15
This week's episode is a little different because it's actually a story Chesko and I shared on our other podcast - Mr. Pick Me and The Man Hater (a name so lovingly given to us by an internet troll despite the fact that I don't hate men and Chesko has been picked). It's an AITA from reddit and honestly it's just too good not to share here so buckle up because this one is a DOOZY! F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page...
Apr 13, 2024•58 min•Season 3Ep. 14
There's a trend going around on Tiktok of people saying the worst things their exs did and they STILL stayed. Well, this trend is right up our alley. Kate's back and we sharing our 100% true and 100% embarrassing stories that include being abandoned at a golf course, being told asthma is all in our head, peeing on clean laundry, texting other girls that you love them, and so much more! F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page...
Apr 06, 2024•1 hr 6 min•Season 3Ep. 13
If you're on the Feminist side of Tiktok, a certain "alpha" "dom" "dating coach" may have been dominating your feeds lately. And yes, all of those quotes are necessary. But if you think you know how bad he is, you've only seen the tip of the douche-berg... because we've found his "podcast pilot". So buckle up as Regan and Abby Rosmarin do a deep dive to prove that this seemingly misguided guy is much more harmful than he appears... F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Y...
Mar 30, 2024•1 hr 10 min•Season 3Ep. 12
When I say "Nice Guy", you say "Covert Narcissist"! Well, at least the internet does. That's why I've brought on Eleni Sagredos, the author of But They're So Nice: Unmasking Covert Abuse & Narcissistic People. We're talking about the "Nice Guys" who take so far that they're giving... a personality disorder. Eleni's Links Tiktok & Instagram: Nonarcsense Eleni's AMAZING book! F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page...
Mar 23, 2024•58 min•Season 3Ep. 11
Buckle all the way up friends because this "nice guy" horror story is almost to messed up to believe... if we didn't have all the receipts. My guest Catherine's life was turned into a Jerry Springer-esque nightmare when her "nice guy" husband was caught cheating. But not with just anyone... WITH HER OWN MOTHER. We're breaking down what led up to this, all the bizarre and horrifying details, and how Catherine has chosen the highroad of healing. Catherine's Tiktok - KATenacious F THE NICE GUY LINK...
Mar 16, 2024•1 hr 22 min•Season 3Ep. 10
Mr. Pick Me and the Manhater have returned to bring you Part 2 of these HORRIBLE wedding vows. And if you thought the last guy was bad... buckle up. We're breaking down terrible vows, talking about the ACTUAL BS double standards when it comes to holding bad men accountable, going on a couple tangents, and giving you a very exciting update about our new podcast Mr. Pick Me and the Manhater! F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page...
Mar 09, 2024•35 min•Season 3Ep. 9
The Dynamic Duo is back - Chesko and Regan... or as an internet troll named us... Mr. Pick Me and The Man Hater! On today's episode we're taking on our worst villains yet... grooms who go out of their way to humiliate their brides on their wedding day. We'll be talking about violent cake smashers and breaking down some viral videos of absolutely disgusting wedding vows. We're really trying to get to the heart (or lack their of) of why these men feel the need to destroy, demean, and degrade on su...
Mar 02, 2024•46 min•Season 3Ep. 9
If you haven't yet, make sure to listen to Part 1 of this episode. But, Melanie Hamlett is back and we're talking more about decentering men, the "healed Hollywood man" who refuses to be accountable, why platonic love is so necessary, and so much more! MELANIE HAMLETT'S LINKS https://www.melaniehamlett.com/publications Mel's Tiktok Mel's Youtube F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon : Patreon! Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page...
Feb 24, 2024•32 min•Season 3Ep. 8
Today's title sounds like the start of a bad joke... but this experience was anything but funny for our guest Katie aka @im.that.lesbian. This story blew up when a straight women complained about a bad experience she had when bringing a straight man to a lesbian bar. She tells us an unprovoked and seemingly angry lesbian asked "what are you doing here" to her "nice guy" friend. The video ends with her asking for feedback and boy...did queertok deliver. That's when Katie (that "angry" lesbian) en...
Feb 18, 2024•56 min•Season 3Ep. 7
You all asked for it.... and it's finally here. This week's episode we are joined by Mel Hamlett. As a self-proclaimed recovering "cool girl" Mel has some unbelievable stories about what the "cool girl" goes through, what made her say f*** that, and how she began the journey of decentering men. Believe me when I say... buckle up. HUNGRYROOT LINKS Go to Hungryroot.com and use code NICEGUY40 for 40% off your first order and a free gift MELANIE HAMLETT'S LINKS https://www.melaniehamlett.com/publica...
Feb 10, 2024•31 min•Season 3Ep. 6
When a "Nice Guy" 'feminist" Tiktoker is told his take on a topic needs some adjustment... what is he to do? Be accountable like he demands of other men? Of course not! He does the one thing he can to strike back without looking "mean", he weaponizes the women who love him. Abby Rosmarin is back to share a recent run in with a "nice guy" "feminist" Tiktoker and what happens when a "Nice Guy" wants to strike back so women become his weapon. We're breaking down what happened, why we think it happe...
Feb 03, 2024•1 hr 7 min•Season 3Ep. 5
We're back with Abby and Gracie from the Rat Girls Podcast to bring you perhaps the most terrifying tale of all... A "Nice Guy" origin story. We're swapping stories about the "Nice Guys" of Improv, Comedy, and yes... we do mention Matt Rife. DUH! F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Tiktok Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page Rat Girls Links Rat Girls Podcast Abby's Vibe Slut Tiktok...
Jan 27, 2024•37 min•Season 3Ep. 4
We're tired of being civilized.... it's time to get feral and release our inner rat. And we've found just the ladies to help us out. This week we're joined by Abby and Gracie from the Rat Girls podcast and we're swapping stories about some seriously... sneaky.... snakey "Nice Guys". Sss...ee what I did there? F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Tiktok Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page Rat Girls Links Rat Girls Podcast Abby's Vibe Slut Tiktok...
Jan 20, 2024•46 min•Season 3Ep. 3
It's time to tackle a "Nice Guy" topic that's long overdue - the "Nice Guy" in the arts. And you know that means we had to bring on Tiktok's very own Seema! We're pulling no punches this week as we do a deep dive on these "sensitive souls". F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Tiktok Youtube: F the Nice Guy Youtube Page Seema's Links The ArtLust Podcast Seema's Tiktok The ArtLust Podcast Tiktok...
Jan 13, 2024•45 min•Season 3Ep. 2
Happy New Year and welcome back to the new season of the F the Nice Guy Podcast! We've got a new theme song and a shocking couple of stories for you. The lovely ladies behind our new song are sharing they're Nice Guy tales of men in the music industry. When I tell you jaws were on the floor multiple times while recording.... I mean it. So buckle up and set the rage dial to max because this episode is uncensored and unhinged. F THE NICE GUY LINKS Patreon: Patreon Page Tiktok: FtheNiceGuy Youtube:...
Jan 06, 2024•45 min•Season 3Ep. 1
It's time for the F the Nice Guy Holiday Episode! Because this Christmas, Santa brought Kate an unexpected gift... the word of God and the urge to call the police. But we're just getting started, because after we chat about a certain Naughty St. Nick, we're diving into Love Actually. We've found out information that makes this movie WORSE ACTUALLY and proves this movie is nothing more than the "Nice Guy" Fantasy gift wrapped as a Holiday Rom Com. (This episode will be the last episode of the yea...
Dec 23, 2023•1 hr 4 min•Season 2Ep. 49
