When one door closes, another opens, but we often look so long and so regretfully at the closed door that we don't see the one that has opened for us.... As long as you remember everything is a blessing & a lesson, you won't regret anything & you will stop looking back...
Maturity “ is when you don’t force people to choose you
“You can’t help, love or care for everybody. I been crying my ass off lately and I’m emotional without the tears. But lately i been crying and its needed to detox, release, and flush this out.
I appreciate some of the friendships I picked up this year. I had to let go of things that didn’t deserve me and serve me and I’m glad I trusted God. I have faithful, strong, and powerful people I can call on. But God don’t stop there! I need my tribe I need my person 🖤🔥
“Sex is not equal to commitment ~ELI
“I don’t want to be the kind of mother that will tell my son to be a man when he is hurting I wanna be the one to tell him to cry cos it hurt 💕
“Sometimes a man can’t truly love you because he can’t really see you!!
The aftermath PART 8
On this Journey of Life make sure you have a partner that’s not intimidated by your Growth, Your Healing or Your Financial Stability..... Because where you're headed you don't need nobody that's in competition with you on your team...
I believe there's so much I want to say, but you already know what it i……
I am a constant WORK IN PROGRESS. Never stop growing. There are moments where it’s ok to be dormant, just as plants and animals are. We all go through cycles and seasons. Honor it all, and always strive to be the best version of your self and stay true to who you are at the core of your being…you can never go wrong. 🤲DREKA💕… visit preen.online_gh for your quality and affordable clothes
Please don’t judge me 😩😩**PART 7**
If you find yourself consistently compromising in a relationship and losing bits and pieces of yourself in return then opt out of that relationship. Don't stay there until you're gone just so you can pat yourself on the back for giving someone your all. That's not loyalty. That's stupidity. And you’re very DELUSIONAL 📌
Anything that promotes feelings of love & intimacy is healing; anything that promotes isolation, separation, loneliness, loss, hostility, anger, depression, & alienation, often leads to suffering, disease, and premature death…from all causes — Dean Ornish
Options are plentiful, devotion is not. There are SO many people in the world who will be attracted to you, intrigued by you, and interested in getting to know you. Any decent looking or attractive person, at whatever age, will always have a plethora of options to date. But devotion, at any age, is not plentiful. Not even in your early twenties. Connecting with a person who is genuinely devoted to loving you and choosing you, in seasons of growth and health and loss and wealth and transformation...
I was depressed in 2016,17,18 and 2021 It was a battle of either dying or living there was no purpose for me ,but the most weird thing was I kept on posting happy stuff online but I was depressed asf ,turns out I was carrying the burden of Unforgiveness … I stopped dwelling in stuff I can’t control I stopped saying yes and more Nos I started disassociating from ppl who constantly remind me of toxic stuff I walked out of relationships when I was very much in love I took accountability for stuff I...
He dumped me when he found out my body counts PART 6
Im slowly learning that even if I react, it won’t change anything, it won’t make people suddenly love and respect me, it won’t won’t magically change their minds. Sometimes it’s just better to just let things be, let people go, don’t fight for closure, don’t ask for explanations, don’t chase answers and don’t expect people to understand where you’re coming from. I’m slowly learning that life is better lived when you don’t center it on what’s happening around you and center it on what’s happening...
A video of me Giving oral s*x was sent to my Boyfriend **Part 5
Random Sunday stories PART 4
I’m happy I’m really a girl who just be herself! through the embarrassment, through the struggle, through whatever life brings at me!! I ain’t gotta pretend for NOBODY!~unknown
Please protect Black women regardless of anything they are wearing ,smelling Good is not an invitation for Sex PART 3
Self validation is the only validation u need
You’re not allowed to teach anybody anything until you have mastered it!!👈🏽 And what you want to teach should only be mastered AFTER you’ve mastered yourself!!👈🏽 Why? Because if you attempt to teach something without first mastering self then you will lead your students astray!! You will teach from a wounded perspective!! Examples… ~Damian
A part of me feels like I’ve been constantly working and haven’t been able to really enjoy life. The other part of me feels like I haven’t been working hard enough in order to enjoy the amenities of life. #conflicted
You don’t have to Offer the world to someone who want space ~kavya dixit
As you heal and start speaking up for yourself,resist the urge to stop diluting your words 📌
this episode is dedicated to the people who lost friends because of transactions 📌
The goal is forgiveness
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