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Experiencing Motherhood: Single & Black

Experiencing Motherhood: Single & Black is a conversational podcast for single moms. Kim shares her experiences throughout her single mom journey along with tips to educate, inspire, and uplift other moms. Kim also brings on other moms (and sometimes dads) to talk about various topics related to single parenting in the black community. Visit the website at www.singleblackmotherhood.com Connect with Kim on social via www.instagram.com/singleblackmotherhood Interested in being a guest or have a topic to suggest, email Kim: singleblackmotherhood@gmail.com
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Episodes

A Single Mom's Attempt To Commit Suicide With Torre White

In this episode I get to sit down and chat with Torre, who shares about her mental health journey. We discuss: -Anger management treatment in high school -Her diagnosis with anxiety which later led to postpartum depression with the last child -Lack of friends/support -Becoming a single mom twice -Dealing with dads who weren't that supportive -Why prayer isn't enough -Coping strategies -Medication and intense therapy -Fear of guilt and being judged AND MORE Connect with Torre: https://www.instagr...

Apr 16, 201958 min

Social Anxiety and Why Every Single Mom Needs Community with Lakiesha Russell, LPC

In this episode, I got the chance to welcome back Lakiesha Russell, LPC to chat about social anxiety. We discuss: -What social anxiety is -Automatic negative thoughts (ANTs) -What leads to anxiety and isolation -Why trust starts with you -Why it's important to have community or another single mom to talk to -How your actions affect your child -How therapy can help AND MORE Download the ANT worksheet: https://bit.ly/dontfeedtheants Connect with Lakiesha: https://www.instagram.com/lakieshalpc/ Get...

Apr 04, 201945 min

How to Create a Skincare Routine as a Busy Single Mom with Antinese

In this episode, I get to chat with Antinese, Licensed Esthetician and CEO of Glam Beauty Bar Spa, to discuss how busy moms can make time to take care of their skin. We discuss: -How to create a three to five minute routine -What type of products you should have in your day and night routine i.e. cleanser, toner, moisturizer, and serum -How often you should exfoliate and use a mask -How often you should get facials -Why you should use products for your skin type -Why you shouldn't use soap and l...

Mar 22, 201933 min

Making Time to Exercise as a Single Mom with Kelma

In this episode, I sit to chat with Kelma about her fitness journey and how she's been able to make time to exercise. We discuss: -Why she made the decision to take control of her health -How depression and the loss of her husband led to emotional eating and weight gain -Making a mindset shift -Making time to prepare meals AND MORE Connect with Kelma: https://www.instagram.com/fitbsbmom/ Get Your Tickets for the Single Mom Success Tour: https://singlemomsuccesstour.eventbrite.com Connect with me...

Mar 01, 201947 min

How a Single Mom Paid Off All Her Debt Making Less Than 50K per Year (And You Can Too) with Angela

In this episode, I got to chat with Angela about her journey to debt freedom. We discuss: -Her childhood -Living check to check -Using the debt snowball method -What sacrifices she made -The importance of having a budget -Losing three jobs during the process -How she started her emergency fund -What she thinks about side hustles -Funding her 6-month emergency fund after becoming debt free AND MORE Get Your Tickets for the Single Mom Success Tour: https://singlemomsuccesstour.eventbrite.com Conne...

Feb 21, 20191 hr 5 min

The Podcast Has Turned One, Now What?

The podcast turned one last year and I wanted to take time to let you know what's going on. I talk about: -Why I started the podcast -What I gained in 2018 -How the podcast has helped moms -Ways to become active in the community -Ways you can support -What you can expect in the future AND MORE Get Your Tickets for the Single Mom Success Tour: https://singlemomsuccesstour.eventbrite.com Get Your Tickets for the Single Mom Symposium: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/strengthening-single-moms-symposium...

Feb 18, 201926 min

Learning to Love Yourself as a Single Mom: The Valentine's Day Edition with Ta'Lor Pinkston

In this episode I sat down to chat with Ta'Lor Pinkston, founder of Ladyhood Journey. We discuss: -Depression throughout pregnancy -Starting on her self-love journey -Self-care vs. self-love -What self-love actually is -Why Ta'Lor became a Self-Love Coach -Self-Awareness -How to prioritize self-care -What body positivity is -How we can change the way we think about Valentine's Day AND MORE Connect with Ta'Lor: https://www.instagram.com/ladyhoodjourney/ Get Your Tickets for the Single Mom Success...

Feb 13, 201953 min

Income Tax for Single Moms with Rosalind

In this episode, I get to chat with Rosalind, who is very knowledgable about income from her years of working for the IRS. We discuss: -What you should know before filing -Filling out your W-4 form correctly -Choosing between self preparation and using a tax preparer -Tax breaks for single moms -What to expect after filing AND MORE File your taxes free if your income is below $66,000: https://apps.irs.gov/app/freeFile/ W-4 form: https://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/fw4.pdf Withholding Calculator: htt...

Feb 01, 20191 hr 14 min

Single Mom's Involvement In Their Child's Education with Evette Rawls

In this episode, I sit down to chat with Evette Rawls, educator of 20 years about what a single mom's involvement in education should look like. We discuss: -Why it is important to be involved in your child's education -What parental involvement looks like -Why parents find it difficult to help the child with their homework -Why parental involvement declines in middle and high school -If growing up in a single parent home affects the child's education AND MORE Connect with Evette: https://www.in...

Jan 25, 20191 hr 48 min

Homebuying For Single Moms with Ariesha Wilbert

In this episode, I sit down to chat with Ariesha Wilbert, a realtor who specifically works with single parents, about home buying. We discuss: -What you should know before buying a home -Why you should know your credit score and history before contacting a lender -Homeownership vs renting a home -How long you should plan to live in a home -Homebuying programs -What you can expect for closing costs -Downpayment assistance programs -How much you should save for a downpayment if you don't qualify f...

Jan 11, 20191 hr 14 min

Effective Planning For Single Moms with Kayla Shanai

In this episode, I got to chat with Kayla, creator of the Black Girl Magic Planner, about how to plan effectively. We discuss: -the parts of the Black Girl Magic Planner and why each one is important -how Kayla plans for the year -why using time blocks or an hourly schedule is effective AND MORE Connect with Kayla: https://www.instagram.com/kaylashanai/ Visit Kayla's website: https://kaylashanai.com Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singleblackmotherhood/ Leave feedback via...

Jan 04, 201952 min

An End of Year Reflection for 2018 with Bam

In this episode, I sit down to chat with Bam, creator of Bae Mama Podcast, about how we felt about 2018. We discuss: -Our podcast's mission -Most important goals achieved -Skills acquired -Biggest mistakes -Challenges we overcame -Things we learned about ourselves and other people -Best memory -Biggest time waster -Goals for 2019 AND MORE Connect with Bam: https://www.instagram.com/madmilfybam/ Take a moment to answer the podcast survey here: https://goo.gl/forms/lTQEdDDAANCcnauV2 Connect with m...

Dec 20, 20181 hr 10 min

Dani: Taking Control of Your Life as a Single Mom

In this episode, I got to chat with Dani, creator of the Milf Academy. We discuss: -Her decision to not have a relationship with her son's father -How she managed to continue on with graduate school while pregnant and finish -How she utilizes her support system -How she takes control of her life AND MORE Connect with Dani: https://www.instagram.com/daniicelebrity/ Follow the Milf Academy: https://www.instagram.com/themilfacademy/ Take a moment to answer the podcast survey here: https://goo.gl/fo...

Dec 13, 201835 min

Tiara Caldwell: Single Mom and Doula

In this episode, I get to chat with Tiara Caldwell, founder of Crown and Cradled to discuss all things doula. We discuss: -Her inspiration behind becoming a doula -What a doula is -The purpose of a doula -Benefits of having a doula/postpartum doula -How to search for a doula -Why you should interview multiple doulas -Cost of a doula -Creating a birth plan and why it is important -Educating yourself and more! Connect with Tiara: https://www.instagram.com/birthceo/ Visit her site: http://crownedan...

Dec 04, 201845 min

Jaleesa: Good Touch, Bad Touch - Talking to Your Kids About Sex

In this episode, I got to sit down to chat with Jaleesa to chat about the differences between good touch and bad touch. Connect with Jaleesa: https://www.instagram.com/beyou.jjay/ Take a moment to answer the podcast survey here: https://goo.gl/forms/lTQEdDDAANCcnauV2 Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singleblackmotherhood/ Like us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/singleblackmotherhood/ Visit the site: https://www.singleblackmotherhood.com Connect with other single moms...

Nov 21, 20181 hr 2 min

Ciera Young: Self-Care and the Holidays for Single Moms

In this episode, I get to sit down and chat with Ciera, founder of FanCee and author of Cheers to Him. We discuss: -Alternating holidays with the other parent -Dealing with divorced parents in addition to being a single parent during the holidays -Building holiday traditions w/your kid(s) -Learning to appreciate alone time -Communicating with the other parent about creating a holiday schedule -Different categories of self care: physical, emotional, relational, spiritual, & cognitive -Why Cie...

Nov 15, 20181 hr 9 min

Brianna Alford: Saving Money on Christmas Shopping as a Single Mom

In this episode, I get to sit down and chat with Brianna, founder of BLNA Financial Services, about saving on last minute Christmas shopping. We discuss: -Why she got into accounting -Setting a spending limit on Christmas shopping -Overspending and getting into debt -Making a list of people you have to buy for -The feelings of guilt -How you can save -Planning for next year AND MORE Connect with Brianna on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blnafinancialservices/ Visit Brianna's site: https://...

Nov 08, 201846 min

Brittany Kater: Choosing Healthcare Benefits for Single Moms

In this episode, I sit down to chat with Brittany and we use our experience in Healthcare to break down Open Enrollment. We discuss: -Basic health insurance terminology -How to choose a medical, dental, vision plan -Why you shouldn't choose a plan just because someone else has it -The benefits of enrolling in a FSA as a single mom -Why you should consider your lifestyle when you are enrolling AND MORE Visit our sponsors: https://takecareof.com https://www.rxbar.com - use the code RXSB to save 25...

Oct 31, 20181 hr 24 min

Dr. Alexea Gaffney: Divorced Mom & Breast Cancer Survivor

In this episode, I had the privilege of chatting with Dr. Alexea Gaffney, who is a triple board certified infectious disease specialist, about her breast cancer journey. We discuss: -When she was diagnosed & how she felt -How she broke the news about her diagnosis to her daughter -Why it's important to have a good relationship with your Primary Care Physician (PCP) or Gynecologist -How treatment makes her feels -Getting second opinions -Why it took cancer for her to prioritize herself -How b...

Oct 26, 20181 hr 8 min

Dee: Becoming a Single Mom after Domestic Violence

In this episode, I got a chance to chat with Dee about her Domestic Violence journey. We discuss: -The stages of domestic violence -How she experienced abuse from pregnancy until her daughter was two months -How she broke the news to her family & friends -Her fear of becoming a single mom and how that same fear affects other moms -When she finally made the decision to join a support group -Developing a support system and finding at least one person you can confide in -Why it's important to u...

Oct 20, 201858 min

Attorney Nasheia Conway: Child Support for Single Moms

In this episode, I got a chance to chat with Attorney Nasheia Conway about child support. We discuss: -Why she continued to attend law school while pregnant and later became a single mom -The importance of building a support system -The biggest misconceptions of child support -Why she made the decision to file for child support -Things you should consider when asking for modifications in your child support order -Non-custodial vs. Custodial parent -Pro bono lawyers -Finding information in law li...

Oct 11, 20181 hr 5 min

Brawley: The Determined Single Dad

In this episode, I got to chat with Brawley, founder of Above 500 & Single Fathers United. We discuss: -why his personal experience led him to create Single Fathers United -how women treat babies as possessions and use them against the fathers -why a lot of men give up on their role as fathers -what happened when he found out his child's mom was leaving -how he was able to get an injunction (and later gained custody) without an attorney by being resourceful -how the court views the parents -...

Oct 03, 201859 min

Maurice: Single, Divorced Dad of Multiples

In this episode, I get to sit down with Maurice and chat about his journey as a single, divorced dad of multiple children. We discuss: -Communicating with his ex-wife -Creating a safe space with his kids for them to be able to communicate -Not following each other on social media -How both of them pays child support -How single dads tend to get more support from the community and are less stereotyped than single moms -How helpful focus groups (for children whose parents have been deployed or div...

Sep 29, 201856 min

Jeremy: Single Military Dad

In this episode, I get to sit down and chat with Jeremy about his challenges as a dad while being in the military. We discuss: -why the relationship with his child's mother ended -how often he sees his child -his thoughts about child support -why he feels that most men are not physically present -why women should try and communicate with their child's father -the relationship between his biological father AND MORE Take a moment to answer the survey here: https://goo.gl/forms/lTQEdDDAANCcnauV2 Co...

Sep 22, 201859 min

Willie Mitchell, Jr: Co-Parenting in College as a Single Dad

In this episode, I get to chat with Willie about his journey coparenting while in college. We discuss: -making the decision to co-parent for the betterment of the child -his schedule and getting his school work done -his support system -the transition from seeing his son everyday to three days a week -his biggest challenge as a new dad -having his father as a role model -his family's disappointment of him having a child without being married -why faith is important -what self care looks like for...

Sep 13, 201843 min

Tyrise Barker: Co-Parenting 50/50 as a Single Dad

In this episode, I get to chat with Tyrise, a co-host of The Absent Dad Podcast. We discuss: -his lack of communication during his college years -his understanding of where he went wrong -why he thinks college is a fantasy world -why he felt that he deserved 50% custody -why men have to give up their selfishness when they have children -his thoughts on the lack of responsibility of some dads -why we should understand the outcome of not taking preventative measures when it comes to sex -dating -h...

Sep 07, 201857 min

Lakiesha Russell - Dealing with School Behavior as a Single Parent

In this episode, I sit down to chat with Licensed Professional Counselor, Lakeisha Russell, to discuss: -Forming a partnership and having conversations with your child's teacher -How transitions can impact behavior -Why modeling behavior is important -Having conversations about behavior with your kids and using proper terminology -Why building a support system is important -Raising boys -Behavioral disorders i.e. ADHD, Autism, & Anxiety -How genetics play a part in behavior -Choosing a famil...

Aug 31, 20181 hr 5 min

Sabrina: Keeping Your House Clean as a Busy Single Mom

In this episode, I get to chat with Sabrina of Simply Being Sabrina. We discuss: -Keeping your house clean when you have a million things to do -Teaching your kids how to clean so that you all share the responsibility -Prioritizing what needs to be cleaned the most -Sabrina's favorite household products AND MORE For more information on the Single Moms Cruise, visit: https://www.singleblackmotherhood.com/single-moms-cruise Connect with Sabrina on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/simplybeingsa...

Aug 24, 201847 min

Khadeejah Smith: Building a Routine That Works During the School Year for Single Moms

In this episode, I sit down to chat with Khadeejah of G.R.I.T. Mom and educator of 13 years. We discuss: -what G.R.I.T is -figuring out what duties you can pass on to your child -why it's important to add meal prepping to your routine -giving your kids to-do-lists -coparenting after divorce -making responsibilities a family thing so that your kids feel empowered like they do in the classroom -why having structure and routines are important -why you should show your kids an example of how you wan...

Aug 16, 201855 min

Aisha Taylor: How to Save on Back to School Shopping as a Single Mom

In this episode, I sit down to chat with Aisha Taylor of FNPhenomenal. We discuss: -what Aisha learned on her journey to manage her money better with twins -creating a budget -evaluating what you have so that you know what to buy -couponing -cutting back on expenses -clothing exchanges -back to school drives AND MORE For more information on the Single Moms Cruise, visit: https://www.singleblackmotherhood.com/single-moms-cruise Follow Aisha on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fnphenomenal/ Si...

Aug 10, 201849 min
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