Women in Power: Creating your own wealth

unite forces? I'm all about that. And anybody who's ever known me knowing that I've always been like that. And guess who has a little mini ceo on you know that's on her way to become a true boss because you know, okay, I am gonna be her personal mentor. It is my co host Stevie noonez hello, And I am so excited in fact about it that you know that in the US, for example, the non adjusted average females annual salary is sev of the average male salary

compared to for the adjusted average salary. So we're gonna get more into that. That's crazy. So that in fact, what I'm saying is is that the woman, the average woman gets paid less than men in the United States is happening right here, and they don't give us you know what I'm saying like that, I feel like they don't really appreciate us and women. We bring so much value to companies, corporate um as, you know, the family aspect, and every single aspect you can think of. The women voice.

Women's voices are so important. So knowing all those things that my mom had to go through in order for me to have a better future really really inspired me to have this conversation because I feel like when is at the right time to teach your kids about being a boss, about stepping up, about working hard, about work ethic development stages. I would start at five. I mean honestly, sometimes we go and we go purchase something and I

give her. You know, she she definitely works and she definitely works around the house as far as chores are concerned. And you know girls, now we're talking about girls. Girls really work harder than boys. Girls do the dishes at a young age. Girls make their bed good, girls take care of it. My case, I have a junior s J, which is one years old. Chloe takes care of s J. So at this point she gets paid, you know, every Friday.

And what we do is we go out and we go shopping, and she saves a little bit of what she has. She puts it in a you know, her little piggy bag, and then she goes and she buys what she needs, which is don't pop back into everyone loves. Oh my goodness, that's like a whole thing. You know. I remember. I remember that, Um, now, yes, no, yea, I remember growing up. Um. I used to love to go to party City and they had these like colorful

pencils and like the fun you know, uh racers. They were like little you know, horses or whatever it was. And I used to do. God, god, I used to love it was so colorful and fun and you know bright. So um. I used to Oh my god, I used to be so happy whenever my mom let me buy some pencil alive a thousand things like that, And then I will go to school and sell it for twenty five cents, and I will come home feeling so proud,

like mommy, look, I have four quarters. Like I think this, So I feel that I've always been an entrepreneur without even knowing I was an entrepreneur. And then even though there's a misconception of only child of the only child syndrome. My mama was really made me work for for things. She made me work for everything I wanted. It wasn't like,

don't get at me, I haven't to get freega. You want to do, you have to do something for And I think that that's the first step into teaching your kids how to become an entrepreneur, don't you agree, which is amazing. And also, you know, investing in your child, you know, um, really investing because it takes a village

to raise a child and community. I wish, I wish that you know, especially the people that are migrated from the Republic, they would bless you know, the children that are trying to come up so that they are not you know, stressing um and where there we're gonna get their money for comment. Yes, yes, correct, But before blessing the children, I think that because education plays an important part, our families need to get educated first, because a lot

of our families come from poverty as well. And whenever they have an opportunity to have a little bit of money, they're not thinking about generational wealth. They're thinking about themselves and the present. And that's what I think is important to really teach your children, and really teach and it's not just your children because you could be grown. I learned a lot of these things as an adult. Um, I had to figure a lot of these things out

on my own. So what are the values you have to teach them at an early age or earlier on. You can still be in high school. You can still be in your twenties and your thirties and be learning this. I feel that as long as you're alive, you still have an opportunity to fix whatever it is that you feel you you're you haven't accomplished, and values would be like learning how to be independent. Stop. This message goes

directly to the ladies. Number one setting. That means if you have a man, I mean, but if you don't, I mean you could live and do with as much as you can do without. That means get your own money, pay your own bills, do your own thing. Not sit here depending on the fact that you have a pretty phase, nice tips and a fat ask that they they're just gonna maintain me. No, no, no, because the day that that is over, they get to what have you? What

are you gonna do? So definitely learn how to be independent, learn the value of money. I think that school, the school system is fucked up in so many ways, and this is part of it. They teach you that. Please tell me. I'm not saying don't learning. Please learn whatever they teach you in school, But almost the last time you use algebra and about on the top divide, why don't you teach them about finances, taxes, saving your money, credit, All those things are so important, Like, there's just so

many values to be taught. No, you're right, especially they should implement the credit um educating people on credit, especially at a younger age. I wish someone taught me on that credit is everything without credit me and a lot of people haven't. I know people, I know people can so that they never pay taxes, don't even know how this works, you know, and then they're investing your money.

A lot of people because of poverty and because we come from parents that didn't know any better, or they were too busy working to try to provide for us, which we respect and we understand. But we have the ability to become better. We have been blessed with the ability of saying, Okay, I'm going to educate myself because now I got technology. Now I have access to other things.

And that's why I say, if you don't know something, if you don't progress in life, because because they don't want to, because everything you've ever needed, you spend more time on social media taking selfies of your ass instead of using that time to find ways to become better in life. I think I don't want to hear it, but that really like yourself, knowing your value, knowing that you shouldn't be working for free. You know, work means

equals money, so never work for free. I mean a lot of people and especially in our industry, amount of we can touch on this topic because this is like a big roadblock. And on the road is that we do a lot of yes, yes s yes, but then we still have to provide. We still have to provide for our kids. We still have we know we want

to make it to this dream, you know. And I feel like this is huge, especially for a women you know that want to become actresses, that I I want to go to Hollywood and just you know, drop there one day and just say, oh, I want to do this, but make sure you're getting paid for your work and knowing your bad Never do anything for free unless it's something that's going to bring you to the next level. Ah, this is a this is but a way I am going to disagree with you, and that ask me for

two seconds. You know how many things I've done for free in my life, A lot of things, you know, everything and that and and that's another mistake. Sometimes you're so busy just chasing the money that you lost opportunities chasing the money, and those opportunities had could have doubled that money, because a lot of times it's about being present. You never know who's watching, you never know who's listening.

You may sacrifice a certain amount of time of your life, but that your whole life can change from one day to the other. So I personally have done a lot of things that haven't been for a lot of money. But I've always had the vision that if I do this, I know that I can benefit this other way, or this will come thanks to that, or whatever the case may be. So, yes, don't undervalue yourself, but also don't be chasing money and at the same time losing opportunities

that could get you to bigger checks. So anyways, that's us to have a purpose, and that is a great point. I'm out of I feel like it always does have to have a purpose. But a lot of times we are not living a purpose driven life, and we are and that's because it's okay, it's because we didn't know.

But now that you are underneath the sound of the voice of a Mana and Stevie, we are letting you know that you should be living a purpose driven life and that you should have goals and that you should definitely be creating wealth and multiple strings of wealth, which you've be talking about later on on this show, because a Mada has a an announcement coming up. You know what, As a matter of fact, I was gonna say now, but I don't know if I should wait to the end.

Now I'm gonna say no, no, no no, no, I'm gonna make you'll weight. But I was talking about but talking about waiting. Um. Part of the reasons why I decided to make that big step which I'm about to announce, um, it's because I am a huge believer in generation of wealth. And that's one of those are the things that nobody

teaches you. You know, back in the days. Latina and Dominicana back in the days and are great great great grandparents are ancestors used to sacrifice themselves just to own a piece of land because they understood, they understood the

value of generational world. They understood that if I sacrifice myself now and I can leave something for the next generation to come, whether it's you know, my my my son's, my daughter, my my grandchildren, I will be providing a better future for them and they will continue the legacy of the sacrifices that I have done today. So that's something that we have lost. We have lost it because of lack of education. We have lost it because of

lack of financial education. We have lost it because I believe that with time we have gotten more greedy and we think more about ourselves and more about our immediate family. Immediate like my wife, my husband, my children, my mom, my dad. Yeah, so okay, cool. But then when you look at these with all due respect, the way that Caucasians, right, a lot of them work, and we obviously know this.

They like to build generation of wealth. That's why there's these long lasting names that go on and on like and then you go, uh, Hilton, because of the sacrifices and the way that they have set things up. Your great great, great, great great great grandchildren will be fine based off the sacrifices and the work that you did. Do you get what I'm saying? Yes, absolutely. When when it comes to Caucasians, since you brought it up, I

feel like they're they're set up to win. And we know that a Latinos, we are not set up to win because we are not the CEOs. We are not and we have given they have given us the opportunity, you know, and um, a lot of Caucasians have given us the opportune. Let's keep it real because a lot of people on top are Caucasians. And but lately there's been a lot of African American women that have been

um become CEOs of companies. That happened during the whole Black Lives Matter movement after that and even like impact, Um no, but directly after they was like African American women that became like CEOs of company and stuff like that. But there needs to be more of us on top. But also education goal coincides with and knowledge coincides with your you know, look at that phase. I love that vision.

Like I'm trying, I'm just trying. But education coincides with generational wealth and honestly, like I'm not gonna sit here complain. I'm not complaining. But I was a very intelligent young man, but I didn't qualify for a scholarship to go to college. I had to, you know, pay it myself, and it was hard. Whereas my friend that was Caucasian, like you had said, had their family had already put aside money in a separate bank account for them they set up so they set their kids up. And for me it

was hard. It was like you had said, it was hard, and I just want to get this out, okay, because it was really hard to come up. And I'm driving a little Mercury Cougar to to work and they're driving a little BMW. It doesn't matter because it's not about what you drive. It's about your drive and what you have had. But I felt like like you had stated, I'm out of you hit. A very important key point was let's set up our children, and if you're listening

right now, let's set up our children to win. Let's set up it doesn't matter if you're white, black, Asian, whatever you are. Let's set up our children to win. And that's a very powerful message with more of exactly a mata yes and we're back, but exactly a mata um. Yes, I do understand. I don't want to make this a race thing, because the point of this conversation it wasn't

a race thing. I do understand, how um, Caucasians, which we all know this, have certain privileges that minorities don't have, especially people like myself, right, we don't have the same privilege. I get all those things. I'm not discrediting that because I'm from there, you know. And like I said before, I've been through everything. I've joining Biagaza. I used to clean houses with my mom. I used to sell flowers in the corners of the stop of the stop of

the stop life. I've done everything. I used to put flyers after the club. Me and my mom were the ones putting the flyers in your in your car window, um at twelve o'clock at night. I've done every single thing that you can think of to be to where to be where I am today. And that's why I'm so grateful. And because I'm grateful and I've been all the way to the bottom, I understand how bad I

never want to be there again. And I worked my ass off so a lot of times we can dwell over spill milk, and it's like, oh yeah, man, I handed that they have come from, you know, other countries with no education, where no nothing but their dry They're ambition to become successful gets them places in life. So it's like, yeah, we can keep continuing to dwell and cry and say but it's because they don't do this. It's that oh yeah, may yeah, snap out of it.

How are we going to fix the problem. And let's also talk about generational Wealth's a lot of time for those that for those families that financially can't do it. It's not just about the money. It's education, everything that you teach, the knowledge, the wisdom that you teach your children. That's also generational world because they can pass it on

from one from one generation to the other. But I think a yeah, yea momento words like how much more crying are we gonna do about the things that happened in the past? Right now, you need to work your ass off and that's it, Like we all have the same twenty four hours. Yes, I'm not discrediting and I am clear that other people, other races have privileges that we don't, and that's what we have to work twice as hard. Yeah, they get it easier, of course, just

based off the color of their skin, they get it easier. However, if you are driven, if you are ambitious, if you are disciplined, if you want it, you can have whatever it is that you want. And the same aspect goes for education. There are many ways you can you can get yourself educated. I went to college. I couldn't finish either and I had to pay students, you know, so

I definitely get where we're coming from. And that's, like I said, that's another education educational system because we shouldn't have to be paid because then you have to pay off the school loans. If you don't pay off the school loans, there goes your credit. Now our credit is all messed up. Now we're trying to get the next house, the next car. Now we gotta work double for that. And it's not complaining, but I feel like it's right.

I feel like it's a system that's in place to kind of we have to break and I respect women such as yourself I'm out of that have broken barriers and that have you know, fought right through all of that and you know, and I just pray that the people such as yourself, that you know have gotten to

this point. Could I challenge you today to bless someone, help somebody that's educated that needs education, you know, even if it's another country, help somebody like I all you recently, you just donated a bunch of supplies and stuff to a bunch of children. If you want to talk about that, that's awesome. Helping kids out, you know, helping them out

and tam being um. I think that it's very important for parents, right And I'm gonna say this because I don't have any children, but my mom, you know, raised an amazing woman, and I'm so grateful for what she did. But I'm you gotta work, work yourself and loquez work ethic discipline, So you need to take that role as well. I know you're tired. I know you want a party. I know you won't have a good time. I know you're you may be tired of your damn kids for

a little bit. I get all those things. But while they're growing up, you said, lem though, this is your moment to make sure that you always encourage them, because the more that they hear in the house, no sep with them. We can't do this. We don't get money. How are we gonna do that? It's more of how are we going to find a way. Let's find a way, let's figure it out. Anything is possible. It's it's it all starts in the mindset. You have to change the mindset.

The body works with the mind. You'll need to program and force your mind to make whatever decisions it is. And that's why I want to go to this topic, um and going back to what it is, you know, what is making money these days? Is it working on nine five? Is it, you know, being a hustler and trying to figure it out on the side, a little

side gig, a little side job. I personally haven't done in the nine five since I was like, I don't know, maybe uh nineteen, because I always do personally, I don't like people bossing me around before all of this, before of this, Like, what was the really cool job that you did, like such as myself, I did Duncan for like, oh my god, Duncan donuts and people was so much fun.

Did you take a lot of donuts home? I can regal, I guess because they were so much and they were so nice, I was able to bring them home to my family. Duncan was so nice for that back then. I don't know what they do, know it was amazing nice. My first okay, so first, so first, when I was I started working at a very very very early age, little gay. I started doing taxes when I was four. Um, but like a regular job. My mom used to work and a rest in a restaurant. Yeah no, I don't

restaurant slash supermarket. So I would put a little plastic cup and then you know for the people in the low cards. So I used to get no money there. But like, my first official job was at fifteen at Target tar J. I used to Target Service Tarja. I used to work there. Then I also worked at the Risk Carlton as the receptionist and that was actually my last nine o five that that was my first see me, I'm but I guess what to get to that prestigious job.

Anybody that's from Miami. I used to live in Brown cub close to the Poking Beings, Opa Locka, this area over here Liberty City. Um, I used to live around that area and then I would literally walk five blocks then take the metro rail, which is the train all the way to Civic Center. I'm just saying this for the Miami people. And then from there, I used to take the Deer or the Sea bus to go all the way to South Beach to work over there because

I just felt like Yobiwaukee and ghetto nor My. So I will go all the way through that mission just to get get to that job. So that's what I'm saying, you have to sacrifice. People only see what you see on social media. See Davie, you see that part, but you didn't see all the sacrifice and all the ship I had to put up with to get to where I am. And just like me, I am talking about all the successful people because I feel like a lot of people could be judgmental. And I'm not saying if

you come from mommy and daddy who gave you the money. No, I'm saying for those that came from nothing and became something I would love to see, let's not just mimic their success. Now, let's mimic their process to become successful. So anyways, part of that is, yes, you may have a nine of five. Go have your nine of five because you have to pay bills because you have There's nothing wrong with having a nine five ship. Hey, you're

getting your money. Do what you gotta do. But once you get out of that nine, figure out a way to make some time for yourself, for your own personal dreams and the things that you want to achieve for yourself. If you want to start a small business, dedicate a couple of hours after work to studying your craft, to figuring out how you can get investors, how you can

get partners. Maybe a family member wants to hook you, you know, hook you up with some bread, or wants to help you out, or wants to give you a loan or a friend. Figure out ways that you're not just being a work slave for someone else and creating someone else's generation of wealth. Figure out ways that on the low you can sacrifice some of your twenty four hours and do something for yourself and for your family and for your personal you know, um, you know, bloodline,

That's how I feel about it. You already know we will be right back go Ma's day, exactly Amada, and we're back with more of exactly Amada. I feel that at firsthand, you know, when it comes to you, let's get into an exactly Amata moment, exactly mad um. A lot of you know, while we were working on this show. You know, I saw a lot of restless nights. I mean I saw times where you didn't even sleep. I know you were working on something, and now it's all manifesting.

Would this be the perfect time for you to tell us about this new venture, this great announcement. I think this is the perfect time. Let's take this time right now and tell us all about what Amada has going on. I'm missing you, babb Thank you so much. Okay, So long story short. UM. Like I said before, UM, on our previous episodes, I spoke about during the pandemic. You know, I'm an artist, saying I dance, I do radio, I

do a whole bunch of things. But I've always been curious about real estate because I don't know, like wanting to own land, wanting to own things that I can pass you know, pass down. And also it comes from you know, traumas from being homeless after that experience of literally not having a home and made me feel like I need to buy as many homes as possible so

I never have to fear being homeless again. And and nothing. Basically, during the pandemic, I had some money saved and I was like, going on if I just leave the money in the bank, I'm gonna I'm gonna keep spending it. I'm gonna keep, you know, wasting it. I need to figure out a way that I can invest it and I can make some money from it. So what will never, you know, depreciate, what will always grow is real estate. So I studied investing in real estate. I went to

a Dominican Republic. I I, you know, I wanted to buy one one property, you know, I wanted to give myself one property for my birthday. I ended up buying three all at once, and then now I current we have nine. But while I was doing that, I was like, okay, so what else can I do? How can I become better at this? Like that yank, I buy apartments and an Airbnb. Then but like, what's the bigger vision? And then I've always looked at like buildings, and I like,

one day I could have my own build. That would be so sick, like I'm out of building something that I would be crazy. And I was. I was just talking about it like that, and thone says, every night I get on my phone and see every night while you are sleeping, I'm on my phone doing my research I'm on my phone studying because let me tell you something. Rich, rich people or people that are successful in life, they don't be sleeping the K eight hours. Well everybody, well

everybody's sleeping, they're working. So then I learned that mindset. Okay, well everybody's sleeping. I need to be working because I need to take as much advantage as I can out of my twenty four hours came. I don't want to talk about it. Two months till um till this air. I love in hip hop, bad room. Um. You guys know that I have a business partner in the Dominican Republic, in the Dominican Republic. Um his name is Alan, and uh he you know, he has his company. So Lucien

is Alan Alan, So Lucien is. We came together, we partnered up and I told him, listen, how can you help me? Help me have my own, you know, my own project. And then one thing let to the other. I've taken a couple of trips to the Dominican Republic, We got a couple of investors. We all came together and now Amta Residents it's officially happening. We're selling. Yes, Amata Residents is in samana Um. It's forty two apartments, twelve penhouses, um, two pools, full gym. It's like a

whole production. I'm so excited I to owning all of this. Hallelujah. I am so excited. This is my first time so because I've never done anything this big. And anyways, this is part of the things that I'm saying generational wealth. When I have my children, I want to be able to leave them something and the most important thing that I'm going to lead them is wisdom and knowledge in

my experiences so that my legacy doesn't die. I want to be able to maintain that name like and my children to be to feel proud of me, like we have this because mommy worked hard and now we can pass this on. And I want you to not just depend on me. I want to teach you how to fish. Like it's like it's like they say, don't give me the fish, teach me how to fish. I want to teach them. So anyways, Amta Residents is available now if

you go at Amada Airbnb. At Amada Airbnb you can find all the details on how you can buy your apartment now. And I'm excited. Yeah, you know you need you need to start filming like commercials for this because you would do like it would be great to see a visual give us a little you know, look and to what you're doing. The whole Testament. Oh my god, it's such an amazing thing. But really it's happening to being a CEO of boss tapping into that and really

going from homeless. That's so powerful motive. From homeless to owning a building and and oh my god, this is incredible. And now where in the Dominican Republic isn't located, it's very touristic, is in Samona, which is actually where my mom was born. Um, and I am so people to my partner Alan, We've been able to do this together. I'm so grateful because he believed in me, he believed in my dream of putting this together. We've worked so hard together to make this happen, and I pray that

we can continue repeating this. And this is what I'm saying when I speak about this so with so much passion. I speak about it because I've been there, like I have been there. No one gave it to me. I wasn't sucking for money, I'm not selling drugs. I'm not as amer and if you're do any of those, congrats do what you do. But for those that don't do that and are hard working people, anything is possible. Stop

being scared to ask for help. A Mata, this is so great And speaking of you know, women empower this is incredible. When there was a time when, remember, women couldn't shouldn't speak, They should not be They should just be seen and and and not heard. To see so much women coming up and becoming CEOs. Do you feel like there's competition now or should we you know, stick together as women? You know, should you guys stick together?

Should we let go of the pettiness? Should we let go of all of that and just know that together there are power and numbers? So what are your thoughts about that? A Mata? I think that definitely women, um, women should stick together. Like if you feel that you can't do whatever business adventure on your own, fine other empowering women that are willing to help you. You know. I think that women are very smart when it comes

to business. I think that we're passionate. I think that when we really want to make something happen, we could be the best partners ever. And I think that if you pay attention, this is happening. There's more women becoming CEO, there's more women becoming educated, there's more women becoming uh. There are in powerful whether it's corporate or whether they

have their own independent business. So yeah, if you leave the pettiness and stupidity alone, and you leave the jealousy and the competition, and you focus on business and becoming better and helping you know, another woman do the same, then we got together and work together as a team, we would really be unstoppable. I mean even in radio, there's program directors like the and then you have like Angie Martinez and then you and then you have you know.

I think that there is a lot of women in power. And honestly, growing up, um, I'm just gonna this is personal, I took more, um gonna a holes and advice from women. It was easier for me because my mom kind of I had my dad in my life, but my mom kind of taught me a lot. You know, she's a teacher, so it was easier for me to take direction from women. So I think women are more nurturing. I mean, even when it comes to training that job. I love a woman that's in leadership that could train me as a man.

I never had an issue with that. Um, I feel that women get the job done, you know, and women definitely get the job done. And I don't have an issue as a man taking you know, directions from a point good pointin yes, and you know what and talking about that too. Something I missed out to talk to talk about and I'm going to talk about it really quick. It's finding a good mentor. These days, social media can help you so much to find someone that inspires you.

Find someone on social media with a hand bloke that they're doing something similar to the vision that you have, and don't be scared to slide them, slide up in them dms, send them a d M and say, listen, you really inspire me and I would love to follow your footsteps. Is there any way that you could be my mentor? Or what tips can you give me? Whatever? You never know. There's a lot of people on social media that are literally in the tip of your hand on your phone that are willing to help you, to

give you advice. You just never know. So if you have a business idem, if you have any questions, if you want to mentor if you're looking for some guidance. Don't be afraid to send a d M wherever it may be, whether it's Instagram, Facebook, don't they say and ask for help because that small little step can change your whole life. Trust and a clothes mouth does not get fed, and you can. You cannot be afraid to

talk to someone. You should always have a mentor and a mentee, someone that's you know, doing greater than you and you're learning how to get there. And then as you're getting there, you have a mentee someone that you can help also get there. You know, it's never a selfish act. You should always find that the you know, the cup does run over, you know, and that's how

you stay blast and a matter. I feel like that's the reason why you stay blessed because continue to help people and you're not if I if I can put you, if I can put you on, or I know that there's an opportunity that can be good for you, I will be the first one to be like, they're looking for this over here, or I'm gonna put you in contact with somebody, or just put up real quick, do this for free, or do whatever it is you have to do. Once you get yourself inside that inside that

open door, run for it. And you know what, I've done that for a lot of people, and it makes me feel proud. It makes me feel good to know that I've helped someone else because in moments that I was in need, no one helped me. So I want to be able to be that person for someone else. And that's why I'm so proud when I see that these days, there are so many self made women that have amazing companies on their own or that I've been

able to, you know, give them a little push. Um, there's a lot of I think that the pandemic also, I don't know why, but I feel like the pandemic brought the hustler out of people. The pandemic really inspired people to work to you know, build that business or that business adventure, whatever it may be. Um, I don't know. On social media, these are like I have my own business and I just love it. I think this is great. It is. It is incredible, and I think that the

pandemic did bring the hustle out of people. You should have like a clothing line or something, or shades, Oh my god, something, It's like, what are you wearing? Shady By? I love it, say you see this. This is how you start. You start with, you start working around, You start with a dream, you start with the concept. Now let's put it to work. Oh my god, let's pray that before you know, our first season is over, we can have your your shade collection out. Mahina that again.

I'm going to help you. Let's figure it out. Oh my goodness. You see that as always so helpful. See this just happened. This literally, do you happened? I love it. I'm wearing Yes, it's the new, new, new, new darling and yes, yea. That's such a being a class act also, really how you present yourself. Presentation really helps you. Being a boss is acting like a boss. You know, they always said fake it till you make it. You know, you can't be out you're acting ratchet and you're thinking

you're gonna get somewhere. I mean, it could happen, but those are the odds of that are You have to really be a class act and really show who you are, especially you know, um, you just have to really change it up. People, challenge yourself to change it up. You know, get dressed for that interview, look great for that interview.

I mean it starts there. I'm really excited. And also also going back into your kids, going back into your kids, your cousin, your nephew, can't say listen, motivate them, motivate them, inspire them, show them you're doing showing show them that you sacrifice, that you put in work, that you even as an adult, you study, You study your craft. Even if you have a nine to five, when you have some free time, you also work. Showed them because that

motivation inspires them at an early age. I know a lot of great entrepreneurs that are like twelve years old. I know girls that have their own eliminated stands on the weekend that they sell, cookies that they sell person that they sell loque. Say, you know a lot of people were getting the little stimulus check. You if you get a little stimulus check, give one to your kids. Be like, what would you like to do if you had your own business? How would you like to make money? Oh, mommy,

I like I don't know, I like um, I don't know. Bowls, I like hair bowls. Fine, go online even if it's on one of these you know wholesale vendors. Buy them a couple of bolts and just help them feel productive, help them feel that they are a little entrepreneur on their way to success, that the smallest little thing can change your whole life. Christmas will be right around the corner.

If you're gonna go spend a whole bunch of money buying Bulgaria and stupidless and for your kids that later on is just gonna be rolling around the house, why not invested in their future and teach them for you. For Christmas, I am going to give you your own business and this is what you're gonna do, and this is how we're gonna do it. Like that really is impactful. Especially when you're getting that child tax credit. You should really be investing in your children. Because it's called child

tax cut. It should I say that one more time, child tax credit, you should be helping your children or really using that for school, for education, making them and also I'm out of as small as making them feel good when they go to school, dressing them up, making them confident, confidences, you know, working on their self esteem at such a young age is so important. Every night before my daughter goes to bed, I'm like, this is

what we're wearing. Let's go into your closet. We're gonna style you up and you're gonna walk in there with all this confidence. But you gotta build your child confidence investing your children. Okay, you get a child tax credit and you're looking good and your kid is with some beat up. Jordan's like, make sure that your kid is looking representable and looking ready to be successful. I agree. And also, um, before we we go, because you know,

unfortunately we're about to wrap it up. And I love these topics because I'm really passionate about it because I feel like if we've had we had more of these conversations, if I if I could inspire more women, um to to be successful, to be fearless, to go ask for help, to start your business, to educate. If I could do that and I can change one person's life, I feel like I did my job, like I did what I was supposed to do. So definitely, I feel like there's

so much help out there. Don't be afraid to start whatever business adventure. Be a boss bitch. Stop talking about being a boss bitch, and let me tell you something. There's levels to this ship. Just some women to feel that being a boss is having a broken bag, Which, go ahead, show you could do that and there's other women to feel like. Being a boss is having her own business. Being a boss is being independent. Being a boss is having generation of well. Being a boss is

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