Trust, Relationships and Cell Phones

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So then one of the things that people were talking about is trust and relationships. When there is a cell phone involved, automatically it takes over me. Yes, you see, but I mean that Today is all about trust. Okay, today is all about trust relationships and um and building it, Like how do you build a relationship without trust? You know, the ability to give each other enough breathing room so that we can each do our own thing and have

our privacy. But when you talk about privacy, right, privacy extends to what like how much is privacy when you're in a relationship. And that's something that I really want to discuss because I feel like, you know, it's one we I think that because we have a lot of options. We have social media, we have you know, all these

dating apps, we have all these other things. You know, I think that it can make your relationship at some point a little bit you know, fringe when you have access to somebody's phone, right, if they're your significant other, do you have access to the phone for convenience? Like but the hand blow? Probably and it's nothing if you have that much trust in each other? Right, is it cool they have access to your phone for convenience? Like me, not just to make a call or to like look

something up. I want to take a picture, I want to take a video, or do you like never give your phone to your significant other? So the nome why because like there's certain things. I mean, why are you in my phone? First of all, it comes from when my phone, That's what I'm saying, and my phone and my phone dies, I should be able to ask my book. Probably give me your phone, don't. I didn't make this call, and I shouldn't feel suspicious. What are you wanting for?

Oh no, let me make what number? Just give me the number and now call. Give me the number and I'll call. I got fingers, I can die the way. That's like a red flat. Oh my goodness to me, I feel like, stay up out of my phone, Stay up out of my phone. I mean, I mean, if you if your phone is dead in the battery diet, that's understandable. But then you and I are together in a stable relationship. Actually didn't find anything even if I look.

And I do understand how sometimes the smallest little things can can and you may have not done it with bad intention, but it can come off wrong. You know what I'm saying. But here's something else. I believe that there's a possibility that if you share your past code with your significant other, it can actually lead into a healthier relationship. If you're asking for it, then you're asking for it, right, all right? But what is your reasoning?

What is your reason? If you die? I want to I want to know if you die, I want to know where you were at. I want to know where your last message was. For your safety, I want to protect you, including your phone. So just in case something happens to you. You always convincing me if something happens to you, who's gonna save you me? So, hey, you need to share me your pastor. But willing to willing to have the pastor prevents you from prevents you from

also having to look through it. Don't you think like I also feel it when things are come okay hidden, that provokes you to want to look and search. But when you know, because you know how humans are, when when they tell you you can't have something, that's when you wanted the most. But if you already have like access to it, then you just don't care anymore. That's how I feel, man, I want to look at it, So I don't know. How do you feel about that? Do you think that honestly prevents and it help a

little bit? Like if you just have the code already and you already know you have access to it. Then you're probably not gonna look. But just to know that you can't have it makes you want to have it even more. You know me, in my lifestyle, I don't care what she does, who she does, like honestly, like that's just me. I'm just a different type of being, you know what I'm saying. So I've heard I've heard guess yo, that there's been relationships as in order to

have peace. They're like, okay, how about this. You cheated, I cheated. We still want to be together. We want to make this right. We want to protect what we have, So let's share each other's privacy. That means I give you complete access to my life, which is my phone. You give me complete access to yours. And like that,

we don't have to feel insecure because its cosa. And let's be honest, after you've already been cheated on, Automatically, your significant other can be on his phone texting his mother. You already automatically think he's texting a bit. If you take your phone to the bathroom and he's said seeing a bit, if you go, you're talking. So if you can have access to it and look at it if you want to, we're gonna get Maybe I can also be come Oka a little bit healthier. Come. Okay, you

know what once in a while, what you were doing. Okay, you're not really doing anything. Yes, come, eventually you stop looking me and that Stevie at the end of the day or in the beginning of the day. You need to give your significant your significant O. There's some space and privacy, but okay, privacy with me, it needs to

be manageable. So I feel like, yes, it is healthy for I feel it's healthy for us to be able to use each other's phones without having to feel like, oh, you can look into my phone, I can pass through my phone, and if you say you're gonna take a picture, I should trust you're gonna take a picture. I shouldn't feel like I'm gonna give you my phone and the next thing I know, you're all up in my text messages,

my WhatsApp, my d MS. That's too much. Right. Knowing that my mother was talking about you and ship and likes another issue, because you know, this is where your parents come in and they embox you and talk ship and then like you try to choose your battles. So like if they said, why did she cook for you today, or did she clean for you today? Or did she do this? Yeah, those are private conversations. Did I just confess my significant of this name? I don't know what

I mean that those are private conversations better. But at the end of the day, it really comes down to trust. You have to be with someone that you trust. You should be able to trust your significant other no matter what, like I mean, if not, the why are you with them?

If you feel that that, let me tell you. We have that gut intuition sea and you have a dream, you feel that your your boyfriend, your husband or whatever it is cheating or he's out here in the streets, or you can't trust him, and why are you with In the same it goes for the field and you stressed out? He had a little who you who? You text? You're looking at every like, at every message, who DM do who? I'm not really that's too stressed when nobody

get time for that, right? Why are you stressed? You're stressing them him out, You're stressing yourself out, and then you're stressing me out because she or he wants to really be with me, not with you. Streuss up bettermay saying I'm not gonna be going from I'm gonna I'm gonna confess something. I'm I'm gonna confess something. I don't mean, I can't believe. I don't don't don't. Okay, I'm about

to confess them. So here goes my confession. So my little booth thing or whatever you I'm saying, because I have a little thing. So I have a GP you do, Oh shut up, Yes, you got a GPS GPS cart. I went over there and I got a tile. Ladies, pay attention to me. Oh my god, that's terrible because I'm I have toxic behavior and you really shouldn't listen to me because that's super unhealthy. But a bit's fun that listen to me. You you can't trust these men

out here in these streets. And if that's your man and he belongs to you because he got all up in your body and you love him, I'm gonna make sure for your safety. That's how I feel. I feel like I am doing it for your own protection. But I went and I got a tile. And the tiles are these little things you can google. Let me huh, these little things like this, get whatever you put it in your in your key chain or there's one that's like a little tablet that you can put in your

wallet just in case they steal your wallet. You can track it on your phone. Mama, there's so many ways. And don't say I got in his car. And don't say I dropped it right where the break is. I dropped the towel in there. And then from my phone, I can see where you're going. So whenever you told me, oh, I'm home the second goal side, you know, at twe o'clock at night and I see that tile driving all of around the city, I got you. I'm gonna pull up.

I'm gonna pull up. Now. That's very toxic. Please do not do this. I feel like me that once once you me the time you have a tracking device, me that once you stick it to me, your privacy is over. Trupet cat okay, and you got a piece of me, your privacy, it's our privacy. Who's calling us? You're in me? Who just text us I wants to nap bottle? Is that terrible? Yo? Let me tell you, I'm you know what.

I'm just happy that you're confessing and you're being real because let me tell you that a lot of women will not confess this. But now I know why my significant other be like you wasn't hard for you was in New York, it was in Miami. He wasn't for a lad that you were supposed to be recording out of manas and where you are? Yeah, Steve, what are you on today? Bro? What are you on me? You?

And that's why I'm saying, Look if the person, if the person says I love you and it mean and they mean it, then that should be enough proof of how they feel about you. Do mon, though, everybody's been heartbroken and once they break your ache breaking heart, once they break your heart, you start to create these like um insecurities and you start to become untrustworthy, like you just don't trust people, and all these little things affect

your relationships. I really do believe it. Like, right, if somebody was unfaithful with you in the past and you come and you carry that ship to your new relationship, like, oh, I need to have your past cast because the last person I was with cheated on me. That I want to make sure that you don't do the same thing. I think that all these traumas that we don't get to heal from, that's the reason why you know you have crazy you know, toxic women like myself. Oh my god,

I can't believe I just said that out loud. When a woman usually asked, it means that we already know did something. No, ladies glon, No, my god, they see at the mina, let me see your phone. That means we already know. We already No, we just want to see it with our eyes. But we already know. Women don't just come and attack for no reason. When we say something is already because we have all the proof of all the text. I already know who you're talking to,

already know where she lives, already know everything. And don't say that's why I want to know. Give me your past code saying I'm gonna figure out how to get it, face recognition, your fingers, something the moment you're leaking for. Oh my god, tell me if you've never done this, Just tell me if I'm dealing one that has problems.

Have you ever been with your significant other and you think you were just being thin, slick, and from the corner of your eye you were paying attention to what fingers they pressed on their on the phone to learn the code? Have ever done that? You are like I have if I'm with if I'm with my man or whatever, and then I see him go up down down, up three two. I may only see the two last numbers, but I saw the motion you went up down, down.

That means it's probably eight or zero, right. And then oh my god, I get problems and then I literally be like this trying to figure it out. Then you don't want to block the phone, so you gotta leave alone. Yeah, but you know there's some there's some man that would tell women, oh, let me get your pass cold, but then they won't give their pass cold. But let me

tell you something. I know that we have so much to discuss right now, because this definitely is interesting, And you know what, I think it makes me feel good to just vent. I just want to vent and be honest and tell you the tea about myself, things that I never thought that I would say alloud. But I want to live a judgment free life. I want to this is a judgment free zone, exactly what man has

just been free. And if you're toxic, if you're crazy, if you be straight at b I spying on your man, whatever the case would be, what you probably shouldn't do because that's super unhealthy. But I can't tell you not to do it because I'm the first one that does it, and I'm gonna teach you how to do it too, But please don't listen to me because you're not supposed

to do it. Then stay in to him because we will be right back with more of exactly a mada earlier, we're talking about privacy, like how much privacy is privacy when you're in a relationship. Aren't you supposed to trust on your significant other? And tones if you're talking about sharing each other's past code, is that good or is that bad? Like is that a bad thing that you're all up in your man's or your girl's phone? Or it's cool because if you're together, you have nothing to

hide them. We should be fine. And then I also confess the fact that I have a GPS in my booze car. You got me all the way funked up like that dangling belongs to me, and I want to know where you act for your own protection, so I'm make sure to slade up a GPS in his car and I'll be watching it from my phone. Period. I cannot believe this is why you should not give me your past code if you are in a relationship with Okay, this is why I'm gonna break it down to you.

There is a lot of people that have me blocked on social media, but they don't have my significant other blocked, right, So I am going to if you piss me the hell off, I'm gonna grab your my significant other's phone and I'm gonna go under their comments if I see something that I don't like, Like if you're trying to throw a sub at me and you thought that I can't grab my significant other's phone and just reply under her phone, So it's gonna be that's no. But that's

that's that's just you being you know that has nothing to do with your significant other. She don't care what you do with her phone because you know you're gonna be spieful with somebody else. But it's what you do. Will you be mad if you're grabbed your phone? No, if my man grabs my phone to be spiful with someone else. Now, if you're being spieful towards me and don't say see and talking about privacy, you know something that happens a lot to these days, which has happened

to me. Um, you know even with with you know my boothing the location, they're always asking for location, location, I want to see where you're at. Is that a bad thing? Should you? Okay? Is that as bad? What do you rather to give your pass code or share your location location because you're far away and let them pull up and let them put up. And especially if my location is miles and miles away because I'm on a flight that happens a live They're like, give me

a location. I want to know where you're at. And some people do pull up. I will be the type of girl to pull up, like give me your location. Now do you give them like your hole like find me um on your phone location? Or you just do like a what's happening? It's like literally from one hour eight hours. Yeah, I need to know. I need to problem you are. Honestly, I have worked. I would have made a lot of money in Nina. There's more, there's more. I got more, Mina. Here's another thing. Did you know

talking about privacy and your significant other? Inky, you never really know somebody you could be dating them forever. Read that and then you never already know. Okay, they're trashed deep down and step Okay they still want to be with you and with you, but they want to have options.

That's why these days there's a whole bunch of apps that they come okay there, like the bologny fake apps that look like, oh he's playing bingo, but deep down inside when you go and click, there's like a whole bunch of folders with like naughty pictures and private conversations and all types stuff. Did you know that Nina secret? You can hide it, commide it with these apps like oh like that, and you have to communicate. That's where communication is key. Let's communicate. Tell me what you like,

tell me what you don't like. This you won't have to feel the need to hide aoda. They say that there's nothing better than um, there's no better pussy than new pussy, or the same thing. There's nothing better than new thingling that Okay, I get it. You may still love your significant other because just because they might be, you know, cheating or doing something weird. I don't feel that it means that they don't love you. It just means maybe they get bored of eating rice every day,

So damn that's fucked up. So then how does that happen? Look, we're going off topic, But in my mind, I'm just thinking, how do those sixty years, so Spanish of you, those sixty year relationships, how did they survive? They survived with no phones, with no dating apps, with no social media, and they were taking the sixty years with the same thought on the same dingling every single day. Wow, I don't know if I can do it. It's so much easier to cheat nowadays. Back you have so much access,

especially through phones. So if you're trying to keep your other significant other accountable and you're saying, let's get let's have each other's past cold, then I'm for that, you know, if you're if you're significant others a sex attic, you know, and you know and you're trying to help them out and then you realize, hey, I was once there then that you know, like you want to be all up

in my phone all that. It's just there's some women that men that are very psycho and like they're gonna want to like always be in your phone, and it's like going, you nothing. The only privacy that I have is when I go into the toilet, take a ship and look at my phone. That's the only privacy I have.

And it depends because even if you're in the toilet, no, no, And it depends because even if you're in your toilet, in the toilet, I'll sit down right there next to you and I'm gonna have a whole conversation if I love you. Yeah, you have done it. Now. Let me tell you this. If you're in the bathroom, I don't have a problem with you being in the bathroom. My thing is why in the bathroom so long? You don't

have to push that hard? And if you need assistance pushing, let me help you because because okay, or if you want to push it. Look, if it's been thirty minutes, that being sometimes you know you'll be getting caught up. And I get it because I'd be caught up in my phone forty minutes. But if you're in their own ality, peagle, stuck in your phone, get that. You gotta push out. You're texting, you're talking to another bitch. I'm about to turn off your damn froot. Look all this period, See

I know better. Talking about privacy, you want to get even deeper into privacy and social media and phones and everything. What about the phones? What about all these apps? Snapchat? Snapchat to me? Was the one that first started with the sneaky Sneaky snake. If oh, you can record videos, delete, you can write messages and those Now they have like these private things with the private cameras. Can you have to press a code? You know, take a cheeter cheeter

punkin eater. It makes me feel gay? What are you doing? I'm about to delete my my snapchat because I don't be doing freaky stuff like that, because it would inform you when somebody took you were able to snap at and then they would inform you screenshot right, and then they would inform you that the other person was shot. That was good gowhere. Actually that's a lie. That's a lie because like I've done it. Oh my god, I know that I got problems because you'll say you don't

have toxic professional you're not me too. I'm toxic and that's not good. And I know that I need the Lord, I need a therapist because I know that I got problems because let me tell you something. I would be the one to be like mommy. I'll tell you my mommy being you haven't and from my phone, I'll literally

think or record the that's me. So y'all all be here in these streets, thinking they cant oh it's there, China, and then deleted and nobody's side maint You never know who's watching, who took a picture, who nothing, So be careful, ladies. You'll be thinking that you're showing your goo out here in these streets and don't know that your doos already recorded every spoon and has already passed down through the

group WhatsApp boy. And you're absolutely right, because people swear that just because you delete it where you think it goes, they think that just because where do you think that thing goes? When you're single, you're single. That gives you the rights to live your life the way that you want, go around around, be liberal, do all the things that you want. But once you get into a relationship, you have to learn how to be respectful of the other person.

If and that includes yes, I understand their privacy. Their privacy is super important. You should respect that unless you want to start a GPS in their car. Let me know, set up to know where you can buy it better anyway, Look, but you should respect the respect of privacy unless they don't know, unless they don't know that you're spying on them, then you don't have to respect it. They don't have

to know, but honestly, you should respect their space. Okay, and I think that he look honestly, all these things are fun, but having trust in your partner is important. It can become overwhelming, It could become dramatic, it can become stressful, it can become a lot of things to have to be consistently paying attention to somebody else. If somebody wants to be with you, they're gonna be with you regardless. And if someone wants to cheat, they're gonna

cheat on you regardless. There's nothing, honestly, you can do. I understand how sometimes you know, you feel the need like, Okay, maybe if I just have access to their phone, I'll be able to feel more at peace with my insecurities based on the things that you've created in my mind

or based on the experiences I've had. But at the same time, they could be having these little apps that you don't know where you know, that information can be hiding, Like they have the double calculators in their phones, and one calculator literally opens to something else where. There's like a whole bunch of private hidden folders, like you never really know so it's like Loca is going to be

for you no matter what, live your best life. And if he has that good thing liing, but you better start his as and make sure no bitch takes him and put that GPS. I don't give a get his password, get everything. But if you're looking that much but relaxed, met huh, don't stress. There's more. Listen, that was awesome. Make sure you're going to exactly have Mada's Instagram. If you agree with everything that I say, we'll be right back and we are back with some more of exactly

Mada and girl. It is all about communication without communication why nada? And that's true. It's gonna because listen, I would rather you tell me than the whole world no before me, because I would be really mad at what I'm referencing is if you cheat it on me, if you out there sneaking, if you're out there going to everybody else's house, not everybody in the world, no except

for me, I'm gonna be really upset. You know, at least tell me first, because like, how would you think there's sometimes but sometimes sometimes yeah no, but sometimes our own personal insecurities. And I'm telling you from personal experiences make you feel that you're significant of the maybe doing something when they're really not. I personally have been accused of cheating, of talking to other people, of doing this and doing that, and I really haven't. I'm so caught

up working and busy. I have exactly I'm gonna have TV shows that have real estate. I have so much things going on. And your own personal insecurities can also be damaging to your relationship, and that that damaging part like me being talked to, which is something that I need to work on um And I know that I make fun of it and I laugh it off, but a lot of us make fun of it and we laugh like it's nothing, But we really have a out of healing to do, and that comes from traumas from

our past relationships. So I think that being healing to me is the number one thing I guess. I not whatever you went through, whoever treated on you, whoever mistreated you, whoever made you feel that you weren't worthy of all those things you need to heal from. And then obviously after that, to me is communication being able to communicate

with your significant other in every aspect. Look, bab, I don't know for what reason I'm feeling like you might be doing something and you might not, but I feel this way. And if I feel this way is because I see you acting this way this way, or you're not doing this and this and just being able to sit down as an adult and have a clear communication is so important. So I definitely agree with that, and

if not, you'll end up like j Loo. Like jay Loo did with a Rod, she had a whole itinerary of things that he had to do in order for them to stay together. Like I need to have you know all my security with you. You need to be you know, in your hotel at ten o'clock at night. You can't have this, you can't do that. I need to uh, you know your location at all times. I need to be able to check your phone. I need to fato me. But what there's a lot of dangling out here in this world. You don't have to be

stressed out like this. So that's why communication is so important. Communication is very important as well as Kevin Hart, like, do you think that his wife significant other knew about the sex tape? No? I mean or did she or did she not? But imagine she didn't. I would rather tell tell my significant other so that I wouldn't make her out to look crazy, you know, to the world. And you know, we forgive, you know, people, and we're very forgiving and not trying to attack Kevin Hart. But

I'm saying, you're out there, you're a public figure. We use you as an example to help the next person. Okay, So now his wife doesn't know, right, and now everybody's seeing it. She finds out on TV. Oh my god, that's heartbreaking. How would you feel? How would you feel as a woman a man? I mean, that's why. That's why these phones are so good, but they can be so damaging to relationships. That's why if you pay attention. These days, we have less people getting married. Everybody wants

to be liberal and free or whatever. Um, we have

less women, less you know, relationships having children. We have way less children back in the days because of all these issues that build up with time, and social media has a big part to play with it, and your phones have a big part to play with it, because now you become so consumed in your phone that you forget even even when you're at dinner, even when you're with your significant other, you spend pay attention to how many times you grab your phone and you're on your

phone when you're with your girlfriend, boyfriend, wife, husband, whatever, instead of catering time to them and paying attention to them and living in the present. That's why if you don't have an open communication in a relationship, that can definitely hinder the ability of you know, being able to have trust in your significant other to on Instagram on this, and that can significant Let me put my phone down, let me be present, let me be here at this

moment with you and be with you. So those little details can cause relationships to honestly like fall apart. I have a question for you. I have a really really good question for you. You communicate all aspects of your life which a significant other, and when I asked, I'm specifically, I specifically want to know because a lot of women and men in relationships, especially when they're married, right, they

have joint accounts. Do you always feel the need that your significant other has to let you no wonder, especially they're spending your money, Like especially if you have more money in that account than them and they don't tell you that they spent that money. Even with money, do you feel that that significant other of yours should communicate that with you what they're spending, or it's okay for them to go drop some money at go to your drop some money at what you think. No, I think that.

First of all, I've never had a joint account with anybody ever in life besides my mother, and I figured out that didn't work either, because she felt like I gave birth to you, so I have the rights to all your money, and that didn't make no sense. I've never I've never done it significant other. I've never done it with a spouse, bet Andando. If the money is is both of us, Like you put in fifty dollars, I put in fifty dollars. If you want to spend seventy five, that means you took some of the ones

that I put in there. You need to communicate with me. Now. If you're just gonna pull out your fifty, I don't care. You still need to communicate with me because the most important part is that your money is my money and my money is my money. So I didn't know what the hell is going home? No, No, okay, let me

start walking around now. I think that any decision made with finances, we both should be able to sit down and have a clear conversation and a clear understanding of what we're planning on doing with this money because we're doing it together. You can have your your own independent accounts, but the money that goes into other for us as a couple, as a union, than yes, we need to discuss every single aspect every single daughter coming out, We're

not doing that. If not. The communication is important in every single aspect of it, not just from as far as their privacy um sexually. You want to be able to have communication if you have any concerns, any insecurities and what you need to want, you have to have communications. For finances, you need to have communications. I think communication is the most important thing when you're with someone else.

Sometimes we expect someone else to understand and know where we're coming from and how we feel, and why we feel insecure, and why we feel uncomfortable, and why we want to have your password to your phone and why I want to be in your Instagram. Sometimes you expect the other person to automatically know, and we have to

understand that they're not in your brain. If you don't communicate how you're feeling, if you don't communicate about your insecurities, if you don't want to communicate what you're doing that's making me feel this certain way, with making me react a certain type of way. We're never gonna grow, We're never gonna become better, We're always gonna be stuck in this like toxic real relationship that I have to be like, who are you with? Where is your phone? SIMI, your location?

What are you doing? That's that's super unhealthy. And that's why I feel that if you, if you can learn how to communicate without being disrespectful, without being rude, without being loud, without not listening, because that's the biggest issues that we have in a lot of time as women and men that I'm being I don't know how to listen. Drink a glass of wine, take some time and let me listen to how you feel. What is wrong? Talk

to me? What did I do? Sometimes you could do ship that's wrong and you don't even notice, and you'll be feeling like I didn't do nothing wrong and you don't know that this month, little thing that you may have said, you may have done, may have caused this person to feel a certain type of way, and that creates a domino effect. So that's why Yes, Bama said that, No, lad mena like this, like this, like this. You made me feel comfortable because of this, and it doesn't have

to become an argument. It's okay for us to have different perspectives in life. It's okay for us to disagree and agree on a lot of things. It's okay. But communication is the key to having a successful relationship. And I'm only saying that because I've been there, done that. Um, I've seen it in other long you know, long relationships that they've said me, now, so you didn't get that to survive. So all I'm saying is just learn how to listen, learn how to talk to learn how to

express your feelings. You feel me staving yes. Does the past code problem extend to social media platforms as well? That's the last thing I want to actually, so not just your cell phone passwork. Does that extend to Facebook, Instagram and all your social media platforms. If I really love you and I feel that you're the love of my life and I want to, you know, commit to you, and I and I feel like you know what, I'm done. I don't want to be jumping around, redating, trying to

figure out things, and I don't want to do this anymore. Yea. I want to find that love of my life. I want to go through the good and bad with you. I want to do everything with you, and if that means in order for that to happen, then I need to give you access to everything that I have, I will with one condition. My condition would be, from the moment I give you, don't judge me for anything that

you see in my phone before. Okay, From the moment I give you access to my phone moving forward, judge me from that, and I promised to be as respectful as possible. I will never do anything to make you feel uncomfortable. From the moment I give you my password, not from like, not from like the day before. Because I might have been flirting a little bit with somebody else's set up my dam but that doesn't mean I like them. It just means that was flirting so and

I know that wasn't okay. Battle. I think that's the best way to go about it. I would do it,

you know. I think that if it's hard to find someone that you love, someone that you care about, and if social media or whatever your phone is going to be in the middle of that, I think that there's more important things in life than you're freaking social media and your phone's you know what, I'm abuta thank you for being so real and just being you and just being exactly I'm outa thank you because that was that's very helpful. I'm happy that you use your experiences and

your testimony to help someone else out. Thank you so much. I love this, I know, thank you. It was. It was a little harder to be a little real when it came to you know, pass cold and stuff like that, because it is ultimately hard to give up a trust, especially if we've been through stuff in life. But you know what, thank you so much and thank just thank you, and this is officially a rap. Thank you guys, Thank

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