New Year's Resolutions and Predictions

so many things. And I finally made it to two. Not me, all of us made it to twenty two. I always say, no matter how bad things are me hint Tamobibo Tamo hockey, things could have been so much worse. And there's so many people going through so many terrible things. Battle we survived them. We're here. And guess who else survived Stevie Noon, Stevie Noon, tam ultra survivor. I cannot believe it. I thought we were never the way the

world was looking. And look at that boy. Don't mean because Mina last year I got influenza, I had the covid out have a little bit of griep it you hear it, But guess why I'm still here. No, look now New Years Yogo, sit down, he said. I did so much. I partied so hard. I was just so happy and so excited because I'm just excited to see whatever, you know, everything that God has waiting for me this New Year. It will be. Look and I was screaming me, yes,

be careful out there. But anyways, it was yeah, for sure. But I'll tell you this much this year I don't know. But it's really about resolutions and just predicting your future and truly believing in the law of attraction and attracting the good into your life and just I I don't want to sound corny because every year everybody has New Year's resolutions, and you know, we're like I'm gonna do this and I'm gonna do that that you don't end up doing none of the ship New Year, ye like

a new Year. Knew me shut the hell up while studying the year. Yeah, like less than halfway through, like a month later, nobody's following through with any other things that they said. So stabe, let me tell you about me. One I definitely want to be the best mother that I can be because this is gonna be this year is so important to me. It's with two babies, Okay, so definitely I'm gonna be a mother this year. So definitely it's a new stage in my life. So I'm

definitely looking forward to that. I'm looking forward to learning how to. I think that I do pretty well administrating my money, but I want to I want to get more money. I want more money. Who doesn't. Everybody wants more money, but I'm willing to work for it. So I definitely want to find more, uh, presidual income. I want to find more more you know, sources of income. That's like super important to me. Definitely looking forward to that.

Moving towards UM still my personal life, but I definitely UM want to create more memories. I think that sometimes we're so busy working and so busy looking for the next big thing to do. Okay, you don't, You're not president. It's important to be president in your life. I want to be president. I want to create more memories. I want to enjoy more of my life. Everything can be just work, work, work, work. Definitely take more trips to

the Dominican Republic, continue to do investments. At least one property investment a year definitely remains one of my goals because you already know I'm big into generational wealth and I definitely want to be able to give my kids some inheritance. So definitely one property, whether it's one apartment, one house, one farm, when acre, when whatever, Definitely keep that. And then as far as my career is concerned, I definitely want to continue to grow this podcast because it

means so much to me. Exactly a Mata started off not too long ago. It was like my little baby, what could I see to look how much we've evolved, So definitely want to continue growing Exactly a Mata my TV show, don't cancel me on fuse. I want to be a really good, well known uh TV host and I'm not gonna lie. I missed doing music so much. I miss being in the studio. So this year, I don't know if I'm gonna be doing a lot of

shows because why not. Shoot, I can still have a little baby weight and still be a bad bite battle. I definitely want to see myself being in the studio more often, doing more music besides everything else that God has um on his way for me. So my new Year's resolution so much like I have a lot of ship to write down, a lot of things to organize. You know, I need to love me more. I need to I need to do a lot of things. I want to continue to you know, keep going therapy, thin

watch on that. But what about you, Stevie? Wait? I want to ask you a question because I want to get into your two real quick. Um, is there gonna be loving hip hop Miami again this? Or what what is it looking like? Could we do something? Can news? Or what? Well? I mean, I've been hit up for several different TV shows, so this year you'll definitely see me on several different TV shows and in different networks. So like, you know what, you can't put all your

exit one basket? Do you have to? And M and l A. I like I always saying, ever put any limits to my to my art and what I'm capable of doing. I want to try and experiment as much as they cancel that best see maybe yes, maybe not? Just stay tuned. What about you, Stevie? What's happening with you? What are your New Year's resolution? I mean, definitely thank you so much for joining our first episode of two. What are your New Year's resolutions? What are you looking

forward to, what are your plans? What do you want to get rid of? What do you want to continue doing? Oh my god, well, first of all, as an honored to be on the very first episode exactly about this is like a great way to kick off twenty twenty two, ladies and gentlemen. I am so happy. Now. There is a lot of things I want to accomplish this year, like more traveling, more than little three. Yes, but I do want to get lose like thirty five pounds because

this quarantine fitteen got to many times three. Now everybody's stays New Year's like, I'm gonna go to the gym. I need you to say, I've been paying a gym membership like the past year. And I even forgot that I had that to the other day's on my bank account, that they keep taking the money out. Oh my god, I having been there's the one types of gym fees. Let me tell you there's all types of GM fees. Now everybody wants to lose weight. How much fun do

you want to lose? I want to lose about party five. But if cho I see I work out a lot with my wrist. My wrist be working out, risk the mouth, risk the mouth, let me tell you. And it is so hard because you know, everybody wants to go to the gym on Monday and lose. Everybody going to the gym on Monday. That was like me all this year. The resolution is to start. But like I was like me, hello Jim, step one in my pact around this time because everybody trying to get that body right and tight

for the year. You know, you know Dr Miami wasn't trying to do my body. You know, Oh my god, you're so silly. But goes he can come to dr remembering get sucked thing, stuck down and tucked in. Thought, Oh my god, girl, that's a resolution of mine too, Like I want to go to DR. Actually, what you because I went to d R and I went to Putakana, and I you know, I need to start like going

and visiting like the inner cities of Dominican Republic. I don't want to be like bougie because you know a lot of us we come from the States and we go and we go. But that's why though, like when I'll tell you this much, I've been a person that has traveled a lot. If you're gonna travel, one of the most important things is being able to really experience

the culture, experience the country itself while you're there. So if you're gonna go wherever it is that you may be going, even if you're going to valley, whatever, if you're going to a bougie spot, or just whatever the case may be, don't just go to the resort. Don't just be stuck in the hotel. Go out there and eat with the people, really eat, go out there and really live their lifestyle. That's the only way you really get to travel and and enjoy and know that you

were there because party sort. There's resource resources and hotels everywhere right absolutely, and the resort gives me Like if you live like in a state like we do in Florida, there's so many resorts and so many beautiful places that look like those resorts. So for me, it's important to get I want to get to something Amingo, I want to get to body, I want to get to So

definitely traveling is is on your bucket list. I see I want to go see my Maggie, don't see, Okay, thinking like glory, I want to go see them in is it you want to lose thirty five pounds, you want to travel more games, and the other thing that I really want to do, I want to have another baby. No, I don't real no. I mean we've thought about it, but I don't know that's easy. I know, boom boom boom. But you know that all I don't know for sure. Don't quote me on it. It's been a little thought.

It's been a little thought. But you know, really I want to start producing, like in the industry level. I want to start producing UM. I feel like there needs to be more latinex representation and within you know, movies and just shows in general a matter. Maybe we could link up and do a really dope like UM series or something that we could produce something really dope. I think that would be great. You know what, don't put any limits to yourself if you think that you have

something within ecomole hole. Dezel Washington in a motivational speech, I I heard um don't ever die with you know, with any of those ideas inside. The biggest millionaires and the biggest ideas are in the graveyard. People die and they're like, I was going to do this. I was gonna do this and then you never do it. If you feel something in your spirit and your gut, just go ahead and freaking do that. So definitely, I'm I'm definitely down for that, Polcuano. But I'll tell you this much.

One of the biggest issues that happened overall is that we don't end up actually staying on track when we come up with all these resolutions and all these ideas and all these concepts. So what do you think are some of the best ways of staying on track with you know, your progress and your New Year's resolutions. I think you gotta track your progress right from the beginning

of the year. Write it down visually so that you can see it every day, put it on your refrigerator so that you can look back or every morning see what you're looking. You're lying as you don't put a thing that can your refrigerator. Like I'm in kindergarten, they caa rigon in your wall out It would be nice, but realistically do we do it? No? I have a little I have a little sketch thing that I did

this year. It was a little sketch thing, and you know that's Bible, you know, write the vision make it plain, like you really have to write your vision so that it is visual media. Because how about a vision board. I remember when I was in college. When I was in college, one of our assignments, um right when the Law of Attraction the Secret came out, they made a zoo vision boards. And I don't know where the hell that vision board is. I wish it I had it. I know that I have made half of the ship

that I put in there. But I think it's important. I think it's such a great activity. It sounds so corny, but if you're at home or you have like your boyfriend, you know, you guys are in that I'm in love stage. Well, I'm sure that he'll do it with you, or your mom or dad, your family, kids, whatever. Get a couple of vistas, a couple of magazines anywhere or whatever the case.

Maybe or buy some go to like you know, walker, inspire yourself one of those neon cardboards or a white one, whichever, when you feel attracted to and created, like today is gonna be Sunday project. Sunday project. We're all gonna sit here and we're gonna cut out these pictures because it doesn't have to be anything specific, but cut out pictures of things that motivate you, inspire you, things that you would like to achieve. Or you can even cut out

the words letters, individual words. Um, whether as you want to go to college, whether it is you want to buy a house, cut out a house of something that the house that you would like to live on. Nothing like I said exact, I mean but similar. Um, if you want to have more kids, but then just cut out a picture of a family that has children and

they're happy. Just do a vision board of what you would like to accomplish two and watch and look at it as much as possible, and at the end of the year, look and see how many of those things that you actually accomplished. Now it's not just about cutting them out, it is about putting in the WORKUS hope that goes like a but it's like you'll get away

the idea of the NADA. So that's definitely one way of keeping on track of your goals and your resolutions and the things that you want to you know, accomplish. I would also say by a notebook, I'm I'm such a fan of writing. A lot of people like the you know, like the technology or computer or digital ship. But personally I like to write things. I like to scratch things out and all those things I love to erase.

You know, people don't use pencils anymore, but UM, being able to write things down every chance you have, you know, right, the things that you want to accomplish, and not just what you want to accomplish this year, because you should definitely do that. Meda goals for two right down. I want to do this, this, this, this, this, this, this

boom right now, let's go into January. January, here are the three or four goals I want to accomplish this month, because then sometimes we look at the big picture and it becomes so big and so wild that we forget that everything in life is one step at it's time. Local like, you need to accomplish these small goals in order to accomplish this. So this month, my goal is to accomplish one to three four. Now, let's go into

week by week of January. This week, my goal is to accomplish one to three You know what I'm saying. Then I got a little baby steps. See the full picture, but also see baby steps. Um, and some people believe in rewarding yourself. Do you believe in that. Yeah, you have to reward yourself, like you know, little steps, you know, like you said, monthly, reward yourself every month like with

what what what's your rewarding? Okay, So for instance, um, if you are like dieting, like if you're you know, really about your figure and really working out, you know, maybe each month, go go on a day, go on a food day, have a cheap day. You know, I feel like a cheap day is very rewarding. It is very rewarding. Days are very rewarding. So go on a cheat you know day, and and really reward yourself for the accomplishments. Because guess what if you don't celebrate you,

who and the hell is going to celebrate you? So make sure that you are rewarding yourself because you have to have something to look forward to and you need like some motivation. Uh you know, you know, you know, it's a good way that I like to reward myself and I would like to I've done it before, and otherwise I think can I do it all the time? But I would like to get back into it. A nice reward besides eating, it's also to just have some time for yourself. I'm gonna reward myself by going to

the beach. I live in Miami and we have the beach literally a La Kina. But because you know, we have so much access to it, sometimes we don't appreciate it. But just taking off some time for yourself, whether it is going to the beach or whether it is going to your favorite spot. Because I did good and I was focused, I was determined in this week because it's a weekly thing. Don't not like you know you're in

Ni Schmidt, it's a weekly thing. This week. I want to reward myself on Saturday, on Sunday, whatever, even it seems like it's like a lot of work, but it's really not. I'm gonna I'm gonna dedicate one or two hours to myself and be here and be present and love what I'm doing right now. Even if you're just sitting in the beach, walking in the beach or whatever, or if you want to go to park, whatever turns you on. Sometimes being by yourself can be the biggest

gift that you can give yourself. Sometimes you just need to be away and still remind yourself that you're an individual person. So that can be a great a great game time. Some me time. Girls, Yeah, for sure. And you know what, in the meantime, I love to pray. I love to pray. I like I like to talk to myself. I answer myself sometimes because you're so busy listening to everybody else. You're caught up in work, you're caught up in bills, you're caught up in the kids.

You're trying to be a good husband and good wife, good Sometimes you just need to like to talk to yourself. A girl, By the way, you're doing really good and I'm so proud of you. I really am. I love what you're doing. You're looking great. Um you can do better. Though, you can do better. I know, I know within you that you have more to give. But you're doing good so far. Babies, It's like, sometimes you need to hype yourself up and motivate yourself and talk to yourself at all.

Don't forget to pamper yourself in the process of hitting all your New Year's resolutions. Don't go so hard that you wear yourself out, Like whether it's a massage. You know what, I did really good this week. I'm gonna go get a pedicure, a manicure. I'm gonna get a massage, I'm gonna get a body. Just do something that makes you feel good because that keeps you motivated to continue.

And here's something else. They say that you shouldn't beat yourself up when it comes to like achieving your goals. I I am a big believer in beat your ass up, be upset with yourself, be angry with yourself, especially if you know that you can do more, like um I goes, I can see it. If you know within yourself that you have more to give, that there's more in you, don't just settle, don't just sit there like, oh why

then get enough this week? Well that wasn't that bad. No, Because the people that you admire, the people that you're looking up to, they beat themselves up and they fight to be better every single day, and they fight to do great things in life. And that doesn't come from just being they're like, oh, well this is good enough. No, it wasn't good enough, and you know it wasn't good enough,

and stopped lying to yourself. Don't expect other people to come sugarcoated or you know, because when everybody and everything's like all good, NOAs you don't improve, sometimes we need that tough love even as an adult, we think the only children need you know, tough love. No, as an adult, we need those real friends. New Year's resolution clink clank, Let me preach New Year's resolutions. Get rid of people. Get rid of people from your circle they get them

be there. If you have any friends that you know they are envious of you, get rid of them. If you have any friends that take away from your concentration and the things that you need to be focused on, get rid of them. If you have any family members or whatever, they're always with their where their negativity, telling you what you can't do, what you can't do, or bringing down your self esteem, calling you fat, or telling you ugly, or telling you whatever. Always have an opinion.

Get rid of them. If you can't get rid of them, distance yourself from them, because that's another thing you could be really focused in, determined on your on your New Year's resolution. Is so opinion and their negativity, and then

they just mess up your whole vibe. And there's nothing worse than when you're concentrated and somebody comes and just kills your no absolutely that part, you know, let me take your back on that, because that is one of the reasons why I moved away, And I feel like making a move should be a lot of people's resolution this year, because sometimes we're stuck a on the same circle, girl, and to make change, you have to change everything, an

area code, your zip code, your phone number, everything, because sometimes you do have some people that are lashed onto you, that are leeches that are not adding value to your life. And you're wondering why you're still in a place that you're stuck and you can't move forward, and it's because you have these people holding you back. And it's okay to let go and let God come on now, miam. Okay,

we're at the church today. But whatever that. It's like, sometimes you work so hard and like, you know what, this year, I'm gonna leave all this negativity behind. I'm gonna do this, this, this, this this Evianna juani. Whoever telling you that you can't that you can't do this, or that you're not good enough for this, or you shouldn't do this, or if you have a business idea, do it. God gave you that idea for you to accomplish.

Stop telling everybody what you're gonna do, because a lot of people are just gonna come there to like try to kill your vibe and kill your spirits of doing it like that's I'm gonna be the olds. I don't really got to all the Another thing New Year's resolution, not just for me, but also for my listeners and the people that they can connect with. This this year, let's start putting some damn boundaries on people. Okay, boundaries

mean and this goes for your relationship. If you have a girlfriend, you have a boyfriend, whatever, if you your mother, your brother, whoever it may be. Let's put boundaries. Just because I love you, and just because you love me or just because we're comfortable with each other doesn't mean that I accept this, this, this, and this. I know longer accept this behavior. I no longer accept you to talk to me this way. I no longer accept this, this is These are my boundaries. I think it's important

this year that we start putting boundaries and people. Don't feel bad for putting boundaries. Don't feel bad for expressing yourself. Don't feel bad for knowing for finally because maybe you didn't know, but for finally knowing your worth. Don't feel bad for that. Stop feeling sorry, he stop saying that you're sorry. I'm sorry, but don't say you're sorry. This year, let's learn how to say no. No I don't want to go out. No, I'm not available for this. No,

I can't lend you this money. No I can't do It's okay to say no. So this year, definitely say no. Better if me says they're too comfortable, they get too comfortable, And I absolutely agree with you because people can just just ruin everything for you. And the thing is okay, better as long as I'm doing what I'm doing and God knows what I'm doing and my heart is right and I'm on a path. I don't care what you say about me. You could say I'm a comedian, because

yeah that none of that, None of that. Worry about what people have to say this year, worry about staying focused on your goals, what you want to accomplish, because guess what, oh nobody. And here's another thing, another New Year's resolution. Damn see, these are moments that I wish that I had a little sound effect. Here's another New Year's resolutions. Social media. Social media has taken over our lives.

We become so like like social media zombies. We spend hours stuck on this damn app, looking for approval, you know, looking for people to give us likes, looking for people to accept us, looking for people to this everybody like me come to cheat. But look, m I need to detox myself a little bit from social media. The moment I opened my eyes, the first thing I do is get my phone and look into my look into my Instagram. Nope, what I said, it can't like, this is not life.

I think it's important to bacco a little bit away from social media and start living our real life. It is a little bit more. Definitely, that's something that I want to be able to accomplish more. Uh. You know this year is to like detalk a little bit from social media and and spend more time in my real life.

You know, we're so busy trying to show the best part of our lives on social media, on social media, doing sending the best food that you a this the swag and everything better not in saying and things is messed up today and we need to spend time with the people that love us. Start spending trying to spend time and give your heart to people that don't really deserve it. The people that love you is the people that you should be concerned about this year. I think

that for many years we seek validation. We you know, we sought out validation. And I feel like if people are loving you, or people are sending you love, if people are really going out the way, those are the people, you know. Because sometimes, like for example, if we have a party and certain people don't show up, we're only focused on that, but we never live the moment and see the moment. The people that are really there for you, those are the people that you should be focused on,

not the people that are not there for you. So guess what this year, If you love me, if you spend time with me, if you whatever you've done for me, I'm going to make sure that I'm going to be there for you this year. And that's what my mentality and into the twenty the new year is. Seriously, I think that this year is going to be an amazing year. It's gonna be super productive. I'm so glad that you

came back. You came back to the first show of two with all the predictions and New Year's resolution plans, but everything that we requested that we pray on, that we plan regardless, at the end of this year, I want to really listen to this episode and see how many of those things we actually really accomplished, right, and listen, I'm very grateful to be here with you because you know, there's a lot of people in our lives that are wishy washy and you don't see them and you in

the beginning of the year, you're with them, and then at the end or when stuff gets rough, they walk out of your life when ship is real. But I'm gonna tell you Stevin nonas Wolf forever, so you see me, and when you see me, you see Stevie. Thank you so much, Stevie, like I see, I appreciate you so much for joining us. Stevie Noons, Steven Noon. Yes, by the way, what's your social media so people can go

follow you. It's at Stevin Noonas that's st e V, E y and e W and easy because you know what my realist name is Doons and you and easy. And the reason why I put any W is because I wanted to do a new thing, be a new tribe. You know, sometimes we're attached to some generational curses and I just wanted to be a new thing, a new part of that. When you surely you surely did make it happen. By the way, guys, you already know that you can follow Exactly a Matter on all the social

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