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game game, thank you for having me here again. I mean you could you could ask the questions to yourself, to myself. I'm just okay, we can ask each other questions. I'm being This is the show of doing it on your own, doing it to yourself, doing to yourself. You know what actually that this morning, but yesterday I had to do it to myself. I always do it to myself. That could be many things. Now, if your mind is

in the gutter, hey, that's on you. But anyways, Alex, So tell me about today's game or I guess today's fun? How is it? Well? You know what? Yeah, we we've we've covered a multitude of different topics here whenever I jump in the show with you, and today I thought, you know what, let's have some fun. You know, we've had some questions coming from the audience and people all

over the world who listened to exactly. So today today we're gonna play a little game that I decided to come up with just so that people can get a little bit uh deeper into you who you are and into your thoughts of would you rather would rather yeah, deeper into me. I'm on, I'm gonna have no privacy. Let's let's let's do this. Let's do this the the fun way, because this is what we're here to do here.

Um my very first question for you, just would you rather find true love today or win the lottery next year? And before you even think of this or give you a second here, money comes and goes, love is forever, So go ahead, I'm gonna and and explain why you're choosing the one that you chose. So, would I rather find true love today or win the lottery next year? Yeah, oh well, I shall say, like Tina said, what's love got to do with it? Give me the money, Give

me the money, because let me tell you something. Any time that I have given my love, okay, I've given my love away. And and when no money and no love to Boco I he said, if I got the money, we can do many and they make it work somehow, and I can live happy somehow. And unfortunately, especially in the world that we live today, you can basically buy love. Oh my god, it's terrible to say it that way, but okay, everything now has become a negotiation. Women and

men are with each other as a business transaction. Why should it be with you? I love you, but do you have money? I love it? But can you pay these bills? Though I love you better, if something goes down to you, you know, can you pay? Because it is it like? Is it like I once saw a meme say, you know, uh, they say money cannot buy you happiness. But have you ever seen a sad person on a jet ski? Exactly now? And now? Does it mean that you could be a little bit lonely? Yes? Obviously,

you know. The truth is I know a lot of people that are very wealthy and are unhappy, you know, because money realistically can buy you happiness. Money can buy you love, you know, um, And we've seen it with many stars about We've seen it with a lot of different celebrities that have are on the top of the food chain when it comes to money and their status, and you know, they've I'm a bad bitch. Okay, I'm

a bad bitch. I'm smart. I got my money to get I got this good at all and everything, and luck I'm over here suffering, so that has nothing to do. So I definitely say that, you know, money can buy you happiness completely. It can give you a certain extent of it, but it can give you, you know, happiness completely.

But sometimes you give your love to people and all this fucking love, and then you know, you may be the one who's willing to you know what, I Am willing to pass up on money for love, but that person might not do the same for you if the opportunity were to come. It's a double edged sword. Money. Money could could be just as detrimental as love. You can get hurt by both and you could also lose both as se So you know what, do you would

you rather love or would you rather that money? You know, millions? You know, millions? Millions would be fun? I feel okay, So yeah, I would like to have some type of money that I could reinvest into things right and take care of my family. And once I have that and put away, yeah I can, I can find love. This question, there wasn't one thing to hear you and find it. No, you don't feel like, oh so you wanted to be

either or in. That's it. When I thought I had to be, I thought it was would you rather find true love today or win the lottery next year? Well? I'm winning the lottery next year, and then I'll find love the year after that. Yeah, because when you got money, everybody loves you. Everyone loves you. Wow. That's trash, right, But I get it. I get it. Yeah, yeah, I see, I don't see you know. I guess it's um. I guess to each their own. Right. On that topic, here's

the next one. Would you rather lose your sight or lose your memories to memorias? Would I rather lose my sight or lose my memories? Wow? That was deep, a, this is deep. The thing is that, um memories? You know what? I'd rather lose my memory. I'd rather lose my memory. You know why, my memories because to be honest, um, you don't remember every single thing that you've done your whole life since the day that you were born. You

remember certain moments in life. But I think that at least if I could enjoy the day that I am living and remember this day, I'll probably go to sleep tomorrow and not remember, but I'll make the best out of that day with that memory. At what point would you don't mind losing your memory from I don't mind forgetting all my exes if I can delete all of them, like whatever memories it is that I have in my mind of my exes, y'alls can press delete and reset.

I'm cool with that part. Um. Did you ever see fifty Day to Adam Sandler? Memory and Everything? He dates a girl who forgets everything after twenty four hours. Yes, so he has to make her fall in love. That's

a lot of work. But I'll say this much though, you know, losing my eyesight, I think it's obviously for those that have been blessed, because sometimes you know, and we're very ungrateful for the things that we have, for those that have been blessed to be able to open your eyes and see the beauty of life and nature and the people that we love and the things that

surround us. I am grateful for my eyesight. I would never want to lose that, you know, So if I had to lose my eyesight or my memories, I rather lose my memories and enjoy enjoy that day, enjoy that moment, create that moment. You know, it's a scary it's a scary thought. It's a scary thought. But to those um that might come as us this podcast who might have lost their their their side or might be losing because there's a lot of people that lose their site later

on in life. UM, you know, we feel I'm you know, I'm I've been wearing glasses on my life, so I take them off. I don't recognize you from the next person. Yeah, And that's what I'm saying. That's why sometimes we can be so ungrateful that we have to be grateful for those that have you know, all your senses, I'm in

and for those that don't have it. You know, I'm in for you guys too, because at least you guys are still here and you're making the best out of whatever situation you may be going through, So shout outs to you, especially if you're over here listening to exactly a mad word. Hell yeah, hell yeah? Would you rather hell God? Here we go? Um? Would you rather have a third nipple? A third nipple, a third nipple or

an extra toe? And and you know, in this instances, a lot of people do have extra toes, and there's a lot of people, a lot of people who have extra nipples. I haven't met someone that have an extra nipple, but definitely send me some pictures that exactly a matter I definitely want to see if you have an extra nipple, if you have an extra toe, you know, shout out to you. With the extra toe, you must have great balance. But um, I would I rather a third nipple or

an extra toe? To be honest, I don't really do too much with my toes. It's like having an extra pinky toll. That's just they're like just the pinky toe is just there to get like extra. It's it true that that's what it's therefore, like you just smash it into corners of beds and tables. Yeah, you're a little toe is just there to get smashed. But a third nipple could be interesting even though that I must admit, after I got my titties done, after I got my boobs done, um, I kind of lost a little bit

of sensibility on my nipples. So in the beginning it was fun like, oh, yeah, that's the hot dog, right, okay, great, But then after it's a hot dog right right right. But after that, it's like, what's the point. I feel like, now I just want my nipples for my babies, but I don't really do anything with them. They're just there gonna you know. So so I mean, so it's safe. It's safe to say your toe gets gets smashed a lot more than what you Yeah, my toes get My

little toe gets more smashed than I do. That's all I got from that story, is like, my toe is just there to get smashed to give me an extra toe. Oh would you rather an extra toe? Who wants an extra toe? Just take the nipple. That's true, extra sensitivity, extra fund extra yeah. Yeah, and you can if you have multiple children, you can feed them all. Um. Yeah. So here's the next one. Would you rather date someone

who was funny or date someone who was attractive? Date someone funny or date someone attractive if you have a good personality. I'm down for it because I like, at the end of the day, the lits is going to fade away. Then I'm gonna be stuck with you in the room for astrue time. And if we don't get along and we don't come, we don't vibe, then what's

the point of doing this. So I'd rather you to, um, I guess, be funny, then be attractive, because the more you hang out with people, then eventually you start to look at them cute, you know, like, oh you know that bad and then you start to like them. But here's my one thing though, I don't like to like. You can't be too funny. You can't. I've gone out on dates, not dated, but I've gone out on dates with people that are too funny, and it's wrapped. That's

what We're not gonna do. Comedian too funny or how does that work? Yeah? Like if every time I say something you laugh for no reason, because I know people can have that nervous laugh or just you just want to laugh, It's like, what is wrong with you? Like everything can be funny? Or anytime I'm piste off, if I'm piste off and you have a joke for everything

it's done. I don't. So that's that's where that this one comes in, right, right, if they're like Comedian was like, they don't really laugh a lot about everything, but they turn things into jokes and they try to make you laugh all the time. Yeah. The thing is, can when you did attractive people, which I've done, I'm being they're so for the most part, not all of them, but for the most part they're so like into them cells, I'm so hot. Yeah, don't you want my body? Yeah?

Can you? Can you give us before we move on to is there an experience for you where you've had this happen where they're where they're in front of the mirror a little bit more than than naturally and and yeah you've been you're the one outside honking waiting for them to come down, Like, yes, do you have a story to share about that? Yeah? Well actually, um, actually both of my exes well okay, I'll say both of my exes, which could be any of them. So don't

don't don't start looking into it. Yeah, don't feel yourself with your crunchy ass. That's why you're an ex part of the past. But yeah, you know, they would look in the mirror and just like early in the morning, wake up every time and just look at the ads and just you know, rub it like ah yeah, I just do the arm thing in the morning, you know, to see if I got to work out some more go myselfing. They ha, And I was just like, bro, you look at yourself in the mirror more than I do.

What is your problem? Straight, Metro, I don't have a problem to be Metro to Halley, like bring it down like ten notches. So yeah, if you're too if you're now ladies, girls, tell me if you know where I'm coming from. If there's a guy that's really hot and he's attractive, but then he acts like he doesn't know that he's hot, tell me that's not hot, I'd be like, oh you fine. But to say that, he'd be trying to act humble and you know, cool, like you know,

I'm gonna care whatever. I'm like, oh my god, yes, better. If you act like you know you're attractive, that goes for girls to girls that are pretty. If you act stank because you know that you're attractive, that's unattractive. But if you're pretty and humble with it, you know you're still approachable. I think that that's you know, I don't know our dad bods in I like dad bods. I don't know who said that they weren't in personally, I don't really care about the whole six pack personally if

you have. There's a lot of women out there who love them their dad about. There's a lot of very attractive looking women, um that you know know that they're very attractive model wise, and they just they you see them with dudes that are in their average dad body, Like, yeah, I like la Barida. I like I like my men to have a little you know, not that not necessarily like the beer the beer belly, but I like and don't say, you know, getting into details. Girls, you really know, Okay,

it's a little bit. It's a little it's a little saucy when you're getting certain on it and you get that belly. Blacky, blacky, blackie, you know what I'm talking about. So I like my little day about till I like that. I like that, and that goes out for men to men. Men have a certain attraction to certain looking women as well. Um. Not every man in the world is chasing uh, you know the Barbie doll looking like woman that is not a man? Are men into still like real women? Like

what the stretch in the moon? Don't go on the jelly rolls in the side, you'll take the jelly rolls. Yeah, there's I have friends, personal friends that are very like you know, good looking dudes. You know, worked out all their life. They work out just to keep in shape. They're not out there looking at themselves in the mirror. You know. They love they love their women. They love their women. Women not women. There's another chicken here who

sweats it off for sixteen hours. No, they're like, you know, and it's I think it's kind of hot a little bit. Not for nothing. You know, I said it before, once upon a time. I still find women attractive. I don't. That doesn't mean that I want you. I just can admire a girl that's pretty, and I think it's still pretty when I still a girl. They don't. But you still have a nice shape, like a little stretch. There's nothing wrong with it. You just have a natural body

or it's human. And even if it's not natural, but you still got a little jelly. Shut us to all the girls. They got the jelly, and they're afraid to shake it. Okay. I Love is love, man, Love is love. Love is love. That's right, and if you turn off the lights, it's even better. The next one here that I have for you is would you rather have your own robots or private jet? Whatever? They have? My own

robot or a private jet? And you I don't know if you've seen this as of late, um, the one of the big electronic shows in Vegas unveiled actual like robots, like humanoid looking robots that actually talk to you and do things for you. And you know, we're heading into a world like the Jetsons now like the cartoon where there's different robots and stuff. So yeah, but my question is whatever, wouldever they have a robot or have a private jet? But what does the robot like do? That's

why I'm going, Yeah, that's why everything. So it'll clean the house for you, it'll do what is going to clean the house, pay the bills better? It can the robot give me the freaky stuff I'm being And I could just Yeah, there's plenty of plenty of robots out there in the in the adult industry that do the freaky stuff. I know, I'd be googling on the low tomb, but then I'd be delete thing it because I'd be embarrassing myself. You gotta use incognito mode on your browser. No,

but it is true. Okay, So I think that I would rather have my private robot because the jet how often am I really gonna use? I was just gonna say that, how often are you really flying? And then you gotta pay to have it part somewhere you got that we got at me. I'm on on unless it's one of those diet Tesla private jet care you're connected to the electricity eat, I'm that's too much meet up. I'd rather have the robot. The robot do the bed YadA YadA YadA, make sure that when I come home

everything to get you know, here's the rule. But you know how al also in the ninetime babo, you already know what you gotta do, and you already know the spot ding ning ning ning ding dal shut it off, just downloaded right into the robot. This is what I like exactly, This is what I like, and I can disconnect you when you start to get annoying. I think it's great. I shall have a robot. There we go. So anybody out there making robots please hit up exactly

a matter on Instagram. But it kind of dehumanizes you a little bit, don't it, Because now I'm not gonna lie look between you and me and me and you, and I'm gonna be completely sexually open right now, respectfully, but this is my truth. Um ever since I haven't had, you know, a partner for a very long time, you end up taking care of yourself right. You end up

playing DJ wack a wacker reacord you're ready now. So afterwards, I almost feel like a little bit dehumanizes you from that human connection with someone else because not already know I can handle myself. I can do it in my own time. I know when and where, this and that, and it's great and it's safe. It's safer right than to be out in the streets bed. You kind of lose that human connection and even when you go back into trying to look for it, it's kind of awkward.

So I can only but imagine what it is when you become adapted to having a robot or these uh, these like animated illusional world that they create in the VR world. Yeah, people, people are into this whole like virtual reality thing. When you want to connect with a real human being. You don't even know how to act. Here's a little syde quest on this isn't it kind of like the same thing as social media and having

a cell phone attached to you all day. You kind of lose yourself in that world where you become a slave to the cell phone, you know, where you're always on it like it needs to be around you. You're stuck in social media. You're stuck in this world of trying to take the best pick or post the best thing or I'm one of those I think that I have more friends on social media than I have in real life. There's people that don't even know but we talk every day, and I don't even know who you are.

And that's the good part. Those are the good parts, right You find and you find interesting people out there. But at the same time, you know, I still like going to my local bar and hanging out, meeting a couple of peeps, you know. But I mean I posted recently something on my social media that it was with Kanye West where he said that, um, you know, now we're we've basically we're going to keep playing this game,

but we we just got a little bit deep. But people these days are so caught up with social media and this fake you know, this fake life of what reality should be, that we no longer go outside, we no longer hang out with friends, we're no longer living our real, our real lives because we're so caught up in this internet, social media world where we're concerned about other people's opinions, people that we don't even know. Um, a lot of things you miss out on your life.

You could spend a day to day stuck home on your computer, on your phone, and you literally missed out on real life. So that's something that I feel that I wish that we can kind of get back from like back and like you said, we're gonna we're about to jump onto the next would you rather question here? But here's here's a real quick one at Sharon, you know, at Sharing the singer, he explained that he hasn't had a cell phone since two dozen and fifteen. How do

you survive in the street? Got he got stuck in the in that whole like social media world, like always being a slave to the phone. So he has his iPad. He spends time during the day to check his email, answer people back and if you have to get to him. You know his phone number, and that is it. That is his life now and he says changed him completely. That's kind of good. The only thing is that now a lot of us we make money off social media. So it's like social media now has become a way

of earning income. And that's where it gets complicated. But if I didn't have to make if I didn't make money from it, I would try my best to spend less time on social media. And you can always have a team do that for you. You can always have a team. Hey, listen or or someone with you help me, you know, let's make the video. But there's no need for me to sit in front of the video. Like

the thing Instagram, Instagram to to this. You're there and just like Twitter, but I want to see what you a, what you go, that, what you did, and you know who's pregnant, who's not pregnant, who's breaking up? But is that really bringing any value to your life? Not necessarily, but anyways, that's into the top I need to be honest. We should talk about it in another podcast shop here's another. Would you rather your mom arrange your marriage or marry

your most recent x? Oh wow? Um, Uh, well, you know, I'm gonna my mom's gonna hate me for what I'm about to say. Thankfully her English is not too good. But the thing is that if my mom would arrange my marriage, So my option is either my mom arranges my marriage or me marry my ex. Okay, and my mom ranges my marriage. I know that he's probably gonna be older, he's gonna be rich, and she's not gonna care if I like him or not. It's just like me that he's gonna take care of you. He's gonna

handle it. Yeah, that's the old schools, like Latinos and Hispanics are like that, right. My mom used to say that all the time. Yeah, she's like I want that day and then with time you're gonna learn to love him. And yeah, I get over it. Now. If I do it on my own, like with my ex and it's just or one of my exes whatever. Um, it would be based off somebody that I'm physically attracted to. It would be based off many things. Better. As you can tell, I am not the best one select thing. So and

vibe vibes are excellent. We need vibe vibes. Chemistry is important. Um, better to be honest. Studies have shown that arranged marriages actually lasts longer than those that do it out of physical attraction or out of love what they consider love at the time. You know, being in love, you could be in love for a certain amount of time that fades away, that fades away eventually. So, um, maybe I think that my mom would would make a good selection.

She will make a good choice thinking further ahead in life, thinking for like, you know, the checking out the boxes, because this person is that you were effectful, it is your hard workers. Either me, I'm automatically gonna assume is there attraction? You know? Do we have chemistry? Dada? And then I look into all that other stuff. So who knows? I like that, I like that, and you know what I feel like? Perhaps maybe you if if there's someone was to ask your kids this question, you know, what

would your answer be? What do you mean? So if someone would ask your your kids, what do you think their answer would be if they were to have an arranged marriage by their mom, which would be you or marry their most recent X. Would you still have the same mentality as your mom? Marry someone who could take care of you with money and you've learned to love them, or what kind of advice would you give your your children. I would have the same mindset as my mom, just

a little bit more modified, right. I would still want them to be happy and and I would try to pay attention to the things that they are attracted to physically in a man, which is something that my mom doesn't care right. My mom will automatically say it is some deelling I an't think, right, But I would try to look for certain things. Okay, I'm going to do

my best to put this person together. But I do understand specifically these days that things have changed so much how you do have to look for someone that can financially be stable, be you know, support system, because they want you to be the ones the women to maintain them and decay all women equality. Women are making as much money as men, this and that. So now I don't got to work and I'm just gonna be home and my girl's gonna pay the bills, and she got

it because she's an empowered woman. No, it's either fifty fifty. Do you still believe in fifty fifty? Yeah, I definitely do. Um. I believe in the whole aspect of you know, everyone helping each other out anyway they can, especially like with bills and and whatnot. I mean, is that is that what something that you're thinking about with? No, I don't know if I believe in anymore? Really, you know what it is? You need to find the right person to know.

There's no, there's no, there's no fifty fifty. Why I gotta give fifty? I think fifty is too much. You're thinking about yourself too much. No, I think that I can give thirty in a good day, like I could give you thirty. Honestly, I should be giving you twenty five. But I'm going to give you thirty so that you don't feel bad and the rest really be on you, because what the total holds more value, you know, And I'm here like there's a lot. I'm giving you all

types of support, kinning, cooking, os and you know, working. Well, that's that's that's when when the conversation changes. At that, Oh god, if you need another if you're going to be at home taking care of your children and not being able to financially support someone, yeah, of course obviously, then just all goes No. No, No, I want to work. I want to want Okay, I want to work and I want to make my money and I want to give. Well, we'll see. I think when you find out someone what

they tell you. Ladies, Oh my god, this is such a good topic for the Instagram thingthing. I want to post it on my page. And I want to know what you guys think. Should women these days overall? Should uh relationships still be couples? Should they still be fifty fifty? Should women get less than men? Should men get more? Do you still believe that men are supposed to be the providers and women are supposed to be the you know, the nurturer and all this are the good stuff? You know.

I'm not saying to be cooking and cleaning the house because if we were being all the feminists to eat me up, That's not what I said. What I said is, um, I know that we want equality, but how much equality do we want? Do we really want it? When? Do we want it? Because do we want it all the time or just when we're getting money at work? I don't know. I'm trying to figure it out anyways. That that show is coming up real soon. Good, Yeah, I mean, and I think I think we I think we had

a lot of fun today. You know. Unfortunately, we've we've come to the end of the you know, would you rather? And we've answered a lot and you know, I've given good, ive given, I've given my thirty percent today, So you know, I have loved it. You know, honestly I love doing my podcast with you, Alex. We get along so good, that energy and the vibes are so great. Um and I'm also grateful and thankful to have you guys already know where can they follow you? Oh man, don't don't

put me out. This is all about exactly at anybody could find me. And because the ladies would be like, oh my god, he's kind of you know whatever. I'm like, I don't know, but you know, you know, I'm not a maybe. I don't know, I'm just an average Alex thinking so much for coming in today. I want to thank everyone for joining me. I remember to follow exactly

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favorite show. Today's show was so lit and while I was doing it, UM, I don't know, my mind was going out of a thousand miles per hour because I just thought of so many other great episodes that we can do. We're gonna work on that real soon. UM. Anyways, thank you guys so much for listening. I shall check you guys next Thursday on exactly Amada