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Ex-Wives Undercover: Liars, Cheaters & Love Cons

Double A Productionswww.exwivesundercover.com
Ex-Wives Undercover is a powerful true crime "RomCON" podcast that exposes the hidden world of charming con artists, narcissists and master manipulators—men who cheat, scam, and gaslight their way through relationships, leaving devastation behind. Told by the women who lived it, these are the real, raw stories of survival, sisterhood, and taking back power. This isn’t just about the con—it’s about the comeback. Listeners will gain insight into the red flags of emotional abuse, learn how to spot a scammer before it's too late and hear firsthand how women rebuilt their lives after betrayal. Whether you’ve been through it, know someone who has, or just love true crime with a deeper purpose—this podcast is your reminder that knowledge is power, and healing is possible. Do you have a story to share? Email us ExWivesUndercover@Gmail.com or visit our website and use our contact form at www.ExWivesUndercover.com
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Episodes

S5:E22 | Fooled by Todd Dean | Jill | 7 of 9

In this episode, we will break down everything we know about Sanjara Wellness - Todd Dean's great healing oasis that he uses to con women out of their life savings! Romance Scam Resources: https://www.fbi.gov/how-we-can-help-you/safety-resources/scams-and-safety/common-scams-and-crimes/romance-scams DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? EMAIL US at ExWivesUndercover@gmail.com LIKE THE PODCAST? If so, please give us a 5-star rating and help us spread the word and protect other women from falling v...

Jun 20, 202350 minSeason 5Ep. 22

S5:E21 | Fooled by Todd Dean | Jill | 6 of 9

We are now jumping back into the original timeline and picking back up where Episode 4 left off. Jill is now aware of Todd's shady behavior but hasn't cut ties completely. Slowly but surely, Jill begins to gain her strength and starts the process of pulling away from Todd, thanks to encouragement from Wendy, Sara, Lacey, and a few others. Shortly there after, Jill receives a message from yet another woman by the name of Roxie. (Whom you met in Episode 4.) These two women hit it off immediately, ...

Jun 13, 202345 minSeason 5Ep. 21

S5:E20 | Fooled by Todd Dean | Jill | 5 of 9

More and more women are coming out of the woodwork to 'out' Todd Dean and his scam of a business, Sanjara Wellness. But, a crucial piece of the puzzle is one woman by the name of Karen who was bold enough to go after him [and win] in court. Let's hear her story from back in 2017, when she first met Todd Dean in Sun Valley, Idaho. Watch the podcast on our YouTube channel here. Romance Scam Resources: https://www.fbi.gov/how-we-can-help-you/safety-resources/scams-and-safety/common-scams-and-crimes...

Jun 06, 20231 hr 6 minSeason 5Ep. 20

S5:E19 | Fooled by Todd Dean | Jill | 4 of 9

While Jill connected with Todd's assistant and another woman named Wendy, he had already moved on to another victim by the name of Kitt. Kitt had a very good friend named Roxie who wasn't falling for anything he said. She set out to find the truth about this new man in her bestie's life, but it wasn't going to be that easy to untangle her from his web of lies. Watch the podcast on our YouTube channel here. Romance Scam Resources: https://www.fbi.gov/how-we-can-help-you/safety-resources/scams-and...

May 30, 202351 minSeason 5Ep. 19

S5:E18 | Fooled by Todd Dean | Jill | 3 of 9

In the previous episode, you met Wendy and Sara. In this episode, the two women share their heartbreaking and infuriating encounter with Todd Dean, a calculated financial predator and love con artist. Sara, Todd's assistant, secretly begins her own crusade to warn the investors and help get their investments back. Wendy, now in contact with Jill, begins to uncover the many lies of Todd's dark, fictitious life. Romance Scam Resources: https://www.fbi.gov/how-we-can-help-you/safety-resources/scams...

May 23, 202358 minSeason 5Ep. 18

S5:E17 | Fooled by Todd Dean | Jill | 2 of 9

Todd invites Jill to come on a business trip with him and his assistant Sara to look at an investment property. The two women hit it off right away, and Sara is nothing like the person Todd had made her out to be. By night's end, Jill will learn who the man she gave thousands of dollars to, really is. While Jill struggles with what to do next, two more women come forward. Will Jill be able to get the money back she gave Todd? Romance Scam Resources: https://www.fbi.gov/how-we-can-help-you/safety...

May 16, 202350 minSeason 5Ep. 17

S5:E16 | Fooled by Todd Dean | Jill | 1 of 9

In story #3 of season five, we meet Jill and a handsome and successful entrepreneur she met on Facebook Dating, Todd Dean. He checked off all the boxes of most women's dream man...so, what could go wrong? Apparently a lot. Watch the podcast on our YouTube channel here. Romance Scam Resources: https://www.fbi.gov/how-we-can-help-you/safety-resources/scams-and-safety/common-scams-and-crimes/romance-scams DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? EMAIL US at ExWivesUndercover@gmail.com LIKE THE PODCAST?...

May 09, 202359 minSeason 5Ep. 16

S5:E15 | Not My Type | Elvi | 5 of 5

Slowly but surely, Elvi began putting her life back together and finding happiness again. After finding out that la Petite Douche had a new victim, she debated on whether to tell her what she had experienced. In the meantime, she experienced fraudulent credit card activity from...can you guess? And just when we all thought we had covered the entirety of this story, we find ourselves jumping back in to Elvis story to make sure you all hear what was uncovered at the last minute.... It's never a du...

Apr 25, 202342 minSeason 5Ep. 15

S5:E14 | Not My Type | Elvi | 4 of 5

In this episode, things had escalated so badly that Elvi felt she needed to escape, otherwise risk her own life by staying. She devised a plan to visit her sister in Oregon but once things smoothed over and she returned home she found a love letter from la Petite. Will she stay strong and leave him for good? DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? EMAIL US at ExWivesUndercover@gmail.com LIKE THE PODCAST? If so, please give us a 5-star rating and help us spread the word and protect other women from ...

Apr 18, 202338 minSeason 5Ep. 14

S5:E13 | Not My Type | Elvi | 3 of 5

Shortly after moving in together, COVID hit and la Petite's family came for a visit. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree, which is exactly what Elvi discovered when she spent more time with his mother. With all of the red flags coming in hard and fast, they made a life-changing decision. Special Guests: Strangers on the Internet DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? EMAIL US at ExWivesUndercover@gmail.com LIKE THE PODCAST? If so, please give us a 5-star rating and help us spread the word and...

Apr 11, 202354 minSeason 5Ep. 13

S5:E12 | Not My Type | Elvi | 2 of 5

In this episode, Elvi discovers that her new love has been spotted on dating apps, and when she confronted him, he diverted the focus away from himself and claimed their sex life wasn't up to par. While this was a definite red flag, Elvi loved the good qualities about la Petite Douche...little did she know, he had a house of cards meticulously hidden. Special Guests: Strangers on the Internet DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? EMAIL US at ExWivesUndercover@gmail.com LIKE THE PODCAST? If so, pl...

Apr 04, 202354 minSeason 5Ep. 12

S5:E11 | Not My Type | Elvi | 1 of 5

Have you ever tried giving someone a chance who was outside your 'norm'? When Elvi saw la Petite Douche on a dating app, instead of swiping left, she decided to give him a chance. Within two months of dating, she discovered la Petite was still on Tinder, and while he was great in theory, she also noticed that mysteriously she got locked out of a credit card account. Can you guess who the culprit was? This may have been a foreshadowing of what was to come. Special guests: Strangers on the Interne...

Mar 28, 202359 minSeason 5Ep. 11

S5 Trailer | Not My Type | Elvi

How many times have you been told 'just give him a chance' to a guy that wasn't your type? After getting divorced, Elvi was back in the dating game again when she met him...la Petite Douche. She definitely wasn't physically attracted to him, but he was kind, respectful, and planned great dates. Before she knew it, they were an item. But within just a few months, the cracks in his façade began to show. Feeling broken and at her lowest point, Elvi made the biggest decision of her life...to escape!...

Mar 23, 20234 min

S5:E10 BONUS | Dating Disasters w/Special Guest Katie

If you've been on the dating scene, especially since the rise of dating apps, you know that with the good comes the bad...and sometimes you might even get a good story to tell. We thought it would be fun to break up some of the heavier topics we discuss on the pod and share some of our most crazy and hilarious dating disasters. This week, we have the pleasure of chatting with one of our listeners, Katie, about some of her all-time worst dating experiences! Fun Fact: Katie was in the very first l...

Mar 21, 202343 minSeason 5Ep. 10

S5:E9 | Falling for a Felon | Ana | 9 of 9

Enough was enough, this was the last time Ted was going to beg Ana to get back together only to pull back and choose the other woman. She had to break the cycle once and for all. The onset of the pandemic changed everything and Ana had to readjust to a new way of life. The isolation was too much, and coupled with recovering from the mind fuck of Ted, was just unbearable. When she received a text from Ted one day and learning about the events that transpired lit a fire under her ass, and she gave...

Mar 14, 202353 minSeason 5Ep. 9

S5:E8 | Falling for a Felon | Ana | 8 of 9

Ted couldn't stay gone long and he began coming over to Ana's house regularly. He finally came clean and told her about the other woman, Mildred. But that wasn't the end because then he proceeded to play a game of ping pong with both women's hearts. But will he make up his mind and move back with Ana to save his marriage? DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? EMAIL US at ExWivesUndercover@gmail.com LIKE THE PODCAST? If so, please give us a 5-star rating and help us spread the word and protect oth...

Mar 07, 20231 hr 9 minSeason 5Ep. 8

S5:E7 | Falling for a Felon | Ana | 7 of 9

Ted continued to be gone a lot but by the time the holidays came around Ana's radar was set off when he mysteriously disappeared for hours on News Years Eve. When Ted accuses Ana of saying something hurtful, it turns into a night of gas-lighting and confusion. But then he did something she never could have expected that left her shocked and heartbroken. DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? EMAIL US at ExWivesUndercover@gmail.com LIKE THE PODCAST? If so, please give us a 5-star rating and help us...

Feb 28, 20231 hr 7 minSeason 5Ep. 7

S5:E6 | Falling for a Felon | Ana | 6 of 9

The ups and downs of marriage began to take their toll on Ana and Ted's anger issues, and controlling behavior was non-stop. Trying her best to get the relationship back on track, they rented a beautiful new home, but by the end of summer, Ted was gone all the time. DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? EMAIL US at ExWivesUndercover@gmail.com LIKE THE PODCAST? If so, please give us a 5-star rating and help us spread the word and protect other women from falling victim to these types of men. Or, h...

Feb 21, 202345 minSeason 5Ep. 6

S5:E5 | Falling for a Felon | Ana | 5 of 9

Ending up on the nightly news in a big scandal didn't keep Ana from marrying Ted. In her backyard with just a few people in attendance, Ana said yes to the man of her dreams...along with three felons as her witnesses. While the first year of marriage went pretty well, the second year took a nosedive and one particular person in Ted's life proved to be a thorn in Ana's side. DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? EMAIL US at ExWivesUndercover@gmail.com LIKE THE PODCAST? If so, please give us a 5-st...

Feb 14, 202359 minSeason 5Ep. 5

S5:E4 | Falling for a Felon | Ana | 4 of 9

After break-up #2, Ana learns that Ted was married all along. But, as they always do, Ted begged for forgiveness....with divorce papers in hand. By Christmas, he was ready to propose to Ana, but huge red flags continued to show themselves. DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? EMAIL US at ExWivesUndercover@gmail.com LIKE THE PODCAST? If so, please give us a 5-star rating and help us spread the word and protect other women from falling victim to these types of men. Or, help us make the show better...

Feb 07, 202358 minSeason 5Ep. 4

S5:E3 | Falling for a Felon | Ana | 3 of 9

In this episode, Ted is released from prison and he and Ana are free to start their lives together. Things got off to a rocky start though and Ana began seeing signs of rage from Ted...but that wasn't all. She also began hearing rumblings from her friends and family about Ted's inappropriate behavior around other women. When it was time to get a place together, Ana gets an email from Ted that shattered her world!!! DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? EMAIL US at ExWivesUndercover@gmail.com LIKE...

Jan 31, 20231 hr 6 minSeason 5Ep. 3

S5:E2 | Falling for a Felon | Ana | 2 of 9

Once Ted went to jail, Ana's eyes were opened to what prison life was all about. They wrote letters and communicated regularly - she even visited a few times. But, the honeymoon stage and 'love bombing' was over once he got out and she began seeing the red flags emerge. All the promises Ted made were suddenly null and void...but will she be able to right the ship and get back on track to happily ever after? DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? EMAIL US at ExWivesUndercover@gmail.com LIKE THE POD...

Jan 24, 20231 hr 8 minSeason 5Ep. 2

S5:E1 | Falling for a Felon | Ana | 1 of 9

Everybody wants that once-in-a-lifetime love. But to Ana, the one person she had her eyes on didn't even know she existed. She was the shy, awkward girl who longed for Ted, the handsome and popular kid in school. Fast forward 20+ years, and out of the blue, Ana receives a friend request on social media from none other than Ted. There was one small problem...Ted was going to prison! In this premiere episode of season 5, we'll get to know Ana and her life path that eventually collided with Ted's. ...

Jan 17, 20231 hr 3 minSeason 5Ep. 1

S5 Trailer | Falling for a Felon | Ana

He was an Irish devil with twinkling blue eyes and coal-black hair. Ana and Ted first met in high school, 30 years prior to connecting again on Facebook. She woke up one morning to more than 30 notifications that he had liked picture after picture, some years old. She sent him a message saying “either you are interested in me or I need to get a restraining order, which is it?’. If only Ana had blocked him at that moment, it would have saved her almost 10 years of sheer hell, years she almost did...

Jan 11, 20236 min

S4:E7 | Double Trouble | Sadie | 7 of 7

It's now or never and Sadie was done...this time for good! Before she could leave though, shit hits the fan and The A Team comes to the rescue! Content Warning: In this episode, physical assault is discussed. Curious about updates on Sadie's story? Well, we have exclusive bonus episodes with her on our Patreon page. DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? EMAIL US at ExWivesUndercover@gmail.com LIKE THE PODCAST? If so, please give us a 5-star rating and help us spread the word and protect other wom...

Oct 04, 20221 hr 2 minSeason 4Ep. 7

S4:E6 | Double Trouble | Sadie | 6 of 7

Growing more and more suspicious, Sadie begins snooping! What she finds out blows her mind and leaves her devastated at the secret life Justin had been living. As the ladies compared notes, the lies he told were astonishing! DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? EMAIL US at ExWivesUndercover@gmail.com LIKE THE PODCAST? If so, please give us a 5-star rating and help us spread the word and protect other women from falling victim to these types of men. Or, help us make the show better by taking part...

Sep 27, 202246 minSeason 4Ep. 6

S4:E5 | Double Trouble | Sadie | 5 of 7

Now, with baby two on the way and years of mental and physical abuse by Justin, Sadie was caught in a vicious cycle. Was there any hope for their relationship? DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? EMAIL US at ExWivesUndercover@gmail.com LIKE THE PODCAST? If so, please give us a 5-star rating and help us spread the word and protect other women from falling victim to these types of men. Or, help us make the show better by taking part in a short survey: https://s.surveyplanet.com/8ke0gk5l VISIT OUR...

Sep 20, 202241 minSeason 4Ep. 5

S4:E4 | Double Trouble | Sadie | 4 of 7

After the birth of their son, Sadie continued to discover more and more suspicious things from Justin. But, when she confronts him he flipped a switch, leaving her with a big decision to make. Will she be strong enough...only time will tell. Content Warning: This episode discusses verbal and physical assault. DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? EMAIL US at ExWivesUndercover@gmail.com LIKE THE PODCAST? If so, please give us a 5-star rating and help us spread the word and protect other women from...

Sep 13, 202245 minSeason 4Ep. 4

S4:E3 | Double Trouble | Sadie | 3 of 7

Two years later, after her father's tragedy, Sadie meets a man named Justin during a weekend vacation to Texas. Things heat up fast, and before she knows it, she is packing her bags and moving. Justin's true colors show up soon thereafter, but will it be enough for Sadie to leave? We also get expert advice from a detective on the best way to run a thorough background check on a new love interest. Content Warning: This episode contains verbal abuse and physical violence. DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STOR...

Sep 06, 202243 minSeason 4Ep. 3

S4:E2 | Double Trouble | Sadie | 2 of 7

For Sadie's mom, leaving was harder than she thought. Paul began to spiral out of control, leaving the family no choice but to have someone with her at all times. Then, the unimaginable happened that left everybody in shock and dismay! Content Warning: This episode discusses abuse, mental health and suicide. If you or someone you know is suicidal, please dial the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline at 988 or visit our Resource Page. Support the Show. DO YOU HAVE YOUR OWN STORY TO SHARE? EMAIL US at Ex...

Aug 30, 202239 minSeason 4Ep. 2
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