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Ex-Wives Undercover: Liars, Cheaters & Love Cons

Double A Productionswww.exwivesundercover.com
Ex-Wives Undercover is a powerful true crime "RomCON" podcast that exposes the hidden world of charming con artists, narcissists and master manipulators—men who cheat, scam, and gaslight their way through relationships, leaving devastation behind. Told by the women who lived it, these are the real, raw stories of survival, sisterhood, and taking back power. This isn’t just about the con—it’s about the comeback. Listeners will gain insight into the red flags of emotional abuse, learn how to spot a scammer before it's too late and hear firsthand how women rebuilt their lives after betrayal. Whether you’ve been through it, know someone who has, or just love true crime with a deeper purpose—this podcast is your reminder that knowledge is power, and healing is possible. Do you have a story to share? Email us ExWivesUndercover@Gmail.com or visit our website and use our contact form at www.ExWivesUndercover.com
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Episodes

S6E16 Undercover Ops: The Wildest Ways We Busted Our Cheating Exes

In this juicy episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, Amber and Athena dive deep into the hilariously scandalous and downright jaw-dropping stories of how women caught their cheating partners red-handed. From undercover social media snooping to the ultimate “STD reveal” stunt at a wiener roast, this episode has it all. You’ll hear about:💔 A fake cancer diagnosis that fell apart at the ER📸 Using Facebook’s graph search to catch club photos and flirty likes🕵️‍♀️ Creating fake AIM profiles and dating ap...

Jun 17, 202540 minSeason 6Ep. 16

S6E15 Prostitutes, Sex Clubs & Wife Swaps, Pt. 3 of 3

In this episode, Shelley navigates the complexities of serving Jay divorce papers, which led to a significant fallout between the couple. She also shares how she experienced a range of emotions from relief to disgust after the divorce and emphasizes the importance of not shaming sex workers while addressing her husband's actions. Legal battles become a major source of stress and financial strain over the next five years, and sadly, Shelley is still dealing with the aftermath of the divorce in co...

Jun 10, 202540 minSeason 6Ep. 15

S6E14 Prostitutes, Sex Clubs & Wife Swaps, Pt. 2 of 3

In Part 2 of Shelley's story, she hires a private detective to uncover her husband's infidelity. Therapy sessions revealed deeper issues in their marriage and the constant gaslighting from Jay made Shelley question her own sanity. The couple explored open relationships to save their marriage, but the swinging lifestyle introduced new challenges and expectations. Eventually Shelley came to a point where she was willing to test the waters to conform to her husband's desires, but after giving it a ...

Jun 03, 202547 minSeason 6Ep. 14

S6E13 Prostitutes, Sex Clubs & Wife Swaps, Pt. 1 of 3

[AVAILABLE ON YOUTUBE] In this episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, Shelley recounts her relationship with Jay, which actually started early on as a childhood friendship and then later evolved into a marriage. Shelley's story delves into the complexities of reconnecting after years apart, navigating long-distance love, the impact of cultural and religious differences, and the challenges of trust and control within their relationship after uncovering her husband's sex addiction. Resources & Links:...

May 27, 20251 hr 2 minSeason 6Ep. 13

S6E12 Return of the Fleeing Felon: Kari’s Update

In this explosive update episode, we're circling back with Kari from Season 5’s unforgettable story, The Fleeing Felon. If you thought David's antics were over, think again. From dodging justice to dragging everyone—including us—into his legal chaos, the drama is far from done. Kari’s back to spill all the tea on what’s happened since we last heard from her, and trust us, you won’t want to miss a second. Resources & Links: 👉 Follow us on ⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠ , ⁠⁠ TikTok⁠⁠ , and ⁠⁠ Facebook⁠⁠ 👉 J...

May 20, 202556 minSeason 6Ep. 12

Unlocked Patreon Episode: Kenzie Speaks Out About Being Doxed (SWW S12) + Ana Update (EWU S5)

🎉 Unlocked Patreon Bonus Episode! 🎉 Today, we’re bringing you something very special from the vault—an episode that was previously only available to our Patreon subscribers. And trust us, this one is worth the wait. We’re catching up with two unforgettable women whose stories rocked our listeners: ✨ Ana (Season 5 of Ex-Wives Undercover) is back to spill all the tea about life after Teddy Boy. What really happened once the dust settled? Has he stayed away? Ana gives us the unfiltered update you...

May 13, 20251 hr 24 min

Feed Drop: Slaycation – "You Cruise, You Lose"

Ready for a little murder with your mai tai? Today, we’re handing over the mic to our wickedly fun friends at Slaycation—the true crime podcast that mixes tropical vibes with deadly consequences. In this snippet from Episode 19, You Cruise, You Lose, we meet Lonnie, a lawyer with a plan to rekindle the flame with his ex-wife Micki… on a cruise, no less! Sounds romantic, right? Well, until someone ends up floating in the deep blue sea. Let’s just say: it’s not the kind of splash they hoped to mak...

May 11, 202525 min

S6E11 Holier Than Thou, Pt. 3 of 3

In the powerful conclusion of our three-part series, Abby opens up about life after a high-conflict divorce marked by emotional abuse, legal battles, and co-parenting challenges with a narcissistic ex. She shares how she found strength through safety planning, family support, and personal growth. From financial struggles to rediscovering her faith and voice, Abby’s journey is one of survival, resilience, and healing. Topics Include: Navigating emotional and legal challenges Safety strategies in ...

May 06, 202556 minSeason 6Ep. 11

S6E10 Holier Than Thou, Pt. 2 of 3

In this raw and emotional episode, Abby takes us deeper into her harrowing journey. What started as one magical night with a charming stranger soon unraveled the web of control, cult-like oppression, and emotional abuse that defined her marriage to Bobby. From secret phone calls and a fleeting romance to financial manipulation and being spiritually silenced, Abby reveals the impossible decisions she had to make to reclaim her power. 🔊 What You’ll Hear in This Episode: The night Abby met someone...

Apr 29, 20251 hr 2 minSeason 6Ep. 10

S6E9 Holier Than Thou, Pt. 1 of 3

In this heartfelt episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, Abby opens up about her whirlwind romance with Bobby—from their spontaneous elopement in Reno to the deeply personal challenges that unfolded behind closed doors. Abby’s story is more than just a love tale—it's a powerful exploration of womanhood, identity, and growth. Together, we unpack the often-silenced experiences of postpartum depression, mental health stigma in religious communities, and the slow, painful unraveling of manipulation and fin...

Apr 22, 202557 minSeason 6Ep. 9

S6E8 From Perfect Husband to Life in Prison

In this deeply emotional episode, Sara opens up about her powerful journey through friendship, love, and the shattering truths that changed her life forever. What began as a fairytale romance quickly turned into a story of struggle as her husband descended into alcoholism, testing the strength of their marriage and her faith in love. Sara courageously shares the moment everything changed—a shocking revelation about her husband's abuse of a young girl, the painful investigation that followed, and...

Apr 15, 20251 hr 11 minSeason 6Ep. 8

S6E7 Who's Johnny?

In this gripping episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, we sit down with Victoria, who shares her unbelievable experience of meeting Johnny—who later turned out to be Canada’s very own Tinder Swindler [Jon Mulder]. She opens up about how their relationship unfolded, the red flags she noticed (or missed), and the shocking revelation that exposed his true identity. This eye-opening conversation sheds light on online dating scams, emotional manipulation, and the importance of staying vigilant in the digit...

Apr 08, 202539 minSeason 6Ep. 7

S6E6 From Green Flags to Red Flags

In today's podcast, you will meet a woman named Danielle who, in the beginning, saw only green flags regarding a handsome Italian professor named Luca, whom she began dating. Unfortunately, it wouldn't take too long before the green flags turned red. With Halloween around the corner and a couple of costumes picked out for the pair, Danielle would slowly unmask the many disguises her new beau was wearing. As the story unfolds, it reveals themes of deception, outrageous lies, scandal and the compl...

Apr 01, 20251 hr 5 minSeason 6Ep. 6

The A-Team Joins From Mrs. to Ms., Season Updates & More

Guess what? We had the amazing opportunity to be guests on the popular podcast From Mrs. to Ms.! 🎉 Since there won’t be a new episode of Ex-Wives Undercover this week, we’d love for you to check out our special guest appearance on From Mrs. to Ms. with Andrea. It was an absolute blast, and we know you’re going to love it! Tune in to Episode #82, show Andrea some love, and let us know what you think! 💕🎧 If you still want more Ex-Wives Undercover, Amber will be interviewed on Jake Deptula's new...

Mar 11, 20254 min

S6E5 The Hidden Dangers of Dating as a Widow with Christine Baumgartner

[VIDEO PODCAST AVAILABLE ON YOUTUBE] In this special bonus episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, Amber sits down with dating and relationship coach Christine Baumgartner to discuss the unique challenges widows face in the modern dating world. Christine, who has been both divorced and widowed, shares her personal journey, the lessons she learned, and expert advice on how to navigate dating safely and successfully after loss. From emotional vulnerability to financial scams, widows are often targeted by ...

Mar 04, 20251 hr 7 minSeason 6Ep. 5

S6E4 Ghosted, Pt. 4 of 4

[VIDEO PODCAST AVAILABLE ON YOUTUBE] In this gripping episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, we dive into Lori’s shocking experience of being ghosted by her husband, Richard Ruland, who disappeared after draining their bank account and selling her belongings. Lori’s viral TikTok detailing her ordeal garnered 1.3 million views and caught the attention of the beloved influencer, Mama Tot (Ophelia Nichols), who offered her support. Join hosts Amber and Athena as they unpack Lori’s journey, from the moment...

Feb 25, 202557 minSeason 6Ep. 4

S6E3 Ghosted, Pt. 3 of 4

[VIDEO PODCAST AVAILABLE ON YOUTUBE] In this explosive episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, we dive into Lori’s harrowing journey of deception, manipulation, and ultimate resilience. When Lori’s partner, Richard Ruland, suddenly vanishes—leaving behind a financial and emotional mess—she uncovers a tangled web of lies that span multiple marriages, false identities, and a shocking history of deceit. 🎙️ What You’ll Hear in This Episode: The red flags Lori ignored before Richard disappeared. How he meti...

Feb 18, 202548 minSeason 6Ep. 3

S6E2 Ghosted, Pt. 2 of 4

[VIDEO PODCAST AVAILABLE ON YOUTUBE] In this gripping episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, Amber and Athena dive into Lori's shocking story of deception, financial fraud, and emotional and physical abuse at the hands of her ex-husband, Richard. What started as a whirlwind romance quickly spiraled into a nightmare of manipulation and betrayal. From Richard’s dubious claims of being a former NYPD officer to his involvement in paranormal investigations, Lori soon uncovered lie after lie—culminating in a...

Feb 11, 202547 minSeason 6Ep. 2

S6E1 Ghosted, Pt. 1 of 4

Join Amber and Athena as they dive into Lori’s gripping tale of love, loss, and deceit in the first episode of Ex-Wives Undercover Season 6. After losing her husband Paul, Lori thought she found solace in Richard, a charming paranormal investigator with a knack for ghost tours and love songs. But the red flags—hidden secrets, financial manipulation, and unraveling lies—paint a darker picture. In this episode, Lori recounts her journey from love bombing to uncovering Richard’s web of deceit, incl...

Feb 04, 202548 minSeason 6Ep. 1

S5E53 | 2024 Wrap-Up | Where We've Been & Where We're Going

In this episode of Ex-Wives Undercover, we'll reflect on everything we've accomplished in 2024 and what's coming up in 2025. Topics: The stories we shared Special guests we spoke with Winning 'Best Relationship' podcast for 2024 Survey Says New stories for season 6 Advertising Patreon Docuseries and Ben update Vote for us in the 2024 DiscoverPods! More info on our special guests: Jake Deptula - Strictly Stalking and LoveLustFear MadelinetheReal - TikTok sensation and known for her Loyalty Tests ...

Jan 10, 20251 hr 3 minSeason 5Ep. 53

S5:E52 | Todd Dean Update | Patreon Bonus

Tis the season to be thankful, and we are so incredibly thankful to all of our listeners who have come on this journey with us. Here is a special bonus episode that we originally aired on our Patreon channel back in August 2024 that gives all the most recent updates regarding Todd Dean from season 5. There is a lot to unpack in this episode, and not only Jill but Roxie is joining us. Both women gave us some very insightful information that hasn't been shared publicly - they definitely shared all...

Nov 19, 20241 hr 5 minSeason 5Ep. 52

Presenting | LoveLustFear

Check out a new podcast that we think you're going to love by our friend Jake Deptula - LoveLustFear...Exposing Real Stories About Toxic Dating and Relationships. Host Jake Deptula (Strictly Stalking) welcomes storytellers into candid conversations, revealing the decisions they made and dilemmas they faced when better judgment got lost in a haze of desire. Every episode explores true dating and relationship stories—from the awkward and uncomfortable to the shocking and bizarre to the disturbing ...

Oct 19, 20242 min

Presenting | NEXT REALM

Ex-Wives Undercover co-host Amber has an all-new podcast coming out this October! NEXT REALM: Beautiful Stories from Beyond explores the profound and heartwarming stories of individuals who have experienced messages from their departed loved ones. From mysterious dreams and unexplained coincidences to undeniable signs, guests share their extraordinary encounters that go beyond the realms of explanation. Whether you are a skeptic or a believer, 'NEXT REALM' invites you to open your heart and mind...

Sep 14, 20243 min

S5:E51 | Bait & Switch + Patreon Bonus | Amanda | 4 of 4

Amanda's 4-part series has officially come to end, and in this episode, we'll speak to her about what she's learned along the way and any advice she'd give to other women who might be going through the same thing. You'll want to be sure to listen until the very end because we've added a special bonus episode from our Patreon. While Amanda's story is the final one of season 5, we will still be active over on our Patreon where we upload monthly episodes. Visit at: https://www.patreon.com/user?u=83...

Aug 07, 20241 hr 14 minSeason 5Ep. 51

S5:E50 | Bait & Switch | Amanda | 3 of 4

In part three of Amanda's story, she finds herself in a new house with James, but when his behavior starts getting suspicious, she's determined to get to the bottom of it. The back-and-forth was getting to be too much. What was the REAL truth? Want to share your story on Ex-Wives Undercover? Email us at ExWivesUndercover@Gmail.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Aug 06, 202444 minSeason 5Ep. 50

S5:E49 | Bait & Switch | Amanda | 2 of 4

After James gets Amanda a new apartment, she's still left wondering...does your wife know about me and when will the divorce be finalized? Questions continued to mount and James started getting possessive. When he fell ill and landed himself in the hospital, Amanda dropped everything to be there for him. But, his soon-to-be ex-wife never showed!!! Could he really be telling the truth? Would you like to share your story on Ex-Wives Undercover? Please send an email to ExWivesUndercover@Gmail.com F...

Jul 30, 202437 minSeason 5Ep. 49

S5:E48 | Bait & Switch | Amanda | 1 of 4

When Amanda found herself going through a divorce and struggling to make ends meet, it was a pleasant surprise to hear from an old co-worker, James. He offered her a new job and she jumped at the opportunity...only to find out a few short weeks later that it came with strings attached. Would you like to share your story on Ex-Wives Undercover? Please send an email to ExWivesUndercover@Gmail.com Follow us on social media at: Instagram - @exwivesundercover Facebook - Ex-Wives Undercover Private Fa...

Jul 23, 202441 minSeason 5Ep. 48

S5:E47 | Phoenix Rising | Zohra | 5 of 5

Meet Lilah, Al's 2nd wife who eventually experiences the wrath of Al. In this episode you will hear how the two ex-wives become friends, as well as how Zohra lands on her feet following her divorce to Al. Would Zohra ever speak to her parents again? Would she have to ever come in contact with her in-laws? Listen in and find out! Would you like to share your story on Ex-Wives Undercover? Please send an email to ExWivesUndercover@Gmail.com Follow us on social media at: Instagram - @exwivesundercov...

Jul 16, 20241 hr 2 minSeason 5Ep. 47

S5:E46 | Phoenix Rising | Zohra | 4 of 5

After an altercation with the woman she called her mother, Zohra is escorted out of her home in handcuffs. Next, the legal battle would begin. The stress increased more and more each day as Zohra was faced with the fact that she could lose everything she had worked so hard for. Would she even be able to graduate and start her career with an assault charge on her record? Would you like to share your story on Ex-Wives Undercover? Please send an email to ExWivesUndercover@Gmail.com Follow us on soc...

Jul 09, 202454 minSeason 5Ep. 46

S5:E45 | Phoenix Rising | Zohra | 3 of 5

After trying to conceive, Zohra was told her chances of getting pregnant naturally were not in the cards. To her surprise, a few years after being told that, Zohra would receive shocking news. Although she had created a plan to finish her education and do everything in her power to live independently, and start a new healthier life for herself, Zohra knew that the love she instantly felt for her baby girl would have to take precedence for now. Would this finally be the turning point where Al wou...

Jul 02, 20241 hr 7 minSeason 5Ep. 45
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