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Debt, Dark Wizards, and Dating Disasters

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In this engaging episode of "Everyday Black Men," Sham sets the stage for a conversation filled with insight, humor, and a touch of the supernatural. Riker and Reed delve into the financial world, discussing Robert Kiyosaki's staggering debt and society's penchant for excess, while also touching on Atlanta's rising status in the housing market—a development that the Black Libertarian views with skepticism. The discussion takes a whimsical turn as Reed and the Black Libertarian ponder the existence of a dark wizard influencing men's fidelity, alongside a light-hearted debate on the logistics of superheroes attending to nature's call. Just as Sham begins to see eye-to-eye with the Black Libertarian on the merits of staying single, the conversation veers off course, leading to laughter and a sharp change in direction. The episode wraps up with the Black Libertarian saying the only successful marriages are when you die, Sham expressing a desire to have Dr. Umar Johnson as a guest, and a promise of more intriguing topics to come.

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M m m m m m m h m hmmm. Uh. Don't you see to go ahead and open up the podcast? Sham, Yeah, he's talking about Hey, you're talking about Hey. That was like he talking about Hey, you talking about bud uh All that Jipper Japan ship. I don't know fucking on that mean Nick. I say it along with you in my head, I'm saying, man, start the podcast, bro, you got it? Man? Yeah? Uh thanks and lady what Thank you ladies and jump Thank you, ladies and gentlemen. Welcome to another Everyday black Man Podcasts

podcasts yea every Day black Man Thoughts. We are here with Riker, DJ Allmight, the writer Armstead on the Shredder Uh made in Tokyo, Black Libertarian read and Sham follows all off sover platforms black Space, and we'd be by him and listen to Riper for the rest of this stuff because he'll say correctly that's in the National page, the you've read to the Spank Bang Spank Bang, Yeah, our e pointer and another building and the website every Day Black

Man do Yeah peace see Nigga. I knew you could do it, man, I knew open up the podcast and do it well. Man, ladies and gentlemen, We just found out some ship that Nigga should have known. Want to begin with rich dad, poor dad is just like his poor dad. That Nigga's one point three billion dollars in debt. Is anyone here surprised? Robert? What are you talking about? We just found out that the author Robert Kiyosaki a rich dad, poor dad is actually one point three billion

dollars in debt. Will close the bank. All right. So this is an Asian guy. He didn't why he had a dad and his dad was just like a school teacher. But his dad was kind of a little bitch. His mom kind of wonted legal. So he had a friend who was kind of like you know, like that cool friend, like that cool almost like a stepdad. And he was like, yo, man, don't be like these bitches make money in these streets, bro, but do it legal,

like be a legal hustler. And so that inspired him to like bet on himself, and so he wrote a book and that became famous, and then he became a businessman and then like he was being a businessman and then he decided to be like Donald Trump, and uh uh, he is now one point three billion dollars a debt. He shouldn't be scared at all. They should be scared. That's what Double Trump said. I'm not nervous. I mean, that's living with Robert. He was like, they're the ones

who got the problem. I owe them money. What they gonna do? They can't get money out of a bloodstone like they can't. You can't go to jail for on money either. Yeah, you know whatever I wish. I would like you as more point three million dollars a deby, good luck, sir, hell a thousand dollars, Good luck, sir, Shah, God damn, he can't pay a thousand fifty dollars. Good luck sir.

Now you got forty dollars for him. You know what I'm saying that you sh bro as the song go, you better get that hid in blood. I don't mean I'm a little theory in the fluid. One point three billion? What they gonna do? That's they really again? I don't but yeah, all that ship. Robbert was talking about financial wealth and I don't know, bro, if it was that easy. I think that's why I don't really read those kind of books, like I like to know stuff about it.

You know whatever. But far as actually reading them how to get rich and all this kind of sluff, I'm always like, mm, if it's that easy and they put it in the book, why ain't everybody doing it? And then so many people who been successful doing it because every time it becomes like a cult, you don't have to bring up value tainment like that. Nigga, that's yeah. I'm like, oh, if it's that easy, whatever, because I think the stand for a long time has been by

my book, you'll be rich. No, no, no, that's not it, by my class, you'll be rich. And at the same time, I'm always getting rich on both of us things. So you know, I think the the methodology is kind of easy. If you aren't born rich, you probably won't be very rich, but you can be Okay, save more than usap not more than spend, save as much as possible, keep that number around ten to fifteen percent, and try to live a life similar

to what you've always lived. Never live outside your means. And then and I mean it doesn't really sound that hard, but it is, because the hardest thing to do is to live within your means. That's in the world the credit. That's because we live in excess like culturally co mean, yeah, man, what's living within your means? I need to car? Well, I need a car to get me the A to B. Well, you don't get a clucker. Well, that clock is gonna keeping down on

me. So I need me a new coss. Well, that new car is gonna cost like, let's take the loan seven hundred dollars a month. Seven hundred dollars a month. Damn all right, I guess I can afford that. But are you living within your music? They've got a car cost twelve hundred. I was even repay yours. But like you're mathing right, you know what I mean. But in your mind you think you're doing the right thing. Just get your little cash car and get made to be and

worry about the issues that come with it. I know one thing I said that I want to do typically, I don't want no more car notes period. I don't care how much money I don't. I hate what a passion. I realized that. But I don't want any party unless I have to. And if we do do a parlot my wife, it'll be one part with two owned cars. No more than one par No two cars. There are too many parts out there for your car, and you can get it fit. Just there's nothing about a new part of its life. I'm done.

I had the car wanted, and I wasn't. Like when I was a kid, I wanted a munch Thang, I got a Mustang. I just like, it's just a fucking That's why I tell everybody to get your drink car, and then you'll be like, oh, it's just a fucking car. Let's go get your little Toyota cameras. Although I know I want. I want to afford the brown Yo get it the old one of the new ones, the very specific old J one. Yeah, I wanted twenty that's older, not run away from the cops in the car. The car

won't is the twenty one I want. I want a twenty fifteen for an expedition. That's the last year they made the VA injured for that. That's what I'm gonna be fit for turbos. I want the VA injured and I ride that bitch to twenty twenty thirty went forty five, and my wife or whatever can have whatever kind of car you want, but me, I'm driving around this twenty thirty two. I said, twenty thirty it's already it's already almost an eight years old at this point, right nine, Because they came

out of twenty fifteen, and we can play back the tape. I thought he said twenty twenty three. That's why I was trying to throw a number about said twenty thirty, like I'm bresh three twenty three, and if it is still working, then I'll get me a I'll do a twenty twenty. Hold it ain't out one hundred thousand dollars. That is fucking ridiculous. That is fucking ridiculous. One hundred thousand dollars. Y'all ever think that a car would be the same price as the house? How hard does it? Defined?

House at one hundred thousand dollars? Now, oh man, you can find them. They're just in Arkansas, like places like Hurricane Alley, places where it's like, yeah, we sitt on this house eighty thousand, It's like, damn, that's a good price for a house. Then you find out that the last seven or eight hurricanes in the state all hit this one area, and it's like, that's why it's one hundred thousand the house, That house still standing at the all of hurricane Oh yeah, because I mean,

sorry that hurricanes. I'm in Tornados. Thank you for correcting me on that. Yeah. Yeah, What I mean is that that house in Arkansas, it'll be standing until it's not. And that's the problem is you don't know what year you're gonna finally lose. Oh an other news, it'll predicted that Atlanta would be one of the hottest housing markets in twenty twenty. What's yu thick. I mean we're pretty hot. We're pretty hot housing market last

year. So I mean the problem is too people keep moving here. Like I talked to new people like, oh yeah, man, I just move my family here. It's like, nigga, why, like, we didn't ask you to come here, Like go back, well, you know New York is, Nah, go back to your piss and ship that's where you'll like living, right, Go back there, don't come here. It's fun to hear y'all playing about it that shi's been happening for years about what happened

to Houston. Niggave. Fuck Houston. I don't even hear about it, Houston, niggas. It's just a little Atlanta. I was like, you niggas don't know ship man. Fuck Houston. We don't care about y'all, although we do want your water Burger employees. I want all them to move to Atlanta only then, But the rest of the niggas fucking But yeah, that's that's my take on it. What do you think, black libitary duck, everybody was going to Atlanta. I hope they are how they die.

And remember I had to go that dark. But yeah, remember what we were talking about frothing earlier in the last podcast. I need you to emulate behavior because you know people had to emulated you just a little bit, you know, right, man, very secret m hm. As there's a tortoise in the hair, I gotta keep going. And the tortoise. The tortoise claimed he could beat the hair in the race because the hair just wasn't shut. I'm familiar with pure gonna be twist, you know, it's gonna be

their story. And the tortoise the hair was so confident. He's like, man, I could beat this turtle any day I wanted. So he just took a nap. Well, motherfucker slept too long. He wakes up and the tortoises almost at the end of the fucking race. So he's like, I gotta catch up with these zooms off, but it was too late, tortoise one, so the hair is pissed, but he just walks off. The tortoise goes home to his tortoise family, and the tortoise is like,

man, He tells his little tortoise kids and his tortoise wife. You know, man, you know, I never thought I could do it, but I just kept pushing. I kept doing my best, you know what I mean, because I really wanted to win. And kids, if you persevere and keep pushing, you can do it bleeding yourself. Well, just that moment, the hair kicked in the door of the tortoise house with a double gates of two gates shotgun and blew the whole family apart and then ate their

dinner because the hair always wins. Now, now let's go back. How's that relevant anything we were just talking about. I love this though. Man, if you don't understand what it's understood, doesn't have to be explained people who needed to hear it, So don't call it any perfect questions. You may not be here all the way. Maybe I could be wrong kind of thinking that Nigga ain't here right, but he's here, so yeah, well, they heard the last podcast, they know exactly why it's making so pissed.

But at the same time, that's why you need to subscribe to our Patreon because all kinds of exclusive episodes that you only hear if you wanted the

crew. That's just how it goose. That's just how it is. But all that aside, besides the hair, you know, there's a third part of that story, Black Libertarian, where basically there was a person, not a person I think it was, there was another slow animals like a slothed or something, and basically they do the same thing, so the hair, and it just becomes like this this outright animal kingdom apocalypse kind of thing. Oh for real, I didn't know that. Yeah, it's a third part.

It gets it gets real crazy. Why what did the slow feel to him? Oh? Because slow niggas stick together, This nigga, this niggas thought of all the possibilities. God damn, that's fucking funny, man, that's some funny ship. Slow niggas stick together, man, be careful, that's ship. Funny is here we got Okay, that's fucking Oh that's funny. It is, man, it is. But what's just as funny and something we need to do brothers, we got to stick together. That just

reminded me of what doctor Umar Doesne said. So, doctor Umar was on the podcast doing his normal you know doctor Umar thing, which is talking a whole bunch of Pan African ship even though he ain't got that goddamn school together and hasn't given no timelines and ain't given no updates and basically hasn't done ship continue. Yeah, I know, but you know, people all try to act like doctor Umar, some sort of man who has all these things that

he's done, and you know he's done so much. But exactly that's that's literally what he does. Man, he says, Look, man, I'm doctor Umar. No, No, see you're doing it again. Just no, man, he's a doctor, bro, he a doctor. What relevant. He's a doctor of psychiatry like psychologry. No, no, psychology, astrology No he's not astrologists, bro, Australia astrologist is not really an anthropologist. No, man, he's a psychiatrist certific. Yeah, he's a school

psychologist. Yeah, but yeah he's bored certified. But I'd be bored sometimes too. Yeah, but he board certified. Bro, like you, you could be bored, but you got to be bored and certified. All them books don't read. I see why they're bored. I see why I can't get certified. But getting back to the real point of the story, Doctor Umar said that he got some beef with the Kobe Bryant's late ex wife because she got all this money and she ain't spending on the black community, not

a dime you and somebody else's pocket. Bro, we only talk about Umar needs to just die like that. Tell him about what's bad on him. I'm tired of him gonna do the ship but trying to keep himself. Brother, He's just a fucking parride. This niggas a grifter, bro. Actually, man, we got the opportunity to have him on the podcast. Man, would you be okay with that man? Bring his stupid ass on. I will argue his ass down. Bro, bring doctor. I see what

you don't do. Brothers, talk to another man who his worked his way to be called something. Brother, Okay, yeah, I've worked. I worked my way. I worked my way to be called a libertarian, and you can shut the fuck up talking to me. How about that? You ever hear people and they like I worked so damn hard. That man worked hard, Like everybody works hard, and he worked hard bro hard. You ever hear that? That's not I'm not anything, because like Kevin Hart's the

hardest working, Like I mean, even Dave Chappelle game is flower. He's like, he's the only only comedian who could be a drake song man. He got everything, He got everything, but my nigga, Samuel Jackson got my movie then yeah, and his movies have made more money. But Kevin Hart is the only nigga that could get caught cheating on his wife marry the mistress, then get caught cheating on another wife and his other wife. She is so used to this laughing loves me. She's like, well, then

fuck the hope. I don't care because you notice, ain't nobody said anything about the fact that Kevin Hart, his own goddamn secretary is like, yeah, man, he was sucking that bitch in it's goddamn room, like you fucking something, thick ass white bitch. I mean, bitch is cute, but he's sucking the thick ass white bitch. Doctor Martina, look like we needed to steal this this any man who has a lot of wealth, nine times out of times he's probably gonna cheat on you. No, man,

there's a there's a wizard. There's a dark wizard that makes them cheat. Yeah, there's a dark wizard casting spells that makes men with a lot of money. Man, get real Nigerian right quick? No no no, no, no, no, I get it. I know what that is after reference. If you get it, you get it now. Us telling it won't make it funny. But yeah, there's a dark wizard. Yeah, we have to kill the alien. We got to kill. Yeah, it's taking over people's minds, making them cheat on they lie and sh Yeah.

Man, it's not man's fault. It's the dark wizard. You can't you don't want to be possessed by this dark wizard because it's it's extremely terrifying. Mm hmm. Yeah. No, he's just the dark wizard that just like they go the rich man and man make them cheat on their wives. The men are cheating on they're on the door. It's the wizard putting the spell on them or as an alien. I can't remember where is when it was

we got them. I want to apologize that everybody who's listening to the podcast today because I'm kind of going through something so it may get a little weird, real fast, weird, weird than normal. Oh yeah, we might be going off the rails today. Everybody said to another, how far how far off the rails are we going? Uh? Well, he might have the drinks ship. That's what Drake said before he started becoming Drake. No, I want that. I hate you do that, you do that?

You just fun Drake is there's nothing sorry, that's that's exactly how Aubrey started. Had never started anyway, And I don't know, I guess so much why you hate Drake. Motherfuckers all the goddamn Drake. I'm not mad about that. Yeah, but you know, yeah, mm hmm, fuck everything, fut ship this, niggas go this, niggas going straight dark libertarian. All right, let's see where this is gonna go. Go ahead, get to goddamn ship, y'all. Don't never feel like that, just like,

fuck the goddamn ship, man. Nah, oh, fuck the goddamn ship. Yea. But yeah, at the same time, you know what I mean, bro, Yeah, but you can't get rid of no, no, no, no, no, bro. This is something I was thinking about, and I know we got a schedule and ship, but I really want to put this out there, Superman, Batman, all the motherfuckers, right, you're telling me all that jumping around the niggas do they ain't never

had to take a ship. I mean, it's really review was this is what this man meant by It was gonna get weird, all right, you just gotta think about it. Most of them their little panties on the outside should be dark colors. Because I was like Batman, I mean, I know this is off topic, but all the comic book lyrics, I'm gonna tell y'all something. All the niggas y'all look up to, they shipping on

themselves. They got to be I mean, maybe not suitingman. The faster you moved, the faster you got a ship, you know what I mean, the more you understand. Actually, actually Flash talked about that on one of them, one of them shows. He was like, yeah, see, people think I don't have to use the restaurant singers. I'm so fast. I can literally take a ship, be done clean myself and you'll never

know. So there's millions of different people whose houses the Flash is taking a ship in, and they literally didn't know because the only thing that they noticed was that ship appeared in the toilet and was going down by the time they turned around. I appreciate that it was addressed, you know, I appreciate that it was addressed. But we can continue my bad. I just had to get that out. Man. It was really bothering me because I didn't

know when the neighbors were taking that shit. It's a weird ass outfits that you haven't I mean, that's just that one. That's just that one example. I mean that doesn't say anything about Batman and a man. And then he's got it. He's got Alfred to be his little like you know, uh like laundry Bridge or whatever. Laundry bitch. I like that he might be. He might be shipping in every eugn form every time he goes out.

He gotta be shipped in that uniform. Bro. I just don't believe that man ain't taking it, Bro, Batman, he don't really He don't really eat solid food, bro, Bro his whole remember his alter ego as a playboy, He's gonna have to be seen eating solid food. Yeah, that's why he's such a playboy. It's because people think that he's just recluse and he's so mysterious. But they only ever see him drinking, you think at all? It's the whole persona is that he's like a billiona or a

trillionaire playboy. They just don't talk about it. Remember man, that woman talk about it. She was like, we don't ever see Batman eat, and I think, or we don't ever see Bruce Wayne eat. Y'all don't think that's a little weird. And nobody says because we're like, why did anyone ask you? So? Hold on? They brought it up before, Bruce. Yeah, they brought up before and they're like, why don't we ever see Bruce lay heaty thing? Now this may have been an eight band

video, but it's still counts. Okay, well, see, look, I'm glad we're having this conversation. I'm not the only person who wanted to address the elephant in the room. Okay, so I feel a little bit better. But there's one other thing I wanted to bring up on the podcast. There's a restaurant called Milk and Honey, and I have surmised that there's an African American establishment. Now, wait, do you mean the original Milk and Honey or milk and Honey? Because this ma's gonna sway that's gonna sway?

Which one I want? Is it the original milk and honey you're talking about or milk and honey? I know the name alone, milking honey. Now, I ain't no milky. I got milk good. Well. I told him I could do that with anything. You cannot do that with anything. We is trying to recommend milk and honey, and I don't think a man should recommend to another man milk and honey. Now, y'all let me know your thoughts on this in the interweb, okay, because I know there's

some other men out there that refuse to eat it. A place called milk and honey like that? Yeah, saying it like the name. I don't know what way I said it? Did? I say? No? It's just you. You say it in a way that makes it very homootic. It is, bro, you milk and honey like you never said it like that? Even even what's his name, Keith leey To saying like that? Nigga? You you make your game, bro? Why are you trying to make a gay against milk honey? What are they? What do they do

to you? Bro? It sounds good? You make it sound good. Exactly. It's just as you can't bro yes, you can't. Yes, you can't you doing there's some word who can't make sound gay? All right? Make sound game? Make test tossed the roone sound gay? Make you know? Throw? I like this sounds like it set up to me. Yeah, niggas gay? You? I mean, were you are gay? How do you know that another man is gay? Unless you are gay? Man? You are gay? No, sir, you are you? Why

are you enough? And some uh like rural areas? That's an actual issue? What's an actual issue? You know? So essentially yes to all the above what y'all just said, and which y'all about to say, because what I'm gonna trying to say. So to make the accutization that someone was either gay, homosexual, or for instance, might be cheating on their significant other, you would have to be present. However, under Sharia law, this means that you're committed to sin, So to tell on somebody would be the

same as taking on the punishment for whatever they did. Oh shit, oh shit, yeah, I had that happen with the relatives. So if you call a nigga gay, you gay? Uh, it's more Yeah, essentially, because it's like, how'd you know, well, I saw him you were looking at gauge. Well, no, that sounds that's what I'm saying. But it was it wasn't flagation. It was it was somebody was accused

of witchcraft. They saw somebody at one of the witchy shrines and they're like, how did you know that this person was at the witchy trying It's like, are you a witch? And that's what the conversation ended. That's magic doesn't work anymore. Now their magic does still work. Bro, I'm getting by the amount of like black. I mean, you could say people gay, bro were talking about witches right now. Man, it's a real threat. All right. It's just funny that the African dude you are gay.

Yeah, but a lot of them think that, like they really do think like Bro, that is how we know that you get what is your problem? Do you know? The way? Man? We're racist? I didn't even know to be funny, Broganda knuckles. I can't be racist, Bro. I'm married to the culture. That's that's like some ship that white woman say I have a black husband. That's the same ship. Nah, Bro, I became established then the culture. I learned their ways. I was

still learning. I still call niggas too, and they be looking so surprised, like, did you just called me nigga? No, it's okay, I've integrated with you exactly. I integrated with you. You a nigga, now that I said correct way, Because yeah, y'all be saying that ship like white people, which means you cannot say it. You what did you say? You said? Oh, yeah, they normally get stuck at the niga, but it starts at the nigger. It's like you just said that

like a white person. No, no, you mean nigger, and it's like, no, no, that's not that's not it. Oh niga. It's like you're so close, but you can't get over that hill. They die on that hill. They die on that hill. They kicked the niga tona. It's like they can't get the men. So can they say the words like knitting or ask one of them next time you're around to say knitting and you're gonna see, Oh, they don't say none of that ship, right, m This is somebody racist. He houses enough of them where he

can do it exactly, bro. Like I have a whole rehabilitation camp for them, bro, Like, like you know, what I'm saying, Bro, I have earned the ability to call them out on their ship because they called out stuff all the time. Sham was having a conversation with them when they were like, he's Black Americans. It's so lazy, and it's like, wha, don't we got that nigga over there and that nigga over there

and that nigga there who ain't had a job in four years. But you have to understand he has come to a country ah lazy as lazy nigga. That's it. There's no we got it, no no Olhough, I completely agree this nigga did not help me at all with his ship. Nigga, you should go down to MVP because you literally moved in and tied niggas studio apartment by yourself while he was talking. The nigga didn't need move bro, Bro, Bro, Bro, do you know the last chick who abandoned me

when times were rough? After that, I started hanging with James Robinson. I wonder what's gonna happen now? Yo. I saw this thing the other day. It had a highlight reel up James Robinson for real? Yeah? I said that, UH said? I guess the wrong. I guess I said you were that football player called James Robinson. Yeah, that James Robinson, that nigga, that nigga stick in the movie They can't catch me too fast, he's black lightning. But I just I just remembered that it was

Genisa, another child at college. Ship to man, I started hanging around James Robinson. Crazy. Oh man, Wait was James Robinson that town? Heh nah, that nigga went straight to the military. Bro. The sh ain't do him no good because he is he went a wall. He went, he went a wall, Bro. I mean, the military don't exactly attract the most sound are people with most sound mind. I guess you know. I mean, I guess my point of saying that is like, I'm

kind of terrified. You shouldn't be terrified, man, you should just have a what you call it, backup playing. No, I don't think you understand what happened with me and James Robinson when well, I know what it solves it. The only thing that solved it was time. Time and Tiffany the time I met this girl at the podcast started already. Yeah, he even mentioned the Foremo Dog Williams. Nigga, you started the podcast, nigga, it was you. He dog the ship out of everybody this week,

and yeah, out everybody. He just called niggas. You know, look, look, look you can't be afraid of the truth. Williams cat cat. Yeah he's dog Williams niggas dog with two g's. Everybody response calls him crazy, but they don't down to liar. I think that's the funniest parts, just like, yeah, the smile was funny. He was like, it's been so hurtful what he said. It's like, nigga, he just called you a man who you know you tewed it up a little bit. He can get on. I'm just saying, I mean, he said that

he's terrible. He said that he was remember what he said that part about being in the room, and he was like, I just like he did to get here. What did you two do? One of those niggas was Ricky smile. The implication was there, ed he didn't say it was Kat Williams. It was right, Ricky smiles. Ricky smile ain't fucking funny.

It's funny. You can't even do anymore, Like you can't do this, like my grandma used to love Ricky Smile, Yeah, Smiley was that nigga centric and Steve Harvey the old country niggas ain't thinking funny, the old chipming circuit niggas, I don't think. But another nigga they say, I don't think I need to watch him again because I probably haven't set through it. But DC Young Fly, I don't think he's funny. I feel like I'm missing through him. Nah, he's not funny. Bro he ignorant. Ain't

funny. That one niggas funny though, I think they all for a while. Now, what's that nigga who going around saying all that crazy ain't crazy? He just it was one nigga who was actually funny, Houston Hood, but he went to jail. I can't remember his name. That one nigga you always talk about. Ricker, the nigga would just be saying all that ship about women and niggas and ship what Scott. Nah, he's from that DC crew, all of them niggas they can and all the niggas. Uh,

he got his own podcast. He's always saying ships like the problem with two bitches, this this, this, this, this, I don't hear. They ain't gonna ain't gonna let me find what's what's Yeah, Corey Holk, Yeah, Cory holkom funny. I see, but women don't actually love you, bro. What I mean it's not that women don't love you, is that they love differently. And so you got to understand that women are never gonna be able to love you the way that you want to one hundred

percent be loved. You gotta kind of you know, it's like somebody whose love language just does the master workscause women to understand. Men want consistency. Women are just like they want to do things based on I felt this way. So I made you a whole bunch of ship and breakfast and I'm gonna suck you dick today. And then the next day she's like, I don't feel like doing ship, so I guess if you want to fuck, I'm gonna lay here. And you know it is based on feelings. I saw,

hold on, let me get this out. And these women were defending this woman. She puts her man on the timer of how much sex they have when they have sex, and she doesn't work. He faced her bell like, well, we got four kids, I'll be tired all that you need to leave that betch. Yeah, I was like, he's leave her cheek and they were like that's wrong, and they were all like, you don't get it, you don't understand. I'm just like they what the what

do you understand? Bet, you not doing no goddamn work. You are not doing work in the sex. It is on him unless you want of those zero points zero one percent of women who can actually ride, you're not doing ship. It's gonna be one hundred percent honest. I mean, I know, but the whole point is being ridiculous. Yeah, women, women love you, nigga, I don't love me. I mean yeah, but I mean, nigga, you're hard to love for what I've heard. Yeah, I am. I am mark what. I don't think that you stick

it out when you know it's time to go. That's what you're saying on the other podcast said he listened to you, he's gonna leave now the first signe of sister, he leaves, not the first sign Like everybody got some ship, but I'm out lived stand for And that's okay, you operate like that, but certain ship is unacceptable and you know think no, you know on the individual who honest with you, I'm just not gonna do it. You know. I mean, yeah, you fail enough ship, you know,

and it's time, my man out there. If you fail at enough ship, you know what, this just may not be. Maybe I need to do something else, you know, like work hard by a boat, you know what I'm saying, like you know something else? Yeah, yeah, yeah, family, no one else. I agree with that, but hey, you know whatever, agree with me. No, let me tell you something, young man out there, do not buy the lie that there's somebody f everybody you. It may not be nobody. You've already cut out

like fifty percent of women and then you're just sticking with black women. So I mean, like, I think I agree with that though, go ahead, all right, So it sounds fucked up. You know, maybe it's not someone for everybody, and I think that that's true. I don't think that it's a complete one, the one where it's just like, oh you you just can't hand nobody. I think it's more like some people will be like what do you call it, essentially stopping themselves, like they don't want

to be anything other than what they are being. Yeah, and so trying to cuss them off from whoever might be an option to begin with. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Some people it's just maybe, but now that they don't exist, it's just that it won't work. It won't work. You know what I'm saying? Thank you, Bro, I appreciate you, Sun but eloquently putting that you are a valued member of this team. Hell somewhere agree with that. I guess break it down, y'all are not saying

the same thing. But you know, I'm we're definitely saying the same thing. Bro, you are not saying the same thing. What am I? What am I not saying? Sir? Hey sham? Yeah, so you there's not one for everyone? But does that mean you quit? Yes, yes, it's the same as losing. Bro. Let me ask you a question. Until you stop trying. Yeah, what's the point of trying something that doesn't work? You put your efforts towards something more useful of your time.

I feel I feel number one that looks that you gotta consider what you're putting online in the first place, because is it worth it? But in everything, you're not going to be a master at anything the first time. Hell, you got your current job due to failure. At some point, you can't anything some type of success, right, eventually, right, you have success with women to No, I haven't all relationships or failures until you

die. All right, I don't know what you're talking about now. Two minutes you you the only way to have a successful marriage is to die, because up until that point you can still get divorced. That's my point. What she was cheating on you when you found that out, like post game or whatever you want to call it, I mean, then it's also not successful. But my point is it's the only way that successful. You stay with her because you didn't know what you were cheating on you. Brothers,

it's not successful till you die. That's the only time you have a successful relationship. Is there a specific reason why death? Yeah, because up until then it could fail. That's my point. Until yes, you see what I'm saying, you can't have a successful one until you die. There's no sense to you you would want to have you would want to have a happy one until it was successful. Yeah, okay, yeah, I agree. So therefore I am a habitual failure, so that everybody who's not success is

literally in the same vote. That's fine, bro, but we're not all the same. Bro. Listen list what I'm saying, some niggas can work on the car and they can build out the car and it's a good car. Right, car works another nigga. It takes ten months to build that car. But really maybe he's better selling the car. He just makes it ten months of his life trying to do something good at So the point is is that then they we're all different and unique individuals in this world. Maybe

let's let's entertain the idea. Maybe I'm just not good. Could it be you or could it be the other person? It doesn't matter whether it's you are the other person. If you have multiple failures in an avenue, why not try something different? Yeah, you could work on you like, that's the one upside to things that actually you all they want. But the problem

with relationships they require two people. Bro, you might not be changing your personality, might be changing your perception of what is something that's acceptable as far as what you're doing. It couldn't be from the same pool they did start dating African. No, you ain't try it yet, No, no, whenever, he's right already Absolutely, You're just said you're tired of doing things the same way I'm saying, let's get no, no, no, no, no, no, no, Why not bailed? Why can't you bail?

Why? Hold? Why is bailing such a bad option for you all? Why do y'all hate the idea of just quitting? Yeah, but I'm not quitting everything, just quitting this. It's not working? Fuck it. I mean, I'm two seconds away from saying, nigga, just go be gay? Why do you Why do you have to do that? Why can't it just be nothing? What? What? What escapes your mind? Then if we find out that you even so much as looked at a woman outside of your porn site, which I keep telling them link she's too nasty dot

com. Outside of that, if you look at a woman, I'm gonna have some problems with you. But all right, let's go ahead back in the crazies on. Go ahead, share what's telling? I thought you're gonna pick up where he left off? But go ahead, go ahead, go ahead, black tern. I just don't understand why y'all can't accept the idea of just quitting, Like, why is this such a foreign concept that bothers

you all so much? Why can't anybody just say fuck this? I mean, how many people have stopped working at nine to five and started their own way of working millions. Yeah, but they're not doing it the old way. They found a new way to survive and make money. Right, Right, you're talking about a relationship versus something that's more monetary, and I mean, I guess it is implicitly applied. You will typically have to have some type of you know, social interaction at work, but it's still work,

and you can minimize that. It's hard to minimalize the social aspect of a relationship with another person unless you just kind of a situation where I guess it's a master or something like that. I do not minimize. How do you not minimize it? You just stop, come home, you work out, you work on your craft. I mean, bro, if that was true, people couldn't take breaks, right, I don't necessarily understand that analogy. You got to you got to break down that for me. You're telling me

that I couldn't just not participate. I'm not saying you can't. You can't not participate. It just it seems it would be we would be remiss if you gave up the chance that happiness or some girl who why is happiness? Why does happiness require another mother? Because you're happy? But bro, I can be happy by myself. Y'all. Needs can't be outed by yourself. You're just saying you've been in more relationships and everybody can buy So I mean

that's your No. I mean, but I've been I've also been by myself longer than a lot of people outside and Sham. No, No, that's Sham. So that's what I'm saying. We can't do with more relationships,

with more So now I said it's outside of Sham. Okay, I have been also by myself a lot more than the two people who are more than anybody other than Sham and Riker. So my point is, if Sham can sit here in complete and absolute solitude, why what is the what idea of absolute solitude bothers you all to the point where somebody can't just say I can't. We know plenty of black women are going to have to go fucking about years correct the topic at that. I'm good. No, there's no benefit

to having a woman other than fad No. No, in general, what do you gain that you can't gain from yourself? What? What do you get that you couldn't get yourself? Kids? All that? If you don't want any more of those motherfuck. I'm not gonna suck my own dick. You can just beat it if you do the same to you. No, no, what I'm saying. If you don't like beating your dick, that's something mental, bro, But beating your dick feel just as good. I mean, I just ask to you. Okay, okay, all right,

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