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Black Salt, White Pepper (Part 2)

Dec 25, 202347 minSeason 15Ep. 6
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In the latest episode of "Everyday Black Men," hosts Riker, Reed, Tatyanna, Sham, Shon da Shredder, and the Black Libertarian dive into various engaging topics. They kick off the discussion with a thought-provoking debate on why podcasts may be less popular among women, sparking diverse viewpoints. Reed introduces an interesting concept that everyone should have a personal catchphrase, leading to a humorous exchange of ideas. The conversation takes a more personal turn as Riker prompts each member to share their "worst fumble the bag" moment, revealing funny and serious experiences. Particularly gripping is Sham's recount of Tatyanna's risky trip with minimal protection, and Shon shares his own near-miss story about failing to navigate Netflix in its early days, adding depth and relatability to the episode.

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M m m mm hmmm hm. You were having a baby. Whenever I find a husband, husband, good answer, good ass finds you? Remember you ain't looking for him? Correct that neither another day? Who finds you? Yeah, he hasn't find you, not the other way around. Don't don't sleep, stay woke, don't sleep sick nigga sleeping. Thank you for reminding me. But if you, if you don't ever sleep, you can have heart problems. So so sleep some No, no, don't be sleep, bro, don't be sleep. As a college student, on average,

I get like three four hours. You didn't sleep some more. Yeah, this is someone who gets five. Only get five, But I do more with five than a lot of people do it. Make sure you're drinking enough water. Yeah, that's the man. I'm a recovering ALKI recover. Yeah, you sound like a fucking quitter. That's your problem. You want words words until he out a liquor. That's what alcoholics is always. I don't listen. Don't listen to people. I got problems more liquid, but solving

It's okay. They're just two black men. That's gonna always be at the bottom. But I like listening to the power bottom. No, it don't matter where I am work, doesn't matter what you think. A black man carey the black man say that's why because we don't care now to do because y'all are all dumb. This is why we date white men. So y'all don't y'all ain't get him to no white man. That is the problem. White man, little get old blad. Y'all got your snow bunnies. We

got our snow tigers, that's all. Kelsey Charvis Kelson said that that that's that guy's man. I remember, I don't want to say that the white football dude. I don't see. No, we're just working with you. Now what I'm saying like, we don't know that's the that's you. You can't say it. We're gonna keep on going. That's the vibe. All right. We gotta take this cart out anyway. Got that? Charvis Kelson left, Yeah, he said back to the snow because, uh, this

tar ain't working so well. Tar is babies at tacking bat black women. Tar babies. You had to be a tar baby than a damn monkey. All like that, Blue girl. Wait, hold on the same conversation. Everything goes a lot of conversations. No, I don't believe that it was one time. We haven't all that. I used to have this. I used to have sayings, but I forgot what they were. I'm gonna start bringing them back. So I thought everybody should have a catch phrase. And

he put on a T shirt. My catch phrase was going to be catchphrase. Did you see it? Oh, not wear that shirt? I guess the first review mat T shirt and women with shut up. No, I don't even want to make it. Then what does black libertarian go to? I feel like he would have took that. I got a lot for him. Yeah, that nigga, that nigga saying it that I always remember. It was this girl. He kind of cheated on him. The nigga was like, I don't care how long he wasn't even up said. He just

said, hold on. My favorite thing he's ever said. In reference to a conversation about somebody that you introduced, but they got plans for him, but they just wanted you to meet him. He said, don't introduce if I can't seduce beautiful. I respect that I did it better let me fuck that's cock. See that's better. It's direct. We had about how clitterists are just inverted penis. Yeah, I remember he dated a girl he told he said she got a giant clitters. He said it was like a miniature

penis and he could suck with her. He said, you never with her. That he sucked it for years. I mean years. He literally sang and I got a video of him singing it. Your glitterist is too big for me. I think it was big Rouse more Rouse. Yeah. So when you hear it, it's like a little dick hit you in your little good He got a little bit. I ain't never met a girl like that. I was curious that I was going to see it. Yeah, I just want to see it. So the second articles, while you're second a

little dick man, I don't talk about this. I do want to get back on the subject. So, black women, why are you all saying that Travis Kelsey went to Taylor Swift, By the way, as a black man, Taylor Swift is not tracked it a little bit. I'm not upset at all as much white men that we divert from the path the better. Why do you think white men don't marry black women but they fuck them because everybody think chocolate is exotic. Of course they're going to try it before they

go back to their people. So you want no niggas just to use it. I don't, but I guess we do. I mean black men do the same thing. Every black man want the white girl or Asian, but with black women. Broers want to fuck us. Indians want to fuck us, Hispanic win the fuck us. Everybody in their mama want to fuck us. I want to be fair, Like if you anybody on TV, it's normally somebody is not real. But that's because they're over sexual lives. But

they blame they blame men for that. I mean it is our media. It's both and women's fauts. Because how I'm not about to tell you to put on them short dress and get no ass shots. I ain't never heard the nigga whle. These young niggas be saying that ship go get some man shots. How do you expect to be respected? And you bending over in every picture you post? What you mean, it's up to the man to

be strong enough to look past that. That's sat on the podcasts, like the nigga said, I don't want my wife to her underwear on Instagram, Like what kind of ship is that? And I was like damnigga. I respect that. I do too, because why are you posting something that only I'm supposed to see? That's because there you don't worry about it. He is he's from a woman perspective. How much of where do you want to see you? Because most of these girls, when you see HI naked,

you ain't even it ain't even good anymore, No, it's not. That's the thing about being models mysterious and whatnoted to be a skill to know what it looked like up it before you saw it. Now it's just like you already know Google it like it kind of like that. The only thing you'll get some weird nipples if they too big or too small, you know,

the areolar Sometimes you get them muddy ones. Muddy areo, yeah, muddy titty like you know how some girls don't have like a real prominent nipple type Like I'm not talking about the ones where it's completely flat, but they just got some nipples. Why met a girl. Hers were like that, but she also had inverted nipples at the same time, so it was just kind of like muddy. I don't think about titties, bro, Nigga have inverted nipples. The third nipples. I had no problem. His nipples looked like

elids. I was intrigued. I did was there some niggas like getting their nipples? So it wasn't a thing for me. I'm like, get off me. Yeah, I push ain't pushed on reaction one time. She's just do this like my b you know, you know, working on my these titties. Things that ain't my fault, my niggas. Trader went from titty to her chest. M I appreciate men who take care of their bodies because a lot do not. Big ain't got to do all that. It's a

lot of that's crazy. So what you're saying, you like five hundred hours right now, but you got a big da I'll fix for three wordy five fould. No discrimination against big men or fat men. I'm not fair racist? Oh very racist? Oh how big are you? How much you want? I al wait one forty Oh that's a big woman at five for five hour? Maybe a four eleven and a half four eleven and a half. That's that's that depend on where its though. Oh no, my sister's pregnant.

She never loved picture her like, so she got here. Oh we'll belyve I mean it's a short women. Oh no, my sister, don't. I was afraid of her. I was like, she had a baby. Did she give back? She had a baby? What you mean? Uh that? Yeah, a little bit. But if you had seen her initially that she would have been like, I don't know if you want to pursue this route. Man, Now all women got here? Yeah, I don't see some flat ones. He said, Bassay, you hang around a

lot of niggas, don't you. I grew up around a lot of men. Tall man, short man, big man, small man. Seen is five to nine, but my dad is six, my little brother is six three. You just live like a place of giants. And my little sister, littlest sister is five ten. Yeah, you a midget in your family. About if you said he was around a baby, My baby sister, and she's gonna be up there. Yeahs tell where are you moving to it? To pursue your rap career? To pursue my wrap career is crazy.

This music is not something I'm going to take serious at all. You're good, good because it'll give you nothing but heartbreaking your hate music for the rest of your life. Surprisingly tapped in with a lot of people I didn't even want to be Oh, I know, I know they've tried. I mean, how much do you get and can you support this podcast? And if not, I look, come on the podcast or your podcast. I don't have a podcast. If I did, then a lot of women hate me

every day. Tati the podcast. We're trying to get paid m M. It wouldn't be called that, it would be called something else. Black women need to be better. It's pretty mean. So don't take that name. That fact, I already have a name. If I ever do a podcast, it's now because shut up, bitch. The shirt is just self advertising the show. Yeah, we do not let this man do any podcast because that is oh okay. So that kind of reminds me this week. That's

how this video is kind of going viral. With this one was like what black men and black women won't argument? And all these black men with this podcast telling black women this and that and blah blah blah, and like my argument against her was just like for years, you only have one side of the discussion. Now women are getting a little upset that these men are out here saying the other side and they're acting like there're so this this this.

These are men's conversations. These are just their natural thoughts and opinions, and they hate it, these blads. This is why women went get on my nerves because they're not considered. All they care about is themselves and they don't look at the long picture of daytime touch television programming women. For years, black women, we used to watch Oprah and think they were cool with white women and that's why they vote Democrat. Y, you ain't supposed to vote

at all. Stay your ass home. Oh you can't talk as somebody for years and they stay silent, and then when they finally open them mouth to speak, you get upset. You almost ain't like a good woman, but you might be talking that kid, bro, you got you always gotta be watched out for. I would definitely say keep your eye on anybody who's like that because it's always something deeper. Y'all see the iceberg. Now home, You can't be giving me advice. I have a look. I've had a

long term relationship. I had nine months, so believe me, I know that was an advice long o yea, I got in sures relationships six months, two weeks. That's a long gras relationship. With two weeks. Two weeks, hey, to be fair, if it was two weeks, there was some crazy shit. Now it's like all right, peace on and off for six years. For me, that was the craziest thing I've ever experienced in my life. How old are you under twenty five or over twenty five?

Under twenty five? Between twenty and twenty five? Yes, we don't got sist your relationship, young lady. I know you do. What'll we done? No? I don't either, That's what did though? Did I really comment or did you think I comment? Oh? Here we go with the we mention it two times, there we go? What does it really matter? If I would have mentioned the third time, I would agree. But that don't mean that. It mean that when it meant that, Well,

I left that conversation and came on Friday. I just want to put twenty something, twenty eight, twenty one. Are you a twenty one? Save it's twenty one with no kids, twenty two, twenty two with no kids. Now it's time for some nigga to ruin your life. Nigga's out there and the trade shoot the club up like it's the end of the day. They could try what I just recovered from being niggas. Ain't gonna last her twelve and give her a baby her last year of college, okay,

or talk to her last year. I was just trying to ruin your life, but not really actively seeking the room my life. You definitely gonna stay at the bottom. Back there we go, black man at the bottom, and we're gonna bring you down or with us, h at the bottom. All my niggas done at the bottom. Go find my girl tet and ruin her life. And when when it's ruining, I'm gonna be right there and be like, oh you to find a man in college. I'm glad I

know you in a slaveh days. Yep, that's me. You're probably wondering how I ended up in this situation. Would be I would all be changed together, nigga. That would kill both of y'all. No, nigga, I would be that's she would be. She would be outside and I would be out. I would be inside, said the ship. I think she darkskin right, brown, you're brown fiel right, I'm not. Yeah. You they'd be raping you too, looking at them here, they be raping

the hell out of you. I wouldn't protect you, though, I'm sorry, but what what you feeling? Libertarian? They will you know exactly why, trying to make sure the Master would be raping you? Oh be raping. I'm letting it happen. Also, you would die. Brittany would Britney Rnner? She ain't exist back then. She she wouldn't have should be inside, I'd be. I mean, I don't think the song would I be. I'll be an inside kid, because you know what are you talking about?

Bro? He was male. That's a misconception. It was. They rarely let any males be inside the house on a poach. It's a poach, nigga, bro, not inside pacha. After we start on a porch, did you sit there? If anybody passed by in the car, you make sure that ship is actually supposed to be there. There's no cars back then. I'm sorry what we did. Should a right horse coming to pass the house? Yeah? Yeah yeah. If it's things ain't changed. It's a joke. You don't take it out anyway. That was the best drugs

in the Master rape barn. To be fair, he might have raped one of us too, because we again again I'm not keeping any of this man. I would have to kill so many people. I died your profile. She is definitely getting took by massive. I'm biting that you read. He's gonna be like, I want that and I need. I'm biting that dick all the way off. It's gonna be his guilty pleasure. He gonna be his dick. Gone, I'm biting dick. We don't never send me to

jail. I got you, hold you down. You already gay because you already agreed to it. So you gotta buy it off. You gotta buite it though. I'll be like that niggai in your mouth. Oh what, that's how you started from it all? I don't know how what? What do you know that? I don't know way more than me? Uh that subject. I feel like you can get some bits and pieces out of there. You can you come back giving get fifteen percent of the lasts from your yes, be killing me? I speak mostly well yeah to you. You

know. Let me close the door so I can be black for a second. I could be all right. You can hear the Africans saying, go ahead and put it on for yous and you you now as pizza. She need to calm down, okay, calm down, all right, like that song by Rima Calm Down One Family. Oh you're Jamaican? Are you African? I don't know where you are? I am both? No her me, no one, She's both. Okay, Tatiana being spicy. Have a negro pepper that's like a black pepper. Yeah, you thought you had black

pepper? Do I have black? I got as a reserve. Black song, white pepper, black song, white pepper. Who knows? That's gonna be the name of my podcast? Okay, you you heard you heard it here today. First folks, you're doing our black podcast network. We'll put you on correct the first guest. Yeah, And because he's so controversial, just get him to say anything, and it's gonna go. You're gonna go back and forth Cynthia g and Kevin Sammons. No, you're not gonna go

back and forth because Captain, we agree too much. I haven't correct. I can pretend to be on the other side. Just see to you ahead or something. I remember. I think I think I'm trying to talk to I don't know how far you got im. Miss He almost died here single. No, let me stop himself still you can you can you correct? He wants you now whatever happens after that, remember that every Black Man podcast,

we are not liable for things not working up you and onstate. You still got to show up to the podcast after after I'm not gonna be upset or type of way. I just hoping he he'll be okay. Yeah, he ain't got no feelings. He's so sweet. I feel like he'll treat me right anyhow. Yeah, he looked he'll be the best. I mean, I don't know why you laugh for your boy, but you know what, look at them. I want my nigga to tell me about it. I mean, nigga, this is the weirdest little interaction you've had in a

while. But let's go back to the original schedule program. What's the worst time you ever fumbled a bag or opportunity? Man? She wanted to pay for all our record label ship, but because he did not, what the fuck the old lady? He said, just fuck the old lady. And he asked me, and I told that niggas follow his heart. I should have been like, niggas fuck this old bitch, pretend like you like her until we get on and then we will leave this bitch. But I wasn't.

Yeah, that's what you better do exactly he was supposed to do. This old bitch. Fuck up, this old bitch, put your whole dick ind and make a fall in love with you. Correct, that's look him in the eyes. Nobody would care because you can cheat on her anyway. She got low stuff esteem. She's happy, great, she was just happy that she just happened to half somebody. Man, what happened? Oh? Nothing, nothing much. No, he just said something. He said,

he said, you can do whatever you want. No, the prompt question, what's the worst time that you ever fumbled the bag or mess up an opportunity? Come back to me. I got to think about it. Yeah, think about that one and you get back to us. I'm thinking too, man, I got a couple of them. I keep going. I mean, I know you need to read. But the problem here is yours are You're terrible. That's the problem with yours. See would it count if

the opportunity is still on the table? Version just because there are kids here now, But basically it would be the time that I phone in the bag with those two Australian girls and I'll let you. Yeah, you could have been mister international, you could have been worldwide. I could have been missed the worldwide. But it didn't go like that, unfortunately, and maybe that's for the better. Otherwise I'd be in a Scannonavian house right now, which

would have been different. Man, she would have went my way. I would be in Singapore right now. You know. You know Lou did not like it like that. You don't go to He'll grow to like me a little, a little predatorial. That was a lot of predatorial. I feel like women have better opportunities to bag than the man. Yeah, opportunities come to them. Women don't typically go out for the man. The man needs

to be a decent suitor or at least trigger any thing he's one. No, this is I had the opportunity to go with this artist who I met in Cleveland. Yes, that's that's how you almost came up missing. That's refer to that's how we started the episode with people going missing in Ohio. Now you're like, I had the opportunity to go, like, no, somebody that I know personally. Yeah, But the fact that a thousand kids in Ohio have gone missing and no one saying anything, it's way too close

to supplied of penny Wise. You your friend got on he got on somehow he needed sacrifice at some point. Thank you. I would sacrificing too in your position, friends, just to be famous. That the who do I gotta sacrifice? I know some people who deserve it. I don't know they deserve it. I mean that's that went from being messed up to being like overtly messed up. So I can't. Could you name it? Hold on? Wait, so Seawan the Shredder, could you name a sential situation with

you fumbled the bag? I thought it home. Yeah, I mean you call me either one. It's fine, but all right, so yeah, it's cool. What what what was the question again? Name of situation in your life where you fumbled the bag? The name of situation in my life that I fumbled the bag? Because it could have been like a girl who who's bad? Or something? Could have been some opportunity could have been with a man if he just was so good they got that record deal. Never

that, let's see let's see here fumbled the back. Oh well, I'll tell you, no, no, I'll tell you uh yeah, one situation was One situation was when I got introduced to Netflix, like right before uh you know what not wasn't Netflix or was it Netflix or was it uh uh

no, no, no, it was Netflix. No. Yeah. I got introduced to Netflix probably like in early two thousands, early two thousands, and had an opportunity to like, you know, kind of like get down with the business because you know, they was doing like an MLM situation and and then was offering the stock options all that stuff to try to get it, get it up and run in. This is around the time when there was mailing movies home. You know what I'm saying, You keep it as

long as one thing you could send it back. And I didn't do it. Yeah, yeah, I feel bad for you, man, I feel real bad. Like you had the opportunity to come up on the stock opportunity for lifetime. It's like those people who said Google is going to fail, and everyone who invested in Google at the beginning is a multi millionaire and they're something talent, right, I think that about it. Yeah, that was

one time. I still kicked myself to this day for that. But you know, at the same time, you know, I was like like nineteen or twenty when I got introduced to this stuff, you know what I mean? I mean yeah, because I mean it was a It was a very different kind of time, Like nobody imagined that Netflix was going to be successful because the model was too weird and the company was so close to going out of money, like on three or four different occasions. So, you know,

saved like TV shows like The Office. The Office did well in streaming, it didn't do well like on actual TVs, like the third season. I think, what's the other show? People like Community? It's a lot of NBC shows. By the way, who's that show with the Cops? Uh? Bad Boys? No, no, no, no no, the Woman the White Cops. Uh Matt Locke, No no no, the newer one with the guy from SNL Breaking Bad Jack Ryan, No, no,

no, the guy from SNL. It was the comedy it started Terry Coon's I know what you're talking about, Breaking Blue, Blue Blue, Breaking, Breaking Blue and that Blue both drumas I stream nine one one nine, Yeah, Brooklyn something like that. Yeah, something like that. Yeah, that one, that one, that one. The show was saved by Netflix because once Netflix got it, people got revitalized. The same thing happened with that other show, the one about the Devil. That one also got saved by

it, which was kind of crazy. Yeah, the other name Lucifer because it was Lucifer. I'm like watching that. I mean, very true, but it was saying that I watched it. I was just like, Okay, this show was good. The first couple of season was good. It was just repetitive. No more because it's like Bertie Angel. They followed this whole there's a crime there that the crime happens, and they search it for a couple of whatever, and then they find a person and destroy the person

and then everything goes back to ye. Once Rory got involved, I hated it. I couldn't keep up with it. I couldn't keep keeping up with it. Like I'm happy and Lucifer got together. Yeah, but after that it just wasn't worth it. I'm mad Dan died. That didn't need to happen. But they deserve your voice. This nigga took her husband. Never took your husband, That's right. It was a white woman though, So yeah, I don't know what they expected the men. The deal made me

so happy. He's my favorite TV character right now. Also from one of them story betrayal. Yeah, I mean betrayal is a hard place. Oh god, he was a black man. What about the good place do you think the Good Place benefited from streamline and watch that show. My friend of mine made me watch the first couple of episodes, and much like all white people like all white women friends, doctor view, No, it's all forever the other doctor. Yeah, crazy, yeah, grades and that. I

always to say, Greg, I always want to turn the Greg. Now, it's about Green, it's about the girl. But no, Gray's Anatomy. It did really well both before and after syndication. I think that's exactly now. The end of the season. I think seventeen or eighteen. Damn, man, they get edgirl work. Well. No, I remember after a while it's started get it started becoming less about her and more about everybody else. That show is still wait, Gray's Anatomies is still on it it's

still old. I had to look that up because I don't remember being that show is still old. Oh yeah, you're right. There is season in March. You mean the twenty first season in March. It'll be twenty No, No, are you right it'll be the twenty first Yeah, you're right, Yeah, it'll be the twenty first season. The season it just had just ended. That's crazy. That still can't be good. I know somebody talked about it last night. I've always thought about the only doctor show I

ever kind to watch with this show called Nurse Jackie. And I kind of know you're right, red right read because it would have been the twenty first season, but remember the writers strike, so it got pushed through September, so it got pushed the next year. Name the soap proper. Y'all all watch Days of Our Lives. Wat these are the Days of our Lives called Revenge the Last of a Couple, And there was a lot of these old true wrench people in the Change of Revenge. But that show was awesome,

and I realized how women like it took me that long. I had to be in my late twenties when I realized women who don't like each other but they're classy. They still go around each other and they talk ship but it's all very slick like, you know, but men ain't gonna do that ship bum in the face. I ain't slick talking. You just agreed, that's a different You just react. No, what I'm saying is you're not going to be around people you don't like to that they would do it because they

get a little kick out of it, you know. Being a little slick. Just being a little slick is very narcissistic. I mean, it's narcissism because that implies that they really think that they're better than these people. It's just they get an enjoyment out of hanging out with people that they don't like and then talking about them later behind their back. It's just kind of a culture thing for them. Yeah, yeah, exactly, it's a culture thing.

It's a weird culture kind of like how you know somebody in the South tells you bless your heart? It really means a profanity. You know, I never knew that. That's crazy. What type of shudder? What part of the chances you pray? Thank you, thank you, appreciate y'all edit your podcast. But it's okay, you're fucking out first and foremost read. I don't recall ask for your opinion. So racist in here right now? Oh yeah, bro, go ahead throw out one more because God missed it

good. So okay, No, Well, I mean, if you want, I can go with I can go with one of the ones that I've been saving. But I don't know if you really wanted me to hit you hit the topics like that, the really good one you want to really really messed up. One gone, so we gotta we can throw it one more, just throw it one more. Oh yeah, she did say she's gonna drop, so I appreciate her for staying as long as she did. Hey, she need to go to church. Somebody need Jesus. Look, I

couldn't make it this one. This one's pretty Uh yeah, me too. Yeah, she was very hippy. I don't care. I don't even't care. I think our faith, No, what's going on. I did not see our face. If you click on her profile and go down to the Spotify thing, it was our faith. Thank you so glad to do that. Thank you, appreciate you. All right, Sorry, let me get back to this man. It's gonna be real fun editing tonight. All right. Context. I'm an only child and so is my mom. I've been

with my partner for nine years. We both have good jobs, steady income, earning throughout the same. We aren't married, but an engagement ring was purchased, and I anticipate that there'll be a proposal in the near future. Talking for the point of the girl, we don't live together, but currently he's paying about a seventy five This is in America for a small basement apartment in one city and I live at home with my mom in another city.

Then circumstance, my grandmother passed away in twenty nineteen. My grandfather passed away in twenty twenty one. When they passed, my mom inherited their home. There's no mortgage on the home and it remains in my mother's name. She offered to let me and my partner use it for our first home. Given

the nature of housing marketing our area, I eagerly accept. The house is attached, has a big front yard, and it is located in the safe established neighborhood where houses normally go between eight hundred thousand and one million dollars more. Despite it being an obvious upgrade. With the situation, my partner is much more aid, trepidatious, stressed, and vernacular because of the term set

forth for a mom based on consulting with the lawyer. Essentially, one, she wants her daughter to pay for all upgrades, with no financial assistant assistant from her partner. Two, if we decide to move and buy another house, I would receive an amount of the money I paid to upgrade the house,

plus a profit margin from the proceeds of the sale. Three, Well, my partner moves in, he plays a nominal rent like six hundred dollars, and number four basically that we have a landlord tenant relationship, not a family living in a family property relationship. She insists that she wants to give us a break and that it's a great deal. He doesn't want my partner

to pay more than he's currently paying. Now. Now, my partner views this as being bad because he has to pay rent, and he thinks it's a strange, slash, poorly worded contract at best, and at worst, it's extremely unfair. He raises. The following points is why he uses a problematic One. We are being cheated as a couple when he's asked to pay

rent and I am not. Two. If this is a landlord tenant agreement with him paying rent, he believes he should not be paying anything towards property taxes and homeownersures because those expenses are incurred by the homeowner, not the tenant. Three, He questions the amount of money that he would actually be saving by paying rent when he has to also pay for her utilities. Some of his money is going to property tax. He's maintenance and all the other expenses

that come with home ownership. And four, he does not like the fact that he has that we have to spend money or sorry, that she hasn't spend money or renovations, and that the profit margin that my mom promised me has not been defined. So the question is what kind of hel are you talking about? Eight hundred thousand dollars house, one hundred thousand dollars house into two thousands, a hundred thousand dollar hours hundred thousand, hundred thousand dollars house

now, but it's in a really nice neighborhood. We're gonna pass on that one, Okay? Is that it for you? Read? Because I'm gonna I'll tell you all the real answer once y'all, once y'all done, Because you're gonna go back and forth with sound tracks and all this kind of stuff with your mom. It's just get too mazy. Either give it to me or get the fuck out, thank you. That's that's the real thing.

Either let us rit here because you don't do it, or don't. But really, what this is it's a sneaky attempt by her mother to break the two of them up. Oh thanks, that's true because like she will have a house went free. Well, it's not just that, it's that your mom needs to be paying all of the bills associated with the upkeep of the house. That is what happens to land the fact that she wants to let her daughter pay money into the houses upgrades. No man is going to be

okay with that. Now, maybe a boy would be okay with that, but no man is going to let you waste money on somebody else's property. It's not in your name. Why are you paying anything for upgrades? If it needs to be brought up to code in any area, that's something for

your mother to do because this is her property. And her saying that, oh, you know, if we decide to sell it later after you guys move out, I'll give you a portion of the proceeds says what, there's no contract that says that you have to do it, and we know exactly how messy things get, like this is an obviously exept for her mother to

create something that's going to be a wedge between the two of them. And I mean, frankly, I think he should just divorce, or not divorce, he should just break up with her, because if she doesn't see what her mom is doing after nine years of them being together. She is not trying to like, it's okay, you can say that. You know your mom doesn't like you, Bro, I'm not there years. Maybe she's just

trying to push him to marry her. Even if she was trying to put him to marry her, the easiest way to do that would be to not extend him that offer and just put your daughter in the house. Ah, how does that help? People tend to go further apart when their apartment we'll live together anyway, right? Correct? Correct, they're not living together now, So I mean how much of the impact would have had it? Like that's that's saying that an opportunity was presented, But otherwise state the course it's

been working so far. He got nine years with that ship. But she should be recently into her patience about that. Who knows? Yeah, hell yeah, she should be to get made. I d had to be man for nine years. They give you hints you don't even remember when t is over. Wow, you sound like you're talking from a place that somebody who's been there in that road before. Yeah, I drive a bitch long for like ten years, Bro, I was narrative I should have called it,

but she's the one. In the beginning, I was like, you want to get married, and it's just like I don't want you married because I got you pregnant. I'm just like, this, is there any other reason? I mean, that's not that's one of the better reasons to get married. Everybody like that's a terrible reason. Like, no, that's a good reason to get married. If you got someone in pregnant and you're a single and sing y'all been precking around for the standard period of time, like what

is what is going on there? It came for a negative. It doesn't matter at all. That's one of those things where it's like, that's a weird reason to get married. This nigga loves you. He let it in you. I hope that nigga loves you. I mean, that's the kids. There's no kids, and I mean, I don't know you can really made that argument. These people don't have kids. So that's the strange part you going nine years. I don't know. Maybe they were career focused.

She didn't want him to pay more rent than he was paying. Now he's paying six hundred dollars in rent. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Right about the number, I guess he ends up paying around twelve. Yeah, that still might be low ball and all that ship she was talking about the whole the whole fact that it's the fact that she's not saying that her mom is getting her to basically do things that are tenant, to do things that are playing the owner things as opposed to tenant things is the main part,

in the most PC way possible. But you got your dumb chick. I mean, I think she feels like the house is gonna be hers eventually anyway. So yeah, but that's not that's not but that's not how That's not how things go. Because if the house is in my name, there's nothing that compels me to sell you the house. I can will it to my dog. Like that's the thing about life is you don't just get exactly. Man, dog is out. I don't even him. I ain't seen him.

The camera's hearing like that, though, you're terrible. Your dog is out, your dog is out, You go see him. He's saying he's seen him. But you know, they got niggas in jail right now. I'm not seeing them when they get out and you remember that nigga don't treads down tread. He was a brown skinned nigga with a with a this an arm conversation. I'm not arm sad. No, he went that he went to the school with us. He was cool. But that nigga in jail.

And when that nigga get out, I don't want to see him because he did some crazy ship crazy uh. He jumped on top of a register and shot somebody standing rock and then they went in there, jumped on the thing, and he jumped on the race, turning the rambow and they rocked the place and got out. He killed the dude for no reason, they say, and then his girlfriend. He ain't never get caught, by the way. It was that pine shop on Finola, And so how do he

murder someone? And yet he's still gonna get out. Sometimes that's gonna be in the near future. We got life. That was twenty five years ago, bro, Yeah, but they still sometimes can hold you, especially in Georgia. Jordan don't care about yeah, living in there ten years, you probably got got a hoping he got I'm hoping he got life, and then got another fifteen to thirty years in there for doing something life is twenty five

years, twenty five two life. Once you reached it, it was just meta yeah about okay, it did it about twenty years and he had to get out at that time. He did. Man, he needs to stay. We did it, brod change man. Bro, that'd be a changed man. He could have come back to Jesus. But I don't want to see him on the streets. I hear you, Bro, But we gotta we can't keep that mentality, like how long? Man? All right? How about this read? You take him into your house when he gets out.

I told you ain't gonna see it get out a terrible person. But that's exactly what I'm saying. Let him say, let him say, Man, I mean, just let him stay. He needs to stay. He belongs in the streets. He belonged to the order corrections, whatever corrections you are, except of the state. At that point, maybe you could like standing in, give him like the teaching my Facebook work, and give him little conjugal You just come girl, Georgia. You have to be there's only

there's only four Nigga Georgia. One of he been out. He gonna be inspected. But he did, Bro, he needs to stay in there. They need to hollow him out, throw away the key. I mean, I'm worth people, I'm all the way forward. We do something like that. If he hadn't murdered anybody, I'd be okay with it. But since he murdered somebody and for no reason, he was staying in the prison for the rest of his life. He was in his twenty Bro, your brain gonna work the man. I don't care. He still gotta help. I

may not be my dog. Thank you for joining episode of Everyday black Man. So my niggas locked up. Rocket said fuck you for killing Yeah, and I'm like, here, bro, I keep my glocks on it, don't even play. Depends on what they did. So even care somebody about the second year life? Yeah, man, Stooter, are you sure about that? Yeah? I don't trust the point the fact that I don't trust the clinical drugs, the system. Bro, that's what it is. Bro.

You don't if you wouldn't somebody and then the police killed somebody that get murdered. Bro. Yah know, but we know for certain this man killed that guy almost gold blood, That's what I'm saying. Like the fact years had a pretty clear picture that definitely I ain't a defender. I just don't think the matic, just sim is not there in those temple. I really don't think people like that for the rep of their life. But true for the matter, you ain't got any performing to get out. We're not sweet,

we don't have a rehabilitation program. So he need to say thanks and leaving the ling. We appreciate y'all. Thanks out, m P.

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