With Shibaricon the week this podcast goes/went live, Lee takes some time to reflect how far the event has gone since its debut in 2004. 10 events later, it has become the hub of a rope bondage community that did not exist before its inception, speaking volumes about how if just one person has a dream, and takes actions towards it, it can change so many lives. From memories and funny stories to connection and play, Lee dances with rope on his lips and lays out a few bits to chew on along the way...
May 19, 2013•36 min
This week, Dan & dawn start off with a topic in mind but the microphones get turned on and we end up recording some reflections. We share some of our personal perspectives on humility, putting away your cape, the impact of shout outs, vanilla life, and why Dan & dawn do what they do. Plenty of kinky fun next week though as we get back on target and talk about training your slave! Plus, taco’s, Fundawear, Viva Las Vegas, and more!
May 09, 2013•35 min
On this month’s BS'ing, it's the first episode from the Haven in the 'Burbs! Look out all you denizens of the mini-vans; all you soccer moms and football dads, Barak & Sheba are in your locale. What are we talking about this time? Listen in as we get behind the mics to tackle all sorts of fun and kinky topics, like: Sheba and Boy Cum? The weekend quote, "Beer? It's 8 o'clock in the morning! Scotch?" Barak does a movie review. Bob from Enzyte has 4 hour erection? Does this seem strange to you...
May 06, 2013•31 min
This week, Dan & dawn review some more items from the “100 things to make your slave feel owned”. And the Question of the Day, about raising your kids in a kinky household becomes quite a topic on its own! Plus! Its the Year of the bat; Viva Las Vegas; what is the food on boobs thing about?; and we actually beep something. Don’t forget, there is still time to join us at Power eXchange Summit. Use the code CELEBRATE for 10% off your ticket!
May 02, 2013•41 min
This week, Dan & dawn talk about power exchange and why it works so well - and they compare it against (non power exchange) relationships. And our question of the day asks dawn what is her secret to giving a fantastic blow job. Don’t forget, there is still time to join us at Power eXchange Summit . Use the code CELEBRATE for 10% off your ticket!
Apr 25, 2013•50 min
This week, Dan & dawn talk about having a foundation (personal and relationship) that allows you to practice a pleasure based relationship and life. It isn’t alway easy to match desires with reality! And the question of the day is about how to reconnect (or stay connected) in a 24x7 power exchange relationship when life gets in the way. Plus! Sex dreams, when your partners sex drive doesn’t match, slave bracelets, confidence & trust, and spanking strangers! Thank you to our newest sponso...
Apr 19, 2013•49 min
Having just gotten back from the Kink LINCS conference, Lee dives into leadership in the community, as well as connecting with one another. From issues around oppression and racism in the scene, to looking at our authentic desires, the road winds through moments of tears and laughter alike. Fundraising, event production, the pros and cons of a National Kink Coming Out Day, compassionate communication, leather contests… we open up a door to what LINCS stands for – Lead – Inspire – Network – Conne...
Apr 17, 2013•42 min
This week, Dan & dawn share part IV in their series about 100 BDSM Fetishes! This time, they talk about double penetration, forced homosexuality, fisting, forced masterbation, cutting, corsets, collars, and more! Plus! Sacred sexuality in Chicago; talking polyamory to college students, and webs of relationships!
Apr 11, 2013•35 min
On this month’s BS'ing, Barak & Sheba are podcasting from Kinkfest! While they were presenting at Portland, Oregon's finest annual event, they took a little time out to get behind the mics! What are they talking about this time? Listen in as they address several new topics, like: ~ Is our relationship always good? ~ What were they presenting at Kinkfest, and how much fun was that? Did they go to Voodoo Doughnuts and why is the magic in the hole? ~ How does Sheba go from being a strong woman ...
Apr 02, 2013•34 min
This week, Dan & dawn sit with Lucar and learn the skills it takes to be a BDSM top!
Mar 28, 2013•29 min
Welcome to the edge of random known as the internet. After being randomly struck recently on his trip down internet lane, Lee takes you on a journey into the internet through four searches: “BDSM,” “Rope Bondage,” “Italian Salad Dressing Fetish,” and “Frog Porn.” Along the way he discusses bondage passion and safety, modern art installations, transgender issues, kink 101, zip ties, and more. Let’s take a romp, and see where the tubes lead us! Find links to everything discussed at http://www.erot...
Mar 25, 2013•32 min
This week, Dan & dawn interview the wonderful Tish on the skills it takes to 'bottom' for a scene! It isn't all just laying there :) Plus, our question of the day ask should you ask about medical insurance cards when you negotiate a scene? Plus, fantasies of Liz, coffee cups, and more!
Mar 22, 2013•42 min
This week, Dan & dawn speak to the wonderful krystalyn about subHaven, a group of submissives of all experience levels and lifestyles seeking to support each other in the Dallas/Ft. Worth area of Texas. Plus, the return from Dallas and a wonderful time at South Plains Leatherfest - International M/s Weekend leads to a lot of rambling about how to do an event right, and we give you the scoop on the event! And the winners are…. Plus! dawn gets judgmental; Dan gets his balls chained; food on bo...
Mar 14, 2013•54 min
This month’s BS'ing is our last podcast in the Fortress of Solitude! Next month, we will be moving to a super secret location on the northeast side of Columbus. What are we talking about this time? Listen in as we get behind the mics to tackle all sorts of fun and kinky topics, like: Why can't "No" or "Stop" be a safeword? What are the keys to a great scene? How do you keep a scene moving, or should it stop all of a sudden? What let's you know that the scene was great and satisfying for everyone...
Mar 04, 2013•32 min
This week, Dan & dawn interview Daddy Scott and Benjamin on power exchange relationships, kink, and Judaism! Join us for a fascinating chat! Plus, dawn gets all judgmental, and is everyone in the hospital? Special thanks to The Kink Button for there support of Erotic Awakening! Visit them at http://thekinkybutton.com/
Feb 28, 2013•57 min
This week, Dan & dawn finish off a long series of trips, returning with some great interviews. This week we talk to Nikkita and Ursula, who have been of a journey that results in a big change - Nikkita is scheduled for gender reassignment surgery in just a few days! Plus, a question of the day that looks at where our service to the community starts. And! A “rock star” pickup, autographed boobs, Phil’s apple pie fudge, Dan plays, dawn plays, and Dan plays, 50 words for balls, and a clit weari...
Feb 21, 2013•1 hr 8 min
Axe (from the ever-kinky MasoCast) joins Lee to dive into his journey through submission that started off leading him by his orgasms, and helped him find his inner desires and interests along the way. That’s not to say the orgasms are a thing of the past… at all. He shares his struggle with explaining power exchange to folks outside of kink, trying to find compatible people to connect with, and fear around losing a dominant partner because of love. By the end of the episode, Axe even shares tips...
Feb 19, 2013•38 min
This week, Dan & dawn talk about what a Master in a power exchange relationship needs to do to support there slave reaching there full potential…and dealing with bad behavior. AND they share there opening performance at Madtown KinkFest (where we had a great time!). Plus, people who hate the show, a love letter from an audience member, sex stories, and more!
Feb 15, 2013•52 min
This week, Dan & dawn are recording from the mobile studio from Madtown Kinkfest! They talk to Lily Lloyd about sexting and other next smart phone naughty and power dynamic tricks! Plus! A bat report, cards in the mail, and more!
Feb 08, 2013•48 min
On this month’s BS'ing we are doing the Drunk Podcast - like we promised! What are we talking about this time? Who knows?! Listen in, find out what happens when Barak & Sheba get behind the mics while drinking, hear us going on and on, slurring our words and trying to guess the answers to these questions - What is in Boss Bondage's Backyard? Is it the ACLU? The NAACP? Heck no! It's the ASPCA! Why the slogan, Just Do it? Just Take It? What the heck is IT anyway? Does shutting up quash your au...
Feb 05, 2013•53 min
This week, Dan & dawn explore what it takes to be a Master in power exchange relationship and how to get started. And our question of the day comes at a good time as they explore event drop on the weekend before they do three events in a row! Plus, Bad Dragon, 3D Hentai, kinky with cloths on, Kink Starter news, and lots more
Jan 31, 2013•50 min
This week, Dan & dawn talk about talking naughty! How to do it, how to practice, and how to get started. And they talk a lot of naughty on this episode! Plus, looking for some sexting; dawn is still announcing email; website updates; Vampy and feet; and introcing…. Georgette! And secret messages for Will and Gryphons Den. AND PXS 2013 special podcast listener pre-launch!
Jan 24, 2013•39 min
Canes, paddles, floggers, and bare hands beating out a pattern on the flesh. Lee takes us on a journey into the heartbeat of the earth through desire, passion and connection, and then winds his way into how music ties us into our kink. Preparing for the Sacred Kink Initiatory Intensive in February, he reflects on rhythm scenes, and how when we do impact play, we leave an impact on the lives we live. All music from this sensual and percussive episode is brought to you by the amazing S.J. Tucker. ...
Jan 22, 2013•30 min
This week, Dan and dawn talk about their experience with Slave Chats, Sub Roundtables, and Mast meetings. Do peer groups bring any value? And trying to have those conversations on Fet brings Dan to the edge of a rant. When it is ok to tell Master he is a dum dum?
Jan 13, 2013•36 min
On this month’s BSing with Barak & Sheba, we are podcasting in pajamas from the Fortress of Solitude! What are we talking about this time? Who knows?! Listen in and find out the answers to these questions and more: ~ Is Anal Sex dirty? And how much Lube do you really need? ~ Does a The Slave Registry (TSR) registered slave come with a guarantee? ~ Who was the Electric Jesus? ~ How to find out about Kinky Events and gatherings when you travel and so much more… Plus! A precursor to Winter Wick...
Jan 07, 2013•44 min
This week, Dan & dawn reflect on 2012. They talk about favorite episodes, favorites quotes, favorite scenes, favorite fan interactions, and best tentacle support fan! Plus, a great question of the day about playing with people at events and do you need trust to play? Thank you to The Playroom for the continuing support of Erotic Awakening! https://fetlife.com/groups/30275
Jan 04, 2013•38 min
This week, Dan & dawn share the forth episode in a serious about feeling owned in a power exchange relationship. They discuss pros and cons around some ideas for helping your slave feel owned such as referring to themselves as third person going to sleep with tongue wrapped around your privates eating out of a dog dish Is Masters word the last word? Specify how they will address you in public and in private write your name on the bottom of someones foot toenail check! and much more! Plus, we...
Dec 27, 2012•48 min
This month, Lee looks into the words we use to label ourselves, as well as our desires, and compares them to the things we do. Heterosexual men who have sex with men. Polyamorous perverts who date only one person. Along the way he discusses how romancing men as a woman was different than romancing women or men as a man has been different, discusses gay and queer culture, and even sneaks in a personals add. Let’s look at our authentic desires, see where they match with our behaviors, and weigh ou...
Dec 17, 2012•41 min
This week, Dan & dawn do an audio blog about the ‘Community’. Is there a kink community? Do we have leaders? Do we need them? Who is doing what to who? Did you see what Zuzu was wearing? Plus - not much else, we get right to it for a change! We are still hoping to see full funding of our latest project, Kink Starter -> www.kinkstarter.eroticawakening.com
Dec 13, 2012•46 min
This week, Dan & dawn talk about getting the play you want (and negotiations). Plus, they introduce the newest way to get that play via there newly created Erotic Awakening Kink Starter cards! And how you can get involved in supporting making this come to life! Plus, did dawn have sex; poetry on love to celebrate there 11th wedding anniversary “A letter to those I love... by a guy named stryfe”; and tons more!
Dec 09, 2012•53 min
