A Personal Story: Changing Effectively By Understanding What You Can Control.

Change happens. One of the best tools to manage change is called the dichotomy of control.

Here's how I learned this lesson the hard way.

2007 was a pivotal year for me. A year of massive change. I moved to Phoenix and adapted to working on the Darrell Ankarlo Show. Darrell was an incredible radio host. For me, this was taking a professional step backwards that really was a big step forward both personally and professionally.

I changed a lot.

2007 also happened to be an emotionally crushing football season. The New England Patriots lost the Super Bowl after a perfect regular season.

I was emotionally devastated. Luckily, I've learned since then how to manage my emotions and thoughts.

Today, I explain how taking the view from above of my 2007 helped me understand fully what I'm in control of. Me.

Hopefully you can apply the lessons I've learned the hard way to learn to take control.

Thank you for being here and allowing me space to share.