Men misinterpret friendliness and smiling as some level of sexual interest, even though women disagree. Men evolved lower thresholds for inferring interest because some led to sex. Women withhold sex to bump his investment. But what happens when he doesn’t need it?.. Women prefer sexual infidelity from men whereas men prefer resource infidelity from women. Research focuses on male jealousy because of his uncertainty about parenthood. Women admit to inducing jealousy more than men. Follow our sho...
Mar 05, 2021•21 min•Season 4Ep. 151
Men make 12 million sperm / hour. Women have 400 ova per lifetime. Women are a limited resource. Males are promiscuous because females selected for that trait. In no place globally do women value chastity more than men. Men selected for youth and health. Women selected for status so men pursue status. The investment risk of one intercourse. Men desire more sex partners at every age than women. Males would be promiscuous his whole life were there no social restrictions. The female is much less in...
Feb 19, 2021•23 min•Season 4Ep. 150
Women have problems and they need a man to help them solve them. Women criticize science because they don’t understand it. The science of dating. Make up is not for you it’s for who you want to impress. Your sex, your interest, your ability to communicate, your investment is what a man is looking for in that order. Women follow a man’s values and trust in your own ability to select the right man for you. Men lead women follow. Women's power is in their choice and a man only has power when he has...
Feb 13, 2021•38 min•Season 4Ep. 149
Like telling men not to experience sugar, like food are our mating preferences. Mating isn’t random. Attraction is discriminate. Derogation isn’t out of boredom. What became our ancestors. Around less prospects women are less needy to be in love. Status and resources differ. Follow our show for exclusive content and announcements! https://geni.us/LfLAcqE...
Feb 05, 2021•21 min•Season 4Ep. 148
Evolutionary psychology and social dynamics crash course. What is preselection? Preselection by other women biologically conveys to the woman that her male offspring (with that man) will also be desired by women. Women select for status so men pursue status. Men deceive status (exaggeration) and resource commitments (family). Women deceive appearance (beauty) and fidelity (how many sex partners she's had). Her seduction is making him think she’ll have sex with him. His persistence in more than s...
Jan 29, 2021•36 min•Season 4Ep. 147
Attraction, comfort, and seduction. Human courtship model. These are the steps that every man and woman go through whether it takes hours or years. It is the most successful dating model for men on Earth. Follow our show for exclusive content and announcements https://geni.us/LfLAcqE...
Jan 24, 2021•40 min•Season 4Ep. 146
We see each others biases once we’re aware what they are. Men bias towards over perceiving sexual communication. How the culture has been used to condition the mind to be off code for successful relationships. Follow our show for exclusive content and announcements! https://geni.us/LfLAcqE Add us to your calendar and join us LIVE Wednesdays at 5 pm pacific: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/upMpc-CgrDsr1bKpVp79NyqvGyX6vVWYzQ/ics?icsToken=98tyKu6vqj8jEtaVsVzHf7YqW6_qbN_ykCBMgbNrjEi8LTlCdCTvDrRUBIVG...
Jan 18, 2021•30 min•Season 4Ep. 145
Mating decisions are contextual, no behavior is inevitable. Women are sexual deceivers. Men are commitment deceivers. Deceivers tire of courtship. He only risks little time & energy & a small threat. She risks pregnancy, birth, and child care. Women cum more with commitment than with fling. Women cum twice as frequently in affairs. Men adapted to detect orgasm not to be fooled by it and to withhold ejaculation until she comes, ejaculate right after her. More frequent high sperm retention...
Jan 13, 2021•24 min•Season 4Ep. 144
Women value intelligence slightly higher. Less intelligence misses subtle hints, misses jokes, mistime comments, implies liability and unreliability. Men of every status don’t value female success. Women of every status value men w/ higher status. Men exclude other men as much as women in power positions to fulfill mate preferences over the last few million years. Wealth is hard to determine so women are more influenced by ambition, status, intelligence, and age. One of the most consistently doc...
Jan 08, 2021•21 min•Season 4Ep. 143
Social status cues the control of resources and potential to invest in her. Young men marry older women because of their social status. Women value ambitiousness in men. Men don’t value ambitiousness in women. Stable behavior means purpose over peer pressure and focus rather than complaining. Follow our show for exclusive content and announcements! https://geni.us/LfLAcqE...
Jan 07, 2021•24 min•Season 4Ep. 142
Men who have extramarital affairs are just as satisfied in their relationships as men who don’t. In pregnancy, she knows she’s the parent, he can never be sure he’s the parent unless he guards her 24/7. Fact is, 10% of American children were raised by fathers who didn’t know they weren’t the father. Follow our show for exclusive content and announcements! https://geni.us/LfLAcqE...
Dec 31, 2020•16 min•Season 4Ep. 141
Evolutionary theory has appalled people since Darwin. The idea of perfect harmony existing somewhere and blaming western culture for dog eat dog mentality is lame and false. Contradictory values waste energy and confuse children. The biggest break-up variables are precisely (from the Evolution of Desire): - Dissimilar values on sex roles - Attitudes towards sex among acquaintances - Romanticism - Religious beliefs - Views on abortion and capital punishment Humans possess underlying sexual psycho...
Dec 11, 2020•24 min•Season 4Ep. 140
People are awakening to the realities of their circumstances and their environments. Topics of note like human trafficking, 2020 presidential election, being a cog in the system, and breaking free into entrepreneurship are spoken of in ways that will free your souls from their mental chains. All this and more on today’s episode. Follow our show for exclusive content and announcements! https://geni.us/LfLAcqE...
Sep 12, 2020•34 min•Season 4Ep. 139
How does one speak life into somebody & how does discipline reveal the subconscious mind? What does it entail to live in an urban temple with alpha men who don’t fit the stereotypical male feminist that is very prevalent in spiritual communities? All this and more on today’s episode. Follow our show for exclusive content and announcements! https://geni.us/LfLAcqE...
Sep 05, 2020•44 min•Season 4Ep. 138
What are subconscious emotional responses? How does one identify subconscious emotional responses? What is the art of living in fulfillment? All this and more on today’s episode. Follow our show for exclusive content and announcements! https://geni.us/LfLAcqE Add us to your calendar and join us LIVE Wednesdays at 5 pm pacific: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/upMpc-CgrDsr1bKpVp79NyqvGyX6vVWYzQ/ics?icsToken=98tyKu6vqj8jEtaVsVzHf7YqW6_qbN_ykCBMgbNrjEi8LTlCdCTvDrRUBIVGCumB...
Sep 02, 2020•21 min•Season 4Ep. 137
Is it possible to hold multiple professions at once? Why would a man want to live in a manner that he holds multiple professions? What is it like to sacrifice a prior self to change? All this and more on today’s episode. Follow our show for exclusive content and announcements! https://geni.us/LfLAcqE Add us to your calendar and join us LIVE Wednesdays at 5 pm pacific: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/upMpc-CgrDsr1bKpVp79NyqvGyX6vVWYzQ/ics?icsToken=98tyKu6vqj8jEtaVsVzHf7YqW6_qbN_ykCBMgbNrjEi8LTlCd...
Aug 29, 2020•16 min•Season 4Ep. 136
What are the steps to creating and destroying an identity to recreate your world? What is the joy in playing with identity? What is it like to travel from industry to industry to find what we truly love? All this and more on today’s episode. Follow our show for exclusive content and announcements! https://geni.us/LfLAcqE...
Aug 27, 2020•25 min•Season 4Ep. 135
What inner alchemy is the process of inner alchemy? What opened at Base ONE (408) in San Jose? What did Marlon Brando say makes a great actor? All this and more on today’s episode. Follow our show for exclusive content and announcements! https://geni.us/LfLAcqE...
Aug 23, 2020•18 min•Season 4Ep. 134
The difference between pickup and seduction. How do you handle rejection from a woman. The ethics of a dating coach putting out content of his escapades. What advice would Coach Kyle have for his son as it relates to pickup & dating? With @kyle froonjian . Follow our show for exclusive content and announcements! https://geni.us/LfLAcqE ....
Aug 19, 2020•27 min•Season 4Ep. 133
What is Coach Kyle's lineage in the pickup arts? How did Coach Kyle build his social media & following? What does it take to live an incredible life? All this and more on today’s episode with "Coach Kyle" Froonjian. Follow our show for exclusive content and announcements! https://geni.us/LfLAcqE Add us to your calendar and join us LIVE Wednesdays at 5 pm pacific: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/upMpc-CgrDsr1bKpVp79NyqvGyX6vVWYzQ/ics?icsToken=98tyKu6vqj8jEtaVsVzHf7YqW6_qbN_ykCBMgbNrjEi8LTlCdC...
Aug 16, 2020•23 min•Season 4Ep. 132
What is the relationship between mindset and our world? How do you breakdown language to find out what the meaning beneath what someone is saying? What is it like to grow a podcast to the next level? All this and more on today’s episode. Follow our show for exclusive content and announcements! https://geni.us/LfLAcqE...
Aug 05, 2020•26 min•Season 4Ep. 131
What’s the importance of a relaxation process? How accurate is your description of your self-observation? When is the best time to sleep? All this and more on today’s episode. Follow our show for exclusive content and announcements! https://geni.us/LfLAcqE...
Aug 01, 2020•23 min•Season 4Ep. 130
How does the world around you reflect the world within you? What do our emotions tell us about our actions? What do you need to read right now to live the life of your wildest dreams? All this and more on today’s episode. Follow our show for exclusive content and announcements! https://geni.us/LfLAcqE...
Jul 29, 2020•9 min•Season 4Ep. 129
What fundamental truths serve as the foundations for your behavior to get what you want from your life? How does man handle his emotions when working with the concept of radical honesty? Why is it not ok to be soft as a man? All this and more on today’s episode. Follow our show for exclusive content and announcements! https://geni.us/LfLAcqE...
Jul 25, 2020•31 min•Season 4Ep. 128
Why is faith important in the art & science of manifestation? How does faith tie together the abstract world of ideas and the tangible world of material objects? What superpower do human beings possess? All this and more on today’s episode. Follow our show for exclusive content and announcements! https://geni.us/LfLAcqE...
Jul 22, 2020•30 min•Season 4Ep. 127
To where are you leading those who trust to follow you? With what beast do you associate and why is this energy important for a man to tap in? What makes a man go beyond the odds? All this and more on today’s episode. Follow our show for exclusive content and announcements! https://geni.us/LfLAcqE...
Jul 18, 2020•23 min•Season 4Ep. 126
What does it mean to trip on an emotion? What is the transition like from traveling to settling as a yogi? What is the importance of walking and moving around as a man? All this and more on today’s episode. For exclusive content and podcast announcements join our Facebook group https://bit.ly/EnlightenedMasculinityGroup For more on our podcasts go to https://www.9thlimb.com/podcast
Jul 08, 2020•20 min•Season 4Ep. 125
How are you overcoming the pain of the obstacles of your life? What are the obstacles getting in the way of your desired progress? Do you find the emotion of achievement addictive? All this and more on today’s episode. Follow our show for content and announcements https://geni.us/LfLAcqE .
Jul 04, 2020•22 min•Season 4Ep. 124
Does conscious thought hold a man back from taking action? How does a man bring his yoga practice to others through communication? What about the woman attracts you and what does it say about your self? All this and more on today’s episode. Follow our show for content and announcements https://geni.us/LfLAcqE .
Jul 01, 2020•19 min•Season 4Ep. 123
What is the strategy to hack into the behaviors of a non-needy man? Why does a man need to be OK with being rejected before he can begin strategizing on how to get women? Are you sick of your present condition? All this and more on today’s episode. For exclusive content and podcast announcements join our Facebook group https://bit.ly/EnlightenedMasculinityGroup For more on our podcasts go to https://www.9thlimb.com/podcast...
Jun 27, 2020•18 min•Season 4Ep. 122
