EP034 I`m Sorry, I Love You III | Elementary

Back to English Pod. My name is Marco. And I'm Erica. And today we're bringing you the third part of this series that we've created called I'm sorry, I love you. That's right, the third part in our story about our English Pod couple. Yeah, it's a romantic series, but today we're bringing you an argument. That's right. Like in every relationship, you have fights, you have discussions.

So we're gonna teach you how to do that in English. That's right. In today's lesson, you'll learn some great language that people use when they get into

An argument with their boyfriend or girlfriend. Right, so why don't we take a look at vocabulary preview? Vocabulary preview. We have one phrase today. Get a hold. Get a hold. Get a hold. To get a hold. To get a hold of someone means To try and communicate with that person. Exactly. So to try and call that person. For example, I can say I've been calling his phone all day, but I can't get a hold of him.

Or I could say, finally Marco, I got a hold of you. Where have you been all day? Exactly. Mm-hmm. Now we're gonna listen to our dialogue, and as always, it's gonna be at a normal pace, but you don't have to worry about it. We'll come back and teach you all of the important words. Stephen, where have you been? I've been trying to get a hold of you for hours. I um there was an emergency at work so I'm waiting for you in the restaurant for three hours.

And you didn't even have the decency to call me. Do you have any idea how embarrassed I was? Honey, I promise this won't happen again. It's just that I're right. I've heard it all before. I'm not going to take any more of your empty promises. This is the fifth time you stood me up in two weeks. You need to get your priorities straight. I'm tired of you putting your job first all the time. Come on, Veronica. That's not fair. I do care about you a lot, you know that. I try to.

Maybe we should just take a break. I need some time to think about where this relationship is heading. But Veronica, would you listen to me? There was a fire alarm at my office building today, and I was Okay, so a little bit of trouble in the relationship. Yeah, that's too bad. Yeah, well I think um she's overreacting. You do? We'll talk about that later on.

But we saw some great words and phrases here, so it's time for language takeaway. Language takeaway. Today on Language Takeaway we're bringing you three words. The first word is STUDME UP. Stood me up. Stood me up. Stood me up. The phrase stand someone up. When do we use this? If for example you have a date and you don't go.

Okay, so let's say you and I were supposed to have dinner together and you just didn't come. Right. And didn't call. Right. So I stood you up. Yep. Okay. Stand someone up. Our next word, priorities. Priorities. Priorities. So priorities are something that's really important in your life. That's right. Like family or maybe work or making a lot of money or whatever it is. What what are your priorities in life? Right. Yeah. Okay.

And our last word for language takeaway, heading. Heading. Heading. Heading. This is a bit of a funny verb, so let's listen to a couple of examples of how it's used so we can understand its meaning. Example one I don't know where our relationship is heading. Example two. Where is this bus heading? Example three. Where is this project heading?

So basically heading means going. Exactly. A heading is where you're going. Yep. Okay, easy word and interesting. Okay, so now it's time for us to listen to the dialogue a second time. It's gonna be slower so now we can understand the words. Stephen, where have you been? I've been trying to get a hold of you for hours. I um

There was an emergency at work, so I was waiting for you in the restaurant for three hours, and you didn't even have the decency to call me. Do you have any idea how embarrassed I was? Honey, I promise this won't happen again. It's just that I Yeah, right. I've heard it all before. I'm not going to take any more of your empty promises. This is the fifth time you've stood me up in two weeks. You need to get your priority straight.

I'm tired of you putting your job first all the time. Come on, Veronica, that's not fair. I do care about you a lot. You know that. I tried You know what? Maybe we should just take a break. I need some time to think about where this relationship is heading. But Veronica, would you just listen to me? There was a fire alarm at my office building today and I was stuck in.

Okay now we saw some interesting phrases in dialogue. Yeah, we saw some great phrases um that people use when they're getting in a fight. Right. Why don't we take a look at some of them in Fluency Builder? Fluency Builder. The first phrase that I want to take a look at today is do you have any idea? Do you have any idea? Do you have any idea? This is a great way to set up an argument. So let's listen to some examples of how you would set up an argument using this phrase. Example one.

You forgot my birthday. Do you have any idea how angry I am? Example two Julie kissed my boyfriend. Does she have any idea how mean that was? Example three. I just broke up with my boyfriend. Don't you have any idea how sad I am? So it's a great phrase to make that person understand that you were really worried or Really angry. Really angry. Yeah, yeah. Okay. And now the second phrase that we can take a look at is I've heard it all before.

I heard it all before. I've heard it all before. I've heard it all before. So this is a great phrase of just saying, you don't have to give me an excuse. I know what you're gonna say. Exactly. And our last phrase today. Take a break. Take a break. Take a break. So when a couple takes a break, they sort of

stop their relationship. Right. Right. They're breaking up. Yeah. But it's is it really like forever? Like a a breakup that lasts forever? Not well maybe. It could be forever, but they're saying let's just Take some time away from each other for a couple of days or weeks. Yeah, yeah. And see what happens. Yes. Take a break. Take a break. Okay, so our happy couple is going to take a break. Well, I guess they're not that happy then, hey? Yeah. Okay, so let's listen to our dialogue again.

Stephen, where have you been? I've been trying to get a hold of you for hours. I um there was an emergency at work so I've been waiting for you in the restaurant for three hours. And you didn't even have the decency to call me. Do you have any idea how embarrassed I was? Honey, I promise this won't happen again. It's just that I Yeah, right.

I've heard it all before. I'm not going to take any more of your empty promises. This is the fifth time you stood me up in two weeks. You need to get your priorities straight. I'm tired of you putting your job first all the time. Come on, Veronica, that's not fair. I do care about you a lot, you know that. I try to what?

Maybe we should just take a break. I need some time to think about where this relationship is heading. But Veronica, would you listen to me? There was a fire alarm at my office building today, and I was So this phrase to take a break really reminds me of a friends episode. Yeah, that really famous friends episode when Ross and Rachel were on a break.

And and Ross like went with another girl, right? Yeah, and then they definitely broke up after that. Yeah. So that's one of the key issues, right? If you're taking a break, can you start to date someone else? I've got to agree with Rachel. Really? Yeah. No, you can't. You can't. You can't? So what's the point of taking a break? Just you need some time away. You need some time to think. But you're not really broken up. Exactly.

That's convenient. I don't know. They were on a break. I agree with Ross. Well, you would, wouldn't you? Alright guys, we're out of time today. Hope you enjoyed our lesson. And be sure to listen next time because we will definitely have a part four to this. Yes. Coming out soon. Yep. And also come to our website at EnglishPod.com and leave all your questions and comments.

Yeah, Marco and I are always happy to hear from you and we love answering your questions. Right, and maybe you can tell us what you think happens in the fourth part. Yeah. Okay. Well until then it's