Manifesting Greatness Kendall Kyndall & Crystal Renee’ Hayslett

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Still every time, story time, story time, I'm gonna take y'all back too, should I can do multiple stories, but I'm gonna take you all back to two thousand and eighteen. We were in Los Angeles and Kaden and I went E P LP P N LP and we met this young man right and he came over. I didn't know who he was. He ran over to my wife and he was just like and then my wife was like, I was like, uh, because I know who this niggle was. He turns out to be Kendle Candle. These two hugging

and stuff, and I'm like, you know each other? And then you know we met on I G I'm like, oh, so you don't know him, but you hugging him, you feel like, you know, I feel like you know people. Uh. Kendall was like, hey, we should get up. I'm gonna take y'all out to dinner. So I was like, oh, he taking all of us out to dinner. I like this guy. So it was me you Sakari trip my brother's birthday. Yeah, he was madly. I think I've seen

I've seen videos of that. She was crazy li and then um we went out to dinner and I was like, yo, so Kendall, what do you you know? What do you want to do? And he was just like, man, I'm an I'm really focusing So I like doing the social media stuff, but I'm gonna focus on being an actor. I want to be on television and I want to have my own talk show Fast Forward. Can Do is a series regular on Games People Play and has his own talk show, Social Society. When talking about Manifestation, I

gotta talk about my man can Do. That's where we at. Now it's karaoke time. I'm gonna bring you out over to our other guests, who was also a Queen of Manifestation because she is in Atlanta. She started out as a musical artists, so I'm gonna let her bless us with her vocal skills because y'all tired of hearing for me struggle saying karaoke every week. You're not tired of me, but my karaoke trash. At least I know what I own it, and I own I owned it too. I

already told y'all. At least you know in prior seasons we had like Melani Fiona on and stuff like that. So when somebody can sing in the house, they say so Ms Crystal, when they Hazley, can you please bless us with your vocals? With my vocals, give us a good karaoke song? What you got for Manifestation over there? You want the vocals, okay? Because when I picked that, I was gonna show you my wrapping skills. That's an easy way. That's what I do because that's a fact.

Give us something, give us some gospel, give us something inspirationally, give us something inspirational. Truth is okay, here we go. U made zeeing grace? How sweet the side the sage? Oh me? How once? What was love? But yeah, I wasn't feeling shot. The bullsha shout out came on stage. I lost, okay, but now I'm fine. Was bund but now see, nobody gets to beil. Hey. Today we are talking about manifestation. Yes, um, the reason why we brought you to one here in particular is because your stories

are so unique. But also, um, they epitomize what manifestation is. I mean, I want both of you to tell your stories because you came from a corporate structure and in your case, you're working with the government, and the decided to pretty much just see him out, just you know, going out on your beliefs and your thoughts and just

taking a gamble, and of course it worked out. But I want you to talk about why you think it worked out and what you know, the the trials and tribulations of believing in yourself so well, first they need to introduce themselves and all that stuff. I want to die. I get it, I get it, I get it. Um. So yeah, we'll give you guys the opportunity to just

introduce yourselves. If people aren't familiar with you, um, you know, tell them where you We'll give you the handles and all that stuff at the end, but just tell them what you do, and you know what you're doing, all your amazing things, where you come from, all that good stuff. Latest I don't go for Okay. My name is Chris Dorna Hazelid. I am a series regular on Tyler Perry Show Sisters, and I'm also a singer. Um. I do a lot of different things, some little jack of all trades.

But yeah, Fatima team Seamen. All right, I'm Kendall Kendall. I am a series regular on Games People Play on b ET. I also have my own talk show, Social Society on All Black streaming every Monday. I'm also an influencer. Um. But you know, I'm an actor, I'm a host, I'm a brother, I'm fun yeah easy yeah. And he's also my children's like one of the most favorite people. Anytime

Candall comes by to visit. They're like okay, and he buys like great gifts because the kids know how to get him on Amazon's guy last time he was a cast cast made him buy some bubble machine last time, and I showed it, showed up at the door. Cast ellis, I'm like, wait, a second cat has been on my Amazon account. No, he's from Kendall Like okay, yes he did, and it broke. So you see what I mean. You look at Uncle Kendall coming through one too. It's affect.

It's on the arm. It's like a little you know what. I love it though. I love it well, whether you call it manifestation, the law of attraction, or just being blessed and highly favored, the power of naming your goals and your desires and letting your faith do the work is very real. And I feel like everyone here can attest to that in some way, shape or form. So we brought our two good friends here today to prove it.

Kendall and Crystal have two amazing stories about how they pretty much manifested their dreams, took a took a step out on faith, walked out on a limb, and went from surviving to thriving with an unwavering belief that they could do so and tell us what drove them there. So I love y'all, thank you all for being here today. UM. One thing is devoted are very purposeful about UM is having people in our spaces that we feel like we can feed off of the energy, we can exchange energy.

I can't see Crystal little it there, but UM, sorry your big heads in my way. But we're very purposeful. And it's one of those like cli shaped shape terms where you find out like where people say, you know, birds of a feather flock together, or showed me your

friends and I'll tell you who you are. UM. But I feel like as we've gotten older, UM and just being more aware of who we are, we prefer to protect our energy and then also be around energies that we don't necessarily always pulled from, but we can pour into each other. So I feel like in any facet that we've hung out, whether it's just having a good time out or y'all just come in kicking back in our house and chilling. Because also two were very particular

about energy in our house with our kids. UM, we trust that you two always come here with the utmost positive energy and um, not expectation but the utmost positive well energy. Yeah yeah cool. So we love y'all for that. We thank you, and we want to talk about y'all stories. So kindle, let's start with you. Tell us about you story. How do you manifest the life that you Wow? So

it's crazy. Two fifteen, I was doing homework. Um. I went back to school because I stopped going to school because I was working in the job that I felt I was in HR. And I ended up getting the job UM through class a business class. We had to do resume and I was like okay, and I got the job at quick and long, like I'm not going back to what I was. I didn't want to do HR, but I felt like, hey, this is something I could do. I know how to do it. Um, I really wanted

to do communications. My dad was like when I went to kinds, like, you don't want to do something that's a little you know, that's always the way it works. It low medicine. Yeah, and that's what I did. Predental hated it, every bit of it. I'm like, all right, speeding up to two thousand and fifteen, I was like, it has to be more life. I've always wanted to be in the industry, but I just didn't know how

to do it. Um, I prayed about it. I did and then you know how sometimes you're just driving me like lord, I just at the time, I'm like, I just want to be famous. I just want to be famous. I'm over this. So, um, Love and Hip Hop was on. I was doing homework. I switched, I went back to school, switched my major to communications, and I only had like a year to do so Love and hip Hopson, it was towards the end, and in my mind, I'm thinking, what am I going to do? I got three months?

What am I going to do? And I kept praying about it, and I kept saying like, I'm getting out of here. I don't know how, but I'm getting out of here because this office is not for me doing homework. Love and Hip Hop. I do a video boom go viral. Oh shoot. I'm like, oh shoot, how many follows? Seven hundred followers woke up and like six hours with five thousand. The next week I had ten thousand. So they was just grown in twenty thirty a week and I was like,

whoa in the year, like almost a year. I was like at a million followers and I'm like WHOA. So of course BT reached out and I kept doing those videos and I didn't know why, and I was like, why am I doing this? But I'm not gonna stop. I stayed consistent, right, so I took so I took that and I was like, okay, um, I was doing those little morning videos where I was screaming to the

top of my lungs, y'all. I was doing those little morning videos because I hated the office and it gave me like it was like my coffee was adrenaline pumping. And when I got out, I was like, I'm not going here and attacked this day. Um. But I remember saying this, like I'm not gonna always do this. I'm not always gonna be driving to this office like something's getting ready happen. I don't know what it is. I just had this feeling and I just kept saying, I'm moving to l A. I'm moving to l A. And

manifestation is attraction and belief. So I believed it and I attracted it, and in a year I moved to l A. Now we l A. When I got to l A, I said, okay, I'm here. Hit the ground running in a year, I'm booking a row. I'm like, if I did this, if I said I'm moving to l a want, Yeah, that's it. I'm doing whatever I want. I was like, I'm booking a row in the year I booked a row. Games people play and I was like, that's when I was like, whoa. Okay, the power of

the tongue is real. And speaking positivity not negative, well, I mean even the power for negativity. Speak negative, They're gonna come true. So you got to make sure you speak positive. Yes, So like you were saying, I was like, Okay, I'm gonna have my own show. I ain't gonna be sitting on this couch, but every Monday, and now I'm sitting on I'm still sitting on the couch, but I'm sitting on the new couch in the studio. That's the fact. Every Monday. Social society, Yeah, I mean, and the vow.

You got to be careful because the people that you hang around will manifest some ship for you too. It was all good because the vow was like you move in to Atlanta. I'm like, if you don't get out my face, you have to understand that Kendall's love for l A runs deep, and actually we ended up moving to l A as well, and you were so happy. We were so happy because we're like, at least we're gonna be near Kendall. And we spent many of days with you coming over to visit and all that good stuff.

And then the pandemic hid and then it was like damn. But we spent so many nights and days at the firepit, like just talking, talking about what to do. But one day, one thing I did say when we were around the fire pit is as much as I didn't want to come to Atlanta, I said, if the money reside there, I'm coming. And so I'm here in Atlanta. But I believe that guy put me here be because my support

system these two right here. Like I have a big brother, right, but the VOW is like a big brother that I never had because me and my brother were close, but we don't have that relationship like me and you. So I will call the VOW in a minute, like, Hey, I need a financial advice, and hey, what do you think I should do about this? So if y'all left me in l A, I probably would be lost because the fact that I could drive to Calibasas and now I can drive out here. You know it's I needed.

I probably needed to be here. And we have the same manager, the same manager. And speaking of our manager, she was like, You're gonna flourish in Atlanta. So I'm trying to embrace it. Embrace it. It's an adjustment. I know, I say things about it. It's not that bad, but it's funny to hear those things. Yeah, I mean that's what people feel like when they first are taking out of a comfort zone and then thrown into another situation. There's gonna be those moments where you feel like, am

I doing the right thing? You know? Well, speaking of comfort zones, I know you got thrown out of your comfort zone, Crystal, did I tell us tell us quickly about your story, because after we hear from your story, I want to hear about how you're able to get through things. I know you had some tough times. Thank you first moved, so I want to hear how you made the decision. So. Yeah, So I am from a

very small town Martin, Tennessee, about ten thousand people. And it was a place where you had nothing to do but dream, if that makes sense, because there was nothing there no shopping mall, just a small college town. Yeah, a few stoplights. And growing up, I would stand on the fireplace man like this behind us, and I would have a little highlighter in my hand, and I would give acceptance speeches. At five years old, I would give

acceptance speeches. And I think some things are just like planted in children, even when they don't realize why they're doing it. And um, what to college in my hometown. Got an internship in Washington, d C for for our state senator, and end up getting a job right right about what was my last semester of college. So I finished online, moved to d C. Big difference from Martin, Tennessee. Big difference on my first rat I was like, I thought it was a cat. I was how the walk

around with the people they do? Oh my goodness. And moved and it was a big culture shock. And stayed there for about two and a half years. And it was two thousand and eight that I realized that I did not want to sit behind a desk similar to you. I did not want to sit behind a desk anymore. I was going to move to Atlanta and pursue my music and acting career. I called my uncle up who lives here, and I said, hey, uncle, I want to move to Atlanta. Do you have an extra bedroom that

I could stay in? He said, yeah, you can stay with me. And literally went from UM, a well paying job, benefits and everything, packed everything up, moved to Atlanta, drove my UM Volkswagen Jetta down here. Listen. My mom was like, well, just pray about it. Already prayed out the door and UM got down here. Did not have a job, said that literally had this I'm talking about faith y'all. Did not have a job set up. I just had a

place to lay my head. That was it. And um, I did have a good support system at the time. Q Parker from the group one twelve was interested in helping me with my music. So we worked on stuff and I started kind of networking and making my way

around the city. And then it just it was really tough because as a young woman trying to break into the music industry, such a male dominated industry at that, it was so hard and UM, trying to keep your morals intact and standards and saying, okay, I'm not gonna do this, I'm gonna do it the right way, and things just never. I never really broke that ceiling to or even busted through the door for that. And um. At the same time, I was doing that ground work

for different films. UM. I remember I was on the set of some the R two and it was raining. I was background sitting under a tent and if he a comes outside and he goes you and I go me, and he's like, yeah, you come here, and I'm like okay, and Will Packer, who was now married to my cousin, says, um, hey, we want you to play pots girlfriend. He's a senior in college, he doesn't have a girl. We want you

to play his girl. And I was like okay. So so many relationships with Bill just off of that come here, yeah, and that um shows just the humble beginnings and not being afraid to start off him saying as a background, some people that you can just get there and that's not how it works. And UM. From there, I was still doing music and a friend of mine was like, you kind of got a knack for fashion, you should try working in costumes at the studio. And I was like,

I need a job so great. So I started off as a public I mean as a production assistant, UM at Tyler Perry Studios in two thousand twelve and worked my way up through the costume department. Went from um P A to costumer for background, went to set costumer, and then became the key costumer. And then I was working on another film because by that time people kind of knew about and they were like, oh, we got another film you want to come work on. This was

like yeah, it was a new Jamie Foxx movie. I was like, yeah, I loved big fan of Jamie Foxx. I would love to come work on it. So UM did that and then I get a call from the back from Tyler Perry Studios and I'm like why they keep calling me? And I'm like something else having fun and we're on hiatus, we're not shooting things. I didn't know what they were calling about. So UM Finally when I got a break, I was like, hey, I got a call from the studio and they're like, oh, yeah.

It was Azzy, the president at the time, and I was like a bold and they were like yeah, so Tyler, I want to know if you would be interested in costume design in the shows. And I was like what costume design? And like I'm having fun just showing up and being like, what I do? Okay, cool, that's a lot of responsibility. So um, I thought, I said, let me think about it, which is probably not what most people would have said. Yeah, I was like I need to think about it because I was comfortable, and so

I ended up taking the job. And fast forward to a few months later, I get a call from Tyler himself and he's like, hey, um, I was actually an Amsterdam doing some fun things. So when I got that call, I was like Tyler, I was like, amazing, grace I was. I had to snap out a real quick when I heard Tyler. I was like, Tyler Perry, yes, hello, Yes, this is her, like very professional, And he was like, so I want to revamp my wardrobe and I wanted to know if you'd be interested in helping with it.

And I was like okay, yeah, cool. Having me flying back to l A where he was at the time, and UM met with him and then started I kept getting calls from his people saying, hey, okay, Tyler's going here. I'm like I was just his Yeah, I didn't know what it was going on. So we're a Jimmy fallon. I'm like, okay, I'm Jimmy Fallon right now. This is crazy putting his shoes on and he's six six, so I'm looking. I'm like, so what are we doing? That question? Like,

let's take this relationship. What's going on? And he was like my stylists and I was like okay. So, UM that lasted for five years and I stopped. UM. I stopped auditioning, and at that point I was starting to get callbacks. The directors was knowing who I was. So it was a cross roads, like do I keep going for this dream or do I go work for Tyler Perry. So I'm getting older and you know the stigma and the industry about women. Yeah, so like all that in my head and I was like, hey, you know what,

I'm just gonna go work with Tyler. Did it? And UM did not audition for anything for five years and UM Sisters came about. Fast forward to two thousand nineteen. UM. I was there for the basically the birth of Sisters and was brought on as a consultant producer because it's about young women in their thirties dating and I was like speaking right, still wasn't thinking about acting, but as the scripts came and I was like, whoa, Like, these are my stories, these are my girlfriends stories, Like this

is my voice. Why am I not on this show? And that's when the like that burning like fire that likes you to really go do things um came to me and I was like I just called him and I was like te like this is it and he was like, well, he had no idea I wanted to act all those years he had known me, had no idea. I had auditions for stuff for a TPS, never got anything, and um, he didn't even know that until last summer. He was like, you did what I said, Yeah, auditioned

for two things. He was like I never knew that. Yeah, So um, here we are. Series went from ten episodes season one, like would you like some coffee? Hid like a whole like twenty episodes and next season I'm like, well then like we're making series regular. And I was like whoa, wow. So this is this part of the reason why both of you and because your story is

are so different. Your story took like a decade. It is to disbelief to now this conception of where this inception of word is now, but yours was like overnight, like and I want people to hear both sides, because people think manifestation is one way. You know, people people think that oh if I manifested, gotta happen tomorrow, or some people think that it has to be a hard, arduous process, but it isn't. It's just whatever your process is,

your process. So Kendall, when you were going through this process where you ever like worried that it wasn't gonna workout or you were just like definitely the whole time preparing to go to l A, I was nervous because I always say this. I was scared of losing the fifteen and the thirtie that's the days I get paid everything. Yes, and then also um benefits, health benefits. So I'm like, how am I going to do this? And how am I going to afford to live there? But I still

was saying I'm going just going, Yeah, I'm going. I don't care. Like I had those fears, but I was going outside. I figured it out and like you said, this fire that's up under you and it as much as I was saying what if, what if? What if, it never stopped me from packing my boxes and saying that I was going, Um, I think I just got to a point to where I just stopped having fear and started actually really tapping into faith. And I didn't do that until with my thirties. Well I was thirty. Yeah,

that's when I thought I was thirty. Before that, I was not tapping in the faith. I would hear it, and you know, you would say it, but um, I actually started believing. And when I did that, I just had it was like he had his hand on my back, like you're going regardless of you asked for what you're going, and I just was believing. Um. So you would say it was like pretty much solely your faith that drove that.

Man is definitely my faith, definitely, um. But you had times where you second guess yourself because I get a lot of d m s and emails from people saying, Hey, I really want to do this, but I don't know if I can. Is me second guessing myself saying is that the way of my my spirit telling me that this is informat or is it a form of self sabotaging my thing is? I've felt those times, but I

had to like talk myself out of it. Have y'all ever felt a moment where you're like something that's saying I shouldn't do this, where you have to verbally say out loud like no, I'm doing this because I've learned to do that when I work out, like when I want to quit, like I'm at the end and it's getting hard, I'll say to myself, let's go, Ellis, let's go, LS, You've got this, And when I verbally speak it, then I feel that energy come. Has there been moments for

y'all where y'all have had to do that honestly? Well, yeah, definitely, Yeah, yeah, I would say that. Coming to Atlanta, Yeah, I was like, it's the times I wanted to tell to know I don't want to do it. I don't think I want to do this, But I just had to keep saying you're going, You're going. But the back of my head was like I don't want to go. I don't want to do it. I don't want to do it, but I kept saying you're going, You're going. Um. But going to l A, I never had this, never, It was

no doubt at all. Ever. It was my only thing was I'm scared of how I'm going to afford it. That was the only thing. And I had people in my ear saying it's too expensive out there, like my granddad, it's too expensive people people. Yeah, and then it's all these people like, oh it's too expensive. Oh you're not gonna fit in. And that's what made me want to go.

I was like, I gotta go see for myself. Expect definite, and I do that a lot on the ground when people say things and my d m or in my comments like they used to say, you all you're gonna do is sit on that couch. Okay, okay, let me show you something I've been in before, because you've been there before. Absolutely, how do you get through those moments where you where you feel like you don't know if

you can what do you do? Um? I think and you can probably relate to this as a former athlete competition like we are talking yeah, yeah, I was a competition cheerleader, and it didn't matter what was going on, like you keep going, you know, like your arm is broken, bones popping out, finished the routine. So I think with that it started off as a young girl, that's always been embedded in my brain so that even when things start to get hard, I'm like, no, you got this.

You didn't start, you didn't even get to this point for no reason. Keep pushing, keep pushing. But I'm not. That's not to say that there weren't times where it was really hard, you know, broke and like scrambling for change. Just yeah, yeah, Like when I moved here and didn't have a job, like I literally was like I had a support system, but it was just I was just getting by, you know. It wasn't until I got that first job. Shout to Divine Stevens, who is a big

arts development person. He's worked with everybody from like us or two I can't, let's goes on, but he gave me my first job out here working behind the desk. It was another desk job, but it was at the arts Development center, so I could go upstairs and work in the dance studio. There was a gym next door, so it was still like in the realm. And that's when I started trying to put myself in places where like it was getting me to where I was trying to go in some type of way. You gotta plan.

Did you have a plan? Definitely had a plan. So, okay, I want to talk about this because people people always say, like when when you have a dream that has to be all you see, there can't be no plan B, because plan B only the turns from Plan A. I tend to differ because Kadena and I always had dreams. But I feel like, because we wanted to have a family, our plan A had to encompass, you know, our ability to provide why we chase our dream And I try

to implore people to to utilize that asset. You know, you don't just quit your job if you don't have a plan. And you had a plan, you had a plan, And I want people and even Codeine. When Codeine was working at MAC, she wanted to quit her job to be freelanced. But if she quit her job, we wouldn't have health insurance. And so we made was like this

money is gonna reside. It's supposed to. But then but then then put the onus on me and like you said, that fire underneath you, Like, I hate this situation that I'm in right now. There is no other way than to leave this situation and then do what I gotta do. And then that the fire under me to the point where I was like, okay, so the vale has health insurance. Now now I have flexibility over my schedule. I'm gonna build this makeup. I'm gonna take every wedding. I'm gonna

take every photoshop I can. Now I have flexibility with my child. I can stay at home when I need to. And then I was making tons more money. Then I was sitting behind that counter all day. Didn't just jump out the w So the first thing we spoke about was man manifesting it, believing it. So we believed it. Then we created a plan. The next thing is followed through. Right. You talked about people in our life. We've always heard

people say I can't do that. So I always have people ask me questions, what about your friends and family who don't believe in you? I tell them, expect people not to believe in what you see, because if if it was their vision, everybody would do it. You can't expect people to see a vision for you that's gonna make you great, because if if it was just a regular vision that everyone can see, it wouldn't be considered greatness. That's like the windows story you told me about before.

People can only see the looking at what was something I gave. I gave an analogy. I gave an analogy. I'm trying to explain to my my young men, and our mentor about having windows in your room. Right. And I use this analogy because they grew up in One of the biggest things they were concerned about in Brooklyn

was prison or dying. So I said, to imagine that you're born, you and another young man, two young men, I said, imagine that you're both born, and you're born in prison, because ultimately, when you're born, your mind can be a prison. When you don't know things and you have fear, you imprison yourself to your environment of what you see. So you're both born in the prison, and you're both born them cells right next to each other. One cell has a window, one cell doesn't have a window.

Every day you both get out of this prison and you go amongst the prison population and you live your life. One prisoner says to the other prisoner, man, when I get out of here, I'm gonna do X Y Z. And the other prisoner laughs, like what is that? Like, how do you even believe that you can do that? You're never getting out of here. There's nothing out of here, It's just prison. And the guy said, why do you believe that there's there's just nothing in here but prison?

He said, that's all we see the cells and the prisoners, and the other guy goes, you don't have a window in your cell, and he's just like, nah, don't, what's a window. So now you start to realize that these are two people born in the same situation, but one has a window and one doesn't. Because this person has division to see other things, he can see greater for himself. I try to tell people a lot of times, your

vision is because of what you see. Don't expect other people, even if they're right next to you, to see what you see, because their perspective is different. So when they tell you I can't see you doing that, don't be upset. They don't got no window in their room, and don't don't let their ideas of what you can do hinder you from believing you you can do something because you saw it. If you believe it and you saw it,

then you can do it. And a lot of the kids were like, dang, I never thought about it that way. I said, it's the truth. That's life. And a lot of people's opinions come with being either tainted or jaded by their own life experience. So something may not have panned out for them. They're trying to tell you their experience, which they can because that was their experience, but it's how you then take that with a grain of salt

and they continue to move on. During my UM come up, when I was still in Detroit, I had to remove myself from a lot of those people because they were learning my vision. And I said, Okay, it wasn't that I wasn't done with them, but I just had to step away because I was just yeah, and I had to put that. I was putting this plan together, and it was like it's like I was building these blocks and they kept coming and trying to knock them over, and I'm like, hold on, you get back. I'm gonna

have to keep you at a distance. So, UM, I removed some people on my way, and I still think they kind of like they're not around, but you know what I mean, when you're going to the next level, we can't take everybody. They're probably like, damn, Candle actually did that right? They actually did that? Have you had people you had to move on? Um not move on to some similar what you said, like certain things just

can't talk to everybody about, you know. And then but my parents were very like safe and get to go to school, get an education, get a good job with benefits. And I was always the risk taker. I wouldn't say black sheep of the family, but like literally like I can do whatever. I didn't care what it was. I can do it, Like if I cheated. My mom didn't like my outfit. I literally was like, wh I like it? She was like this girl is crazy. Like I didn't

care what anybody thought, and now I'm tying Tyler Perry shoes. Literally, So it was more so that I remember working on the hill. A friend of mine came in, He's like, hey, we got some opportunities for you to work on Obama's first campaign. I was like, yes, I'm count me in. It's paid, let's go. My parents like, m I don't know if that's a good idea. You just you've only been there for a year with Senator Alexander. I think you should stay really big on loyalty, which I respect.

And they were like, we're not really I mean, we want him to win, but you think he's really gonna win. I'm like, yeah, yes. After that, they were like, we will never tell you what you can do. We've all been there with our parents and parents, so many things. My parents have told me like that's never gonna happen. Don't ever listen to me. My father only believes me now because I'm not broken, homeless, you know what I mean.

I think at this point he finally gets it, like oh, because at first he was like YouTube, who is YouTube? Who pays you? So YouTube PAGs you would check that's a person place your thing. I'm like, it's like all this stuff, it's just crap. And then now wait until you pull up pops in the driveways. Let me get you that gate access. Okay, how about that? So I didn't tell my dad anything. His friends, I guess their kids start showing their parents like isn't this Kendall Son?

And then they go to work it's like, your son, it's funny, did you see this something? My Dad's like, what's these videos? And I'm like I don't know. I'm like I don't, I don't know. I was like, I just do some this just for fun whatever. But at the time, I was getting booked for things and I wasn't telling them, and then he was like, what is this you did for b et? I started telling him and I was like, now it's time to tell him, because if he see it, then he would leave it.

But if I went to him and said this is what I'm doing, it would have been just like going to college, like here's my residence. It's like when I went to college freshman year. You probably should think about that major. He probably would have told me, you need to think about that. You know, you you got a job and stay well, you got benefits. He would have asked me everything in the course of what are you going to do about health? I'ma're probably gonna be the

same way. Absolutely, you're gonna be a little different. I'm not gonna be like my parents. Concern for making sure that they're making that decision. Just having that concern, that's what I mean. And not enough that my parents never shot me down when I told my parents especially, and this is one thing I'll say about my pops. Me and my pops have our issues, of course, or father and sons. Dude, when I told my father I wanted

to do something, he had my back. When I wanted to walk on to college and I walking there with the coach and the coaches like, I don't know if you can play here. He was like, you know, we'll give you a partial, you gotta earn the rest. And my father looked at me and said, you think you can play here? I saw, I know I can play here. My father said, my son can play here. We'll take the partial and earn the rest. And it was like, damn,

my pops believed in me. And then I had to realize that my pops and my mom's are the ones who put the window in my cell because they showed me other things like they showed me things that they exposed me to different things, and that's what I want to do with my children. You grew up in in a small town in Tennessee. Every sum I used to go to Morristown, Tennessee. So many of those people, even if they see me on YouTube, say hey, I remember you come to Boys and Girls Club. I didn't know.

I had never thought about doing all of this because when you come from a small towner, from a family who only sees things one way, a lot of their fear comes from the fact that they haven't even seen anything else. But um that that also leads me to something that you both talked about was consistency. Right. You talked about doing videos consistently even when you didn't ever want want to come from it. You talked about consistency

doing background. I've watched Coldean be consistent do weddings when she didn't want to do weddings anymore. Let's talk a little bit about how important and it is to be consistent, especially when you don't reap the benefits of your manifestations early on, because that that doesn't it doesn't come like it's not I'm manifested tomorrow make money. Talk a little bit about the consistency I mean, being consistent. Like I said, with the videos, I just kept doing them and you

weren't making money right away? No, I was not. How long was it before you made me? A year and some change? So you was making videos consistency, consistently? How often every Monday? And then the morning videos at the beginning was like every day ever since. I was going to work every day, and that was mine like I said, that was my call. Yeah, it was bringing people to your PA, was bringing people to my page. And it was also motivating people because they saw, you know where

I was going. Um and then yeah, it was about a year two thousand seventeen. So I started in two thousand fifteen, the end of two thousand fifteen November and then two thousand seventeen February making videos everything. You know that mine, that's my story too. I was making videos every single day and videos a day without making no money, and that's when we have fifteen seconds we have. I

was getting everything out fast. Yeah, yeah, I was getting everything out of fifteen seconds like um, and then I just stay consistent with that and then um, I want to fast forward to me doing the cocktails and rowed. So I was doing those and I wasn't making any money. I was just making these videos, um, making cocktails. And then fast forward months later, boom, because I was staying consistent, I got some brandal and then hey, can we send you this? And then from there that's when the brand

deals came. So that's important for people to understand two, because they'll make two and three videos and they won't have no following and nothing happens, and then they stopped. This ain't working because they don't have any patience. You just heard a whole year without making any money, consistently making videos every day and then sometimes two videos a day because you have to make a video for the

weekly and a video for the day. I was making videos, two and three videos a day doing Oh my gosh. They used to hate. We'll be in the middle of something and I'd be like, wait, wait, wait, this is a video, and she'd be like, oh videos. It will be at the most inopportune time, like I got my head tie on, mid diaper change, breast leaking, and I'm like devout. I'm like, this is funny, this is funny. They're gonna love it. She used to be like, I hate you, I hate you. Get the video, Get the video.

And she was even taking the kids. We had a whole argument for Halloween because I wanted to do a Halloween video and Ki was just like, I was gonna take the kids out and trick a treat and I was like, we can trick a treat, but we can record it. So even in the middle of the trick a treat and they'll be going to drive like stop, let me get this, and she'd be like, gods, go

to the car, go to the car. That we the two of us out here holding the candy corn things and bags, dressed like well, I forgot what you was dressed as like a fairy and I got Donald Duck up on me in the middle of Brooklyn are you impointing fingers and stuff, the kids looking out the window like what's happening? Then we get the video done. Now look look and Gruz you was doing how long were you doing background for? UM? I didn't do it for

that long. I did it probably probably two thousand and ten to two thousand twelve, So two years you did background. You were a stylist for five years, which you did not want to do, but you were consistent because building the relationship was important. It was important. And then even being like I said about trying to when you're working towards ago, trying to put yourself in making money in

the arena of where you're trying to go. So me working on said, I was constantly studying the Tika Sumters. I was studying Cicely Tyson, Felicierus, Shine will Be Goberg, Chris Rock. When those people coming, I was like sitting there literally watching them sponge and higher time. So that

was very important, UM. And that was part of the consistency, you know, not losing sight of what I wanted to do and always making sure because I could have gotten like, yeah, I'm just here to dress people and not been paying attention and staying consistent and studying. But you were smart though, And I want to bring this to our last point before we get to listen to letters, finding a way

to turn that manifestation into monetary value. And you said about choosing to find something in the arena of how you're making money. That's part of your plan. We talked about a plan. How did you do that? Because I did the same thing with with Omori and yeah, when you took a stunt double job, I was in conservatory two years at Esper Studio, but I needed to make money. Then I got asked to do a stunt double for Power, and I was like, wait a minute. I could be in a class and learn how to act, or I

could be around actors. And at the time Power was one of the top shows on cable, so I was like, okay, I get to be his stunt double. I get to sit back and watch how we lead a bleeding black mail does his job. So I decided to leave Conserva Tory to get paid to be a stunt double. I never wanted to be a stunt double, but it was like something I chose to do. So talk a little bit. I want all you guys to talk about the choices you made to find a way to make money while

pursuing your passion. Um first choice was taking the pH job, because you know, that was literally going back. At that point, I was like seven, starting all over again. Go and get coffee. And it was like, hey, I'm going to be seven, getting coffee, running errands, um, doing all the grunt work, making cold calls, trying to get brands to give us clothes. Hey, this is Chris Lazier calling from Tyler Verry Studios, like doing all that, and but it was just making sure that I knew what I wanted

to do. And even when Tyler called me and asked me to be his style, and I was like, dang, like I just got my first callback, you know, huge. I'm like they actually liked me, you know. And then um, I just wonder, like in my right because you know, that digging me and it's like right there, it was the gold. It's like if I right there, and um, so I just I was like, you know what, let me just build this relationship, you know, And and I

was still being crazy. I'm a creative, so Stalin was I'm still doing something I love, so it wasn't like I was losing, you know, And I would pray all that God order my steps because I used to be like, I want this, this, this is, and they tell us be very um, be very clear on what you want, ask for what you want. But then as I got older, I was like, you know what, God just ordered my steps because I know whatever you have for me is far beyond what I have for myself. And look at

my life now. I could never have imagined that my first show would be a show that I'm producing. And now one of the starts of like that doesn't happen, you know, so it doesn't happen. Like that's very different. That's part of the reason why we brought you, because I was extremely different than you ordered it. Yeah, but you did put the work in. Yeah, a lot of

work for a long time. Ten years. There's a saying takes ten years to become because now people like, oh my gosh, and all the stuff I was doing then, like I just posted a video that I like in two thousands and people were like, yeah boo. So everything was ding dong because she was getting her master's degree and look Wookie for agent receiver, like look at this, Dirwin. It was literally the same year that show came out,

two thousand seven. I was going to the second people like they just took your life and put your life on U p N Like, Yo, this is wild. But talk to us. How how did you find a way to turn that manifestation into money and continue to monetize your dream because you moved to l A with no job. Yes, so, um well I had a plan, right, you had a plan. My plan. I kept working until I felt like I couldn't work anymore because I was getting booked. I was getting booked, I was doing Um oh, so you were

still working at your job and getting Yeah. I used to say in my little mornings, I write, y'all, I'm back in the you know what it is. I'm like, y'all know, I'm a celebrity on the weekends and during the week And people used to because they always ask, like, wait a minute, you was just in l A and then here you go Monday morning at seven am driving back on the few. You do that. Now, that's important though, because that also shows consistency, that shows passion but work ethic.

You were driving, yeah, well I was. I flew. I would fly to l A. And then I would have them get me a red eye and then when I land, I would get back in at like six am. I would go home shower, but before I left on Friday, I would have my clothes ready for Monday because I already knew what was up, and then I will shower, put my clothes on, go to work, do my lip. More than see, those are the things that people don't see. Right. People get an opportunity to watch you now and say, oh,

he did it, I can do that. Are you willing? Oh he just did videos. But he just did videos. He was still working and had a job. It was finding time to do old until he could leave one and pursue the other. And so many people say that's not the way you do what. You gotta leave you job out the window, just fly there. No, you don't ever just quit your job. Make sure you have a

plan and make sure you saved. Because I was still um surviving off my checks and I was paying my rent off my checks and whatever I was doing, and then the money that I was making from the bookings, I was putting it up because I know, at not doing another winter in Michigan, I'm getting out of here, and I saved all my money because I didn't know how long I would be without a job for money, and I know how I wanted to live, and I know what I wanted to do right I had to.

I had how I wanted to live and what I wanted to do in l A while I'm there, and um so I saved all my money and then it camera time. June did to bet Awards. My boss saw it. She was like, come here. When I came in, I was like, but in my head, I don't think it. I'm like, hey, this is it. Hey, I'm ready. If I got to go, I got yeah, and she's like, close my door. I'm like, I closed it. She turned around and she turned her chair around. She did this and she smiled. She was like how long I got?

And I was like, you asked it. Yeah, it's kind of August. She was like, give me to September. I was like, September, that's it, because um I got to be in l A by October. She was like, wait a minute, so you already had that. I said, oh yeah, my lease is up in October. I'm out of here. And she was like, okay, give me to September. I want to do something nice, but I gotta go out of town. I want to come back and do something for you. So I was like, okay, UM, got to

l A. Now here's the thing I am. I getting ready to make money because I'm in l A. I'm in this place that I don't know nothing about. I don't know where to go. Um. You know you both of y'all know those brands will reach out to you on the ground. And I was doing my videostiersistent with my videos. Even though I'm moved, I'm still doing them. Um, people like, hey, can you mention my brand while you do your videos? Definitely? So you know, with Loving hip Hop,

I'm talking about weave and everything. So I'm talking about hair glue, flippers, people sending me clippers. So that's how I was making my money until I figured out, okay, I'm getting classes. And then also with BT, I was doing a lot with BT and just being around those people. Robbie Read. She was like, so, what's what's your vision what you want to do? I was like, I want to ask. She was like, you want to act? I was like yeah. She was like I didn't know that

this whole time you know, you will come up. So that's when Robbie started. She kept me on the radar and she will send me auditions until finally she was like, are you in class? And I was like no. She's like, you need to get in class because you're green and you need to know technique. He need to get a scene study. And I did that, and she hit me a year later with the games people play and I didn't think I booked it. I didn't think I've you hear nothing from him. I was like no. And then

I was getting ready going home for Thanksgiving. I'm driving and she like, hey, Kendall, you booked a roll up m J. And I just like I was one. I was like wait what she got out? I just started crying. And then I was driving home to screaming out the window. I'm like, that's what the fun, That's how you do that, you know. I'm just I'm like the same thing you said. I'm like all the way home, I'm like, I don't believe I did it, And um, but you took direction

as well. Yeah you know what I mean. Getting the advice from Robbie go into the classes. You did everything you did? Yeah, I did and it was hard because sometimes I was going to class, like some days class was litting. Some days I'm like a struggle, and I'm like I felt like being on set. Once I got on set, I learned more on set, but also I took a lot from class, especially like breaking down that

wall the wall, and then also um substitution. I used that so much like when I got to be mad, I just think about things that happened in my childhood. I just I take it there. See, it'sn't point for people to hear that too, because people think that once you make it, or you make a certain level of success, you don't have to work to grow anymore. And if Will Smith can still take classes, if my one of my favorite actors, Adrian Lennox one of Tony Awards, she's

my aunt, shoutouts on Adrian. She still takes classes and she's I think she's going to be in her sixties in the late fifties. Why can't I take classes? In fact, when I finished first season, I went straight back to Aaron Spiders and Shotton Sturgis. I was like, Okay, I feel like I was good, but I wasn't great, So I went right back to her. I hit up Any Grimly, my acting coach, because I'm like, okay, I need to be better. And then we got picked up for a

second season. I hit them, I went back. I'm like, okay, I gotta I gotta, yeah, I gotta get ready. And I do see the difference between last season and this season. Right now, Um, I got a chance to be serious because everybody put me in for the punch, like we want him to come in and give us the punch lines. We know we're gonna laugh. I'm like, I can do more than that. Let me just show you. And I finally had a scene. I can't really tell y'all, can't

wait till you see. I was like, smellow, watch party. Good for that. Oh my goodness, this was such a great talk. I mean, we got to take a breakthrough the patient bills, but we can bring all right. Cool. So yeah, we have listener letters. We're just gonna see what these people writing about. We can get you all two cents in on that and then we'll be back. So we'll be back guys afterwards. All right, we'll back listener letters. I want to see what these people have

to say that diving. You want me to read the first one. I got it, you got it? Excuse me? Read slowly and enunciate please, Oh she wild disrespect. I'm not doing now, I'm not doing Sometimes I'll be randoling you sometimes be stuttering on your listening to live, like, uh, can I finish? Can I read it before? Now? Hi? Codeine and de val? Is that enough? Annunciation? And I

currently six. Graduated from college back in two thousand and eighteen with a degree in sociology, worked a few office jobs in a coffee shop job when I thought I wanted to focus on becoming a rapper producer, but I hate performing and I'm not very sociable at least you know, how about yourself? Now, I'm unemployed and living with my parents, but in the midst of the enlistment process for the Air Force because I don't don't know what else to

do with my life. I genuinely don't like who I'm becoming, and I'm sure and what I'm sure the military will turn me into. But I don't know what else to do in this capitalist society. Wow. As much as I hate the idea of money and what people will do for it, I have to live within this system. Some kind of way, and I'm not the type of person that's really business minded or go getter. I feel like threw away a lot of opportunities I had during college

being focused on romantic relationships and weed. What would you suggest to someone in my position that wants to live comfortably and with peace of mind but doesn't have that hustler drive. Well, kudos do you for realizing that you don't have any of those things that you know? Sometimes people just being denial about where what it is that they are, what they're capable of. Um, but do you have any advice for this year old who's kind of don't become a cop. I'm gonna say this right, and

it's not supposed to be funny. A lot of people who don't know, are not sure about what they want to do with their life, get into law enforcement, or they go to the military. Right. Listen to how he described himself. He's not sociable, don't like people. Some people like that become police officers because that's the only thing that gives them power, their part of something. But these are the people that we have to deal with in

our community every single day enforcing laws. This is why we have the issues we have I know they had nothing to do with the question, but it really reminded me of what we talked about a few days ago of what type of people are becoming police officers. Sometimes it's the type of people who they claim to be the bad apples, but these are type of people that

need psyche vowels. Why are you becoming a police officer if you don't like people, if you're not sociable, if you don't know what you want to do with yourself. I don't have a sense of purpose. Do we give this person a gun and telling police people we don't know? That's a whole another podcast, you know. And the reason why brother, because he said he's going to enlist in the air what happens when you come out of the

Air Force? And he also says he doesn't know if he's gonna like who he will turn into or become after being in the military. See, I need to talk to him because I want to know why did you enlist in the military, Like, what, what's the it is that do you feel like that's your last resort? He said he wasted time on romantic relationships and weed. So it sounds like the type of person that knows they want structure, but also want to be a part of something.

When you want to be a part of something, whatever that culture is, you start to believe in it and you become it's dangerous for people who don't know what to be or how to be, and then it's become of a cult because part of a culture that's so toxic, you know what I'm saying. So that's why I broke the whole police officer thing. But I mean, this person at least has described some people I know now who

are cops like. And it's not even like a white or black thing, because people think that when you talk about a police officer, is a white police officer. No, there are black, orange, brown, purple police officers who have now believed in that ideology. But now we're given a weapon and some power, and now we as black people in our communities have to deal with those people. What I would tell this young man is find out who

you want first. I would say, get some therapy, because it's for him to talk so much about himself this way and self do so much self loathing. I think he has some issues he needs to deal with, but I think he needs to find a purpose to you know a lot of times you think about what drives someone, what gives them that passion or that desire, Like I feel like we each had a desire to do something, you know, and then we manifested in the work towards it.

It's hard when you don't have a purpose, so you don't know why you're like, why were you put here on this on this earth? What are you supposed to accomplish? Who are you supposed to touch? What are you trying to achieve? So I think that's what he's lacking here. Now he's telling everything, telling us everything that he knows that he is or isn't, But what feels you? I think he has to really do some soul church and to figure that out. Intelligent though, he needs a squad too, Yeah, yeah,

he does some people. I got my squad. He needs some people around him to help him, because sometimes that's all you need, not all you need, but that's part of it. And I feel like he really needs a squad people he can pour into and they can pour back into him and help him out. Like we bounced ideas off of each other all the time, Like with the book, right right, right, right right, very true, you

bounce our dias. You find out what's good what's not good, but you have to have people in your corner who are supportive. It sounds to me like he's a loner, it doesn't He talked about fail relationships, not liking people, you know what I'm saying. He sounds like he's a loner. So, um, it would be hard for him to find the squad. I just don't want him because he also said, um, he doesn't know what else to do in this capitalist society, which means he is aware of what's going on around him.

The one thing I would not want him to do is just to go into a system and buy into whatever that system is, you know, especially when so many of these systems are sexist, racist, you know, and also even though they're not capitalists, but they're also had their own issues with within our society as well. So hopefully that some therapy and find a squad first before you buy into anything. All right, Number two, I love your show and you both are such an inspiration to me.

Keep shining the way you do. Thank you. Um. I've heard Devours say there's a delusional quality that all successful people have a lot on the podcast, and I just want to know. How do you train yourself to be delusional? I work my job and hustle for my dreams, but sometimes I get tired and fearful and even insecure. What did you both do while coming into your success on a regular basis to stay committed to the belief that you could do, be and have everything that you want?

How can I do the same? Mm hmm. It's funny because I don't know if you can necessarily train yourself to be delusional. I think that delusional quality that Devot refers to is very innate. There's like a fire, there's a passion, there's that belief in oneself. That's the manifestation that's me saying anything. I do anything, I say anything, I can be anything I want. So I think a part of that is innate. But I do believe to that there are spaces and there are things, and there

are goals or dreams. That then also two can make you delusional in a sense to like almost seeing something like, for example, Crystal you being a background on a show and then seeing you know, Whoopi Goldberg or whoever on set while you're styling, and you're just like, man, I can I feel like I could do that feel like I can be that it's almost tangible for you and that yes, you know what, do you guys think I agree? Um, it's not. Yeah, I don't think. I think I definitely agree.

The delusion, the delusional that Devil always talks about, is definitely something that's just kind of in people who dare to dream, like we just there's something and as that kind of blinds us from like the reality certain things. We just like, no, I see that television, I see what I'm going after, I don't see anything else. It doesn't matter, you know, you just kind of black everything we do. Like you said, looking out that window, you just kind of you just see what's in that window,

and you you just you go for it. I would have to say I think it's Nate, but I think it's also something that was placed in me. My parents did a great job of making me feel like I can do whatever I want to do. You know what I'm saying. They questioned some of the things I wanted to do when I was younger because they didn't see it, but they put me in places to see other things. So when I saw it, I was gonna do that. And then you know, they didn't see it, so they

was like, what you mean, you're gonna do that? But they put me in that position. I think sometimes the exposure as a as a as a youngster, because sometimes so many people have so many insecurities is because their whole life they've been told no, you know, no, you can't. Like when I think about our kids, we had what's what's Delane's the last name Delana Delane, which is my

family's name is Zimmerman is mm and Eliss Delna. Zimmerman said, between five and twelve is where you have the most impact on your children, right, And what you don't want to do is you don't want to suppress your children's ideas, beliefs, and thoughts by telling or projecting all of your insecurities on them. Now was the best time to make them feel like they can do anything and then feel empowered. So I feel like from five to twelve, I was in martial arts. I wanted to do basketball, My brother

want to do football. You know what my parents did, they script whatever money they had together, that's what you want to do, We're gonna do it. So I never had any point in my life felt like I can't do it. When my parents when we had Christmas and I used to give my Christmas list, my father would always find a way to get it. So in my mind it's like, oh, if I say it and I see it, I'm gonna get it because that's been my life, even small things like Christmas gifts or trying to win

first place. So I feel like for adults, when you get to that point, I think it's time for you to start to reflect on why you have these insecurities. You know, you can't really train yourself, but do some homework. Speak to your parents, how was I raised? You know, look at your surroundings and say what is it about me that I'm afraid to dream? I think if people did more homework on why they're afraid to dream, they'll find more. Uh, They'll learn more about themselves and be successful.

Rather than saying, well, de Vos said to do this, so I'm going to do that work for Devot because this is what Devot does. It may not work for k you know, or can do or Crystal you know. So I think to do some homework. Do you do some self reflection, find out why you're so fearful, and that will give you the answers, don't oh gay, our times coming to an end. This is an awesome, awesome sit down, and I feel like there was so much

more that we haven't even touched. But I feel like as we all continue to grow together, we're gonna have more stories to share. UM, We're gonna still be finding more ways to pay it forward and give back because that's also a very large part of the manifestation process I believe is as you get in abundance, UM, as God continues to provide for us in abundance, we have

to continue to be of service to others. UM. So that's very big for me, and I feel like that's the only way we're going to continue to thrive and to grow as if we help people along the way. UM. So thank you all so much for coming. We're going to roll into our moment of truth. But before we do that, if you would like to be feed shared as one of our listener letters, no okay, UM, If you'd like to be featured as one of our listener letters, be sure to email us at dead as Advice at

gmail dot com. That's d E A D A S S A d V I c E at gmail dot com. Almost got tripped up because that was actually my moment of truth talking about being of service and paying it forward. So I kind of jumped the gun, but I would like for y'all to share the moment of truth for us is pretty much something that sums up the episode. So we spoke about manifestation, we spoke about faith, we

spoke about work ethic. So if there's even a mantra that you want to share or um something that you tell yourself, some kind of positive affirmation, anything that sums up the show that you'd like to leave our guests with for the moment of truth, I would love for you guys to share, so we can start with whoever is ready? Um mine is? I say it all the time. Don't be afraid to be amazing. I have to say that to myself whenever I started feeling fear, um don't

be afraid to be amazing. It's been plenty of times since I've been here where I'm like scared to do something or and I'm like, wait a minute, yeah, you know better than this. Don't be afraid to be amazing, Go do it. And once I do it is like, you know, it's like them like, yeah, that's what I thought. I like that. I like that. Yeah, I like that. Here we go. I like that. How about mine? Is? Um? Your living is in your giving? And that's something that

was taught to me. Um. Actually Andy at the studio calling one day and he was like, I don't know why God put this in my heart, but you're going places and I just want you to always remember that you're living is in your giving. And that's something I've carried with me Um since then. But it is. Yeah, I mean, I'm gonna p for all three. I'm like, why I put I wanted to say duck till piggy tail. First of all, I'm not gonna be afraid to be amazing. I'm gonna create a new word. I'm a piggy tal

or three. All right. I made this mantro my sophomore year of college. Each day I worked to build a legacy, not to be defined by my greatness, but by the masses. I inspired to be greater than myself, which means you gotta give, you gotta pay it forward. I can't be afraid to be amazing, so love it. That's why I'm

going to piggy tail off for y'all. And then we're gonna petail on out of here alright, So Kendle Crystal both give us real quick your handles where people can find you all that good stuff so they can continue to support you, guys, um as your endeavors continue to crawl. Okay, you can find me on everywhere Kendle, Kendle, k N, d A L L K Y and d A L L that's Facebook, TikTok, Instagram YouTube, when I get it

back up, come on, I get it back up. Also, you can find me every Monday on All Black Social Society. It's lit. The episodes are getting better and better. I can't wait till next Monday. Say y'all can see it, and I can't wait to be back. I hope I watched our episode definitely okay. Um Also, games people play? When is that games people play? We don't know yet. It's either August or October right now, but it's looking like October. We'll be back in October, so you'll be

able to find us. I don't know if it's gonna be a Tuesday or Wednesday night, but we're gonna be stay tuned and Krista Um, Yes, you can find me on Instagram and love Christna and it's l u v c R y s t A l r e n e UM. On Twitter, It's I am christ rena Facebook it is just christ Rene. And catch me on Sisters on BT. Coming back to a TV near you on June the ninth. I love it. Yes, y'all got a name the Blue Lights girl? We got I can talk

about that. Yeah. Be interested because people always ask me, kitty, how do you deal? Yes about and these seckly and I'm just like, well, we should actually bring we need to do that stuff, this recap or something, all right. Be sure to find us on social media. Dead Asked the podcast and who are you? I'm Cadena, I am and who are you? And I am Deviound. If you're listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and

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