UNDERSTATING EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE WITH 19 KEYS

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I'm gonna say because I feel like, especially in coming to education, when we write down lists, it actually becomes easier for us to see them and we can actually execute on them. And we had a high level conversation the other day, and it was funny because you never know where inspiration is gonna come from. I was like, yo, keys man, I got this brilliant idea, and you looked at me and said, yeah, you got it from me.

I said, how you know I got.

It from you?

Because I said it before even subconsciously you might have heard it. I said, damn, this brother's smart. But let's talk about it because this is bigger than business. But these are like life principles. And so you got this theory of ease. And so let's break this down because I know everybody's writing. That was great, eight apps that

Well it goes towards growth. Right.

Education is what you learn, you understand me, and so what you learn would dictate what.

You can do.

So when you talked about that model of effectiveness, he told you what he uses.

But the game is now that you.

Now have the knowledge, you need the access. The access is not just what it is by how to use it? Right, So the education would be okay, shot. I just heard you say that you built a multi million dollar company with eight apps.

Can you give me the game?

Because otherwise the time that it's going to take for me to learn it is going to be wild, except when you can give me the game, and if I can pay you to give me the game. Now you're just giving me access. The people with the most access today wins. So having the right coach, having the right mentor having the right teacher is no longer about just

It doesn't.

Others is just the details. So we have different type of learners. Most people cannot grass onto the details because they don't understand the high level, which is the concept. So when you're learning anything new, you have to say, do I understand the high level first. If you do that, now you have a foundation to build on in your brain. So when we're learning, we go through this process of unlocking and relocking because I got the keys right now,

We feel like we're missing a piece of ourselves.

But replace the word change with growth, replace the road change with evolution, right, because then people won't be afraid of upgrading, won't be afraid of updating. So for me, education is the most important because when I look across the spectrum of how all people build, say, wealth is based on what they know.

So where the first power principle was education, Let's go to the next one exposure.

Exposure. Exposure is how vast your mind will actually be. Right, once you are exposed to something and your mind continues to grow, it will never collapse again. See, the universe expands at the rate which light or reaching areas that have never reached before. So that means that when the universe is getting expanded, it's based on light reaching new places.

The same thing that happened in your mind.

Once you gain enlightenment, now your brain has been sparked in new ways.

Now it cannot be closed again.

Now you've seen three black men on stage with the most daparous attire on this planet Earth, teaching about financial education. You've been exposed to something that will change the foundation of your reality that you walk on every single day.

So now that you've seen that, you can't go back to the streets. You can't go back to the hood.

You can't just go back to your apartment and not want more for yourself. See, in America, they give us the American dream, so we never comfortable with what we have.

But what is the United Kingdom vision?

See vision gives you direction, but without vision, you don't know where you're going.

You are blind.

So you must be exposed to things outside this land. And the most beautiful thing social media did is it exposed us to brilliant minds, education, perspective in people that normally would have not gotten that opportunity.

Let's give them two more. Emotional intelligence.

Emotional intelligence is how you deal with life. You know, I just learned that I'm a violent communicator. I know, y'all probably wouldn't believe.

That, but.

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An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from El Salvador accused of murdering a Texas. Man of Venezuelan charged with filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christine Nohm, the United States

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Violent communication goes to the theory that subconsciously.

We speak from a warmond to be either offensive or defensive.

So I notice when I say things in short form, it lacks empathy, right because now a person can't properly understand me. The beauty about high level conversations that make it very hard to be misunderstood because I got out the full context of my point. So, when we're talking about emotional intelligence, a thing about men, Men lack emotional experience. Women grow or dealing with their emotions more than men. So when that is the reason that they mature at a faster rate than men.

Right, See, women are.

More equipped to deal with the low level details. Men are more of the high level concepts. So when we look at the difference between the type of jobs that men and women go is based on their emotional intelligence. So you as a man, when you learn how to deal with the spirit of yourself, then you can deal with your women correctly.

Right.

The problem is we get angry because we don't know how to identify the feeling. Have you been Are you jealous? Is this a jealous MGG that you putting out. Jealousy is when you see somebody have something and you don't want them to have it, you want it for yourself. Envy is when you don't particularly don't want them to have it, but you want it as well. Right, and sometimes you don't know when you're being jealous or envious of your.

Brother or your sister.

But see that emotional intelligence allow you to identify those factors in those flaws and bring them to light. Because honorable man this Farkin said, when children start to experiment with sex, they doing in the dark, because even a child has to innate nature that that is wrong, so they don't do it in the light.

So when we work on our shadow selves, and that's.

Dealing with who you really are, who you don't show the world that if they've seen is what they still love me. But when you have the emotional intelligence to identify that and you act in a fearless manner, because courage is acting in the face of fear, not in the absence of it. So people ask me all the time, how do I become fearless? You have to act even when that feeling starts to creep up on you and

Yeah, whoo, y'all gonna learn today.

And I think the last one.

I think the last one is most important, and it's something that has been a cashphrase of oars from the beginning. Information is going to be on us, Execution is going to be on you. So everybody in this room the night is getting the information. But talk about the power of execution.

Mm y'all ever heard the story of the first procrastinators in history?

So listen, this will happened.

Right.

It was one day these two brothers they was working.

They chopping up bricks for the pyramids, and they've been doing this work every single day.

Right, they don't take no breaks. They get the work done for the day.

Then they go home, and then one day this brother, he had this team he was trying to see, so he said, how about we do this later? He said, let's do this tomorrow. He said, what is later and what's tomorrow? Because they didn't have no concept of it was always now and next. See a baby concept of time is always now in next. We don't learn later till we get older. So what happened was he said later, man, so you mean that this is the time. We don't have to do it now. He said that sound good,

Now this is some people ancestors in here.

Some of you are waited last minute to get your ticket to come to invest vests. Because the science of procrastination is when you have pain in the mind and it stops you from moving forward. So I don't feel like doing it, so I'll do it later, and later never comes, so you never get it done.

So what you have to do is you have to learn how to do now.

Because it says be and it is not being maybe later.

See we used to be a being.

It is type of people any thought that I get. See sometimes they time sensitive. See sometimes that idea can be done at the wrong time and then it's failure. But the right idea at the right time always equal success. So you have to know that procrastination is the abortion clinic of ideas.

But the most painful part of.

The pregnancy is when a woman is pushing and it's that crowning phase.

Sometimes they got to put it under. Sometimes I gotta do a C section.

But if you push through the pain, then you give birth to every idea that you have.

An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from Al Salvador accused of murdering a Texas man of Venezuelan charged with filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christy Noman, the United States

Will be protected. Sponsored by the United States Department of Homeland Security,