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Cliff Notes: BE CAREFUL WHO YOU HELP! HOW TO AVOID UNGRATEFUL PEOPLE

Jan 15, 202313 min
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In this Cliff Notes we talked about the dangers of giving and how to avoid ungrateful people. #earnyourleisure #help #advice 


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Speaker 1

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Do what's right. Leave now. Under President Trump, America's laws, border and families will.

Speaker 2

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Speaker 3

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Speaker 2

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Speaker 3

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Speaker 4

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Speaker 3

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Speaker 5

Hopeful helps on the year of you.

Speaker 4

The year of you. Yeah, man, like that that is a fact. Yep, that is a fact. And the great thing is like, even when I was an advisor, don't forget like you know, going through like me ands and stuff when I was learning first couple of years, like training, and they always say, like, you know, focus on on high network individuals, like that's what you should focus on, Like those those are the clients. That's like, you can't make money with people that aren't high network. That was

a key emphasis of it. And they like really droll that in your head where it's like you know, everyday people they're like they could be great people, but our products are services is not for them, Like it's the government program literally told me it's government programs things of that nature that can help people like that. But what we're talking about, don't focus on that focus behind that You're gonna waste your time. This is what I'm trying

to explain to you. I'm trying to get you guys to understand this, Like we we democratize education when it comes to financial literacy, don't. Sometimes when you have it's hard to appreciate things when there's an abundance of it and there's an abundance of information. And what happens over the course of time is that you have different phases. When you first receive the information, it's a euphorious it's

like a relationship. You're in an euphoria stage. Then you become numb to it, then you actually have some level of resistance from it. Then there's a certain level of envy. And this is the thing that's that's the crazy part about life. It's like when you're helping somebody, right, and it's like you got to be careful who you help because it's like when you're helping somebody and they're not

really even worthy of helping them. What happens is that you give them a hundred dollars, give them a hundred dolls, you give one hundred dollar. They say thank you, that's my maink and they you for life, they champion you.

And then it's like at some point there's a switch that happens and they don't even realize that they shouldn't even be getting one hundred dollars, and they look at it like they should get thousands, they should be getting more, because if you're giving me one hundred, how much money do you have to even give me a hundred? Right, So now it's a certain level of entitlement that comes in when they haven't done a tenth of the work that you've done. They don't even deserve one hundred dollars.

But now they looking at it like damn, that's like yo, bro, you can't give me a thousand, Like why not just give it to me? You got it? Why not? And then at some point don't work for it. But at some point there's some level of envy. And then at some point that envy just costs to spill over and you're like, bro, like I don't got it. I don't got no money for you. Now that's me all three?

Speaker 3

How many cut you off? If you actually, if anything, I ain't got it? You robbing from Xander. I won't let you ride him. I'm sorry, go ahead.

Speaker 4

Well it's a dangerous cycle because now at that point, now they could potentially try to harm you. And now it's a three to sixty moment where the person that you actually help went from gratitud to envy. Now is a certain level of danger. This happens all the time.

Speaker 5

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An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from Al Salvador accused of murdering a Texas. Man of Venezuelan charged with filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christy Noman, the United States

Secretary of Homeland Security. Under President Trump, attempted illegal border crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded, and over one hundred thousand illegal aliens have been arrested. If you are here illegally, your next you will be fined nearly one thousand dollars a day, imprisoned, and deported. You will never return. But if you register using our CBP home app and leave now, you could be allowed to return legally.

Do what's right. Leave now. Under President true America's laws, border and families will.

Speaker 2

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Speaker 4

Flee in on that type of level, this happens on social media now. People want to Now, they want to slander you. Now, they want to say that you don't know what you're talking about.

Speaker 3

Now.

Speaker 4

The information that they give is not really that, it's not really that beneficial. It's basic information, and it's like, well what you have before.

Speaker 3

This big facts I want to see. I mean because even even when I was talking to somebody yesterday, I'm like, I never agree with having a handler to handle the business. They're like, no, you should, it works. You just picked the wrong person. I'm like, if I made myself financially free and they're not as a place where I am networthwise, why I need somebody to handle my business when I made myself broke then made myself rich seems like common sense. No,

you need to give more, create your own opportunity. Be grateful twenty twenty three. Even boundaries, Hey, even the red Panda. I'm gonna give you all the prices, y'all take them, and red Panda, you don't get a chance to like message me because you want to date me and all that you are two at thirty and participity No baby, no, no, even though you gotta be a certain caliber too. No no,

say no more twenty twenty three. To keep the and and I tell my friends this all the time and family, I see why celebrities move the way that they do and then restrict access because you can give so much that you can make everyone end up hating you because they feel like once again you're old more And if you go broke, they're gonna say I never asked you to give me that.

Speaker 2

That's a fact.

Speaker 5

Really, man, your gratitude determines your letter.

Speaker 4

Like I always say that the part when you out, the last thing I said about this, this is this is just gym for life. When you up, they're gonna always say, like, Yo, can you help me? Can you do something for me? You didn't do enough for me when you down your luck. When you down your luck, the only thing they gonna say is that's crazy, that's crazy. Are you gonna tell me story? You're gonna tell you my whole story about how your car got repossessed and

your kid is hungry. They're gonna listen to it. They're gonna listen to the whole entire story. They gonna look you in your eyes. It's one or two things they're gonna say. They're either gonna say that's crazy, or you're gonna keep you in prayer and won't pray for you, won't even pray for you, not gonappen. They'll say that that's how, that's how crazy. Like these people will say that. They will say, I'm a pray for you, and they

won't even pray for you. They just say like they won't even they won't even like your picture, let alone trying to help you, Like they won't like they won't even say a prayer for you, bro, Like they'll say I'm gonna pray for you and won't even pray for you. These are the type of This is the type of generation that were a.

Speaker 3

Whole even man, Yo, bro, I need five thousand dollars because I said, you don't even know my mama name. Like, what you mean you want to repost the market Monday's flyer?

Speaker 5

You don't give you five grand yo?

Speaker 2

Bro? That that literally.

Speaker 5

I had a gentleman called me the other day. You want to start a business, and you figured, like, Yo, you're from where I'm from. This makes perfect. And so I'm like, I don't like the idea. I think it's bad. How much is it going to cost to get this business off the ground? Ten million dollars? I said, you haven't made one hundred thousand in a year, how are you gonna get ten million? But that's where you come in. Now, that's not where I come in, Bro, That's actually not

why I come in. This is a person who's never ever not liked the picture, not reposted a story, nothing, Just like yo, I know you.

Speaker 3

No one wants to hear about you, guys, drum pains. Remember how wild when you were up and come in and I remember when you had two thousand followers, I was financially free. The into might clip that up oppose from twenty sixteen.

Speaker 5

Radue goes the long way. And even at the level that we're at, man, we still are very gracious with anybody's time. It doesn't matter who it is, right, So if somebody invites us to do something, we're on time, we're punctual, and we're gracious for the opportunity. Man, it goes a long way. You never know the person you meet, you know, could change your life. And that we still live by that, so like gratitude is vitally important. Man, y'all got to really understand that.

Speaker 4

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Speaker 1

An illegal alien from Guatemala charged with raping a child in Massachusetts. An MS thirteen gang member from Al Salvador accused of murdering a Texas man of Venezuelan charged with filming and selling child pornography in Michigan. These are just some of the heinous migrant criminals caught because of President Donald J. Trump's leadership. I'm Christy Noman the United States

Secretary of Homeland Security. Under President Trump, attempted illegal border crossings are at the lowest levels ever recorded, and over one hundred thousand illegal aliens have been arrested. If you are here illegally, your next you will be fine nearly one third thousand dollars a day, imprisoned, and deported. You will never return. But if you register using our CBP home app and leave now, you could be allowed to

return legally. Do what's right, leave now. Under President Trump, America's laws, border and families will be protected.

Speaker 2

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