Some spanking implements are rigid. Some spanking implements are flexible. By the same token, some guys have rigid spanking fantasies where the scene plays out in very particular pre-determined ways. Some others have more flexible fantasies that revolve a bit more about evolving or improvisational play based on reactions during the scene. Both approaches (and both types of implements) are perfectly valid in the spanking scene. But it’s important to know the ins and outs of not just the tools but...
Jun 30, 2022•1 hr 7 min
Our second Hot Seat Retreat has come and gone, and Scott is joined by attendees Randy (a.k.a. RedBearSpanker) and Tony (a.k.a. BearSpanks) to discuss all the fun of the event. Lots of swats were dished out, Scott got bullied and wedgied quite a bit, a pool party led to some wet bottoms getting paddled, and a good time was (mostly) had by all. In other news, Dudes Spankin’ Dudes now has a Discord server. If you want to join, message Scott on the Twitter feed (https://twitter.com/DudesSpankDudes) ...
Apr 06, 2022•56 min
It’s Hot Seat Retreat time! But for those of you unable to join us out in Palm Springs, Scott managed to squeeze in a fun episode about some important spanking history connected to Man’s Hand Films, which has just recently shut down as a company. Scott is joined by Mike (a.k.a. StricTop) and Phil (a.k.a. SFspank), who have launched a brand new m/m spanking art archive. The initial focus is on the artwork and contents of old issues of the now-defunct “Red Tails” magazine that Man’s Hand Films pro...
Mar 12, 2022•52 min
Hey out there to any dudes attending Hot Seat Retreat. If you’re looking to get your hands on Scott’s ass while he’s involved in his hosting duties, please listen to these guidelines. Yes, Scott wants to be bullied and spanked all weekend long while he's serving as host and he'll be attending as a bottom. He takes a few minutes here to outline his consent and what he’s giving all of you permission to do to him. His poor butt is already quivering in anticipation for what’s to come. Please visit o...
Feb 06, 2022•9 min
It’s our very first female guest ever, as author and spanking kinkster Jillian Keenan joins Scott to discuss what it is about guys spanking each other that appeals to some women. In the Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes segment, we discuss a complex issue that Jillian has strong feelings about: Are kinks and fetishes a type of sexual orientation that we should treat differently from being gay or straight (or other)? Scott talks about some of the feedback he has gotten since coming out in episode 41...
Jan 29, 2022•1 hr 12 min
Jaden of Whappz is back with Scott on the podcast for a review of CLAW in Los Angeles on Thanksgiving weekend. Scott did the work to put together some panels on spanking and a big spanking party. Jaden was there as well, and the two discuss what they’ve learned (and how awesome it was to have major spanking presence at a big leather festival). In the second half of the podcast, Scott “comes out” as asexual, something he had been on the edge of and thinking about for quite some time. But after sp...
Dec 23, 2021•56 min
Come out to CLAW on Nov. 24-28 at the Westin Bonaventure Hotel in downtown Los Angeles. and have a great spanking time. Scott goes over all the important details of the Bad Boys Spanking Party and other fun activities. If you book a hotel room now, you will receive one free five-day event ticket for CLAW - just use CODE: C21-HOTELPACKAGE at www.clawinfo.org. There will also be day, night and vendor mart passes available for purchase soon. Vaccination is required to attend!
Nov 12, 2021•5 min
Scott is back from Bad Ass Weekend and is joined by Aaryn to discuss the amazing time they had at the first major U.S. spanking weekend to take place since the COVID lockdown. Pledges were hazed, naughty sons were disciplined by upset dads, and wrestlers grappled for dominance in some super-hot spanking activities. Also, Scott provides some more details about the upcoming Bad Boys Spanking Party and other spanktastic activities at CLAW in Los Angeles on Thanskgiving weekend. Spanking booth, anyb...
Nov 07, 2021•51 min
This episode Scott is joined by Bob Miller, one of the of the founders and the executive director of Cleveland Leather Annual Weekend (a.k.a. CLAW). Due to COVID wrecking schedules and planning, CLAW’s annual convention is happening this year in Los Angeles on Thanksgiving week. Better yet, it marks the kick-off of what they’re planning to be a new annual leather-kink-bdsm gathering every November here on the West Coast. Scott will be attending, and has taken the initiative of putting together a...
Sep 11, 2021•52 min
Scott is joined by Jaden and Doug to formally announce that Hot Seat Retreat is on track for 2022. The event will take place from March 17-20 at CCBC resort in Palm Springs, California. Registration will formally open on Sept. 18. We go over all the basics to prep y'all on what to expect if you attend next year's hot spanking weekend. We hope to see you there! Visit the website here: https://www.hotseatps.com/ Follow our Twitter feed at: https://twitter.com/HotSeatRetreat
Aug 30, 2021•17 min
Jaden, founder of Whappz and co-founder of Hot Seat Retreat, is back for another episode as we all prepare for Bad Ass Weekend (bawevent.com) in Georgia in October. And Scott announces plans for a spanking party at the Cleveland Leather Awareness Weekend (CLAW) event (clawinfo.org), which will actually be taking place in Los Angeles this November on Thanksgiving weekend. Stay tuned for more details. We’ll also be announcing registration for Hot Seat Retreat 2022 very soon. In “Real Dudes Spankin...
Aug 15, 2021•1 hr 3 min
Greetings dudes! Scott takes a step away from podcast episodes to record a special segment on spanking basics, inspired by seeing a bunch of fresh faces (and butts) coming into the scene post-COVID. This is intended to be a sort of “evergreen” podcast episode that can be searched for and shared with other dudes who are having fantasies about spanking and are wondering what to expect. Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com
Jul 27, 2021•17 min
Just a quick message to let y'all know that the L.A. Moonburn m/m spanking parties are officially back! The next party will be on Saturday, July 3, from noon-5 p.m., at the Threshold club in North Hollywood. (Their site is here: threshold.org) Vaccinations are mandatory to attend. Scott will be celebrating his 50th birthday, so be sure to give him some licks!
Jun 21, 2021•4 min
J.R. (a.k.a. Bossman) returns to the podcast after giving Scott’s ass its first post-pandemic beating. We discuss what that was like and how to ease yourself back into pain play if you’ve taken, like we have, 14 months off from the scene. In the “Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes” segment, we talk about how rebooting your butt and your BDSM interest is an opportunity to perhaps experiment in other types of impact play and expanding your horizons. We discuss the ins and outs of flogging, punching, a...
May 30, 2021•50 min
For episode 36, Dudes Spankin’ Dudes Co-creator Croup/Soup Goblin/Brian returns to chat with Scott about furry culture, what it’s like to be a furry, and about bringing the spanking fetish to the furry community. In addition, Bad Ass Weekend is on schedule for October, and Scott reaches a birthday milestone and offers up his ass for punishment. In Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes, Croup talks about what furry culture is, how he developed an interest in it, his unicorn “fursona” Inarog, and how it ...
Apr 18, 2021•53 min
Finally, the caning episode! With the assistance of British guest Harrison, we talk about the well-known, well-worn British love of caning this episode. The Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes section discusses caning techniques, things to do and not do, and what a caning feels like. The Fantasy Life of Spanking section discusses the British schoolboy fantasy, some of the history of caning in schools, and most importantly, how to bring those fantasies to life. Also, Scott memorializes another promine...
Feb 20, 2021•44 min
This is not a full podcast episode, but sadly, a short message informing everybody that Hot Seat Retreat for March 2021 has been cancelled. We're making initial plans to return to Palm Springs in March 2022 and some sort of virtual event to take its place. Listen for more details.
Nov 25, 2020•9 min
This episode begins with some sad news for our listeners. Frank, a.k.a. “Big Daddy Vegas,” who was the guest for episodes 13, 14, and 16, has passed away from Bulbar ALS, also known as Lou Gehrig’s Disease. Scott opens with some warm thoughts about a close friend. Our guest for this episode is James AZ of Southspanking.com, and that’s what our “Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes” segment is about. SouthSpanking is a great social media platform for dudes into spanking, and if you’re not already on th...
Oct 11, 2020•47 min
Scott is joined this episode by Isaac (izkboy on Whappz and SpankThis Hookups), a trans dude from New York who is new to the spanking scene but managed to get some action in before COVID-19 shut everything down. (FYI, Bad Ass Weekend for October has been cancelled.) In the Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes segment, Isaac talks about the mostly very positive experiences he has had joining the spanking scene as a trans dude and has tips for everybody. In The Fantasy Life of Spanking segment, Isaac ta...
Aug 09, 2020•49 min
Doug (from episode 30 about Hot Seat Retreat) is back to talk some more. He and Scott and Jaden worked on a great video to hopefully keep all you dudes entertained during our shared Coronavirus Lockdown, featuring interviews with guys involved with Sting, SpankThis, Bad Ass Weekend, and others. Check out the video at Hotseatps.com. In the Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes segment, Doug shares what it’s like to be married to another spanking fetishist, how their relationship works, how they negotiat...
May 30, 2020•44 min
Scott is joined this month by buddy Mike, who was his next-door neighbor at March's Hot Seat Retreat. In the Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes segment, Mike is a big fan of self-spanking, and in a time where we shouldn't be out trying to hook up with each other, no matter how badly we need a spanking, Mike has tips on applying heat to your own seat. In the Fantasy Life of Spanking we talk about fantasies about real life "accountability" spankings and punishments. How do you know you really want to ...
Apr 11, 2020•51 min
Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs has come and gone and was a wonderful success (with a few things we'll need to hammer out in future retreats--and there WILL be future retreats). Scott and Jaden are joined by Doug, the guy who actually came up with the idea of putting on a new spanking event in Palm Springs, and we talk about how things went and what we learned. Also, a short discussion about fetish play and the coronavirus. In short, treat social distancing seriously. We have members of the spa...
Mar 16, 2020•1 hr 6 min
It's our last podcast episode before Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs in March. Jaden joins yet again with friend Anthony. In our "Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes" segment, Anthony talks about his first experiences attending fetish events. He went to Bad Ass Weekend for the first time last October and Mid-Atlantic Leather for the first time in February. With Hot Seat Retreat just around the corner, we discuss a number of tips to make your first time at a big fetish event more successful. In our "...
Feb 25, 2020•1 hr 3 min
Jaden is back with another spanking buddy, Kevin, here to talk about their fun time at Mid-Atlantic Leather (M.A.L.) in January. Speaking of which, in the "Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes" segment, M.A.L. got some negative publicity from a young gay conservative at the Washington Examiner who thinks that fetish and leather play makes the LGBT community look bad. Scott, Jaden, and Kevin discuss the problems with his opinion piece, which you can read here: https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/opinion...
Feb 06, 2020•56 min
What better way to celebrate ringing in the new year with a discussion of Adult Baby/Diaper Lovers (Or ABDL) and their connections to the spanking scene? Scott is joined by regular and Whappz co-founder Jaden and his buddy Richard, a member of both the ABDL and the spanking scene. We discuss what the two communities have in common and the opportunities for daddies out there in the spanking scene to find some guys in some firm need for discipline. In other news, Camp Red Tails is back on for July...
Dec 29, 2019•57 min
Jaden is back to join Scott as we announce some big news: The launch of Hot Seat Retreat, a new spanking weekend event planned for March 5-8, 2020 at CCBC resort in Palm Springs, California. Scott and Jaden go over what prompted them to launch this new event and want to encourage all y'all to come on out. Also: Unfortunately, Camp Red Tails this summer is in trouble; RedSpankScott is now also HotBotScott when he's feeling like a bratty bottom, and Jaden and Scott go over their participation at t...
Nov 27, 2019•52 min
For episode 25, Scott is joined by the long-awaited straight dude! Cutter the Sourpatch Kid, who is on the board of the L.A. BDSM society Threshold, joins Scott to talk about why he likes spanking other dudes, the right way to approach heterosexual guys if you’re interested in spanking play with them, a bunch of things you SHOULDN’T do when approaching hetero dudes, and what fantasies straight dudes do and do not have. More about the Threshold Society here: https://threshold.org/
Nov 16, 2019•1 hr
Scott is joined for the latest episode by J.R., whom listeners know better as Bossman. Yes, the guy who beats Scott's butt on the regular stops by for a chat. And maybe a threat or two. In the Real Dudes Spanking Real Dudes section, J.R. talks about his membership in Avatar, an L.A. club that teaches men how to engage in safe BDSM play, including spanking. We discuss how the Internet and the rise of millennials own interpretation of leather and BDSM culture has changed the way we look at the sce...
Aug 14, 2019•53 min
Some good news to start. The Los Angeles Moonburn spanking party is back at it's old location at Threshold at the familiar day and time (the first Saturday of the month from noon-4 p.m.) Scott explains the details. Then, Scott is joined by David and Bruce, two of the organizers of Bad Ass Weekend, the all-male weekend spanking gathering held in Augusta, Georgia. This year marks the 10th anniversary of the even, and David and Bruce explain the amount of work that goes into pulling this all off. T...
Jun 09, 2019•50 min
Jaden is back to let us all know that his spanking app Whappz is now available for Android devices, yay! And Scott updates on what's going on with the L.A. Moonburn parties. In the Real Dudes Spankin' Real Dudes segment, Jaden talks about the work that goes into hosting private spanking parties, and what you'll want to keep in mind if you're thinking of having some of your own. In the Fantasy Life of Spanking segment, we talk about the spanking erotical legacy of Cliff's Spanking Central site, w...
Mar 18, 2019•1 hr 6 min
