Have you ever fantasized about hypnotizing that hot bartender who flirts with you into coming home with you so you can get him across your knee for a good, firm spanking? Well, too bad. That’s not how it works. But that doesn’t mean that hypnosis can’t actually improve your spanking play by helping you find your headspace either as a stern top or a misbehaving bottom. Steve joins HotBotScott to talk about the intersection between hypnosis and kink. Listen on Dudes! Upcoming events! Hot Seat Retr...
Jan 21, 2026•49 min
Hot Seat Vegas is back for 2026 at a new resort downtown. The event will run from July 22-26. Registration will be opening on Jan. 24, and we encourage you to register early if you're planning to attend. For more information and prices (and to register when the time comes) visit us at hotseatvegas.com.
Jan 18, 2026•2 min
What does 15 years of growth and change in the male spanking community look like? Scott has recorded this episode live at Bad Ass Weekend in Augusta, Georgia, to chat with the organizers about what they’ve seen and learned hosting an event for 15 years. What started as a small gathering of guys on a campground has become the biggest, most-attended male spanking event in North America. Probably the world! Listen on, dudes, for some fun reminiscing and thoughts about how big our community has gott...
Nov 02, 2025•55 min
Did you know there’s other things you can do with a butt besides spanking it? It’s wild to think about! Scott is joined this episode by Ryan, who enjoys incorporating insertion play into the spankings he dishes out, bringing in butt plugs, thermometers, and even figging. It’s a way to bring in some different sensations to your boy’s butt when he’s being punished and can add new levels of humiliation into a spanking scene. Listen on, dudes, if you’re looking to add some variety to your sessions. ...
Oct 05, 2025•50 min
Do you wanna cry, boy? Being spanked to tears is probably one of the biggest fantasies in spanking. It is also one of the hardest fantasies to achieve. Scott visited London and reconnected with his original Bully, who got him back into bottoming (and who first appeared all the way back in Episode 3). There he was spanked to tears for the first time in an extremely long time. So how did it happen? Scott is joined by Steven to talk about how and why crying happens in a spanking scene and how to se...
Jul 06, 2025•50 min
Another Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs has come and gone, and HotBotScott is joined this episode by SleepyBap to chat about the spanktastic times they had this March. Spoilers: The weather was perfect this year, especially compared to last year’s wind and rain, and there were many, many, many spankings. Naughty misbehaving boys were disciplined by their dads, wayward students and jocks were paddled by principals and coaches, and bullies roved the grounds, handing out wedgies and tormenting the...
May 03, 2025•56 min
You’ve found the perfect disciplinarian who knows exactly what to say to you to get you into that headspace where you can just want to say to him, “Yes, sir, I deserve a spanking,” and mean it. He knows what you need, how much you need it, and the right way to give it to you. The problem? You live in Yonkers and he lives in Albuquerque. So how do you make it work if you can’t see each other face-to-face? Long-distance, directed discipline scenes have been a part of the spanking community for a l...
Mar 15, 2025•54 min
Would you believe Dudes Spankin’ Dudes has been around for more than five years and nearly 60 episodes and we’ve never actually done an episode about hand spankings? That’s a terrible oversight over which Scott should be spanked. And he will be! Scott is joined again by Sean to talk about what they both love about hand spankings and give some tips on both giving and receiving. Then they delve a little bit into spanking roleplay and how to establish realistic expectations when you’re new. Listen ...
Feb 17, 2025•1 hr 7 min
We are pleased to announce that Hot Seat Vegas has found a new home and will return in 2025 from Wednesday, July 30th through Sunday, August 3rd. Registration for Vegas will open on Saturday, February 1, at 10 a.m. Pacific time (7 a.m. East Coast time). Visit hotseatvegas.com for more details and prices.
Jan 18, 2025•2 min
Hot on the heels of hurricane Helene, Bad Ass Weekend returned to Augusta, Georgia, in October. There were upturned trees, but more importantly, upturned bottoms, particularly Scott’s. Scott is joined this episode by Sean, who attended Bad Ass Weekend for the first time this year. We have stories to share about hot spankings out by the pool, backtalking authorities and paying the price for it, and wonderful experiences with new friends. All that and Scott’s new nickname (HotBotScott), as well as...
Nov 03, 2024•1 hr 14 min
Hey dudes, Bad Ass Weekend is just around the corner. and Scott is joined by Bruce, one of the event organizers known for his love of providing aftercare to any spanked bottoms who need it. Aftercare following a spanking can help provide a chance not just to help a butt physically recover from a spanking, but also for both the top and bottom to continue to reinforce their roles with each other. It can even, of course, lead to cuddling, comforting, and sex. But not every bottom wants that kind of...
Sep 29, 2024•58 min
Hey all! Time to mark your calendars. Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs will be returning in 2025 on March 19-23. If you want to enter the lottery for one of the rooms at host resort CCBC, you'll want to register once it opens on Saturday Sept. 14. You'll have until 11:59 p.m. Pacific Time on Sept. 14 to enter the lottery. Listen for more details. And information about registration and room rates can be found on our site: https://www.hotseatps.com/home
Aug 25, 2024•2 min
Scott is back home after hosting the first Hot Seat Vegas and returns with a new outlook on his spanking life. And that new outlook is one where he is ass up over a man’s knee, getting spanked as much and as frequently as possible. Scott is re-embracing and reclaiming his bottomhood. He’s joined this episode by returning guest Steve, who gave Scott four of the 36 separate spankings he got his birthday weekend. Listen on, Dudes, to hear hot stories about hot spankings in one of the hottest cities...
Aug 17, 2024•1 hr 19 min
July is one of the hottest months of the year, and thanks to a couple of spanking events that month, we’re going to make it even hotter. Insert as many “global warming” puns and jokes as you see fit as you rub your sore bottom—or somebody else’s! Scott is joined by Tony, a.k.a. Bearspanks, to help newbies know what to expect at their first spanking event and also to provide some tips for anybody who is thinking about getting or giving a spanking involving somebody they’ve just met. Pack your bag...
Jun 24, 2024•55 min
TL;DR version: Register for Hot Seat Vegas by Sunday, June 9 to make sure that you'll get a room placement in the same buildings as the other attendees. Also, we're looking for attendees who want to put on activities or meetings that help people connect in the conference rooms we've got for our event. Message RedSpankScott on Whappz if you'd like to host an event or activity, or if you're interested in helping run games for our planned Friday game night! More details about Hot Seat Vegas here: H...
May 25, 2024•5 min
Another Hot Seat Retreat has come and gone, and Scott is joined by Dean, who attended Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs for the first time in March and got spanked a whole lot. He tells us all about it. Mother Nature decided to make her presence known this year in some unpleasant ways, but we powered through, warming ourselves up nicely with the heat of some very, very sore bottoms. Listen on, dudes, if you want to hear how Hot Seat Retreat’s roleplay interest tracks brought some new opportunitie...
Apr 20, 2024•53 min
Scott is joined by Hot Seat Retreat co-organizers Jaden and Doug to announce a new spanking weekend venture. We're going to Vegas, guys! Hot Seat Vegas will be launching July 10-14, 2024, at the Tuscany Suites and Casino. Registration opens on January 20, 2024. Listen on for more details. Visit our site here and sign up for our newsletters to keep track of the latest info: https://www.hotseatvegas.com/home
Dec 21, 2023•11 min
It’s a very common fantasy for dudes into spanking: You get pulled over for speeding or tailgating or some other moving violation by a gruff, authoritative police officer. Is there anything you can do to get out of a ticket? Maybe pay some other penalty right then and there? Perhaps bent over the hood of the police car? Perhaps with the police officer’s belt, or maybe some paddle he happens to be carrying around with him? You can live out that fantasy, either as the wayward driver or the cop. We...
Dec 17, 2023•42 min
Bad Ass Weekend 2023 in Georgia has come and gone, and Scott is joined by Justin and Trevor to talk about our seminars and some very hot spanking action. Scott talked about how to properly bully deserving bottom boys and ended up on both the giving and receiving end of some very hot bully play. Justin and Trevor made an example of themselves in an excellent public lesson about putting together genuine roleplay scenes in your spanking play. Justin and Trevor also have plenty to say about their am...
Nov 06, 2023•1 hr 7 min
Good news! Moonburn m/m spanking parties will be returning in January 2024 at Sanctuary Studios in South Los Angeles. Listen for some quick details. Sanctuary Studios is at 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles, CA 90061. Their website is here: https://www.sanctuarylax.com/. There will be more news to come in December. Looking forward to seeing you all back.
Nov 02, 2023•2 min
The Bad Boys Spanking Party will be returning to L.A. Leather Getaway on Thanksgiving weekend. It will take place from 4-7 p.m. on Saturday, Nov. 25 and is free to anybody registered to attend the weekend. For more information about attending L.A. Leather Getaway, visit clawinfo.org.
Oct 18, 2023•4 min
Episode 50 was supposed to be a celebration! Instead, Scott, joined by Paul, a.k.a. Copper, has to discuss the state of L.A.’s Moonburn parties. The upcoming October Moonburn party is the last we have scheduled for the foreseeable future. We talk about what has happened and why, and what the future holds. We are working on keeping Moonburn going, but it’s gonna take a little work. We also share fond memories of Moonburn and our friend Vern, who was a pivotal part of Man’s Hand Films, Camp Red Ta...
Sep 23, 2023•50 min
Scott and Jaden are happy to announce that registration for 2024's Hot Seat Retreat will open on Saturday, Sept. 16, starting at 10 a.m. Pacific (1 p.m. Eastern). There are major changes coming to the room assignment process as we shift to a lottery system, which Jaden explains. And Scott announces an addition of "interest tracks" for attendees who want to focus on activities involving certain types of roleplay. There is more info to come! Visit Hot Seat Retreat's website for more info: HotSeatP...
Sep 10, 2023•22 min
Ow Canada! Ryan joins Scott this episode to discuss CanSpanks, a spanking event at Fox Haven, a big, isolated campground in Lavigne, Ontario. Their next gathering is coming in September, and Ryan’s got some hot stories about what happens up there. And in the fantasy life of spanking, Ryan, an unrepentant brat, talks about how he best uses his bratty behavior to get what he deserves, how to recognize when tops are reacting well to your bratty behavior and when to turn the brat on and off. All thi...
Jul 30, 2023•51 min
For Episode 48, Steve from Episode 46 is back to join Scott to talk about switches. Not the implement—though we should probably talk about that, too, in a future episode. Rather, we discuss what it’s like to be somebody who craves both giving and receiving spankings as opposed to just taking on one role. Many, many men in the spanking community identify as a switch, but we haven’t yet had an episode focusing specifically on what it’s like. We discuss both our real-life experiences trying to navi...
Apr 14, 2023•55 min
It's time to get ready to register for Hot Seat Retreat 2023, from March 16-19 at CCBC resort in Palm Springs. Registration will open at 10 a.m. Pacific Time (1 p.m. Eastern) on Nov. 19th. Rooms will be reserved on a first-come first served basis, so be ready when registration opens if you want a chance to stay at the resort. We also have rate agreements with two overflow motels. And we're making everything a little bit easier by allowing you to pre-pay registration. Scott is joined by Jaden and...
Nov 13, 2022•12 min
Scott is joined by The Sweet (and briefly by an awkwardly meowing cat) to discuss the fun of Bad Ass Weekend 2022. And there was a lot of fun to be had. Scott got to be a bully and get punished for it. The Sweet got spanked for some real life bad manners. More spankings were dished out at Uno games and wrestling matches. An amazing time was had by all. The Sweet can be followed on Twitter @sweet_as_aheart: https://twitter.com/sweet_as_aheart There’s still time to register for the L.A. Leather Ge...
Nov 10, 2022•1 hr 11 min
The Bad Boys Spanking Party is back for 2022 on Thanksgiving weekend, as is CLAW, now rechristened in its L.A. home as the L.A. Leather Getaway. The Spanking Party will be held in the Pasadena Room of the Westin Bonaventure on Saturday, Nov. 26, from 4-7 p.m. The party is free to those registered for the L.A. Leather Getaway. It's $20 for those who just want to come to the party. Scott provides all the details. For information about the L.A. Leather Getaway and for registration and room rates, v...
Nov 01, 2022•2 min
For Episode 46, Scott is joined by Stephen and Mike, two members of our spanking community who are working on a special project: a book about our scene and its members. They chat about their plan, what they’re looking for, what they are hoping to produce, and how you can participate. If you want to participate in their survey, visit: https://forms.gle/3hnCcTTPgg4qa1DQ6 Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com
Sep 24, 2022•36 min
As Monkeypox spreads within the male community this summer, Scott felt it necessary to record a special piece with warnings and tips. Just because you're not engaging in sex, that doesn't mean you're not at risk of either getting or spreading Monkeypox. Some information from the CDC on social gatherings, safe sex, and Monkeypox here: https://www.cdc.gov/poxvirus/monkeypox/pdf/MPX_Social_Gatherings_Safer_Sex-508.pdf
Jul 18, 2022•6 min
